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Diane O'Connor Obituary

O'Connor, Diane Elizabeth (Owens)
72, of Prescott Valley, AZ, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by her loved ones. She had bravely battled lymphoma but finally succumbed on March 8, 2013, two days short of her 73rd birthday. She was born March 10, 1940 in Carbondale, PA to Roland and Gwendolyn Owens and grew up in Carbondale, the family then moving to Rochester, NY. It was there she met and married Ralph Ruoff and they had three children: Chris, Cindy, and Tim. In 1983 she moved to Phoenix, AZ, where she would meet the love of her life, Jerry O'Connor. They were married in 1986 and recently celebrated their 26th wedding anniversary together. Diane was preceded in death by her brother, Jeffrey Owens, father Roland Owens, sister Nancy Fischer, and her mother Gwendolyn Owens. In addition to her husband, Jerry, she is survived by her sister Jane (Paul) Slick of Emmaus, PA, sister Susan (Vern) Loveless of Rochester, NY, and her brother-in-law Karl Fischer, of Chatham, MA. She is also survived by her son Chris (Kathy) Ruoff of Irvine, CA, daughter Cindy Ruoff of Prescott Valley, AZ, son Tim (Betsy) Ruoff of Glendale, AZ, step-son Jim (Sandy) O'Connor of Gilbert AZ, step-son Michael (Lily) O'Connor of Chandler, AZ, and step-daughter Christine Merrill of Phoenix, AZ. She leaves four grandchildren: Danielle Lane, Elizabeth Rudick, Nicholas and Travis Ruoff, as well as three great-grandchildren: Kamryn Blakeslee, Scarlett Lane, and Atticus Rudick. She also leaves eight step-grandchildren: Julie and Kyle Leroue, Orren Singh, Lauren Longacre, Sevrin, Jimmy, Elizabeth, and Reagan O'Connor. Diane was a loving wife, sister, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, aunt, and friend. She was passionate about her gardening and cooking, and in earlier years, sailing on her boat "Dama", where Diane and Jerry were members of the Arizona Yacht Club. Above all, she loved being with all of her family and spending time playing with her "grands" and "great-grands". She will be missed terribly, but her spirit lives on with each and every family member, and other lives she touched, every single day. The family will be holding a private memorial service at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Diane's name to the Good Samaritan Marley House in Prescott, AZ, who provided her with loving hospice care over the last two months of her life. Donations can be made online: http://www.good-sam.com/index.php/about_us/donate/?locId=3012.

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Published by The Arizona Republic on Mar. 17, 2013.

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Danielle Lane

March 1, 2021

Hi Grandma. Been thinking of you a lot lately and miss you incredibly. Your Poopie Doo is giving us all a run for our money and I wish you could've met Vivy Girl and the Ning Ning. Love you.

Carol & Ralph Ruoff

March 11, 2014

everyone you ever touched is still mourning for you. rest in peace.

Brunch at the Hassayampa Hotel, Prescott. Sunday March, 9. Mom's favorite breakfast spot!

March 10, 2014

Family dinner at Jerry's, March 8, 2014

March 10, 2014

Happy 74th Birthday Mom! We were all together with Jerry this weekend, as you would have liked us to be. We had a wonderful meal in your honor and Biz and Danielle made your famous salad. While you were not physically there, your spirit was with all of us. We miss you incredibly. Love, Chris

Mom and I at the farmhouse - 1965

Christian John Ruoff

May 13, 2013

Happy Mother's Day - to the most incredible, loving Mom anyone could ever wish for. This is our first Mother's Day apart in a long time and I miss you dearly Mom. But our love is eternal, and there is great comfort in knowing that.

Mike and Mary Pollock

April 30, 2013

To our wonderful friend and neighbor up the street. Diane, your caring and sweet spirit will be with us always, Love you and Miss you.

Mike OConnor

April 27, 2013

We all miss you so much Diane. You brought so much joy and laughter into our lives.

Timothy Ruoff

March 20, 2013

I love you Mother. You were always there for me and the girls. We all miss you so much. Timothy

Jerry O'Connor

March 20, 2013

Darling you are the love of my life and I miss you so.

CCI Picnic at Diane's, Rochester NY 1982

Shmuel Shottan

March 18, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with Diane's family.

Upon arrival in Rochester, NY on October 1981 Diane has become our host, guide and friend. Diane took care of all our needs and made the transition painless.

Her passing will not only leave a void in our lives, but in the hearts of everyone who knew her.

May the comfort of God help you during this difficult time.

Cecilia & John Ayers

March 17, 2013

Our deepest condolences to Diane's family, Jerry and children for the loss of your loved one. May the good Lord give you strength through this difficult time and comfort you with the many loving memories she left with you. You will be missed my friend.

Julie Jakubowski

March 17, 2013

I love you, Aunt Diane...you will ALWAYS be in my heart. Goodnight sweetheart, well it's time to go. Until we meet again in heaven. XO Julie Diane

Helen and Bill Ruoff

March 17, 2013

There's another angel in heaven. We loved you Diane. Love to Jerry and all your family.

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