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Ophelia
February 17, 2008
Jason, my boys still miss you a lot everytime I see them and we visit they talk about how they had a dream about you or they remember a funny story about you. You made them laugh and they learned from you. Where has the time gone, does not matter, people who knew you are still missing you and ache at your absence. I have read all the entries and it is so clear that the world needs more people like you. Since my father's passing I can now understand the grief and sadness of losing someone that is so loved by many. Peace and love to you, your family and friends.
Dede Vaughn
November 3, 2006
To Jason:
I can't call you on your birthday and wish you 'Happy Birthday J'!
I can't buy you a gift.
I can't give you a birthday hug and kiss.
I can't buy you your birthday dinner and have you argue with me and try to give me money to help pay for it.
I can't celebrate with you.
I can't hear your voice or your laughter.
I can visit you at the cemetery, but it is too hard still to think of you there.
I can hurt and long that you were still with us.
I can and do think about you everyday.
I can share my sadness and my grief with anyone who will listen.
I can miss you more and more each passing day.
I just wish I could do all the things that I can't and none of those that I can.
I miss you Jason. You are always in my thoughts and in my heart.
Love
Aunt Deeds
Kyra
June 18, 2006
To my daddy:
A little girl needs Daddy
For many, many things:
Like holding her high off the ground
Where the sunlight sings!
Like being the deep music
That tells her all is right
When she awakens frantic with
The terrors of the night.
Like being the great mountain
That rises in her heart
And shows her how she might get home
When all else falls apart.
Like giving her the love
That is her sea and air,
So diving deep or soaring high
She'll always find him there.
I love you and miss you!!
Hugs & Kisses, Ky Bug =)
Gena Runnels (Green)
February 16, 2006
Kristol, I just heard about what happened. I wanted you to know I'm praying for you and Kyra. This has to be the most painful thing ever. I know I haven't seen you or Jason since high school but I'll never forget the memories. He was such a wonderful person, you are truly lucky to have him in your life and your heart. My heart breaks when I think about this. If you need someone to talk to, I would love to talk.
Raul Robles
February 15, 2006
HI J
I MISS YOU BRO I LOVE YOU, I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY. THIS HURTS SO BAD. IT DOESNT SEEM FAIR AT ALL. BUT IM SOOOO HAPPY THAT GOD BROUGHT YOU INTO MY LIFE. I CANT WAIT FOR ALL OF US TO BE TOGETHER AGAIN. IN THE MEAN TIME I PROMISE I WILL DO MY BEST TOO LIVE A GOOD HAPPY LIFE. I KNOW THATS IMPORTANT TOO YOU. GOD WILLING LUPI AND I WILL BE ABLE TOO TAKE KRYA AND KRISTOL TOO DISNEYLAND AND OTHER STUFF. DEPENDING ON KRYAS AGE N STUFF,IM SURE THE BROTHERS WILL BE THEIR TOO I SWEAR TOO YOU I WILL ALLWAYS KEEP IN TOUCH AND BE PART OF OUR FAMILLY'S LIVES. ESPECIALLY KRYA AND KRISTOL. IM GOING TOO SCHOOL BRO SO HOPEFULLY IN 2 TO 3 YEARS. I WILL HAVE MY BALLERS DEGREE. WHEN EVER IM TESTING OR TIRED OR TIRED OF STUDYING, NERVOUS, OR SCARED ABOUT ANY THING I THINK OF YOU AND I PUSH MYSELF. AND I FEEL YOU AND THE LORD WATCHING ME.
I HAVE SOOO MUCH TO SAY I DONT KNOW WHAT TOO AND WHAT NOT TO WRITE.
AUNT DEDE THANK YOU FOR THIS WEB SITE YOU PUT TOGETHER IT IS REALLY NICE TO READ. IT HELPS ME. THANKYOU.AND GOD BLESS YOU.
KRISTOL AND KYRA I GOT YOUR BACK FOR LIFE ALLWAYS DID, BUT NOW MORE THAN EVER. ILL BE KEEPING IN TOUCH. GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS YOU GUYS. YOUR ALWAYS IN LUPI'S AND I PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS. WE STILL HAVE ALOT TOO LOOK FORWARD TO, SEE YOU THEN. AND TALK TO YOU LATER,
LOVE RAUL
DEUCE FOR LIFE I LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!!
KRISTOL DELEON
February 14, 2006
WELL THIS HAS BEEN THE FIRST VALENTINES DAY THAT WE HAVE SPENT WITH OUT YOU IN A LONG TIME. EVEN THOUGH YOU ARE GONE YOU WILL ALWAYS BE OUR #1 VALENTINE.
WE MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU!
XOXOXO
LOVE YOU, KRISTOL AND KY BUG
Big Bob Robles
February 4, 2006
On Jan.18th I woke up in tears. on this my birhtday I knew I wouldnt be recieving the one phone call I'd become accustomed to getting, the one from my dog J.I always knew that shortly after he called, Bobby and Raul would follow. I am convinced that J would have to remind them because this year it took a week to hear from Raul. I love J as one of my own, his compassion, honesty, wisdom and love for his girls always left Irene and me in awe.
It is said that a person dies three deaths...The first is the physical death...The second is the burial....and the third is when we lose the memory of our loved one....I know without a doubt, I will be together on the other side with my boy before this happens.
I love you Kristol, and I pray Irene and can remain a part of yours and kyras life forever.
One more thing, this Super Sunday wont be so Super without you bubba.
Bobby Robles
February 4, 2006
Well it has been one month since I got the worst news in my life.I have been thinking about you every day since then. Having someone like you in my life for all those years has truly been a blessing, but something I took for granted and I am sorry for that.I miss you so much bro.I love you and I will see you again.
Kristol DeLeon
February 3, 2006
Dear Jason,
Hello my love. Well I don't know how me and Ky have made it a whole month. When I get so dark and down something inside of me makes me push through that. I know that it's you looking down on your girls. Just wanted to let you know that not a minute goes by when I don't think about you.
Today we brought you flowers and a little puppy. I know they are so trivial because you are in a better place. Kyra also let go of a red heart balloon. She watched for awhile until she couldn't see the balloon anymore. Then she told me my daddy caught that balloon so fast. When we left she said two things in the car: I miss you, and I love you daddy. Breaks my heart because I realized again that our hearts will never mend. We will probably get used to the pain but it will NEVER end.
We will meet again my J. Until then me and Kyra will hold you in our hearts.
XOXOXO
We love you with all of our hearts and mooooooorrrrrreeeee!!!!!!!!!
Your family---- Kristol and Ky bug
Dede Vaughn
February 3, 2006
Jason,
It has already been one month since you were taken from us. There isn't a minute, hour or day that goes by that I don't think of you. I feeled so blessed to have had you in my life for 27 years, it just wasn't long enough. I always thought you would be there forever and help take care me of when I got old and gray. I look at pictures of your beautiful smiling face and my heart breaks knowing that now I will only see pictures of you or see you in my mind or dreams. When I think of Kyra having to grow up without you physically around, my heart breaks for her and for Kristol. I am still having such a hard time accepting what has happened. I know you are in heaven looking down on all of us and will watch over us. I guess I am just selfish wishing you were still here.
I love you so much. Just wish I could have just one more hug and sloppy kiss, since you knew better than to bite me!
Love,
Aunt Dede (Deeds)
Christina Hale
January 31, 2006
Jason
Where do I start? Well we all envied Kristol because she got the best man out there! You were the best friend, father, and husband anyone could ever ask for. The last image I have of you is standing behind that awesome bar you and Colby made for your beautiful wife for her graduation! Your smile your love bites and your bear hugs will always be in my mind. I don’t understand why God would take someone like you at such a young age. One day you can tell me why. One thing I do know is that you’re an angel because God would not have it any other way! You will never be forgotten!
I love you
Christina
Aaron Buruato
January 31, 2006
Hey J Dogg,
Its Hard Bro I know you are gone and Kristol's graduation was my last goodbye. I wish you could come down and let your boy know why. J everyone showed up and we all got down for you, we all came together to give our brother his due. You and yours are always in my mind and remember, "whenever or where ever dead or alive real partners come together."
I Love You
Aaron B
Tamar Espericueta
January 23, 2006
I knew Jason for many years through my cousin Aaron and I can truly say he was one of the most genuine and all around nicest person that you could know. I'm grateful to have known him and will miss him. Thank you Jason for being such a good friend to Aaron I know how much you meant to him. To Kristol and Kyra take care always.
Kristol DeLeon
January 17, 2006
To my wonderful husband:
"Jay, Jase"
Well I have thought a lot about our time together. We have been through so much together. Times were hard sometimes...I don't know how we always paid the rent but somehow you always did. You always managed to get us everything that we needed and wanted. I promise to take care of our bug just like you did. She knows how much you loved her and when the wind blows she smiles that beautiful smile and says that her daddy is tickling her back.
You have taught me soooo much. More then you will ever know. You were the best person that I have ever known. Baby, I know that we had so many more dreams....... but so many are also already fulfilled.
I cherish every memory, every one even all the dirty dishes you left on your side of the bed and how you used to slide down the banister! All of my pet peeves, I love about you now.
See you in Heaven, MY Love!
I love you J! (you always wanted me to write just a J instead of "Jay".)
Forever and always your wife,
Kristol Pistol
Kelly Patterson
January 16, 2006
Kristol:
There is nothing that I can say that will make this any easier for you, but please know that I am here if there is ever anything that I could do to help.Even though it doesn't make it hurt any less, take comfort in knowing that he is with The Lord now, and he watches over you guys everyday. You are in my thoughts, my prayers and in my heart. My deepest sympathy. I love you. Kelly
Jennifer (Long) Streeper
January 15, 2006
Jay, i don't even know if i have the words for this but here i go...i loved you with all my heart and always will. this world was a better place having you in it and now your light shines through your wife, daughter,family, and friends who take time to remember you and celebrate your life each and everyday. Losing you was a complete tragedy but the blessings keep rolling in. So many connections and impacts on people's lives have been made through your death. I pray that you rest in peace knowing that even in the afterlife you continue to make your mark and influence how we value our lives. I am comforted knowing that you walk with Jesus now, if there was ever a truly pure heart, you possessed it. I will miss you little brother, I vow to watch over Gramms and Tash the way that you would and did.
Kristol,
I pray for you and that beautiful princess Kyra everyday, I can't imagine the loss you feel and I pray that you will find peace and comfort from day to day. If ever you need anything please don't hesitate to call. This is not an empty invite, your husband is a huge part of who i am today as he, tasha and i spent every day together for many years. Even though I don't know you, I love you because Jason loved you and his heart could do no wrong.
God Bless and keep all those who are hurting over this tragedy.
Rest in peace Jason, your legacy will live on forever!!!!
Kristol DeLeon
January 15, 2006
Well Kyra and I would like to thank everyone for their support and love. This is the hardest thing that we will ever have to go through and we are glad that we have such great family and friends. Jason truly was the best man, husband, father, and friend. He was so kind and caring, there was nothing that he wouldn't do for his family and friends. There is just no words..... our time together was too short. He was always filled with so much life and excitement. And there was never a dull day with him, he always had a new idea or dream to share with me and Kyra. Always together in hearts and spirits.... he is now our guardian angel forever.
We love you more than anything Jay!
xoxoxo.. "Kyra Bug" and "Kristol Pistol"
Jennifer & Eric Doolan
January 12, 2006
We are Jason & Kristol's neighbors. We are so deeply saddened by this loss. We waved hello to Jason almost everyday and have always enjoyed having his family next to us. Jason was always funny and friendly, and we could see how much he genuinely loved and cared for his wife, daughter and all of his family that was regularly around. We will forever remember Kyra learning how to ride a bike and her daddy lovingly helping her to keep steady. He will forever be an angel on her shoulder. Kristol, we are always her for you and your family as friends and neighbors. Our door is aways open. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jennifer Meleshko
January 12, 2006
Kristol, I just want to let you know that my thoughts are with you and your daughter everyday. Just remember to be strong and never forget that you are not alone.
Ophelia McNeill
January 10, 2006
Kristol, I am Bobby and Raul's mom, I was at your wedding last summer and I knew Jason for many years through my sons. Your wedding was the first one I ever felt so emotional the way you and Jason looked at each other as you said your vows, I will never forget it. I feel so sad and sorry for your loss and I pray for you and Kyra. Jason was special to many people, he always called me "miss" and made me smile. Bless you, all his family and friends who are going through this loss. Ophelia
Candace Adams
January 10, 2006
Kristol and Kyra, Please know that you are both in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. I know that Jason is loved and adored by many, and he will be greatly missed. He'll always be with you....remember that.
Carol Dight
January 10, 2006
As a close friend of Dede, Jason's Aunt and mentor, my heart breaks for her and family. There is nothing more unfair in the world than to loose a child. Jason's memory will live on always in Dede's heart and in his baby girl. May God Bless those who are suffering from this loss.
Dede Vaughn
January 10, 2006
I would like to thank everyone for their thoughts and prayers for my nephew, Jason. Kristol and Kyra, I am always here for you just like I was for Jason. Jason, you weren't just my nephew, you were my son in my heart. I will miss you forever. You brought so much joy, love and laughter to my life, I can never express how much I am going to miss you. You live on through Kyra.
I love you.
Aunt Dede (Deeds)
Lantz Schad
January 9, 2006
I had the pleasure of going through an electrical apprenticeship with Jason. He was always a delight to be around and brought a wonderful attitude and sense of humor with him. He was a hard worker and I never heard him complain about anything. Jason, you will always be missed by the people you came in contact with and the lives you touch. May God be with and may God be with you family.
Mike Ott
January 9, 2006
Kristol, no words can express my sympathy for such a great loss. Just remember that he will be forever by your side. Jason touched everyones life he knew in such a positive way. We will all remember his big smile and kindhearted personality. R.I.P. Jason, you will be greatly missed by all of us.
Isabel Garcia
January 9, 2006
Kristol, My family and I are so very sorry for your loss, you and Kyra are in our thoughts and prayers. Believe me Jason will never be forgotten.
May God Bless you.
Isabel and Family
Vickie & Brian Seabury Sr.
January 9, 2006
We are so sorry for your loss, our hearts go out to you and Kara, you are in our thoughts and prayers.
January 9, 2006
Jason, You will be missed greatly by all! I can't get your smile out of my mind, you walked in the room and it brightened my day. I see that same smile in Bug and those same dimples. Miss you!
Tara Baseggio
January 9, 2006
Kristol, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Jason will truely be missed by many. He has touched many hearts and has left footprints among us.
Josh Bingham
January 9, 2006
kristol, we are very sorry for your loss..... we all loved Jason and will miss him very much. Jason is a role model for fathers and husbands. He is a true man and an honest friend.
Love Always, Josh and Family
Delbert Hawk
January 8, 2006
Jason i'll miss your easy going attitute and great personality.You helped me through out the appenticeship.You will be missed.My heart goes out to your wife,daughter and family.May God bless you during these tough times..
Alexis Fantin-Tobias
January 8, 2006
Kristol,
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your daughter.
Tyffany Van Dusen
January 8, 2006
Jason, you are in our hearts and are looking down on us each day. We love you and you will live on in our hearts and in the Heavens above. "Friends are quiet angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly" Love you Lil' Brother
Robin Shearer
January 8, 2006
My son, Brandon Stovall, is an acquaintance of Todd and Kristol, as well as with Kristol's close friend, Dawn. We would like to express our deepest sympathy to Todd's family and friends. From what Brandon has shared with me, Todd was an exemplary father, husband and friend. Shelby (who attends the school where I work) shared some of her fondest memories of her cousin Todd with me last Friday. He has truly left a mark in this world. Please know that there are many people in our community praying for you all.
Aaron Conklin
January 8, 2006
Jason... I will miss you, you were like a brother to me, you picked me up when times were hard and you were always willing to give me a hug right when i needed one you were the reason i strived so hard all through our apprenticeship. thank you for being you, I will never forget you, rest in peace my brother!
Alexis Martinez
January 7, 2006
Jason, you truely will be missed. I will always remember the great friendship you imprinted in my heart.
love always your friend,
Alexis Martinez
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