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Blakey, Robert Jr.
born September 21, 1945 in Albuquerque, NM, passed away February 24th in Prescott, AZ. Bobby B, as he was known to his friends and family, was raised in Phoenix, AZ where his family, including his parents, Robert and Edith and his two brothers Larry and Craig, moved to in 1947. He attended Madison Elementary School #1 and Camelback High School. At Camelback High, Bob was a stellar student and a dominate pitcher on the baseball team. The Arizona Republic referred to him as "Bullet Bob Blakey." After turning down an opportunity to play professional baseball for the Detroit Tigers, Bob attend Amherst College in Amherst, MA. During his time at Amherst, Bob continued to shine as a student, athlete and musician. After a career-ending injury to his pitching arm, he turned to rugby. After four years of playing on the Amherst Rugby Club, Bob brought rugby back to Arizona in 1967. As the father of Arizona rugby, including women's rugby, he started the Arizona Rugby Union and was its first President. Bob began his music career as a drummer at Amherst. His first notable group was named the Flower and Vegetable Show after he saw that name on the marquee of the Boston Women's Club. At Amherst, he was a member of the Alpha Delta Phi fraternity where he made many lifelong friends and enjoyed some of the best times of his life. After graduating from Amherst in 1967, Bob moved back to Arizona and began his first year of law school at ASU. After a year of school, he took time off and moved to Hawaii with his band to follow his musical dreams. He spent a year surfing and playing in some of Hawaii's great nightspots. Later in 1967, Bob's band Motion found success opening for acts such as Buffalo Springfield, The Beach Boys, Gary Puckett and Alice Cooper in various venues around Phoenix. Bob then returned to ASU to complete law school. During this time he met his wife of 37 years, Carol Fuhr. After falling in love and marrying on November 19, 1971, Bob and Carol started their life's adventure that included having two daughters, Rhette and Ashley.. They eventually moved to Prescott, AZ in 1989 where Bob touched the lives of many people, especially young people. He coached school teams in several sports and he was a familiar face at his daughters' many track, cross country and volleyball games. Bob began his own law practice in Prescott where he had a 30 year career, primarily in real estate law. On his 50th birthday, Bob reconnected with his band Lefty. After recording another album together, the band played many gigs in Prescott's Jersey Lilly Saloon and other spots around town. Travel was one of Bob's many passions and the Blakey Family had many world adventures that included trips to Africa, Thailand, Spain, Mexico and many places in between. Out of all of Bob's accomplishments and adventures, his family was always closest and dearest to his heart. In the last year of his life, he was able to walk his eldest daughter down the aisle and was present at the engagement of his younger daughter. With all of Bob's strength and vitality, he was diagnosed with stage four melanoma and lost the battle in 6 short months. His last days were spent surrounded in the warmth and affection of his family. Bob was many things to many people. He was a wonderful father, husband, brother and son. He was an exemplary student, athlete, musician and friend. Bob's life touched so many others and he will be greatly missed by us all. He is survived by his bothers, Larry and Craig Blakey, and his daughters, Rhette Buller and Ashley Blakey. Please log on to www.ruffnerwakelin.com to sign Paul's guestbook and share a memory with the family.

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Published by The Arizona Republic on Mar. 9, 2014.

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John Hanes

March 3, 2022

In the job I work now I have a number of youngsters working with me that range in age from 17 to 21. Quite often during breaks we talk in earnest about anything and everything, and I frequently get asked for advice or my opinion on something. They think my responses are very intelligent and show me to be well informed, a real man of the world.

They have no idea how often the knowledge or wisdom or that 'voice of experience' with which I speak to them is just me repeating something of value I learned from Bob Blakey. Of all the people I have known in my 68 years, without question the one I learned the most from was Bob. For that knowledge shared and wisdom imparted I am eternally grateful, as I am for having known his friendship. Bob was the most 'genuine' person I have ever known and without doubt the wisest.

John Hanes

March 3, 2021

It's hard to wrap one's head around the idea that Bob has been gone 5 years already. It's especially hard when one thinks about him often. One of the things I recall so vividly about Bob is the fact that he seemed eternally young. As I settle deeper and deeper into "old fartdom" myself, it makes me smile to remember how Bob always seemed so young, so willing to try new things, embrace new ideas, learn new technology, enjoy new music, etc. Bob embraced each new day with an attitude that exuded his "What lessons will today bring?" philosophy that always amazed me. Seeing each new day as a "continuing education" in life he never clung tightly to the past as so many of us tend to do. Every new morning was an opportunity and full of potential, to do with as we will, learning as we go. He always knew that with life it's not arriving at the destination that really counts as much as what we learn, experience and do in the course of the journey. He always told me, "Tomorrow is promised to no man, so make all you can of today." Well, I'm trying Bob. I really am, but it would be a lot more fun and a great deal less daunting if you were still here. I miss you bud, I really do.

John Hanes

March 6, 2019

In the lobby of the Prescott Courthouse there are a series of mailboxes where court-generated information is left for attorneys to pick up when in the building. The box marked Robert Blakey Jr is still there, and has been since Bob's "departure from the building". Used to be my job to go fetch whatever was in that box every day. Still finding things in the box on those rare occasions when I walk into the courthouse. There are many pictures of Bob on my computer's screensaver so I am reminded of him many times daily, each photo triggering a different memory every time. There are so many, each one cherished, each one special. Bob was many things to many people, but 'forgettable' was never one of them. I remember Bob Blakey and I smile. It's impossible not to, and for this I am grateful in the extreme. I remember him, I love him, I miss him. I rather suspect I always shall.

March 15, 2014

With surprise and sadness, I read the obituary of Bobby last weekend. Bobby and I were classmates in sixth through eighth grades at Madison #1. I remember him as a freckled face, happy, and usually smiling and very competitive boy. In reflection, Bobby was an all around American boy for the mid-twentieth century with his clean cut appearance and then popular short crew cut blonde hair. He and Carolyn Byer were often the top two spellers when we were competing in spelling bees. As eighth grade classmates in Mr. Johnson's accelerated learners' class, we frequently had black board math races that were boisterous and a fun competitive sport in our classroom. Bobby was usually the student's winner and then we all cheered when he would occasionally get to race Mr. Johnson and Bobby would sometimes be seconds faster than our teacher and then he was truly the classroom winner. He loved winning and was also very competitive in sports in grade school when we would have intramural games with the other Madison district schools. I read with amazement of his continued involvement in baseball, although, it was only his interest and excelling in music that surprised me in reading his obituary. Bobby was our second semester student body president at Madison #1 in 1959, I know because I swore him in. I can recall him mentioning that he thought he would study to be a lawyer in college and as a “stellar scholar,” I knew he could be anything he wanted to be. We went to differing high schools, so except for a few events and basketball games between Camelback and Central high schools, our paths seldom crossed during the next five plus decades. For his shortened life, it was a life fully engaged in quality relationships and the pursuit of learning, performing and sharing his talents. My heart goes out to his family in his loss, I'm sure his daughters and friends would have enjoyed and be grateful to have him as a classmate just as I did, Brenda Gold McGee.

Bill Hyder

March 15, 2014

I am saddened to learn of Bob's passing. I played baseball at Camelback High with Bob where he was a great pitcher with a blazing fastball. He also was a respected attorney and a man's man. My deepest regrets to Bob's family.

March 15, 2014

So sad to learn of Bob's passing. I played baseball with Bob at Camelback High School where he distinguished himself with a blazing fast ball. He also enjoyed a wonderful reputation as an attorney and as a man's man. My deepest sympathies to his family.

Gary Scales

March 14, 2014

Condolences

Ralph Blake

March 11, 2014

I just learned a few minutes ago that Bob passed away. I am stunned and saddened. Bob and I sat next to each other in law school (Blake, Blakey, etc.-same as the year before when I sat next to his brother, Larry)and I never laughed more in my life. We stayed in touch, were friends for all these years, and hung together whenever possible. In many ways, Bob was my guru...I looked up to him and I can say with all my heart I loved him. Bob convinced me to join the Phoenix Rugby Club, even though I weighed nothing and had never played before. I played in two games, with Bob on the sidelines yelling instructions and laughing at me the whole time. I tell everyone that I played rugby, which is something that would not have happened if Bob wasn't in my life. I am a better and happier person because of him and I only wish he would have left me with half his courage.

Bob and Motion with manager Jack Curtis, 2013

March 10, 2014

John Hanes

March 10, 2014

Bob, Val called this morning to tell me of your passing. Deb is sad, Val is sad and shocked, and I think I am somewhere between bereft and shattered. We love you and we miss you. I suspect I may be seeing you soon, and we have quite a bit to catch up on. I'm looking forward to it.

Bob's Pride and Joy

John Hanes

March 10, 2014

He was at various times my boss, my mentor and my "big Brother". Always, he was a close and valued friend, and I shall miss him more than I can say. These last few years were hard for Bob, but he endured, always cheerful, always optimistic, always smiling. Men like Bob are so very rare, and I feel privileged to have known and loved him. In a world so full of "utterly forgettable" people, Bob was a man worth remembering, and I shall, always. My sincerest condolences go out to his family.

Dale Pitney

March 9, 2014

To Bob's family, We were saddened to hear about Bob's passing, but I absolutely know he is probably up there right now teaching God the intro to "Great Balls of Fire"! I will miss his laugh and his jokes and I am so glad I got to see him twice last year when the guys in the band reunited for lunch and revisiting old times. He will be missed but I think he knows that when the rest of the band gets to where he is now, we will play some of the old rock and roll he and the band loved so much. Thanks for being a friend Bob!

Don Danforth

March 9, 2014

My condolences to the family and be it known, a life well lived is a wonderful legacy.

March 9, 2014

It's with deep sympathy that I send this message to the family of Robert. Death is not an easy thing to go through, but just know that God is waiting to heal your broken hearts. Psalms 147: 3
Sincerely,
Valeria

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