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Sue Boettcher
November 9, 2024
Tom and Shelli, You are both still so very missed. It's hard to believe this many years have passed. I still think of you both and know that you are both safe with our Lord.
Rick Coleman
November 9, 2019
Miss you Tom.. Country Thunder has never been the same!
Sue Boettcher
November 9, 2019
Tom - I think of you and still miss you after these many years. Your friendship, your support, and your laughter are still with me to this day. I am so fortunate to have had you in my life as such an amazing friend. I know you and Shelli are together and surrounding your family with your love from heaven. You are missed so very much.
Denny Alessandrine
March 6, 2018
Tom, I miss u buddy. Think of you often and I miss you my friend. Working out at the gym isnt the same anymore and hasnt been since you passed. Trying to find strength again after 12 years of sadness. Ill be talking to you keep giving me the motivation that I need to keep going like when you tell me just one more rep..I hear your voice and it keeps me going. Love you Tom lets keep it going❤
Jill Waterman
December 3, 2006
I first met Tom and Shelli when they lived on San Tan Blvd and hosted the 4-H gymkana practices at their arena. Their generous spirits will be missed by all who ever knew them. My prayers are with you, Leslie, Linsay and Luke.
Valerie Redding
November 25, 2006
I met Shelli from volunteering at Combs Sch. & going on many field trips w/her & Luke. Luke shared many classes with my son Adam. When Adam came home to tell us the terrible news we were all in shock, Dale & Shelli are the kindest people I have known. Your in our thoughts and prayers. The Redding Family
Kathe & Stephanie Bachtel
November 21, 2006
To the Family,
I can only imagine the hole left in your lives right now. I know I couldn't say a word when I learned of your loss, just dumbstruck. It is impossible to remember your folks without the laughter and love that was first and formost in their lives.
Tom, Shelli,I still can't believe you're gone. You are still lighting up the world, though. Blessings, such as you are, I know you still watch over your family and friends. You are sorely missed on this side, though.
Being in the Posse together and having shared fun times, the news really hit us hard. We share your loss and grief, and if there is anything that I can do, please, just let me know.
Lea Harvey DVM
November 17, 2006
Leslie, Lindsey and Luke,
My link with Tom, Shelli and you goes back nearly 20 years.That was the first time I met Tom and Shelli, working on their horses. We had lots of great talks over the years, some regular times and a few emergencies. Tom and Shelli were always the best kind of people-kind,generous and just a little crazy as they had horses! Thanks for letting us all have a chance to say goodbye to your mom and dad and know that the commnity will always be there to support you if you need anything.
Jean and Joe White
November 17, 2006
Leslie, Lindsey, and Lucas,
WE love you all and want you to know we will be there for you when we return to AZ.
Your Mom and Dad were the greatest couple. We spent many happy times with them from Iowa to Arizona. Our kids will never forget all of the great times they had with Tom and Shelli.
I met your Dad over 30 years ago when he was an EMT and I worked the emergency room in Washington. Then we followed a year after him and moved to AZ. When he met your Mom our friendship continued. They were such loving parents and great people. We grieve with your loss but know they are both in a wonderful place with Grandpa Dale and other great grandparents.
Be strong and think of your wonderful memories. We love you all and will see you soon.
Love,
Beni DeMattei
November 17, 2006
To the families of Shelli & Tom
I just can't even imagine your grief and sense of loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you.
Sue Boettcher
November 16, 2006
Leslie, Lindsey, and Luke - My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. Tom was a wonderful friend, and truly larger than life. Your parents love you so very much, and are proud of everything you have accomplished. Know that they will be with you every step of the way as you build your lives ahead of you.
Tom and Shelli touched my life, and made the world a better place.
God Bless you and your family.
Ed Stevens
November 16, 2006
Tom, I will miss you! You were a great person and an even greater example. My heart goes out to your family. Ed Stevens , MSA -City of Mesa.
Jim Bice
November 16, 2006
To the family of Tom and Shelli:
I went to the University of Iowa with Tom, and he was a good friend and a good guy. We had a lot of great times in Iowa City, and we'd go pheasant hunting and stay at the Sheetz house in Washington. My family's thoughts and prayers are with Tom, Shelli, and their entire family at this most difficult time. God Bless.
Wendy & Brian Busko
November 16, 2006
Remember that your loss is shared
by many friends who care,
and that you're in our thoughts and hearts and in our every prayer.
May you find the courage to face tomorrow in the love that surrounds
you today.
May the love of friends and family
be a source of comfort to you, and
may this truth sustain you..
...your loved ones will always be
as close as a memory.
DAVID, CINDY, SHANE, CLINT AND DANA THE ANDERSON'S
November 16, 2006
TOM AND SHELLI, YOU WILL BE DEEPLY MISSED MAY YOU REST IN PEACE. GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AND OUR PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU.
Rick Coleman
November 16, 2006
Tom- You are a great man and though I never had the opportunity to meet Shelli, I am sure that she is a wonderful person. I only saw you twice a year at the Country Thunder Festivals, but you had a huge impact on my life and will be greatly missed. No one can ever replace you at the Backstage Gates. You are THE BEST! May God Bless and Keep you...
Roseann Sweet
November 15, 2006
My thoughts & prayers are with you at this sad time. I knew Shelli from our days playing Pokeeno in our old neighborhood. We shared some laughs and our love of horses. She will be missed.
Mario Orioli
November 15, 2006
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Sheetz family. I knew Tom through the MSA and will always remember him for that big smile!
God Bless you during this terrible time.
Scott Esman
November 15, 2006
Tom was a gentle giant and his presence at the gym will be greatly missed. He always had a kind word and a smile for everyone that knew him. May God be with all of his and his wife's family at this time of loss.
Scott & Tina Esman, Mesa, AZ
Dave & Kristynna Manning
November 15, 2006
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Dave has known Tom for many years & we were heart broken when we heard of this
awful news. Our prayers & thoughts are with all who know & love the Sheetz family.
Jeff Smothers
November 15, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. God belss their souls.
DAVID AND KRISTYNNA MANNING
November 15, 2006
WE ARE DEEPLY SADDENDED BY YOUR TERRIBLE LOSS. WE BOTH CARE FOR TOM, SHELLI & THIER FAMILY. WE PRAY & OFFER WELL WISHES TO THIER KIDS, GRANDKIDS & EXTENDED FAMILY.DAVE HAS WORKED WITH TOM FOR MANY YEARS & THINKS OF HIM AS A MAN & FRIEND HARD TO REPLACE.
MIKE & KELLY HERNANDEZ
November 15, 2006
OUR THOUGHTS, PRAYERS & LOVE GO OUT TO LESLIE, LINDSEY & LUKE & ALL OF THE FAMILIES. WE WILL MISS BOTH OF THEM TERRIBLY. SHELLI WILL HAVE A PLACE IN OUR HEART SHE WAS A PART OF OUR FAMILY FOR MANY YEARS, WHEN SHE & TOM GOT TOGETHER HE TOO WAS A
PERFECT FIT FOR HER AS WELL AS OUR FAMILY. THEY BOTH WHERE TWO VERY SPECIAL PEOPLE. THEY ARE NOT ALONE,
NANA HAS TAKEN THEM BY THE HAND TO A
BRIGHTER PLACE. MAY THEY REST IN PEACE & GOD BE WITH THEM .
Ray Best
November 15, 2006
From my family to yours, our prayers are for you. I have know Tom for several years and he was truly a stand up guy. He will be greatly missed, but always remembered by friends.
Mr & Mrs Gilbert Placencia
November 15, 2006
We would like to extend our deep felt condolences to the family of Tom and Shelli. Our prayers and thought are with you.
Kenny Keith
November 15, 2006
You will be missed by all those who knew you.
Don Snyder
November 15, 2006
I will always remeber Tom as the big-hearted and helpful man and great co-worker he was.
I am sorry for your family's loss.
Phyllis Ortiz
November 15, 2006
Please know that your partents were very loved and thought well of. Life is but a blink, but they will be remembered forever with love and fondness.
LYNN RANDALL
November 15, 2006
MY HEART GOES OUT TO THE FAMILY MY PRAYERS FULL OF COMFORT FOR YOU. I HAVE NEVER MET YOUR FAMILY BUT I DO KNOW BRYAN DARLING AND I KNOW HE IS TRULY SUFFERING WITH YOUR FAMILY AND THERE LOSS. I AM SORRY GOD BLESS YOU.
Sid Burgener
November 15, 2006
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Remembering Tom as friend & co-worker at the city of Tempe.
Rick & Becky Johnson
November 15, 2006
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Remembering Tom as a terrific guy and co-worker at the city of Tempe.
scott Reuther
November 15, 2006
god bless you both.
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