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Barbara Ann Cook April 2, 1925 - July 21, 2011 Barbara, beloved wife, mom, grandma and great grandma, passed away unexpectedly at her home in Bakersfield last Thursday at the age of eighty-six. She was greatly loved by family and friends and by everyone who crossed her path. She loved being around people and saw the good in everyone. She always looked on the bright side of life and showed compassion and generosity to all. She will be greatly missed. Barbara is preceded in death by her husband of many years, Roy, and her grandson, Seth. She is survived by her children, Sharon Bolen and Roy Patrick Cook as well as her two grandchildren, Andrew Cook and Anne Bolen. She has two great grandchildren, Lila and Darius and special nieces, Barbara Ann, Judy, Bridget and Pam. A special thank you to a family friend, Brad Olson, for all you did for Barbara. A Graveside Service will be held at 10:00 A.M. on Tuesday, August 2, 2011 at Bakersfield National Cemetery. A celebration of her life will follow at 4600 Elk Mountain Court, Bakersfield, CA 93311. Doughty-Calhoun-O'Meara Funeral Directors www.bakersfield.com/obits

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Published by Bakersfield Californian on Jul. 28, 2011.

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anne bolen

August 5, 2011

it is wonderful to read what everyone had to say about my beloved grandma, Sassy. I agree that she just gave so much joy to everyone she encountered. It didn't matter if you were a stranger she met at the store or family: she loved people, and wanted to make everyone happy. Losing Sassy has been so hard, as it has been like losing a big piece of joy in my life. Spending time with her was like paradise on earth, a break from the hardships of real life. I know that she truly touched everyone who met her, and left a positive mark on this world. There will never be anyone like her.

Pam Phillips

July 29, 2011

What can I say about my Auntie in such a small space!! Words cannot describe how my auntie would light up a room when she would come in. She was not only my mom's sister but her best friend! My auntie's greatest saying was "Kid, be your own best friend!" This has stuck with me throughout my life and has given me great self esteem in all situations of life!! Auntie, you truly will be missed but your wonderful memories will live on !!
All My Love,
Pam

Bridget Fitch

July 28, 2011

Auntie was the BEST Aunt in the world! She will be missed by so many people. To hear her talk, you'd think God blessed her more than any other person that ever lived. Because she was so blessed, the majority of her energy was spent seeking to bless others. This was her calling. Wherever she went, she looked for opportunities to meet new people and to bring sunshine, hope and joy into their lives. Her smile and laughter was so contagious. She was ALWAYS a joy to be around! Auntie you will always live in our hearts and prayers. We LOVE you! Love,
Bridget

Matthew Flanagan

July 28, 2011

I was lucky enough to stop by and visit Barbara a few months ago...i got to laugh with her and remember my grandmother...we laughed about delivering the cheese to NOR residents and most importantly she said "Oh kid i tell ya". Barabara was special and so loving..i will always treasure my memories with her my condolonces to the family With much love, Matthew Flanagan

July 28, 2011

barbara was my dear friend and the nicest and sweetest person I ever knew.I love her very much and will deeply miss her.All my love barbara. Brad Olson

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