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Paul Edouard Boutin obituary, 1961-2025, Bakersfield, CA

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Paul Boutin Obituary

PAUL EDOUARD BOUTIN

December 11, 1961 – October 18, 2025

Paul Boutin died on Oct. 18, 2025, of cancer in Bakersfield, Calif., in the company of his wife, Christina Noren, and close friends.

A polymorphic polymath, Boutin was a programmer, editor, writer and recording artist whose words appeared in Wired, Slate and the New York Times.

As Paul Lovecraft, he was a prolific musician. He performed in Los Angeles with Tombstones in Their Eyes, a label-signed indie band.

Paul Edouard Boutin was born on Dec. 11, 1961, alongside his twin brother Danny Robert Boutin in Lewiston, Maine. He graduated from Lewiston High School in 1980 and won admission to MIT. He studied there for two years before dropping out to help build the university's Project Athena, a crucial testbed for technologies that later powered much of the internet.

At MIT, a manager sent him on a Silicon Valley boondoggle from which Boutin did not return. In California, Boutin found his life's work, love, and a treasured community.

He settled in San Francisco with Noren, whom he married for the first time in 2000 at the Burning Man festival in Nevada. The couple also lived briefly in New York.

After working in Silicon Valley, Boutin found the most meaningful work at HotWired, the online arm of Wired. He made his way to the magazine, where he served as a senior editor. After Wired, he worked at Splunk, a software company, alongside Noren.

Along the way, he struggled with addiction, divorced Noren, found sobriety, and moved to the Los Angeles area where he focused on his music while continuing to write.

Boutin grew increasingly committed to political activism, finding a talent for training phone bankers. Most recently, he volunteered in service of immigrants' rights.

He and Noren remained in touch and remarried in 2021, 21 years to the day after their first ceremony. They lived together in Camarillo Heights, where his brother Danny preceded him in death in March unexpectedly on a visit. Boutin experienced a first brush with cancer in 2024; the couple moved to Bakersfield in 2025, shortly before the return of his illness became apparent.

He is survived by Noren and their dog Buzzy; his nephew Stephen; his niece, Stephanie, and her husband Drew (Marin); and his aunt Connie Albert and uncle Ray Bissonnette of Lewiston, Maine.

A Catholic funeral Mass will be held at 10 a.m. on Nov. 11 at St. Francis Church in Bakersfield, California, with a rosary and viewing beforehand at 9:30 a.m. The church will stream the event on Facebook. A remembrance at Boutin and Noren's Bakersfield home will follow.

Boutin will be laid to rest at the Mount Calvary Cemetery in Salt Lake City at 11 a.m. on Nov. 22.

Donations may be made in Paul's name to the Acacia Center for Justice: https://bit.ly/acaciapaul or to the Coalition for Humane Immigrants Rights (CHIRLA): https://bit.ly/paulchirla

www.bakersfield.com/obits
Published by Bakersfield Californian on Nov. 1, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Paul Boutin

Nov

11

Visitation

9:00 a.m. - 10:00 a.m.

St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church

900 H Street, Bakersfield, CA 93304

Nov

11

Rosary

9:30 a.m.

St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church

900 H Street, Bakersfield, CA 93304

Nov

11

Mass of Christian Burial

10:00 a.m.

St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church

900 H Street, Bakersfield, CA 93304

Nov

22

Burial

Mt. Calvary Cemetery

275 U Street, Salt Lake City, UT 84103

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Norman Symonds

November 11, 2025

Well done, good and faithful servant. You were a font of knowledge and a goid man

imber Anakata

November 1, 2025

All my love to Christina. The Universe honored me by allowing me to be there when Paul first met Christina, two souls sparking something unforgettable. I had the honor of officiating their first wedding, and years later, their second, after life had taken them through its twists and brought them back to each other. Paul´s love for Christina was fierce, tender, and enduring. I love them both deeply. His absence is immeasurable, but his legacy lives in every note, every memory, every act of devotion. Holding Christina in my heart and sending her all my love and condolences.

Whamid Al-shabib

October 31, 2025

Dear Family and Friends,
It is with a heavy heart that I share my memories and condolences for my dear cousin, Paul Boutin. Paul was not just a cousin; he was a passionate engineer, a lover of music, and a true supporter of those in need.
Paul's enthusiasm for engineering was contagious. He had a unique ability to solve problems creatively and inspire those around him. I will always remember the hours we spent in NZ discussing our dreams and ambitions, pushing each other to reach new heights.

His love for music was another beautiful aspect of his life. Whether he was playing an instrument or sharing his favorite songs, Paul had a way of connecting with others through melodies and rhythms. Music was his language, and he used it to uplift everyone around him.
Paul's compassion for others was evident in everything he did. He dedicated his time and energy to helping those in need, always ready to lend a hand or offer a listening ear. His kindness and generosity left a lasting impact on many lives, and I am committed to continuing his work in this regard.
Final Thoughts
As we remember Paul, let us celebrate the joy he brought into our lives and the legacy he leaves behind. Rest in peace, dear cousin. Your spirit will forever live on in our hearts, and your passion will continue to inspire us all.
With deepest sympathy,
Whamid Al-shabib

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