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Allan Leffler Obituary
The family will receive friends on Friday from 2-4 and 7-9 P.M., at the Church of The Resurrection Chapel, 3175 Paulskirk Drive, Ellicott CIty, MD, 21042, where a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday at 10:30 A.M. Interment private. Please see www.slackfuneralhome.com for online condolences and directions.
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Memories and Condolences
for Allan Leffler
Diane Gucwa
May 31, 2007
To the Leffler Family,
I just heard of the tragic loss of Dr. Leffler. My three sons were patients of Dr. Leffler for several years. My one son, Kyle, had chronic asthma and Dr. Leffler got my family through some tough times. He was always so compassionate and understanding when I was so worried about Kyle's illness. Kyle is now 29 years old and has three children and is doing great. Please accept my sincere condolences. The Carter Family
Karen York-Levine
March 30, 2007
Hello Mrs. Leffler and family,
Please accept our most sincere condolences regarding the death of Dr. Leffler. I don't know if Dr. Leffler shared stories of patients with you, and if so if you'll remember our name and stories. My children are Benjamin, Emma and Isabelle Levine, and Dr. Leffler cared for all three for the past 10 years. My daughter Emma has had some special health needs over the past 9 years, and so I had a bit of a different relationship with Dr. Leffler than most do with their pediatrician. Emma (as well as Isabelle) was born in a birthing center, and so no doctor examined her right after her birth. So, Dr. Leffler came to our home the day after she was born to see her. That alone is amazing, but it gets better. It just so happens that the day after her birth that year was Easter Sunday! When Emma was 18 months old she became terribly ill, and was at Howard County General for 5 days. He came at least once during her stay to check on her. After we recovered from that and started realizing the extent of Emma's challenges, I always felt like Dr. Leffler understood not only her, but my life as her mother. When she had to have tests that took several days to get the results, he would call me back, not some nurse that I didn't know. When I had to call in to the "on-call" line in the middle of the night, as I sat listening to the instructions, I'd be thinking "Please be Dr. Leffler, please be Dr. Leffler". Once I even remember getting straight through to him, not even having to leave a message and wait for a call back. Emma had Lyme disease last summer, but before we knew what it was, I remember calling in and getting him, and we just sat and talked (and I cried), and he just listened and understood my frustration. When she would come in for regular check-ups, I could tell by the way he looked at her that he had a special "something" for her, never forgetting how sick she was and how far we have come, always ending the visit with "she just looks so good". Emma was one of his last patients Monday evening; we left the office at about 7 PM. We called in Tuesday morning to ask some additional questions about the stomach flu that was plaguing her, and were told the terrible news. I don't think that words can even express the depth of loss this community has suffered, or how much I personally will miss him.
Terri Goodrich
March 30, 2007
I, like a few other patients had no clue about the tragic loss of such a good man and doctor. My prayers are with his entire family. He was the best doctor and I always tried to have my girls see him when we had to go to the office.
Gail Blackburn
March 30, 2007
Dear Mrs. Leffler,
My family and I just learned of your tragic loss. As Pediatric Associates patients, both of my children saw Dr. Leffler on several occasions over the past 12 years.His gentle humor and genuine kindness endeared him to all of us.Our prayers are with you and your family at this time. Thank you for sharing Dr. Leffler with us.
Carmen Tucker
March 30, 2007
Dear. Mrs. Leffler-
My family and I just found of the passing of Dr. Leffler. He took care of our children from the time they were born and we made a point not leave the office because of him. He was such a kind gentle man my prayers are with you and your love ones. We are sorry for his passing. Our condolenses.
Jamil Saad
March 28, 2007
We just received a notice from our insurance company about the termination of Dr. Leffler from their network list. We didn't know the reason. After googling his name, we laerned about the sad news that left all of us in a shock. He was such a fantastic pediatrician who took care of our daughter Yasmine since day one of her 2 years life. We loved hime and will always remember his caring of our daughter.
Katherine Chao, 11
March 28, 2007
Dear Mrs. Leffler,
Dr. Leffler was a wonderful and special man. He helped many people, too. We all will miss him very much!
Jaime Moore
March 25, 2007
I'm just now finding out about the tragic loss of Dr. Leffler. I, too, am sorry for this tremendous loss to the community. Although Dr. Leffler was not my daughter's primary physician, we saw Dr. Leffler on many occasions and he was always so wonderful and professional. He will be greatly missed!
Shirley Chao
March 25, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Kimberley Murray
March 24, 2007
We were sorry to hear of Dr. Leffler's passing. Such a shock, he just treated my 3 year old in December. Our prayers are with his family and co-workers and friends.
The Murray-Maisel family
Chuck McCauley
March 22, 2007
Dear "Leffler Family"
It is so sad to hear of Ted's death. I am a fraternity brother living in Johnston, Iowa and so the news is close to home here in Iowa. We were gone when the accident occurred and learned of the accident when we returned the morning of 3/10 from Dick Horton. I now that Max Gross can perhaps share with you who I am since we have never met. Just know that your family is in our prayers and it is so hard to accept what the Lord has in His plans for us. God Bless. Chuck McCauley, Beta Duet '62.
lisa warnick-Cooper
March 22, 2007
Dear Mrs. Leffler and Family,
My family and I send you and your family our deepest sympathy in the passing of Dr. Leffler. We have been paients for 14 years. He was such a kind and wondeful man.WE will keep your family in prayer.
Lorenza ,Lisa, Ashley and Jasmine Cooper
Melanie Rubin
March 21, 2007
Dear Mrs. Leffler and Family,
Please accept our heartfelt sympathy. Our children loved Dr. Leffler for his care and compassion as their pediatrician. We are so sorry for your loss. He may be gone. but he will never be forgotten. He will be remembered in the hearts of the many people whose lives he touched.
Karen
March 20, 2007
Mrs. Leffler, family, friends, and colleagues,
As a former patient of Dr. Leffler and the parent of two children who were his patients, I am heartbroken to hear about Dr. Leffler's death. I can't begin to imagine your feelings of sadness and loss.
I have numerous stories about the care Dr. Leffler provided when I was a child and the care he gave my daughters. Dr. Leffler had the wonderful ability to make my children and myself comfortable, no matter how sick they felt or how nervous I was seeing them through their illnesses. To be able to provide both the comfort and care seem to be a lost art in today's fast pace of practicing medicine. My children always felt comfortable around him - they said he had a beard like Santa. I felt comfortable because of his calm approach and his sandals made him seem like a "regular" guy.
One conversation with Dr. Leffler comes to mind. After discussing an issue about my infant daughter, he gave his medical opinion but followed it with advice to trust my instinct specifically saying, "you're her mother, you know her better than anyone". How comforting those words were. The days of self-doubt that new mothers feel ended there and those words guide me even years later.
Mrs. Leffler, when I first began writing this I thought that you probably had no idea how much your husband meant to so many people. Now, I think you do know because you shared him with so many, any day of the week, any hour of the day or night. Thank you.
My prayers are with all of you.
Renee Zimmerman
March 19, 2007
My prayers for the family, for peace and healing. I heard of the accident on a prayer chain from Dr. Leffler's cousin, Catherine Tkacz. May the grace of our Lord and Savior be with all those who are sorrowing.
Margaret Ping
March 19, 2007
To the Leffler Family and Pediatric Asscociates:
I just found out the tragic loss when I tried to schedule an appointment for my son. Please accept my deepest sympathies. I was saddened by the news. We just saw him not even a month ago and my 3-year-old called him "Santa" because of his beard. Dr. Leffler is such a caring and kind doctor and we are so grateful to know him. We will never forget him. It will be very sad when we visit the office today. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Claudette Sikora; The Lynch Family
March 19, 2007
To the Leffler family:
We just found out about your tragic loss and are so sorry.
Dr. Leffler was a jewel of a man.
We will always remember how he saved our daughter, Katie's, life, telling us to rush her to the hospital, when only 5 at the time, she had Salmonella. Taking the call in the wee hours of the morning, he joined us at the Admitting Room of St. Agnes. Katie is now 19, and we might have lost her were it not for Dr. Leffler.
We will also remember Dr. Leffler's kindness and way of putting children at ease. The last time I saw him, he was wearing socks in sandals, a colorful shirt, and a playful tie.
Dr. Leffler has touched the lives of so many people in a positive and lasting way. We will remember him with great affection and will miss him very much.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this painful time.
Claudette Sikora; The Lynch Family
March 19, 2007
To the Leffler family:
We just found out about your tragic loss and are so sorry.
Dr. Leffler was a jewel of a man. I will never forget how he saved our daughter, Katie's, life, only 5 at the time, by telling us to get her to the hospital when she had Salmonella. In the wee hours of the morning, he joined us at the Admitting Office of St. Agnes. Katie is now 19, and we might have lost her were it not for him.
He was always so very kind and so well-suited to treating children. I remember his socks in sandals and light-hearted ties, and his way of putting children at ease.
We will always remember Dr. Leffler with great affection. He has touched the lives of many people in a lasting way.
Malia Schlichting
March 17, 2007
To the entire Leffler family & Pediatric Associates:
3-17-07
I have just learned today of Dr. Leffler's passing. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I have been bringing my children to Pediatric Associates since 1998. When searching for a pediatriction, Dr. Leffler's practice was the first and only one I ever visited. Once walking in, there was just something about him that made one feel at ease, knowing he was going to make everything ok. He will be truly missed!
Kris Wright
March 16, 2007
I would like to express my condolences to the Leffer family as well as Pediatris Associates staff. Dr. Leffler was a kind, intelligent and thoughtful man. He helped care for my children over the past nineteen years. I was heartbroken upon hearing of his untimely death. I am grateful that I knew him.
Mike McQuaid
March 15, 2007
Dear Leffler Family,
As a way of expressing my condolences, thoughts, and emotions in the aftermath of Dr. Leffler's death, I wish to share this email I sent to Dr. Raymond Srsic (who has given his permission to share this email) who was my Pediatrician years ago and is still practicing in Severna Park. Please know that your family is in our prayers.
Peace, Mike
Dr. Srsic,
It has been many years (23 or more) since my parents, (who I have copied on this email) took my siblings and me to you in Severna Park in 1961-1985. It has only been 13 years since I contacted you for a referral to a pediatrician in the Columbia area.
I'm writing you today to thank you for the referral you made to me in 1994 to Dr. Alan Theodore "Ted" Leffler, II. I had just returned to Maryland from 12 years in Pennsylvania (college, seminary, & my first church) and I was looking for a pediatrician in the area. Thanks to your referral, our family has enjoyed a wonderful relationship with a fantastic pediatrician, who has been as wonderful to my 3 children as you were to me. In fact, your words were, "Dr. Leffler is the best pediatrician in that area -- all the rest are quacks!" I don't know if the second part is true because, from the first visit to Dr. Leffler, I had no need to try out any other doctors. He has been wonderful. His faith was evident in his work, his passion, his life.
Yet, today marks a sad day. I'm guessing that you have heard of the car accident this past week that took Dr. Leffler's life. If not, I'm sorry to be the bearer of such bad news. Below, I have copied an article from the Howard County Times [not included in this condolence note for the Sunpaper website]. On Saturday, I attended his funeral with one of my three children. He will be sorely missed by our family and this community.
So, again, thank you for a blessing of a 13-year doctor-family relationship -- he truly helped Carol and me raise 3 healthy children.
And, thank you for the care you gave me for about 19-20 years of my life -- you set a high standard for care provided to children -- Dr. Leffler served at the same standard. As I think about my own passion to work with children through pastoral ministry, I can't help but think that you helped shape that passion and gave me a great model of a great "bedside manner" that I have carried into my pastoral ministry. Thank you. :)
Peace,
Mike, father of 3
The Rev. Michael R. McQuaid
Pastor for Families & Youth
St. John Lutheran Church
Columbia, MD 21045
Ann Hohmann
March 15, 2007
Since hearing about this tragedy, I have been in a fog of denial. I read every entry in this guest book and find comfort in knowing that Ted Leffler was adored by so many.
Dr. Leffler became my daughter's pediatrician almost 18 years ago. I was having a horrible experience with my ob/gyn and dreaded trying to find a doctor for my child. When I met with Dr. Leffler late at his office one night, I told him how angry I was at doctors and how hesitant I was to chose a pediatrician. His response was gentle and calm. He made me feel that he and I would be a team to take care of my child. No doctor before or since has treated me with such profound respect. And when my daugther, Alena, was born in Montgomery County, he sent a friend to check in on us. In the years that followed, not only did Alena receive great medical care, but she too was treated with respect and gentleness by Drs. Leffler and Cahill.
Ted Leffler will always be, in my mind, what every physician should aspire to be. He is one of my heroes.
Allan T. Leffler was an angel on earth - an angel in Birkenstocks.
Jill Zimmermann
March 15, 2007
Dear Missy,
You and your family are in our thought and prayers.
Jill (Nedrow) and Dave Zimmermann
Joanne Tart
March 14, 2007
For 18 years, Dr. Leffler has taken care of my children. From the time my son was 2, he has been the stable and reliable voice of reason for him. My son never wanted to see anyone else, and through problems and issues, Dr. Leffler always took the time to help. He will be missed by so many and remembered with love and respect by countless others. Condolences and prayers to the family and all of his "children".
Elizabeth McDonnell Belli
March 14, 2007
17 years ago, large with our first child, I "interviewed" Dr. Leffler to be our pediatrician. There was no question, after meeting this smart, patient, thoughtful man, that he would get the "job." Dr. Leffler was in attendance at both my girls' births which always made him very special to me, and even with the enormous growth of his practice, I always felt that we received superior care from him, from his colleagues and staff. I am looking now at a small reminder one of the nurses wrote up for me two weeks ago. Both girls (now 14 and 17) are due for physicals and I scheduled them with Dr. Leffler for early April. I am so sad that we will not be seeing him again. My heart goes out to his family and everyone at Pediatric Associates.
Maria Mejia-Bogdanski
March 13, 2007
Dear
Leffler Family and Pediatrics Associates:
Please accept our deeply condolences in this time of sorrow. Dr.
Leffler was an exceptional person and physician, who will be immensely
missed. More than a doctor he was also a teacher and a friend we could
count on. Especially for some of us, first time parents. You all are in
our thoughts and prayers. Sincerely
The Mejia-Bogdanski Family
Marilyn, Rick, DJ and Kelsey Mills
March 13, 2007
Dear Mrs. Leffler and the Pediatric Associates family,
Like so many others, we were shocked and so saddened to hear of the loss of Dr. Leffler. He was the ideal pediatrician - always kind, gentle, calm, and sure. He was a blessing and will be greatly missed. God bless you all in this difficult time.
Connie, Kristi & Tara Hall
March 12, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Dr. Leffler was a wonderful Doctor to my two girls. We pray for your healing.
Edward Miller
March 12, 2007
Dear Missy and the entire Leffler family,
Please accept our sympathies on your tragic and untimely loss.
We are still in shock and we want you to know you are in our
prayers.
We learned of the accident last week, too late to make
arrangements to attend Ted's memorial. But, like my
fraternity brother Dick Horton, I spent time yesterday
thinking of all of the good times Ted and I, and all the
others in that exceptional crew from Iowa State's Theta Delta
Chi, had over the years.
I think we were 18 or 19 in all, and more than three-quarters
of us went on to advanced degrees of one kind or another.
Of course it was the nature of the banter in our special group
that there was always hilarious dispute about this, but Ted
was generally respected as the brightest of all of us, who
"never studied," and seemed to be a genuine natural at
whatever he attempted. Ted always claimed it wasn't him, no,
couldn't be. In truth, Ted was a natural leader, a very quick
thinker, and so very, very kind.
Later on and fairly regularly over the years, in Maryland and
here in California, Rita and I were able to get together with
Ted and Missy, always an invigorating and relaxing
experience. We were so happy to have them here at our home in
September 2006, on their way to a Sonoma County wine weekend.
Rita and I both remember how super an evening that was for us
all.
Ted had a fine, keen mind, with a joyous wit and a twinkle in
his eye when he regularly caught me trapped in my own
rhetoric.
Ted was a good, kind, and generous man and we all will miss
him.
Edward Miller & Rita Bral
San Francisco, California
KELLY BROWNLEY
March 11, 2007
Dear Leffler Family,
I know no words can ease the pain your family is going through at this time,and i know they say time heals all wounds,however deep down you wonder how.
DR. Leffler was in my life for many years.He took care of me as a child and we loved him so much that when i had a child i continued to recieve his care.He was an amazing doctor and friend.He loved his job and help me threw mant hard situations with my daugther.I would always request to see him no matter what and he would always take his time to make sure you were comfortable with all the info. he would give.
I cannot imagine the pain your family is going threw at this time but i wanted you to know that so many people have your family in there thoughts and prayers.
I attended the service and met DR. Lefflerd daughter and she was so strong.It is amazing how we hold our emotions in at such a tragic time.
Melissa.. i hope you heal soon and take one day at a time.They always say the good die young.Why? we dont know but i guess a sngel was needed and god chose the best man for the job.You husband and father will follow you everyday of your lives,and i know you all will continue to make him proud.
I am so sorry for your loss,be strong and keep faith,god bless.
March 10, 2007
Dr. Leffler's Family, Dr. Leffler has been a wonderful, caring pediatrician to my 3 children for the last 15 years. The service was beautiful today, and obviously so many people loved him. He will be sadly missed by so many.
Mary Pagan and Family.
Trivelli-Charles Family
March 10, 2007
Dr Leffler was a Child of Light. There aren't many Children of Light in the world. They are special people whose daily lives are spent helping others and spreading the message of goodness and love to all those around them. Most of us can only try to be of the Light but are usually pulled away by our own selfish desires. Dr Leffler was the Light. May his example continually shine in our hearts and minds.
Here is a memory of this wonderful man that I'd like to share. Last year when we had our third child, I had a complication which required testing. Dr Leffler got involved because I was breastfeeding my newborn and one of the procedures might have affected the milk quality. Dr Leffler jumped right in there clearing the way for the test. He then proceeded to check up on me until I was released. I saw him more than any other doctor during my stay. And I wasn't even his patient!
There are so many other powerful and enduring memories of him, it would take a book to convey them all. We miss him terribly. To his family, friends and patient families, we send our deepest condolences. To his wife, Missy, our daily prayers are with you.
Dick Horton
March 10, 2007
A Personal Tribute to Ted Leffler
Ted never met a stranger. He was responsible for finding and inviting a majority of the freshmen in our 1958 pledge class to join Theta Delta Chi, a group that grew from 3 to about 20. Most all graduated from Iowa State and went on to successful careers in higher education or professional practice. It was a unique and fun time in the life and history of Beta Deuteron of Theta Delta Chi. We worked hard, and played hard, always respecting the needs of those with whom we lived. And we have for the most part stayed in contact with each other ever since. Ted had the ability to greet everyone as a friend and be genuinely interested in them and their thoughts and aspirations. Patient, encouraging, upbeat, thoughtful, respectful, caring, etc. are all words that easily come to mind when I think of Ted. Ted called me from the Des Moines airport just 2 weeks ago awaiting his flight back to BWI, and we had a delightful 10 minute visit.
Ted and Max Gross, also a member of this special pledge class, were groomsmen in our wedding, August 26, 1962 in Bondurant, IA, a special day for our families and many close friends from our Iowa State University fraternity and sorority chapters. I was reminded tonight with a call from Farwell T Brown ’33, of Ames, IA, and also a member of Theta Delta Chi, that Ted’s mother, Josephine Brown Leffler from Johnston, IA and Farwell are brother and sister.
Ted and Missy introduced Edward Miller, another member of this pledge class, and me, on different occasions, to the fine art of eating Maryland crabs at a crab shack where the table cloth was either brown wrapping paper or old newspapers - accompanied by a pitcher of beer and a brown paper bag for the shells. For an Iowa boy, I thought this was an awesome meal and experience, accompanied by great conversations among best friends. I think my first experience with this was at Ted’s home - a couple of decades ago, one I will always remember and now cherish.
I also recall when Ted called me after learning of my life-threatening incident about 20 years ago when my throat swelled shut in the hospital. I had been admitted on a hunch by my internal medicine doctor - it was a virus or bacteria, the same thing that causes ear aches in small children - and caused rapid swelling. Had I not been in the hospital and had a nurse not been at my bedside when my throat just swelled shut about 11 PM, I would not have survived. The crash cart and an emergency trach saved my life, followed by a month in intensive care. Ted called me back multiple times to remind me "Do you really really know how lucky you are?", because he had lost one or two patients on their way to the hospital in an ambulance from the same illness.
I am saddened to not be able to be there in person today to say good bye to Ted, our special friend. To Missy and their families, and to Ted's mother and sister and brothers and their families, please accept our sincere sympathy. Be comforted knowing that you all had many wonderful years together filled with memories of good times together that no one can take from you. Cherish those memories.
I will be sitting in Helser Chapel at Collegiate Presbyterian Church, Ames, IA, located beside the Iowa State campus Saturday morning at 10:30 EST, reflecting on our many good times together and life-long friendship.
Rest in peace, good and faithful servant, for a life well lived in service to others.
Dick & Sandy Horton
Andrea Hohn
March 9, 2007
Mrs. Leffler and the Pediatric Associates Family:
My heart goes out to everyone at this most difficult and challenging time.
Dr. Leffler had a winning combination of kindness, compassion and commonsense. When I was a new mother, filled with doubts and endless questions, he reassured me by advising me to trust my instincts and intuition. He provided guidance and advice and shared stories that helped put medical and parenting issues into perspective. One night when my daughter was 10 months old, she spiked a 104 fever in the middle of the night. It was a very frightening time as she had been diagnosed with pneumonia the day before this event. I called the office pager to hear a recording that assured me I should hear back from Dr. Leffler within the hour. Imagine my surprise to get a phone call a few minutes later, at 3 a.m., with a calm, cool collected Dr. Leffler, offering assistance and much-needed advice at that hour. No question or problem was insignificant. He had a gift for making everyone feel important and special.
I'm sure the hours and devotion that he put into his patients and his practice took time away from you and your family. I can't thank you enough for sharing his time and talents with us.
Dr. Leffler was a talented pediatrician who touched so many lives. He will be missed.
My thoughts and prayers will be with you.
Susan Ginsberg
March 9, 2007
Dear Leffler Family~
It is with much sadness that I learned of your great loss. Dr. Leffler was our pediatrician for over 10 years. We still are current patients and it will be very sad for my children the next time we go to the office. Dr. Leffler was a good man and someone who always put his patients first. He will be truly missed. Please know that your family will be in my prayers.
Douglas
March 9, 2007
I visited Dr. Leffler to install a new computer server three or four years ago. He was such a kind, quirky, and lovable nerd. After knowing me for a few hours, he was giving me personal advice and talking philosophy-of-life. He was always my favorite familiar face at our conferences. The greatest thing about Dr. Leffler was how he took an interest in things, how he stopped to appreciate the universe, and how he was always enthusiastic and optimistic.
Sue Perdomo
March 9, 2007
Dr Leffler was my first pediatrician when we came to live in Howard County, as well as both of my sons. What a shock to hear about this tragedy and we're so sorry-he will be missed very much. We wish Melissa a full recovery.
Nicole Plenge & Family
March 9, 2007
Missy,
Our family was deeply saddened to hear about Dr. Leffler. He had touched so many lives and families through the years, including our own. Both my brother, Rick, and I feel blessed to have been among his patients.
We wish you a speedy recovery. And know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and Danny & Sarah (our classmates) during this difficult time.
March 9, 2007
We started seeing Dr. Leffler 21 years ago, all 3 of our children loved Dr.leffler. My 21 year old daughter told me about the accident, I was very saddened. He was a very caring person. Our prayers are with his family. We were lucky to have known him! He was truly a great person.
Betty Kyser
March 9, 2007
Dear Missy,
Please accept my deepest sympathies for the tragic loss of your beloved husband, Ted. Truly, there are not words to express the sorrow felt by me and the entire community. I cannot imagine the pain you are feeling.
The sacrifices that he and his family, especially you made to facilitate his many years of service are immeasurable. Thank you for all of your love and support that allowed that to happen. Without you by his side, it would have not been possible. Surely, no family or couple more greatly deserved to enjoy many more years together than all of you.
I am deeply honored to have known you both. Ted was my boss for over 14 years, but also a wonderful mentor, colleague, and friend. He and you have my greatest respect and I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers forever.
My prayers are with you for the healing of all the injuries you suffered and for the healing of your broken hearts. May the Lord bless you and keep you and give you peace.
Betty Ann Kyser and family
Ted on the left with our crew heading to Block Island 1983
Malcolm & Elizabeth Hermann
March 9, 2007
We were deeply saddened to hear of Ted’s untimely death. He was with us in the Atlantic, at our wedding and through diaper rash. It is obvious he has touched the lives of many. We are proud that we could call him a friend. He will be missed.
Lynn Melan
March 9, 2007
To the family of Dr. Leffler:
Our family was so saddened to here of the of traffice accident that took this caring many from all who's lived he touched. He has been our pediatrian for 17 years and I have been blessed to have him be the doctor for all 3 of my children. His caring manor with patients of all ages has always been appreciated. My families thougths and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Glenda, Glenn, Julie and Mark Milner
March 9, 2007
Dear Mrs. Leffler, family and practice family, We were so saddened to hear of Dr. Lefflers death. We send our sincere sympathy to each of you in the loss of this special man who touched our lives. Caring, respectful, kind, listener, always concerned and interested, and seeker of answers are all words we would use to describe him. We met him over 25 years ago when our infant had a crisis and we were told to come right in. We had no idea how much of each other we would see over the years. Throughout the early days of testing, the diagnosis of cerebral palsy and years of medical care he always honestly presented the facts as he knew them, calmly reassured us and said call when we needed him. And we did at times in the night, one the weekend and even one Thanksgiving and one Christmas Eve. Each time he was patient, reassuring and had an answer that was helpful. When our daughter turned 21 he offered to continue her medical care because he knew her unique care needs and she felt comfortable coming to this practice with it caring staff. We will always appreciate not only the medical care our children have received but the way they were made to feel that he wanted to see them. His leadership and advocacy have helped many families with special medical needs. It is a huge loss to our family and the community as a whole. To you Mrs. Leffler we wish a speedy recovery and yes, we do remember you when our children were small.
George and Barbara Dudley
March 9, 2007
Dr. Leffler was such an approachable human being, the children and adults all felt comfortable talking to him. Our son told us about the accident when he came home from school, it was a topic at the lunch table at high school - and it was a shock to the students. He set an example to us all through is professional and volunteer work. Thank you for being a part of our lives Dr. Leffler, we were lucky to have you for our pediatrician and just to have known you.
George, Barbara and George Dudley
John Beyer
March 9, 2007
Such a wonderful man and a terrible tragedy. Dr. Leffler has been there for my disabled son many times over the past fourteen years. My younger daughters were always comforted by this truly gentle man. May the Lord bring you into His kingdom with this deserving phrase..."Well done, good and faithful servant."
We pray for Mrs. Leffler's quick and full recovery.
The Beyer Family
Connie Chamberlin
March 9, 2007
Dear Missy,
I can't even imagine the sorrow and the loneliness you must be feeling at this time. I knew Dr. Leffler was your partner for many years..a loving husband and your soul-mate. He often spoke of you to me, those stories and those of your children and grandchildren were wonderful. It made me think of him as a friend rather than a boss. I loved working with him as "his nurse" and we often would tease and joke with each other. I always left the shift with a smile on my face because of him.
He was a wonderful man that was fair and loving to his employees and compassionate and caring to his patients. I will truly miss him!
Yours truly,
Peggy Parsons
March 9, 2007
My entire family sends sincere sympathy to the Leffler family. We first starting going to Dr Leffler at the end of 1970 when he had an office in his home down near Edmondson Village, before he moved to Howard County. We continued to have him as our pediatrician for 32 years until 2002 when my yougest of 5 children turned 18. He was wonderful with all of my children, being caring, professional and yet relaxing and friendly at the same time. He will surely be missed, not only by his family, but by his entire office and all of his patients.
The Parsons Family, Bill & Peggy, Meg, Laura, Stuart, Brad & Alice
Danilsa Marciniak
March 8, 2007
When I heard the news earlier this evening, I was overcome by sadness. Dr. Leffler has been our pediatrician for almost 14 years. He gave my youngest daughter her first physical and I'll never forget him saying, "She's a feisty little one." He was a devoted man--to his practice, his family and his faith. Thank you for all you have done to ensure my daughters' good health and well being. Thanks for all you have done in San Bartolo. To his family at home and Pediatric Associates, you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Jenny Hix
March 8, 2007
I was saddened to hear of the loss of Dr. Leffler on Tuesday morning. He was always kind, caring and patient with my three children. We will really miss him. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Leffler Family and the Pediatric Associates Family.
Amy Ellgard
March 8, 2007
Missy:
I am so sorry about your loss. I have known Dr. Leffler for six years. I used to work with him at Ellicott City Pediatric Associates. He was a great man in everyway possible. He will be missed very much but he is in the best place. God bless!
Love,
Nancy Haney-Sagnella
March 8, 2007
Missy,
We were so sorry to hear of the death of Ted. Len and I pray for you and your family. Ted touched many lives. Near and Far. He will never be forgotten.
Sherri Kersey
March 8, 2007
God Bless Dr. Leffler and his family. I was so sad to learn of this loss. He was a warm, kind, wonderful doctor and person. My children never wanted to outgrow him. My youngest is saddened to be deprived of his last child years with him. We started with him with my first child in 1980 in his basement, and thought we’d last forever. Such a kind, caring man. He will be missed by all.
Vivian Nix
March 8, 2007
I would like to express the sorrow and sadness of losing Dr. Leffler. Missy, I'm sure you know that he was such a Great man and a Wonderful doctor. The office has not been the same since we were told the news Tuesday morning. All of us were in total shock. Not, in our wildest dreams did we ever think that he would leave this way. Each one of us at the office has a fond memory of Dr. Leffler. As we walked by one another, look at pictures or read the cards that parents have dropped off or sent by mail, our eyes fill with tears. Dr. Leffler i will miss you, thank you for caring for my children in such a special and caring way.
He will always remain in my thoughts and in my prayers. Missy, i'm sorry for the loss that you have but we all know that he is in a better place and in better care.
God bless your entire family.
Vivian, Brittany and Kyle
Debbie Dingle
March 8, 2007
There are no words to express how much Dr. Leffler meant to us and how much we will miss him. He diagnosed my child at birth w/a rare disorder and has helped navigate us through our journey these past 5 years through the normal childhood ailments and the special ones too. He has been our rock and it will be difficult without him. He was such a special person and we feel blessed to have had him be a part of our lives. From his stories about his children and grandchildren to recently hearing about the raccoons in his basement, he had such a special way about him. I will surely miss his words of wisdom and his eloquence. “Enough to wax a ballroom floor” was one of my favorites when he extracted a ball of wax from my screaming pre-schooler’s ear. And when I said, “we will be back next week for the s-h-o-t-s”; he chuckled and said “we’re in big trouble when she learns to spell…” That was our last visit 2 wks ago. We will miss you so much Dr. Leffler. Our deepest sympathy to his family.
The Dingle Family
Maralyn Ervin
March 8, 2007
Our deepest sympathies to the Leffler family. Dr. Leffler became our children's doctor when we moved to Howard County in May of 1970. They may have been some of his first patients---we saw him in a private home off St.Johns Lane. His patience was invaluable to us--there was a little more than routine visits to his office! They remained his patients until they felt awkward going to his office as teenagers! However, our daughter, Michele, worked in the office helping schedule patients. That office was in the Avoca residence, and this was in the very early 80s. We do go way back and the shock will take a while to absorb. We thank the family for sharing him with us.
Mr. and Mrs. Robert Ervin
LaDeana Litchfield
March 8, 2007
Dear Leffler Family, I am so sorry to learn of the loss of Dr. Leffler. He took care of my two sons when I moved to Howard County 7 years ago. My sons are grown now but I will never forget his kind and gentle nature. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Kristin Pavlovsky
March 8, 2007
I have known Dr. Leffler pretty much my whole life. When I came to this country (I was adopted from South Korea), I was extremely sick and Dr. Leffler was the first doctor I saw. He has helped me get through a lot of difficult medical issues from kidney problems to asthma attacks. I will truly miss seeing him in his plaid shirt, khaki pants and socks and sandals when I am in the office. My heart and condolences go out to his wife (who I hope will be ok) his children, grandchildren and the rest of his family and friends (and of course, his other patients).
Stacey Dix
March 8, 2007
To the Leffler Family,
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Dr Lefflers untimely death. He was the one doctor that could put all 3 of my children at ease with no problem and he went above and beyond the call of duty as a doctor. I remember calling him one night about my daughter and my fear of what I thought was a spider bite. Instead of having to be paged at the late hour he answered the telephone and after emailing him pictures of the bite made me feel much better about the situation. In fact he called back about an hour later to say he had been doing research on the internet and was certain there was no cause for concern. I appreciated the fact that he was always so caring and compassionate. Our family will miss him.
Our deepest sympathy for your loss. And we do hope Mrs. Leffler is doing better. May God bless you all.
Jan Heer
March 8, 2007
Dr. Leffler was an outstanding doctor for my sons Charlie and Casey and my grandson Beau. He was always so warm and caring and will be missed by so many. I was heartsick to hear of his untimely death. My family and I would like to send our love and prayers to the Leffler family.
Jan Heer
Jamie Breazeale
March 8, 2007
To The Leffler Family,
My children Brandon and Andrew have been patients of Dr. Leffler's since they were born. We were all so devastated by the news. I recall painstakingly reviewing my list of potential doctors while I was pregnant with my oldest. Upon my first meeting with Dr. Leffler, wearing his Birkenstocks, Dr. Seuss tie and displaying his fatherly, caring manner, I knew he was the doc for us. I would often see him picking up his mail in front of his home as I drove by. It gave me a comforting feeling to know that our boys' doctor lived right in our neighborhood.
We will miss him terribly. Please accept our deepest sympathies.
Ingrid Lubell-Adcock
March 8, 2007
Dr. Leffler was my children's pediatrician while we lived in Maryland. I remember his dedication when my son fell down requiring stitches on his knee and he did it late at night. Too bad he probably never knew my daughter became a pediatrician herself. I know he will be missed.
My prayers are for his family.
stacey strouse
March 8, 2007
I would like a moment to express how
deeply sad I was to hear of the tragic loss of such a GREAT man, Dr.
Leffler. I have had the pleasure of
knowing him and working with him for
almost 10yrs and will miss him dearly. May God bless Missy and his
entire family, you all are in our
prayers.
.
Marta Belgard
March 8, 2007
I was so sorry to hear about Dr. Leffler. When I saw the article I didn't want to believe it. My granddaughter has been one of his many patients since she was born in August 2005. He was a loveable caring person who made all his patients feel special. We will miss him very much.
Kristine Varner
March 8, 2007
Missy I am very sorry for your loss. I used to work for doctor Leffler, and he was a great doctor. I remember him as being such a nice and warm person. I will miss him.
Kristine Varner.
Andrea Zettel
March 8, 2007
You will be sorely missed. I have trusted you with all three of my children and have always valued your advise and treatment. You taken us through allergies and asthma and all that goes in between. All the best to both your families, at home and at the office.
Andrus Family
March 8, 2007
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Dr. Leffler was a wonderful doctor and person. On our last visit with him, he told many stories of his own kids and grandkids. He was a wonderful man.
Lisa Collins
March 8, 2007
Missy,
Words can't express the grief you are feeling right now, but just know that there are people who love you and support you. If there is anything I can do, don't hesitate to call on me. You are in my thoughts and prayers and I love you.
To the Leffler family,
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Although I never had the honor of knowing Ted, I was fortunate enough to meet him once, and the pleasure was completely mine. He was a remarkable man who will be terribly missed by everyone who's path he crossed. You are also in my thoughts and prayers. May you find peace in this very difficult time.
Melissa Peyton
March 8, 2007
Dr. Leffler was one of the kindest, most gentle pediatricians I've ever had the pleasure of knowing. He always took the time to "listen" to me as a mother and my concerns for my two children. His "grandfatherly" demeanor with Jasmine and Isaiah always put them at ease and helped many uncomfortable visits seem not so bad. My condolensces to Dr. Leffler's family and also to Dr. Leffler's family at Pediatric Associates.
The Toloczko Family
March 8, 2007
Your unique kindness and warmth will be missed. Our family was blessed by having you in our lives. You died on my daughters 15th birthday. The little girl you took care of since she was brought into this world. Her birthday will never be the same for us, as we will be thinking of you that day as well. May God bless you and keep you safe now that you are with Him.
susan ay
March 8, 2007
Dear Missie, My sincere sympathy in your recent loss. I am praying for your steady improvement and full recovery. Susan Ay Worthington Elementary
Grateful Dad
March 8, 2007
Sincere sympathies to the family and friends of a truely special doctor who has helped so many.
For my family - his timely diagnosis literally helped save the life of my then 5 year old, now high school graduating, Son.
Rest now God's servant!
Bob Simonsen
March 8, 2007
My heart goes out to Missy and all of the family. Ted was a long time crew member on my boat and others that we sailed together on. He was a valued asset to our racing and personal lives. He will be sorely missed this season and forever.
Roxanne Gray
March 8, 2007
Dr. Leffler,
Words cannot express how greatly you will be missed. I remember bringing my daughter to you in the basement of your house, often because of periodic colds,fever, shots and would call just to see how she was doing. You showed so much love and
concern for a little black girl and would often waive your fees. Now, this little girl is all grown up and is now 39 years old with a son and never forgot you. My grandson, who is now 11 years old has asthma and you took care of him with the same love and concern as did my daughter. He too loved you as did my neices and nephews, you were our family' pediatrician. As a mother, grandmother and aunt I just wanted to say thank you for taking care of my love ones with your love and kindness. We love you and will greatly miss you. May GOD's loving hands surround and confort your family. We already know the the children and babies in heaven are surrounding you with love.
Tammy Delph
March 8, 2007
He was a great man...my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Debbie, Ali, Ali I., Abe, Zach & Jake Esfahani
March 8, 2007
You will be missed greatly not only as our neighbor but my childrens Pediatrician. You are truly blessed.
The Esfahani's
Bill Simpson
March 8, 2007
I am going to miss that man and his SANDALS, now he and The lord can walk side by side in the same shoes.....God bless our friend and my Sailing buddy.......
March 8, 2007
We are so sorry for your loss. Dr. Leffler will be missed by his little patients, their families, his colleagues and all who knew him.
Robin Hill
Pediatric Surgery
UMMS
jean and bob skillman
March 8, 2007
Thank you for all of the wonderful care you gave our children starting with our first born Matthew in 1978 and our last Maggie in 1979. We loved the warm atmosphere of your practice and found comfort in your care. May God Bless you and your family.
Stephanie McClellan (Kornstein)
March 8, 2007
My heart goes out to your entire family and I hope Mrs. Leffler makes a full recovery. Dr. Leffler was my pediatrician starting in 1977 when he first started in his basement and I have a 2 1/2 year old that has been going to his practice ever since he was born. Dr. Leffler was a great man an will be truly missed.
Eugene & Jeanne Paul
March 8, 2007
You are in our thouhts and prayers.
Carol Dodson
March 8, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
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