Menu
Search by Name
Search by Name
Amber McCarter Obituary
Amber Lea McCarter, 21, of O'Fallon Township, Ill., born Dec. 2, 1984, in Muskogee, Okla., died Saturday, June 24, 2006, in Brooklyn, Ill. Amber was preceded in death by her grandfather, George Ramatowski. She is survived by grandparents, Calvin and Linda McCarter of Muskogee, Okla., Mary (Harold Bullard) Ramatowski-Bullard of Collinsville, Ill.; her parents, Kyle and Victoria, nee Ramatowski, McCarter of Lebanon, Ill.; her two brothers, Austin McCarter and Zachary McCarter both of Lebanon, Ill.; her aunt and uncles, Jeff (Laurie) McCarter of Maryville, Tenn., Laurie McCarter of Muskogee, Okla., Kelly and Barry Watson of Muskogee, Okla., Natalie and Frank Genco of Colleyville, Texas and Susan Bozue of Belleville, Ill. In lieu of flowers please send memorial contributions to Mercy Minitries P.O. Box 111060 Nashville, Tenn. 37222-10690 or go to www.mercyminitries.com and click on donate. Mercy Ministries is a free residential treatment program designed to assist and meet the needs of young women who face life controlling problems such as addictions, depression, eating disorders, and unplanned pregnancy. Visitation: Friends may call from 9 to 11 a.m. Saturday, July 2006, at Faith Family Church, Shiloh, Ill. Funeral: Funeral services will be at 11 a.m. Saturday, July, 1, 2006, at Faith Family Church, Shiloh, Ill., with the Rev. Rick Hufton officiating. LAKE VIEW FUNERAL HOME, Fairview Heights, Ill.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Amber McCarter
Melissa Sims
October 11, 2006
When I found out about Amber my heart sank. I was working at my job and a friend of mine asked me if I knew what had happened. Amber and myself had became friends freshman year in highschool were we had 5 classes together. Everyone would joke about how much we looked alike and we would laugh and joke about it. We would even sometime make sure that our outfits would match to look alike even more. I can remember when I stayed the night at her house and we decided to make pasta at 1 am just because that was what we wanted to eat. The last time I saw Amber was at the Mayfest and she gave me a great big hug and we talked for atleast an hour. I will never forget her and the good times that we had together. I will always remember her smile and laugh and how much fun we had together.She touched not only my life but the life of everyone that she has ever met.
rita boring
July 26, 2006
amber, i just wanted to tell you that i miss you and that adorable smile! it hasnt been that long since i last saw you but im only finding out that your gone today. i know that your in a better place though and that makes me happy. i wish i could have spent more time with you the last time you were over. im sorry. baby zak and i will always have you in our thoughts.
Alice Breidegam
July 26, 2006
Vickie, Kyle, and Sons
I am so sorry we just heard of Amber's passing. I remember her standing next to her parents in church services. You gave her a strong foundation and I know it was a foundation will carry her through eternity with Jesus. We are praying for you. Let us know what we can do beyond that.
kayleigh mcgillis
July 12, 2006
To the McCarter family,
I have not seen Amber in over a year, after my son was born. I want you to know how great of a person Amber is. Even though Amber and I were not on best grounds some times she helped through me a baby shower. To me that was the best thing any one could have done for me that I worked with. Amber always wanted to help people and she never let them bring her down. I will always remember her. My prayers are with your family
How you can show support
Follow
Get email updates whenever changes are made.
Send flowers
Consider sending flowers.
Add photos
Share their life with photo memories.
Plant trees
Honor them by planting trees in their memory.
Donate in Memory
Make a donation in memory of your loved one.
Share this page
Invite other friends and family to visit the page.
ROSIE KARPOWICZ(PRADO)
July 5, 2006
My condolences are with you and your family,also my prayers are too,and we will keep continuing to keep yous in it. rosie
Amber and Kristen, Pretty in Pink
Kristen Marsh
July 3, 2006
Amber was my closest friend ever. After meeting her our sophomore in high school, we became best friends. I remember all of those hair, nail, and tanning appointments we went to together. And going into grocery stores and buying one strawberry or just one peanut and then returning it. She thought that was so funny. We went to St. Louis every year for fireworks, for five years. Neither Amber or I ever had a sister, but for five years we had something pretty close. I can’t even count how many times people asked if we were sisters.
About a month ago, Amber was in the car with me and told me that she knew that her parents really loved her and she needed their help along with God's help to rebuild her life. Amber had big dreams. She wanted a princess cut diamond ring someday and expected nothing less than a carrot. I am just comforted that she is with her creator who loves her more than any human ever could.
Guy Jackson Jr
July 3, 2006
Dear Victoria, Kyle, Austin, and Zach,
When i first heard that Amber had passed away, my heart skipped a beat. It didn't register. Not my little cousin. She is in a better place now. She will be truly missed by everyone. The Jackson Family's prayers are with you all.. if there is anyhthing we can do to help, just let us know.
Guy
Amber,
I can remember the times at Aunt Mary's house when we were little, outside playing freeze tag and flashlight tag. You always chasing Me and Jason or Brendan and Mikey. ALWAYS smiling and laughing. Now your in Gods arms, looking down on us. Watch over everyone and keep that smile. We all love you. I will see you at the Gates!
Your Cousin
Guy
Roy and Sue Ramsey
July 3, 2006
Our deepest sympathies to the McCarter family.
July 2, 2006
Dear Kyle & Vicki: I was deeply saddened when I read about the passing of your daughter Amber. My daughter's Tiffany and Kerri always spoke highly of her. May The Lord Bless You in Your time of need. Psalm 105:4 Look to the Lord and his strength; seek his face always. Your friend, [email protected]
Kerri Untch
July 2, 2006
I am so sorry about what happened.
My prayers go out to you all and everyone at international house of prayer in kansas city (where I'm at) is praying for you all.
She will be missed. God Bless.
Tiffany Morris
July 2, 2006
To the McCarter family. May you hear my prayers in this time of grief. I know the Lord is watching over you and will heal your wounds. I pray that he will guide your family & take away the pain. Amber was a dear friend in our youth and i can remember many times that we did things together with the chruch. To Zach & Austin, i know your hurting as well and i pray that the Lord will would give you the strength you need. Amber will always be remembered in my heart.
Lenny Elmore
July 1, 2006
My family and I offer our deepest sympathy to the McCarter family for their loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Debra Donze
July 1, 2006
Amber although I only met you twice. I will never forget your wonderful smile. Send us rainbows from heaven, and watch over your friends.
Lynda Weber
June 30, 2006
Dear Victoria, Kyle, Austin, and Zachary,
I wanted to give all you a word from God. "For a time Amber,my child, was with you. But it was time to call her home. She is my daughter and I needed Amber with Me. I am healing your heart, but it will take time. Just keep your stong faith intact and I will heal you. Right now I am catching every tear and I will take those salty tears and turn them into sweet joy. Hang in there, because I will never forsake you,no matter what.I love Amber and she is now sitting face to face with my Son and she will never taste sorrow again"
I hope these words bring some comfort to the family. I was praying for you and Amber when God revealed his plan to me. I will continue to pray and I know from first hand experience you will heal and become stronger every day. May God bless you and hold you in His mighty arms during your most painful days.
Kathy & Jim Brandt
June 30, 2006
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Angie Nelson
June 30, 2006
I am so saddened & shocked by Amber's death. Your family is in my prayers & I'm so thankful I had the opportunity to know her. God Bless each of you.
Pamela Cross
June 30, 2006
I would just like to express my deepest sympathy to the McCarter family at this very difficult time. I went to junior high with Amber and I have some really great memories of her. My prayers are with you and I know that she is in a much better place now in heaven and is at peace.
steve & debbie pemberton
June 30, 2006
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Daniel Gimm
June 30, 2006
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.
Kendra Campbell
June 30, 2006
Amber,
I'm so sorry that our friendship fell out like it did, but we had a lot of good times that never overcame the bad. You are a great person and everyone knows that. I'm going to miss your smile and laugh that could light up even a room of the darkest, gloomiest people. You were truely one of the best friends I ever had, and I know in those months that we fell out it wasn't you, it was other things in your life. But, we all know that you are ok now, not hurting anymore. We will all miss you and we love you. This is for all the laughs we shared, all the nights watching Napoleon, the car rides, the dinners, the great closing nights at Lowe's, playing bingo with my mom and grandma, the maroon 5 concert, and just everything you did for me when I was going through that rough time in my life. I love you and I'll see ya on the other side.
Angie Ezzell
June 30, 2006
I am so sorry for the family's loss. When ever I saw Amber or she would see me she would always make a point to come up to me and talk to me. She was so full of energy and always had a big smile on her face.
My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Babette Rensing
June 30, 2006
I want to express my heartfelt sympathy to your entire family. My prayers go out to you all - I know Amber is up in heaven and "Uncle" Fred was there to welcome her. I will always remember her luminous smile. Love you all.
Showing 1 - 22 of 22 results
Make a Donation
in Amber McCarter's name
Memorial Events
for Amber McCarter
People and places connected with Amber
Recent Obituaries
Recent Obituaries
How to support Amber's loved ones
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief
Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.
Read more
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read moreWays to honor Amber McCarter's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
