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Andrew Pelak Jr.

1946 - 2021

Andrew Pelak Jr. obituary, 1946-2021, O'Fallon, IL

BORN

1946

DIED

2021

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Andrew Pelak Obituary

Andrew Pelak, Jr.
August 7, 1946 - May 6, 2021
O'Fallon, Illinois - Andrew J. Pelak, Jr., age 74, Major General, USAF (Ret.), of O'Fallon, IL, born August 7, 1946 in Newark, NJ, died suddenly on May 6, 2021.
Andy grew up near Newark, NJ, and attended East Orange High School where he was an accomplished athlete and scholar. He went on to play baseball and earn his B.A. in History from Lafayette College in Pennsylvania. His Air Force career began in 1969 and spanned 31 years. During an early assignment at Scott AFB, he met and married his loving wife, Arlene. While serving in the military, he continued his education earning two master's degrees in addition to a post at the National War College. As part of his distinguished career as an officer, he served as Deputy Chief of Staff for Personnel, HQ MAC, and Director of Military Personnel Policy at Air Force Headquarters, Pentagon. He was a proud American and a true patriot.
He retired in 2000 after commanding 81st TRWG and Second Air Force at Keesler Air Force Base, Biloxi, MS. His distinguished awards include the Legion of Merit with Oak Leaf Cluster and the Bronze Star. Since his military retirement, he found a niche as a ReMax real estate broker helping members of the community.
Outside of work, his family fondly remembers Andy restoring his beloved 1969 Mustang, tinkering at the family farm, rooting on the Cards and Yankees, spending time near the water, and spoiling his grandchildren.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Andrew J. and Mary, nee Schwetz, Pelak Sr. and in-laws, William and Leona Malacarne.
He is survived by his wife Arlene, nee Malacarne, Pelak, of O'Fallon; daughters Shawn (David Parent) Pelak of Ann Arbor, MI, Kelly Pelak of Lisle, IL, and Colleen (Erik) Smith of Bentonville, AR; four grandchildren, Kaylin and Tyler Ditmars, William Parent, and Charlie Smith; sister Barbara Ann Pelak of Bloomfield, NJ; sisters-in-law, Doris Malacarne of Quincy, IL, and Connie (John) Wagner of San Diego, CA.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations are welcome to the USO of Missouri, East Side Heart & Home Family Center, Catholic Urban Programs, or Poor Clare Monastery. Condolences may be posted at www.wfh-ofallon.com
The family will receive friends from 5 p.m. – 8 p.m. on Monday, May 10, 2021, at church, and 9 a.m. – 10 a.m. on Tuesday, May 11, at St. Nicholas Catholic Church, 625 St. Nicholas Dr., O'Fallon. Mass of Christian Burial will follow at 10 a.m. with Msgr. William J. Hitpas officiating. Military honors immediately after mass. Masks and social distancing protocols will be followed.

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NANCY LEISSING

September 3, 2021

I first met Andy at Eastern Grammar School in 5th Grade. We graduated from Eastern and went on to EOHS. Andy was always a true gentleman and had a calming presence during our school days. I remember him very fondly and am very sad to hear of his passing.
Nancy

Joe Buchwald

August 6, 2021

Arlene and Family
I just recently learned of the sad news about Andy. I'm very sorry for your loss; he was a wonderful person, always upbeat, sincere and genuine whenever we crossed paths in our AF careers: met Andy at OTS in Feb 69, both our first assignments were at Scott (played with him on the same baseball team then), assignments to Thailand and the Pentagon, and ran into him in O'Fallon a few years ago, we had the same barber. A golf partner, Glen Mackey, said he knew you and Andy well. Deepest Condolences. Joe

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Diamond and Korraun Wilkins

May 11, 2021

Ms. Arlene and Family,
Korraun and I pray that you all feel surrounded by love during this time of sorrow. Andy truly became a part of our family. Korraun and I leaned on him heavily for his wisdom. We are devastated by his untimely passing. Andy meant so much to us. We will miss him deeply.

Roxanne Amos

May 10, 2021

Arlene and family,

So sorry for your lose. Although it has been many years since I have seen any of the Pelak-Malacarne family, I remember you all with fondness, especially when it came to my David’s interactions with you. My thoughts and prayers to you all as you grieve your lose.

Roxanne Ludwig Amos

Rick and Tina Orr

May 9, 2021

We are so sorry for your loss. Andy was a great human being and will be sadly missed.

PHIL ODOM

May 9, 2021

A SLOW SALUTE – TO A FELLOW VETERAN
THANK YOU - FOR YOUR SERVICE TO OUR COUNTRY. You are one of our heroes. We will remember you always and miss you dearly. Take your Warrior's rest for a duty well done.
I wish to extend to members of your family my deepest sympathy on their loss. May the force of GOD be with them as they walk through this difficult time. May the loving promises of our LORD and Savior comfort them and give them peace.
As a grateful Veteran, I leave my sympathy and hope you accept this as a small token of appreciation for the honorable and faithful service rendered by your loved one to our Country.
SEMPER FI U. S. MARINE AND VIETNAM VET FOX CO 2Bn / 1st. MARINES [email protected]

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