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Jared Blackmon Obituary


Jared Blackmon, of East St. Louis, died Feb. 23, 2014.
Published by Belleville News-Democrat on Feb. 26, 2014.

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February 15, 2023

Pure souloLove you unc!
Brother from the same Tree different branch.

KB

November 14, 2022

I am My Brothers Keeper.

January 11, 2021

WITH ME ALWAYS!! Love Soldier•

July 30, 2020

LOVE FOREVER• I pray for you all the time. Come visit me please!

May 29, 2020

I think Of you EVERY DAY and it eats me up. I love You Unc• make a trip to me please!

April 17, 2020

I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH UNC•

April 17, 2020

I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU•

March 2, 2020

Happy Birthday!! Infinite Love

February 23, 2020

Today will never get any easier,I see, just like any other day it's still the same! We miss you so very much we speak your name daily and keep you alive in every way possible but of course that's still not enough. Until we meet again you get your rest! I love you forever and miss you always!!! R.I.P

December 24, 2019

Tomorrow will be the sixth Christmas you've been physically away from us and it still hurts just as much! Our son is growing up to be a young man and he misses you so so much. I talk to him about u almost everyday if not everyday and it amazes me the things he remember and the way he speaks of you. I just wish we could see you, talk to you, or simply just hear your voice because that would make our days much more brighter. I know its impossible so until we meet again we will continue to keep your memories alive. Merry Christmas Ja'red we love you!!

Shyunna Cherry

December 13, 2019

I miss you and still think about you often. Ima bring you flowers and come talk to you soon it's loooooong overdue. What you and jamarrion doing up there? Come visit my dreams again I need to see you babe❤

June 16, 2019

Happy Father's Day WE LOVE YOU!!!!

February 22, 2019

Hey Baby I'm still thinking about you as always... Tomorrow will be 5 years without you physically but I know u with us in spirit and we will always Love you... you will forever be in our lives and a part of us... R.I.P JA'red.... we miss you and love you beyond words

February 19, 2019

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

November 22, 2018

Happy Thanksgiving Ja'red we wish you were here to celebrate with us... We love and miss u see much... Love always rest easy

September 3, 2018

Happy Labor Day Jared!!!!

Debra Blackmon

July 14, 2018

Jared and Zakiyah I miss y'all so much, I know y'all are hanging tough. Dam I wish y'all were here. Forever Love, Mama

July 14, 2018

Missing you so much, I know you and Zakiyah are hanging with tough, dam I miss Y'all Love forever Mama

June 17, 2018

Happy Father's Day Baby we love you and miss you so so so much, Rest up Baby

April 5, 2018

Good morning Ja'red I'm just thinking about you as usual. I was riding with Jay and I promise he remind me so much of you sitting on my side with that look on his face. It's such a warm feeling I get when I look at him because he is every piece of u and it makes me so happy because I have a major piece of you. From the way he holds his mouth, to the way he positions his eyes, and even the way he moves and talks all I see is u and it's such a bittersweet feeling because I don't know rather to laugh or cry. We miss u like crazy and talk about you daily we will always remember u and celebrate your life with every breath in us Baby. Until we meet again rest easy J Black

March 8, 2018

I haven't seen your face in years but I'll never forget your face. All your nephews doing good and going places I know you would've been proud see all their accomplishments and the futures they have. You was in my dream last night. I miss you more than anything and I love you.

March 2, 2018

Happy 30th birthday Ja'red. We love and miss you so much.

February 23, 2018

Although its been 4 years today it still doesn't sit well with me that you're gone. I think about you and reminisce about you everyday. Ja'red I will forever love you and you will forever live through us, this I know, but it's still so hard. I wish things were different but I know I can't change what happened so I will continue to pray for us and u continue to watch over and protect us. I love you I always have and always will.

January 24, 2018

Baby can you believe Boosie was posted on 25th doing a video with some lil dudes from our city. I said man I wish Jared was here I know u would have loved to see that in the flesh... I can't wait until we can reunite I miss you so much and will forever love u and rep u.. Rest up baby

November 23, 2017

Happy Thanksgiving baby we love and miss you more than words can ever say. I can't wait to see you again. Until then I will always keep your memories alive baby R.I.P

May 29, 2017

Happy Memorial Day baby although u never served in the military today is still your day because baby u were definitely a soldier. I love u Jared make sure you hold my spot. I'll see u love rest in peace

Jared Blackmon Jr

May 23, 2017

Dad I pass to the fifth grade and it was a good graduation and I will keep trying to pass and I will always love you!!!

April 16, 2017

Happy Easter Baby we love you and missing you daily!!

February 24, 2017

Today was 3 years that you've been gone but it still feels like yesterday.. We miss you and love you so much that it makes everyday so much harder. I miss you waking us up in the morning, I miss our conversations, baby I miss it all... I can't wait to see you again but until then I take pride in knowing we have an Angel whonis watching over us everyday... Until we meet again R. I. P. WE LOVE YOU

February 22, 2017

I try not to think about the fact that you're gone, but how can I forget someone who was so special to me presence? I question why, but I may never know. All I do is think "what would life be like with my uncle"... It upsets me to know that I can't get a verbal response or know if you're listening when I pray, but just know I love you man!

JG

January 30, 2017

I miss you big bro I reminisce everyday about the times had. Watch over us I love you Forever & Always !

December 31, 2016

It's almost a New Year at 12 it will be 2017 and I still can't help but be selfish. I still haven't found peace because I still question the fact that you're gone. Even though I trust in God and I know he makes no mistakes there is still a part of me that sometimes question Why. I love you so much always have and always will. I just wish you were here to create memories with Jay and give him the experience of growing and learning with and from his Dad!!! We miss you!!!! until we meet again. Rest in peace

December 25, 2016

Merry Christmas baby!! If you was here this day would be so special for us. We need you and want to see you, touch you, hug you Jared baby we think about you everyday all day. You'd be so proud of our son because he's amazing man I'm talking about so smart and so humble but at the same time he know what to do!!! I see so much of you in him. Continue to watch over us especially him. We love you baby sleep peacefully.

December 22, 2016

We love and miss you Jared

November 24, 2016

Thanksgiving isn't the same anymore baby but I make the best of it. We miss you so so much we talk about u all the time. Ja'red I love you and I look forward to the day we can be together again.

Khadijah Blackmon

November 18, 2016

It's Been A Long Day, Without You My Friend, And I'LL Tell You All About It When I See You Again.

Jaylen Brown

October 11, 2016

Hey Jared what's up? It's me Jaylen. Listen man I miss you more and more every day. I know you're in a better place because you aren't a bad person. I remember the good times we had together and will always remember them. I love you Uncle Jared.

August 30, 2016

Hey Ja'red I been a little down lately but I keep praying for some type of peace and hopefully soon I get it. I just don't understand why things happen the way they do and it makes me so angry at times. I try to keep the faith and tell myself things will get better with time but that isn't true at least not for me. I don't think this pain will ever leave nor will the anger and confusion that I feel. I love you so much I always loved you so much you were and always will be my best friend. You were always there for me and I just really wish I could have been there for you. I know you resting in peace baby but I ask that you continue to watch over us all. I love you Ja'red

Jada Blackmon

June 28, 2016

Some days are easier than others and I still find it hard to believe. I find myself questioning God but I understand that he makes no mistakes. I wish I could take the pain away from granny and granddaddy. Keep watching down on all of us. we miss & love you dearly Jared!!!

June 19, 2016

Happy Father's Day. We love and miss you so much. R.i.p. Ja'red

Jess

June 7, 2016

Missing you friend!

May 30, 2016

Happy Memorial Day baby. As soon as our son get home we will be to your resting place to see you and lay flowers. We miss you more than any words can ever express. I can not wait until the day we can all be together again. I will always Love you, Rest easy baby...

May 21, 2016

Just sitting here thinking about you as always. I miss you so much but I'm coming to accept that God needed you more than us. It's still just really hard for me though. R.I.P. Ja'red

April 18, 2016

To hear our son just say when he get older he's going to be a scientist so that he can create a time machine so that he can go back to 2014 in January so he can make sure he stop what happened in February devastates me! That just made me cry and he can't understand why. We miss you Ja'red more than words can ever express. Everytime I think he has made peace with it he says something that lets me know it weighs heavy on him still. We cant wait until the day we can see you and be with you. Until then Rest in Peace

March 17, 2016

I can't sleep. I've been up just thinking and of course I can't stop thinking about you and how things would be if you were here with us. I know it would be so much different. You made everything better and I could always talk to you. I can't wait until the day we meet again. R.I.P. JA'RED

March 10, 2016

I miss you and your big sister Zah, RIP, Love ya'll

March 2, 2016

Happy Birthday... I miss you so very much... We all do.. I'm turning up for you today and I know you are too... I love you...R.I.P.

February 29, 2016

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, JA'RED, Love and miss you, Tell Zah hello and I know you both are OK. I love and miss y'all, your mom.

February 21, 2016

Hey baby what's up... I been thinking about you as usual but I know you know that. I miss you so much and it really hasn't got any better for me. I especially hate this time of the year because it's slowly approaching that very bad day and I hate it. I look forward to the day we can meet again. I picture us just hugging and laughing, crying and talking, just good vibes. There are so many things I would love to physically share with you although I know you're here with us every step of the way I still just want all of you here. Well Baby Rest in Peace and watch over us... I love you

January 16, 2016

Come see me baby.. I need you

January 3, 2016

Happy New Year baby... I wrote on your legacy on New Years but for some reason it didn't go through... U know I'm forever thinking of you... I love u and we miss u so so much... R.I P. UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN

December 25, 2015

Merry Christmas baby... When I tell u I miss you everyday and days like this really don't help the situation. I can't tell you how upset I still get knowing u are not physically here evethough I know u watching over us everyday.Your son really miss u so so much. I really want u here with us but I just hold on to the fact that we will see u again... R.I.P. until we meet again #MerryChristmas

Keatron Davis

December 1, 2015

u just ran across my mind boi just thinking bout them days we used to ride smh I still can't believe u gone .. Your son jj is here to make your name live on rest up Jared !!!

November 26, 2015

Happy Thanksgiving baby I love you and miss you so much.. I can't wait to see u again love... R.I.P. baby

October 25, 2015

Just wanted to say what's up baby. I think about u everyday and it still hurt to know I can't hear your voice or see your face. I'm patiently waiting though because I know we will definitely meet again one day. Until then rest in peace love. I miss you

September 15, 2015

I know you watch over us every single day but today watch over and protect your Son like u never have before. We love you and will forever miss you

September 4, 2015

I been thinking about u all-day and there are so many things that make me smile but then I always cry because I really can't pick up the phone and call u. Who would have ever known that we would be apart like this? I have a very hard time going through life without u being here. Although I try not to bring u up so much I always have u on my mind and Ja'red the pain that comes along with my thoughts and feelings really gets unbearable. I love u more than words can say and I miss u more and more everyday. See u when I get there baby but until then watch over us.

August 1, 2015

U been on my mind real heavy lately. I can't help but question why u have to go so soon. I'm wishing u were here with us. I love you Baby. See u when I get there.

July 25, 2015

I miss u so much. I just really wish I could see u and talk to u. I love u always and forever...S.I.P. BABY

Khadijah Blackmon

July 1, 2015

Shine bright like a diamond!!!

June 21, 2015

Happy Father's Day Jared your son and I love u unconditionally and we will soon be to see u baby. Rest in Peace Love

June 1, 2015

I didn't get a chance to wish you a happy Memorial Day but I'm sure you know just how crazy my life has been. Even though I have so much going on I still love and miss u so very much and I could never ever forget you. Please continue watching over our son and shining down on us every single day. I love u and continue sleeping in peace... see u soon

April 5, 2015

Happy Easter baby... may u shine down on us today like always.. I love you

March 31, 2015

They say the good die young and that's the truth... baby you floating in heaven is the proof!!! I love you always and forever

March 22, 2015

I really need u today Jared... We miss u baby..

March 13, 2015

The dream I had last night about you seemed so real to me. It was like you were here with me. I love you so much. Missing you like crazy. I'll see u soon.

March 8, 2015

They will be releasing balloons for you shortly and unfortunately I can't make it. I will be to see u soon though and I will be sure to send u some balloons up and lay u flowers down. I love you see you soon.

March 2, 2015

Happy birthday baby we love you and miss you. I wish heaven had a phone so we could call you and tell you just how much we love you even if we're still distant. Sometimes just hearing your voice would be enough to get passed the anger and resentment of not having you with us. We will forever love you Baby and until we meet again continue to S.I.P. And Again Happy Birthday wishing I could turn up with you

k Blackmon

March 2, 2015

Happy birthday little bro!!!! Wish you were here to celebrate. It's okay though, you can celebrate behind the gates with Zakiyah.. ...

February 23, 2015

It does not seem like it has been a year and somedays I still can not believe it even happened at all. I thought you would be here forever in a physical state that is but now I only have you as an angel which is so unreal. I never imagined in a million years I would feel a pain like this. I love you and miss you so very much. We will meet again and for that I can sometimes rest with peace. Sleep in peace baby and forever watch over us. Protect his mind and shield his heart from any pain and negativity. We love you and when God is ready we will see you again. S.I.P. BABY #GODGOTHIMAVERYGOODANGELONHISTEAM

Khadijah Blackmon

February 22, 2015

RIP babes..missing you soooo much. Not ever had I imagined living without your smile. Wish you were here. MY GOD

February 14, 2015

Happy Valentine's Day baby... I wish u could be here so we could laugh and talk.. I have so much I want to tell you today... Missing u like crazy baby S.I.P.

February 7, 2015

I miss you more and more each day. I just can't stop thinking about you. I love you Ja'red and I just wish you were here with us.

January 21, 2015

I miss you

January 9, 2015

Laying here watching Charmed and missing you so much. We loved this show and had to watch it everyday. I miss you Jared and love you so much.

Khadijah

January 1, 2015

Missing you

January 1, 2015

Happy New Year Love... I'm wishing you were here to share this day with us.

December 25, 2014

Merry Christmas I know u smiling down on us right now. Your son is excited this morning. I'm so glad to see him smile. I love u and I wish u were here.

December 24, 2014

Your son miss you so much. He keep breaking down and its just hard. I hate to see him going through this but I tell him everyday how much you love him and how you're his ANGEL. Ja'red continue to watch over him and shield him. I will always love you and I miss you being here with us more than anything. This your time of the year right here I just wish we could be together to celebrate. We love you baby. Sleep in peace always.

khadijah blackmon

December 21, 2014

Shine

khadijah blackmon

December 21, 2014

Missing. Ya....

Khadijah Blackmon

November 27, 2014

Happy thanksgiving!!! Missing you like crazy....when u left part of me went with you, and part of you stayed with me...love and miss you and Zakiyah

November 26, 2014

I wish u were here so we can talk about all this b/s going on baby I know u got on opinion on this stuff. I miss u more than words can explain and I love u. Sleep peacefully baby.

November 18, 2014

Just laying here thinking how u never know what life holds. I thought we had forever only to be hit with a reality that I wasn't and could never be prepared for. I see things very different now. Please continue to watch over our son. I love u Ja'red.

November 6, 2014

Good morning Baby! I Love U and miss u more and more each day. I Can't Wait for the day to see you again.

October 30, 2014

I talk to you daily but please this time I need a response baby. What should I do? I'm losing it! I can't take it!

October 29, 2014

I'm so hurt because you're gone I just feel like giving up sometime because the pain gets unbearable. I miss u Ja'red nd I just wish I could get our time back because things would be so different. I hate that I didn't have more time with u. I never ever expected things to be like this I thought we would always be a phone call away from each other. R.I.P. nd continue to watch over us baby. I love you!!!!!!

Khadijah Blackmon

October 22, 2014

Tell Zakiyah happy birthday!! I know you two are celebrating together....peace be with you both

October 20, 2014

My mornings are the worst I swear! I miss u so much Ja'red and I will forever love you. Please save me a spot because I need to be next to you.

October 15, 2014

I can't seem to move passed or accept the fact that you're gone. I understand how life works but it still just doesn't sit well with me. I miss u so much I just don't know what to do. I love u Ja'red S.I.P. BABY

khadijah blackmon

October 14, 2014

RIP little brother..peace is with you, you are with peace.

October 12, 2014

We miss u so much

Khadijah Blackmon

September 26, 2014

Shine bright like a diamond... Rip

Khadijah Blackmon

September 26, 2014

Rip....missing you with every piece of me...sip little brother..

September 17, 2014

I love you

September 17, 2014

I love u and miss you. I think about u everyday all day. Its just so painful for me and I am having a hard time accepting it. I need u Ja'red I swear I do.

September 10, 2014

I really miss our conversations, especially the morning ones. We talked about everything. U truly were and always will be my best friend. I love you Ja'red and I can't wait to see you.

Khadijah Blackmon

September 6, 2014

Thanks for going into the hands of the comforter, for that reason I am no longer afraid, from your experience I am braved....love you...it gets stone and rock for me...but thank god, for understanding....rest babes...tell zakiyah I love her too...my siblings, in gods hands, and peace you are..

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