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Michael Cooney Obituary

Good food, art and friends were victim's passions

News-Democrat

Michael J. Cooney loved the good things in life, but he especially loved his friends, his cat and antique Asian ceramics.

"He loved people who were beautiful on the inside," said his best friend and former Belleville resident Marcia Scrivner, who now lives in St. Pete Beach, Fla. "He loved the beach where we lived for the beauty and sounds of the water. And he dearly loved his cat. He's a twin to my daughter's cat. We brought them from Albuquerque, N.M., about five years ago."

She said Cooney was a complicated, private person who loved good food, wine, art, friends and everything beautiful. Scrivner, who is married to former St. Clair County Circuit Judge Roger Scrivner, knew Cooney for 40 years and will care for his estate and his gray cat, Oscar, who was named for Oscar Wilde and was a twin to her daughter's cat.

Robert O'Rear, who used to operate the Belleville Antique Mall, said he has known Cooney through their common business for years.

"I'm just trying to catch my breath," O'Rear said upon learning the news of the hairdresser's murder. "I'd bought art from him at times. He was a dealer in the Antique Mall for four or five years."

O'Rear said Cooney had a reputation as a lover of fine dining and as a generous tipper.

"He was very particular with the way he liked his food prepared," O'Rear said, "But when the restaurant staff took good care of him, he took good care of them."

Cooney and Scrivner spent holidays and special occasions together, but she said any time with Cooney was fun.

"My favorite time with Michael was when he laughed out loud. He'd giggle and laugh and it was just a heartfelt, loving, let-everything-go kind of happiness.... You'd have a difference of opinion and work through it, and at the end he'd just laugh," Scrivner said.

She said when Cooney got a hair client, they were with him for good. He often followed them to their nursing homes and then to the funeral home, doing their final styling for free.

Brian Geer, a volunteer at a downtown Belleville resale shop, said he knew Cooney from the booth he often operated at the antique shows held at the Belle-Clair Fairgrounds.

And the Cooney he knew sported flowery shirts pulled out at the waist, and always had cash on hand.

"He was a low-key guy who loved antiques. I think he liked oriental stuff quite well. Ceramics, wood work. He had to be dealing with cash because he would buy some buyers out and then he would set up down at the fairgrounds and sell items there," Geer said.

Alice Odenwald, of Fort Myers, Fla., was also Cooney's friend and lent him the money for his house when the banks wouldn't. She said he was a master of conversation when his clients were in his salon chair.

"We'd talk about art, music, everything. He had a real love for antiques and jewelry," Odenwald said.

She said Cooney was close to his mother, who died a few years ago, and is survived by two brothers, one in Virginia and another in Tennessee.

Alice Odenwald's son, Roland Odenwald, of Belleville, has also known Cooney for years.

"He was so warm and nice. He'd do things for his clients – follow them to the nursing homes. He had a way about him and knew the older styles. He would take care of them," Odenwald said.

There was no sign outside Cooney's beauty salon. He didn't need a sign to attract business, Odenwald said, because his clientele was so loyal.
Published by Belleville News-Democrat on Mar. 3, 2005.

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David Rogers

March 12, 2005

...individually, and on behalf of Katherine H. Rogers, deceased.

Karen Blue

March 9, 2005

Michael was such a special person to our family when we lived in Belleville and for my mother and father, Hazel and Russ Pierce. What a terrible loss for Belleville. Our heart and prayers go out to the community for a quick capture of the person or persons responsible for such senseless deaths.

Bill and Karen Blue, Russ and Hazel Pierce

Larry & Myrna Irwin

March 5, 2005

I met Michael just once but knew him to be a very dear friend of long standing to Marcia and Roger Scrivner. At this time I share in the tragic loss of this gentle man and know that the memories of the friendship they shared will be forever in their hearts. May you never again know such sadness.

Your friend and neighbor,

Myrna Irwin

Melba Rich

March 5, 2005

Dearest Michael, Please know how saddened my family and I are over your tragic death. It is hard to think about anything else. your death has caused a great deal of grief to so many of us who knew you for many years. You knew so much about many things and shared it with your friends. You were not only a dreat hair stylist, you were also a great caring person. You will be sadly missed by a lot of people, as well as myself.

Trudi Fanale-Bjorge

March 5, 2005

My family loved Michael. We knew him in Springfield, and all the women of the family were his clients. He was a charming, caring, funny, thoughtful and sensitive man. My deepest sympathies on this tragic loss.

Norma Faulk

March 4, 2005

I'm sorry we did not have the opportunity to know Michael better. I am deeply saddened for his loss to his friends, his community and family.

N. M. Faulk, mother of Tommy Cooney & Beth Cooney Maynard.

Barbara Marifian

March 4, 2005

Our deepest sympathy to Michael's family and friends. His professionalism and care weren't his only trademark. He was a true

friend and an asset to the community. Michael will truly be

missed. May he rest in peace.

Barbara Marifian and family

Patricia Adams

March 3, 2005

My friend Mary Joyce Cooney Henn called me from Springfield, Illinois, to relate the news of her dear cousin Mike. I remember Mike from Springfield days when he worked at "7 to Heaven". From all reports, he touched the lives of many people in a very positive and loving way. He leaves behind a wonderful legacy.

Linda Sidor, Mindee Gonzalez and Cindie Offenhauer

March 3, 2005

The children and family of Merna L. Betten, extend our sympathy in the tragic loss of Michael. Our Mother enjoyed his company over the years during their special dinner engagements and his professional skill as her hairdresser for over twenty-five years years. He will certainly be missed.

John Paul Sinisterra

March 3, 2005

Today something precious was taken away from this earth. I lost someone I loved and brought always a smile to my days. He was generous with his time and gave me so much love. He lived fully and joyfully and I will remember all the happiness that always seem to surround him. I will find solace and comfort in my memories of such an exceptional friend. Until I see you again, dear Michael...

Bruce Calvin

March 3, 2005

I am greatly saddened by the death of Michael. He was a great and dear person whom enjoyed the finer things in life. I always enjoyed his booth at the Belle Claire. Our house has many momentos of Michael, beautiful things and I will remember him always everytime I look at those items. What a loss. The world would be a better place with more people like Michael a wonderful human being. JP and I will miss you Michael. Love you - Bruce

P. Michael Read

March 3, 2005

Michael was a friend to everyone he met. He was very nice to Tammy and me when we had dinner together on many occasions. We knew that Michael was family to Marcia and Roger.

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