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Velma F. Spivey

1928 - 2012

Velma F. Spivey obituary, 1928-2012, Madison, IL

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1928

DIED

2012

Velma Spivey Obituary

Velma Spivey

Velma Faye Spivey, 83, of Madison, Ill., born Oct. 26, 1928, in Bunker, Mo., passed away at 2:34 a.m. Tuesday, Oct. 16, 2012, at Gateway Regional Medical Center, Granite City, Ill.

Mrs. Spivey had worked as a home healthcare giver with Community Care Center in Alton. She enjoyed her days of crocheting, crafts and always caring for others. She will be remembered for the love and special times shared with her family and friends.

She was preceded in death by her husband, Charles Spivey whom she married in 1962 in Granite City, Ill., and who died March 2, 1992; her parents, Guy and Sylvia Jewell, nee Swigert, Burns; and a brother, Neal Burns.

Surviving are her four children and their spouses, Larry and Deborah Wilkiewicz of Granite City, Richard and Merida Wilkiewicz of Fort Hood, Texas, Mary and David Carroll of Sorento and Terry Spivey of Madison; three grandchildren, Jennifer Wilkiewicz of East Alton, Janel Wilkiewicz of Fort Hood, Texas and Reuben Vasquez of Troy; six great-grandchildren; and other extended family and friends.

Memorials may be made to the Granite City APA and may be accepted at the funeral home. www.irwinchapel.com

In honor of Velma's wishes, there will be no visitation or services.

IRWIN CHAPEL,

Granite City, Ill.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Belleville News-Democrat on Oct. 18, 2012.

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Mary Carroll/ Sissy

October 13, 2025

I miss you more every day!! Time does not make it easier!!! I will never be the same! Love you Mom! Until we meet again

Mary Carroll/ Sissy

October 17, 2024

Another year has come and gone, still so hard!!! I miss you so much!!! I know your in a better place but I can't wrap my head around it! Some days are harder than others. You've missed so much! We miss you so much! Love you

Mary Carroll

October 16, 2023

I cant believe its been 11 years!!! How can that be? I know your at peace but we miss you so much! You've missed so much! I know Terry is with you and it brings me some comfort but I'm still wish you were still here with me! I love you mom! We all love and miss you! Sissy, David, Ruben and Xavier James

David Carroll

October 12, 2023

All these years gone by and you are still missed more every day! We all Love you and miss you with all our hearts. Thank you for being such a wonderful Mom, Grandma, and Great Grandma. Love you always. David, Mary, Ruben, and Xavier James.

Jennifer Wilkiewicz

October 21, 2012

We love you and miss you very much, we know you are watching over us everyday. Our Guadian Angel. Love Jenny, Keith, Lexy, Makayla, Branden, Braeden & Ashton

Kim Pierson

October 18, 2012

Grandma and Grandpa have their children with them in heaven now. There was never a Neal without Velma or a Velma without Neal,,,,, I guess thats why God took you both home in the same year. What a reunion that must be. I love you Aunt Velma.

David Carroll

October 18, 2012

All our Love! David,Sissy,Ruben,Xavier

David Carroll

October 18, 2012

You will always be loved and cherished for your unselfish love and compassion, to not only us as family but, to all you cared for!We will miss you and love you always!David,Mary[Sissy].Ruben and Xavier

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