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John Byrnes Obituary

John William Byrnes, age 64, of Bellingham, WA peacefully passed away with his wife Michelle by his side at Whatcom Hospice House on December 31, 2010 after a courageous battle against cancer. John was born on September 22, 1946 in Buffalo, New York to Bill and Mary Byrnes. After graduating from Canisus High School in 1964, John left Buffalo to travel around the country. He worked in the discotheques in Manhattan, the Brown Derby Restaurant in Hollywood and crewed on a yacht in the Caribbean. In the summer of 1970, on his way to Alaska, he met his wife Michelle at Birch Bay and they were married in Bellingham on January 29, 1971. They had a daughter Tanisha that same year. John started his insurance business in 1973. Their son Tyler was born in 1974. Some of John's fondest memories of family life were the trips taken in the Volkswagen camper that never failed to break down. The cancer that John fought in 2005 returned in 2010, but not before he and Michelle fulfilled their dream of traveling to New England in their 42 foot motor home to see the autumn leaves. Their plans to travel as full-time RVers were cut short, but they made the most of the last year of John's life by returning to Bellingham to be surrounded by the love and support of family and friends. John's Catholic faith was of primary importance to him. He challenged friends and family to deepen their faith, inspired several people to return to the Church, and invited others to join the Church. John was a member of Sacred Heart Parish in Bellingham. John truly believed in the sanctity of life and was an active and outspoken champion for the unborn. John was a man of conviction. He was enthusiastic about life and his family. He was a natural storyteller who loved to talk. In his last days he told his doctor that he would continue to talk "as long as there is breath in my body," which is exactly what he did. John was preceded in death by his parents. John is survived by his wife Michelle of Bellingham, daughter Tanisha Malcolm (Justin) of Ladner, B.C., son Tyler Byrnes (Jenna) of Bellingham, grandchildren Hannah and Kai Byrnes and Jacob and Gemma Malcolm, siblings Leora Yanda, Timothy Byrnes and Lynette McCadden. Vigil Services will be held at Sacred Heart Catholic Church on Thurs., Jan. 6th at 7 PM. Mass of Christian Burial will be held at Sacred Heart Catholic Church on Fri., Jan. 7th at 12 noon, followed by a reception in the Parish Hall. Committal will follow at Bayview City Cemetery. Fr. Qui-Thac Nguyen and Fr. Patrick Freitag will be con-celebrating. Memorials may be made to Whatcom Hospice House, 800 E. Chestnut Suite 1-A, Bellingham, WA 98225 or Priests for Life, PO Box 141172, Staten Island, NY 10314. The family wishes to thank all of John's caregivers, especially the amazing staff at Whatcom Hospice House who cared for John during last 2 months of his life. You may view photos of John and share memories with the family at www.westfordfuneralhome.com Westford Family Funeral Home & Cremation Broadway at Eldridge

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Published by Bellingham Herald from Jan. 4 to Jan. 5, 2011.

Memories and Condolences
for John Byrnes

January 29, 2011

Hi Michelle, I did not have your correct address....and our Mass card came back to us. Please know that Masses are being said for John.
Our love, Mike and Susie

Maria Jones

January 8, 2011

I met John through my place of work and over time got to know him. What a wonderful man, always the same. A very special person. I am so sorry for your loss

Mike & Susie Goad

January 7, 2011

John was also a very special parishioner at St. Mary in Anacortes. We all enjoyed John and Michelle so much. They were such a loving couple. Our hearts feel so sad for Michelle.
Human Life of Anacortes is making a donation to Priests for Life in John's memory.
Our love to you Michelle, Mike & Susie Goad

Ginnie Parine

January 7, 2011

Sorry to hear of John's passing. I will always remember his good story telling at our Marriage Encounter meetings. Hope you are well.

Don & Pat Jeter

January 6, 2011

Michelle, So sorry for your loss. John was a beautiful man. I really enjoyed working with him in the insurance business when I was doing exams for his insurees. Don and I have been following his progress and it made us very sad to see his candle slowly fading away. We all love you Michelle and we are here for you. Don and I have had a loss this week as well. His Mother passed away Jan 2nd. So we really feel your pain and loss as we go through preparations for the funeral etc. I would have been there at the Mass if it not been for these circumstances. With Much Love and condolences.

Shaun Sullivan

January 6, 2011

Michelle, Tyler, and Tanisha...the love and kindness you surrounded John with during his lifetime of health and illness was a powerful and beautiful gift....no doubt responsible for his astonishing will to live and enduring optimism in the face of what had to have been, at times, great suffering. You are beautiful souls. So was John...God bless you in the relief of his transition. Love,

Shaun Sullivan

January 6, 2011

Michelle, Tyler, and Tanisha.....the love, kindness and patience you surrounded John with during his years of health and illness were beautiful, powerful gifts.....no doubt responsible for his astonishing will to live and optimistic endurance in the face of what must have been at times great suffering. God bless John and all of your beautiful souls in the relief of his transition. Love,

Gary Richberg

January 5, 2011

I had the pleasure of knowing John for fours years. He was always kind, fun, and a great story teller. He will be missed!

Bob and Sue Koprucki

January 4, 2011

We are so sad to hear about John's passing... our prayers are with your family....

Kris Berger Wilcox

January 4, 2011

A lovely tribute to a special person and a memorable, cherished life. Michelle, over the years, I've seen you and John at Sacred Heart and around town (and when I worked at Yorky's in F'haven), and you both just radiated love--for each other and for life. It's hard to imagine one of you without the other. I'm so sorry for your loss. It's clear that you were loving him and caring for him with every fiber of your being until he went Home.

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