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Kathleen Stevens Obituary

Kathleen M. Stevens

1941-2010 BENNINGTON Kathleen Marie Stevens, 68, a resident of Beech Street, passed away Wednesday, April 28, 2010, at Albany, N.Y. Medical Center, surrounded by her family.

Born in Bennington, Vt., on Dec. 19, 1941, the daughter of the late Charles Casper and Lillian McIntire Gates, she attended Bennington schools. She graduated from Bennington High School, class of 1959, and from Southern Vermont College, where she graduated Summa Cum Laude, class of 1996.

In her earlier years, Kathleen worked for Union Carbide, Fienberg's Department Store in Bennington, and the Department of Social Services.

Kathleen loved to play bingo and enjoyed on-line poker and horse racing. She enjoyed cooking, and her main interest was spending time with her family. She was a caregiver first and foremost. Kathleen also enjoyed spending time at the Pownal Senior Center.

Kathleen leaves her children, Timothy Bortell and his wife, Bernice, of Bennington, Michael Bortell and his wife, Kristina, of Bennington, Kenneth Bortell of Middlebury, Vt., Terrance Bortell and his fiancé, Lisa Ellis, of Bennington, Tracy Stevens and his wife, Amanda, of Manchester, Vt., Gene Stevens II of Bennington, and Patricia Jones and her fiancé, Mansie Perry, of Bennington; her brother, Randy Gates and his wife, Sue, of Pownal; her sisters, Susan Russell and her husband, Elwood, of Maricopa, Ariz., Janice Bushee and her husband, John, of Pownal, and Melinda Onorato and her husband, Pasquale, of Williamstown, Mass.; her former husband and lifelong companion, Gene Stevens of Pownal; ten grandchildren, six great-grandchildren and many nieces, nephews and cousins.

She was predeceased by her brother, Herbert Gates, who died in 1966.

MEMORIAL NOTICE: A celebration of the life of Kathleen Marie Stevens will be held Wednesday afternoon, May 5, 2010 at 1 p.m. at HANSON-WALBRIDGE FUNERAL HOME, 213 West Main Street, Bennington, VT. Interment will be in the family lot in Towslee Cemetery in Pownal. Visiting hours at the funeral home will be held Wednesday, May 5, 2010 from 11 a.m.-1 p.m., two hours prior to the service when the family will be in attendance.

If friends desire, memorial gifts in Kathleen's memory may be made to the Kathleen M. Stevens Memorial Fund, c/o Hanson-Walbridge Funeral Home, P.O. Box 957, Bennington, VT 05201. For directions or to send the family personal email condolences, please visit www.sheafuneralhomes.com.

The family has entrusted arrangements to the care of Hanson-Walbridge Funeral Home, 213 West Main Street, Bennington, Vt.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Bennington Banner from Apr. 30 to May 1, 2010.

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Tracy Dorman

May 5, 2010

To Kathy's family,

Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.

The Dorman Family

Arnie Russell

May 4, 2010

our prayers go out to the entire family for kathy,she was great to chat with about makin different kinds of foods and she cheered me up when i was down,my entire family and friends miss her deerly,MAY GOD BE WITH YOU ALWAYS KATHY,FROM MY MOM AND LEROY SR.FREEDIE,MY BROTRER,WANDA,CONNIE,FRANCIE,AND SHARON, MY SISTERS,AND GENE SR.MY BEST FRIEND,AND YOU WERE TOO,R.I.P. TILL I SEE YOU AGAIN YUR PAL ARNIE

May 3, 2010

Deb Ennis

May 1, 2010

Wow! I'm shocked to read that Kathy had passed away,my condolences to the family,she was a close friend,I will miss my get togethers at Dunkin Donuts with her,we always talked about our grandchildren when i got back from florida,I will truly miss her...Deb Ennis,Punta Gorda,Florida and East Arlington,Vt.

Daniel and Jessica Deysenroth

May 1, 2010

Tracy and Geno our hearts and prayers are with you,... your mom was one of the nicest moms in the neighborhood growing up she raised you guys right.... I am very sorry for your loss

Wanda Sweet

May 1, 2010

To the family of Kathy. I was so shocked to read in the paper this morning of Kathy's passing. Know that she isn't suffering anymore. I remember Kathy from when I was a little girl. When Mom worked Kathy would babysit me and my two younger sisters. I also remember how Kathy would take charge when my little sister got hurt with the swing. Please rest in peace. May the memories of Kathy live on in each of us that knew her. If you need to talk you know where I am.

Alice Johnson

May 1, 2010

I just learned of Kathleen's passing... my condolences to all the Gates family during this time of grieving.

Jean (Dupee) Mullins

May 1, 2010

My condolences to Kathy's family. I was so shocked to learn that Kathy had passed away. We caught up on all the latest family news at our 50th reunion last August and had a great time reminising about our school years. Kathy, Gloria (Weaver) and I were close friends all through school (if you saw one of us, you saw the other two as well) and our friendships continued long after graduation. Another of my oldest friends will be sadly missed.

April 30, 2010

We were sorry to hear about the loss of Kathy. We are so glad
she had such a good time at our 50th class reunion in Aug.
Ben Hi Class of 59

Amy Kerner

April 30, 2010

Tracy, Amanda, Lydia, and family

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if you need anything.

Susan Russell

April 30, 2010

I will miss you so much. Our long conversations. Especially about our soap opera!!! I love you Sis. Susan

Ashley Hoot

April 30, 2010

Kathy, Miss you enjoyed the time I have spent with you being the best sub teacher and Best friend when I needed to talk. May heaven be a bright and buetiful as you are. Miss you, Ashley and Kids

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