Search by Name

Search by Name

Adele Ostrander Obituary

Adele L. Ostrander 1922 - 2008 PITTSFIELD Adele Laura Ostrander, 86, of 6231 Merle Place, Bren Mar Park, Alexandria, Va., died Friday, July 25, 2008, at Fairfax Hospital in Virginia. Born in Pittsfield on Jan. 8, 1922, a daughter of Fred Jean Cote and Marie Dina Pichette Cote, she attended local schools and was a 1940 graduate of St. Joseph Central High School. She attended both the former Berkshire Business College and Pittsfield Secretarial School. She began work at Read Shaw Insurance Agency where she stayed for several years.She was then employed as a secretary for General Electric Company. After GE, she was employed by H&R Block in Virginia for several years. Her most fulfilling job was the years she spent as an "Army Wife." While in Pittsfield, Mrs. Ostrander was a communicant of the former Notre Dame Church and was a member of its former Children of Mary. At the time of her death, she belonged to St. Michael's Church in Annandale, Va., where she did volunteer work for the CCD program and was responsible for the flower planting at their Shrine of Mary. An avid Baltimore Orioles fan, her favorite player was Cal Ripkin. She loved reading and sewing, and her many photo albums were always up to date. With gardening high on her list of favorite things to do, she frequently wrote a gardening column for the Bren Mar Community. Not to be outdone by the joy that visitors brought her when they came to admire her well-tended flower beds, be it adults or an entire Girl Scout troop, they rarely left without a potted plant to put in their own gardens. But the thing that was so special and the most meaningful to her was the love she had for each one of her girls. Her husband, Master Sgt. Harry "Bud" Ostrander, whom she married Feb. 4, 1950, died Sept. 9, 1983. She leaves four daughters, Joellyn Mary of Alexandria, Va., with whom she made her home, Elise Ann of Dublin of California; Lauri Elizabeth Klefos of Pittsfield, and Paula Jeanne and her husband, Gary Morris, of Huber Heights, Ohio; two sisters, Julie Beals and Therese Cote, and two brothers, George Cote and Alfred Cote, all of Pittsfield; five grandchildren, Andrew, Amanda, and Matthew Pickerel, all of Virginia, and Zachary and Cody Morris of Hubert Heights, Ohio, along with several nieces and nephews. Another daughter, Deena Katherine, died Aug. 20, 2004. She was also predeceased by two brothers, Oliver Cote and Abbie Cote, both of Pittsfield, and by two sisters, Eva Cote of Pittsfield and Cecile Cote Keyes Mix of West Stockbridge. FUNERAL NOTICE: The Funeral Mass for Adele Laura Cote Ostrander was celebrated Thursday, July 31, at St. Michael's Church in Annandale by the Rev. Pikorski. Interment will take place Sept. 25, 2008, at Arlington National Cemetery, Washington, D.C., where her husband is buried. In lieu of flowers, and in accordance with her wishes, donations may be made to the National Multiple Sclerosis Society, 1800 "M" Street, N.W., Suite 750 South, Washington, D.C. 20036.
Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Aug. 6, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Adele Ostrander

Not sure what to say?





1 Entry

Nancy

June 14, 2025

I only saw her for a couple of days at the beach. Elise was a friend of mine and I know it´s along time but I want to give my condolences

Showing 1 - 1 of 1 results

Make a Donation
in Adele Ostrander's name

How to support Adele's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services, and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Adele Ostrander's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more