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Edward M. Lahey

1938 - 2024

Edward M. Lahey obituary, 1938-2024, Lee, MA

BORN

1938

DIED

2024

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Kelly Funeral Home - Lee

3 Main St

Lee, Massachusetts

Edward Lahey Obituary

Retired F.B.I. Special Agent Edward "Ed" Lahey, known for his unwavering dedication to family, community, and justice, passed away peacefully at his home in Lee, MA, on April 27, 2024, at the age of 85, one day before his birthday. He was the only child of Frank and Madeline (Gibbons) Lahey.

His life was a testament to fidelity, bravery, integrity, and a tireless passion for coaching. Ed's career with the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) spanned 25 years, during which he tackled some of their most challenging cases with tenacity and skill, earning him the respect of his colleagues and the communities he served.

Ed's early life in the hills of Western Massachusetts instilled in him a love for his hometown of Lee that would last a lifetime. After graduating from St. Mary's Elementary School and Cranwell Preparatory School, he went on to graduate from Notre Dame University.

As a Special Agent with the FBI two of Ed's most memorable cases occurred while assigned to the Birmingham, AL, office in 1964, and the New York City office during the height of organized crime. His investigative skills played a major part in convicting the KKK members who shot and killed Viola Liuzzo, a civil rights Freedom Rider, who was helping to drive African Americans to the voting booths. In NYC, his skills at electronic surveillance earned him the respect of fellow law enforcement members. While assigned to Albany, NY, Ed's bravery and ingenuity were on full display as his intuitive placement of wiretaps provided enough evidence to curtail the operations of major drug smuggling activities. These talents may have led to his code name, "The Flea."

After retiring from the FBI he dedicated himself to serving Lee. In 1987 Ed received the Robert Lucy award in appreciation for his continued service and dedication to the youth of Lee. In 2000 Ed was given a lifetime achievement award by the Massachusetts Association of School Committees in recognition of his many years of service as a strong advocate for children and his unselfish contributions to the community of Lee. In 2005 and again in 2013 Ed and Clare both received the Joao Rodrigues distinguished service award from the Massachusetts Secondary School Athletic Directors Association for their 20 plus years as coaches with the Lee High School Tennis Teams. In 2006 Ed was awarded the certificate of recognition from the National Football Foundation for his commitment and dedication to the sport of football and the youth that play.

Beyond his professional accomplishments, Ed was a devoted husband, father, and friend. His love for his wife Clare "Bunnie" (Gardell), whom he met in her hometown of Arlington, VA, was evident in every aspect of their 62 years of life together. They raised four children, Anita Lahey, of Shaver Lake, CA;, Mike (Melissa Batie) Lahey of Salisbury, MD; Vince (Diana Duffey) Lahey of Carefree, AZ; and Amanda (Rob Mess) Lahey of Longmont, CO, and created a home filled with love, laughter, and compassion. They produced four beautiful grandchildren: Chelsea (Aaron Jones) Lahey of Salisbury, MD; Lucas Scott of Longmont, CO; Ella Lahey studying at University of VT; Holden Lahey at Hawaii Preparatory Academy, Waimea, HI. Finally, two great-grandchildren, Wesley and Wyn Jones, 6 and 3 years old, have filled him with delight.

Ed's legacy lives on in the countless lives he touched and the impact he made on his community. He will be remembered for his sense of humor, his unwavering integrity, and his dedication to making the world a better place. As a good friend said just recently that every time Ed walked into Gateway Physical Therapy, he would have something humorous to say to lighten everyone's spirits.

The family would like to thank all the caretakers and doctors who cared for Ed over the past several years as his health slipped beyond his ability to fully tackle his many passions. Nevertheless, he continued to fight for his full rehabilitation with the assistance of Amedisys Home Health Care right up to his last nine days, when Hospice of the Berkshires took over to allow him to obtain his last wish of dying at home. Even when dependent upon walkers and wheelchairs, he continued assisting with coaching and nurturing young people. With the help of the entire family, who descended from around the country, he was able to receive visitors right up to the last day, succumbing to metastatic brain cancer the day before his birthday. He was surrounded by his entire family as Monsignor Bonzagni and Father McGrath, two of his favorite priests, gave him a blessing a few moments before his passing.

Visiting hours will be held at Kelly Funeral Home from 4-6 pm on Thursday, May 2, 2024. A Liturgy of Christian Burial will be celebrated Friday morning at 11am at St. Vincent de Paul Church at 29 Crystal Street, Lenox Dale. Burial will follow in St. Mary's Cemetery, Lee. A celebration of Ed's life will follow from 1:30 pm to 6 pm at Greenock Country Club, Lee.

Donations to St. Mary's School may be made in lieu of flowers. Checks to SMS may be mailed in care of Kelly Funeral Home, 3 Main St., Lee, MA 01238.

If you would like to leave a message of condolence or share pictures with the family, please visit our web site at www.kellyfuneralhome.net

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Published by The Berkshire Eagle on May 1, 2024.

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Melissa Winters Hadsell

May 9, 2024

My condolences to your family. Ed was a wonderful man!! He was good to my family growing up..!!

Melissa Winters Hadsell

May 5, 2024

So sorry for you family's loss..!! Ed was a good man!

Bernadette Williams

May 3, 2024

To the Lahey family.
I am very sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Thomas Filippini

May 3, 2024

My sincere condolences to the Lahey family for your loss.

Chico & Patty Martin

May 2, 2024

My sincere condolences to Ed's family. He was a great guy always displaying his wonderful demeanor and quick wit. I have many fond memories of Ed working together on the football field and enjoying a beer afterwards.
We will keep all of you in our prayers.

Jack Millman

May 2, 2024

Ed was an extraordinary human being and a delightful friend. darlen and I will miss him.
Jack and Darlene Millman

Linda Forman

May 1, 2024

Vince, you may not remember me-I was the lady who signed your paycheck for a couple summers during your teen years (Church Street Cafe). I met your Father a few times; He was such a nice man. In conversation, he let me know how proud of your work ethic and entrepreneurial spirit he was. I extend my sincerest condolences to you and your family.

John A. Bernardo Esq

May 1, 2024

My condolences to the family. May the fond and loving memories be a comfort and always be with you. He was a professional's professional.

Mike Streeter

May 1, 2024

All great servants to God and country will be missed. Ed Lahey will be always be remembered in Lee and beyond.

To Live in the Hearts We Leave Behind is Not to Die.

Arline Bredkin

May 1, 2024

May his memory bring smiles to your heart!

Beverly Bissell

May 1, 2024

Ed was such a nice person, We met him through tennis when our daughters were at LES. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family at this difficult time.
Sincerely, Bev. and Dave Bissell

Bill Delsoldato

May 1, 2024

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Gary M Lagarce

May 1, 2024

Lahey family, so very sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Lenox Police Department

May 1, 2024

Please accept our sincere condolences.

Ted &Jamis Bombardier your friendly snow plow guy

May 1, 2024

So sorry for your loss a great guy will be missed by all that knew him

Paul Porrini

May 1, 2024

Have known Ed for a long time,he was a true gentleman and friend,through football and would always talk when I worked for the town,the town of Lee will be a little less with Ed passing,May God bless the Leakey family and May Ed R.I.P.

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