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Irene Toffey Obituary

GREAT BARRINGTON -- Irene Tobin Toffey, 73, of Berkshire Heights Road died yesterday at home after a long illness.

Born in Kent, Conn., on March 8, 1933, daughter of William R. and Irene White Tobin, she graduated from Housatonic Valley Regional High School in Falls Village, Conn., in 1951 and earned her bachelor's degree and teaching certificate from St. Joseph's College in West Hartford, Conn., in 1955.

Mrs. Toffey was the first kindergarten teacher at Kent Center School. Before that, she taught second grade in Sharon, Conn.

She was a communicant of St. Peter's Church and of Our Lady of the Valley Church in Sheffield, and taught Confraternity of Christian Doctrine classes at both parishes for many years.

Her lifelong interest in fine art is reflected in her early activities with the Kent Art Association; her role as a docent at the Columbus (Ohio) Gallery of Fine Art, where she lived from 1963 to 1969; her past presidency of the Sheffield Art League, and, in recent years, her work as a guide at the Norman Rockwell Museum in Stockbridge. Her travels took her to galleries and museums throughout the United States and Europe.

Mrs. Toffey was a trustee and a reader for the Recording for the Blind and served as a member of the Democratic Town Committee.

She enjoyed playing tennis.

She and her husband, John J. Toffey IV, were married July 12, 1958.

Besides her husband, she leaves a daughter, Hannah Toffey Peters of Weston; three sons, John Toffey V of Barnstable, Joseph D. Toffey of Falls Village and Edward C. Toffey of Lexington, Ky.; two sisters, Mary Kirby of Sharon and Kathleen Marcon of Larchmont, N.Y.; two brothers, William Tobin and Joseph G. Tobin, both of Kent, and 13 grandchildren.

FUNERAL NOTICE -- A Liturgy of Christian Burial for Irene T. Toffey, who died June 9, 2006, will be celebrated Monday, June 12, at 1 at St. Peter's Church in Great Barrington by the Rev. Shaun O'Connor, pastor. Burial will follow in Kent School Cemetery in Kent, Conn. The family will receive friends at BIRCHES-ROY FUNERAL HOME on Sunday, June 11, from 2 to 5. Instead of flowers, friends are encouraged to make donations in Irene's memory to HospiceCare in the Berkshires in care of the funeral home, 33 South St., Great Barrington, MA 01230-1815.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Jun. 10, 2006.

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Bob and Iona Brigham

June 13, 2006

John and Family,

You are in our thoughts and prayers .... may the peace of God surround you and your family ... Love

Meghan Ryan

June 12, 2006

Dear Hannah,



My deepest sympathies to you and your family for the loss of your mother. She sounds to be a very well loved woman who will be missed by many.



My thoughts will be with you,

Ann Renauer

June 12, 2006

Dear Hannah,



I am very sorry to hear of your mother's passing. My condolences to you and your family. May your memories, family, and friends sustain you in the days ahead.



With Sympathy,

Ann

Bob Newton

June 11, 2006

Dear John and Family,

I am most sorry to read of your loss. Please accept my sympathy, thoughts and prayers.

Peter/Susan Campbell

June 11, 2006

Dear Jack, Deb, John, Molly, Claire,

Sam & Will,

Our loving thoughts are with you this weekend. It is very difficult to lose a mother & grandmother. She was a very special & beautiful lady. In her honor, you must continue doing wonderful things.

Our best to you and the rest of the family.

With Love,

Peter & Sue

Alan Altshuler

June 11, 2006

Dear Hannah,



Please accept Julie's and my most heartfelt condolences. Your mom was fortunate indeed to have such a loving, devoted daughter and both to live and die within such a rich fabric of family, church, and community. Our very deepest sympathies to you and all your family.



Alan and Julie Altshuler

Rick Peiser

June 10, 2006

Dear Hannah,

I am so sorry to hear about your mother. You have my deepest sympathy.

Terry & Joyce Koldys

June 10, 2006

Dear John and Family,

Our sympathy goes out to you and your family. Irene was a very good community person. She participated in many Great Barrington events and she always did it was a happy and smiling face.

She was also a devoted St. Peters parisioner and a loyal Massachusetts Democrat.

Beside your family, Great Barrington will miss her very much.

Our prayers are with her.

Karen Rowe

June 10, 2006

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Ray Chamberland

June 10, 2006

John,



Rita, our children and I send our most sincere condolences to you and your family.



Irene was a major contributor to the "good life" in the Berkshires.



Our prayers are with you all.



God Bless

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