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J. Norman O’Connor

ADAMS -- A Liturgy of Christian Burial for J. Norman O’Connor, 83, of Adams and Naples, Fla., was celebrated Saturday, Nov. 18, at noon, in St. Thomas Aquinas Church with the Rev. Daniel J. Boyle, pastor of the Catholic Parishes of Adams, officiating.
Fred Rynkowski and Dominick Papas Jr. were the acolytes. The lectors were John I. Curtin, longtime friend and law partner; Brian Burgess and Kathryn Lang, grandchildren; and Jane Mitchell, daughter. The offertory gifts were brought to the altar by Grace and Elizabeth O’Connor, Caleb Mitchell and Olivia Welch, grandchildren. Reflections on Mr. O’Connor’s life were offered by Liz O’Connor, daughter; Courtney O’Connor, granddaughter; and Conor Welch, grandson.
Jeffrey Hunt, organist, accompanied the Community Choir of the Parishes. Will O’Connor, grandson, played a musical selection on his cello.
Burial followed in Bellevue Cemetery, where members of Adams Post 160 American Legion accorded military honors. The memorial prayer and resolution were read by Ralph Schwarzer. The firing squad was staffed by Francis Alibozek, Matthew Wilk, Jr., Clement St. Hilaire, Richard Ziarnik, Robert Thompson, Angelo Decensi and Gary Gattuso, under the command of Richard Giroux. William Parkhurst was the bugler. The flag was folded by David Smachetti and Schwarzer, who presented it to Mr. O’Connor’s wife, Betty.
The pallbearers were Brian Burgess, Devin Burgess, Colin O’Connor, Courtney O’Connor, Will O’Connor, Grace O’Connor, Elizabeth O’Connor, Kathryn Lang, Conor Welch, Olivia Welch, Luke Welch and Caleb Mitchell, grandchildren; Jeri Burgess, granddaughter-in-law; and Shawna Jones, Devin Burgess’ fiancée.
A large delegation of members of the Berkshire County Bar Association, as well as Mr. O’Connor’s partners and colleagues at Donovan & O’Connor Attorneys-at-Law, formed an honor guard at the church for the funeral.
Mr. O’Connor died Nov. 14. The Paciorek Funeral Home was in charge of arrangements.

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Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Nov. 22, 2006.

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November 30, 2006

Mrs. O'Connor and family,

Our sincere sympathy to you and your family at this sorrowful time. Norman will be remembered for his family and his dedication to his chosen profession.

Sincerely,

Margo and Vin Melito

Judith Deary-Chabot

November 26, 2006

Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

Bruce Pester

November 18, 2006

I would like to express my deepest condolences to the entire O'Connor family. Mr. O'Connor defined the expression of being "a gentleman and a scholar". It's been a pleasure of mine to have shared time with your family while growing up in Adams. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Lenore Turgeon Leavitt

November 18, 2006

Dear Jane, Liz, Tom and Sue:

I am very sorry about your father's passing. I know you will enjoy the happy memories you have had with your family. You were a wonderful family to know and go yo school with in the Adams.

Dennis & Carol Deary

November 16, 2006

Dear Aunt Betty & family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless all of you,

Carrie &Trent Gaylord

November 16, 2006

Dear Mrs. OConnor, Jay, Chris, Keirn, Colin,Courtney,Jane and Liz...You are in our thoughts and prayers, during these difficult days... May you always think about the specail times shared with your dad and Grandfather. He was a special family man that has touched many lives as he journied the adventures of life....May those sweet memories always bring a smile to your faces and your hearts!

"Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted." Matthew 5:4

In Christ and Love,
Carrie(Kordana)Gaylord ,Trent and Family

Suzanne Koperniak

November 16, 2006

Jane and Liz,
I'm very sorry for your loss. I truly know how you feel, as my mother died 2 weeks ago. My son Jacob goes to school with Caleb. Jacob would like you to tell Caleb that he is very sorry also.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Suzanne (Kozik) Koperniak

Tina Melville

November 16, 2006

I was so sad to hear of Mr. O'Connor's passing. I thoroughly enjoyed working for him. He was brilliant, challenging, funny, witty, stubborn, and had more charm than a 4 leaf clover. A true Irishman if there ever was! I will miss him greatly! God bless Mrs. O'Connor and the rest of the family.

Jane Bill LePage

November 16, 2006

Our thoughts and love are with you..

Charles J. Hoye

November 16, 2006

My sympathy to all the family. Norm was a good friend and a good news source when I worked for The Transcript in the Adams and North Adams area. Charlie Hoye

Patti Siddall

November 16, 2006

Mrs. O'Connor -
Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss and extend my wishes for peace and love to your entire family.

Gary & Tricia Johnstone

November 16, 2006

Please know that our thoughts and support are with all of you in this difficult time.

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