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1972
DIED
2024
James Cooley Obituary
Born to James and Karen Cooley of Beech Island, SC. He is also survived by his children: Michael Cooley of Vanceboro, NC. Craig Cooley and his wife Ashley, and their children, Waylon and Ella of Richlands, NC and his daughter, Morgan Cooley of Easthampton, MA.
James is also survived by his sister, Shannon Margraf and her husband Jody of Otis, MA; his brother, Scott Cooley and his wife Lori of South Windsor, CT; as well as many nieces and nephews. He held a special bond with his beloved sister-in-law and friend, Julie Clifford, and niece Cody of Granville, MA. He also leaves his former partner of many years, Michelle Havill of Great Barrington, MA, and his former wife, Darcy Clifford.
A celebration of James's life, filled with love and memories, will be held at a later date.
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Uncle Bob
December 24, 2024
Christmas memories as a young child in Springfield. Summers in Otis on Gate Island. Moving from the city to Sandisfield. Watching you grow up and becoming a man. So many great memories.
Catherine Cook
December 23, 2024
My deepest condolences to you and your family. I send thoughts and prayers to all.
Catherine Cook
Maria Tooley
December 11, 2024
I can´t believe he is gone. My thoughts and prayers for the family.
Shannon Sinico
December 8, 2024
Shannon, Scott, Mike and Michelle,
I am deeply saddened to learn this awful news. James was a gentle giant like Scott. I have great memories from high school! My thoughts are with you all.
Roberta Fecto
December 7, 2024
Jim and Karen, and family so sorry to hear of Jay's passing,I will always remember him fondly. Prayers and strength to you all.
Aunty Deb and Ron
December 7, 2024
Jay you were loved and we will miss you so much! I was at a music festival and the song made me think of you! And a dragonfly appeared in front of me Love you aunty and Ron
Kathy boldyga
December 7, 2024
Jay so much I could say so many memories. I'll share some of our last conversation. You said to me " I'll always love my Shell I hope you know that. : i told him I did. He said you will always be mu Titi right I said you know it Jay that will never change. Forever and a day. I mean that my nephew. Forever and a day. I know you tried. I hope you find peace
Jennifer S.
December 6, 2024
Oh J, how you loved unconditionally and how you always lifted me up when down. You were such a dear friend to me and I will always love you and cherish our memories. Taken way too soon. I will miss you forever. Till we meet again. This breaks my heart. Prayers sent to your family....
Mary Blaise
December 6, 2024
Karen, Jim and family,
I was saddened to read about the death of your son James. Please know my thoughts are with you and your family at this time. May he rest in peace. Hugs to you
Krista
December 6, 2024
So so sad to hear of your passing. The Jay I remember was a dedicated husband and father. Funny, calm, and sweet. Unfortunately life can change in seconds. You will be missed my friend. Krista
Tanya Brody
December 6, 2024
You were a very good friend to us. You will truly be missed.
Love Tan & Kirk
Thomas Filippini
December 6, 2024
My sincere condolences to the Cooley family for your loss. I have very fond memories of the brothers in class at Monument.
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