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John Albert Grammer Jr.

1935 - 2020

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1935

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2020

John Grammer Obituary

John Albert Grammer, Jr., 85, died at home in Sandisfield, MA after a long illness on December 18 surrounded by family.

Born in Newark, John graduated from Harvard College and Columbia University SIPA. John trained in Arabic at the Army Language School and proudly served in the U.S. Army in Germany attaining the rank of sergeant. He began his professional life with UNRWA in Beirut, coordinating relief efforts for Palestinian refugees. John then joined First National City Bank (now Citibank) and was sent to Jeddah, Beirut, Manila, Rio de Janeiro and Taipei.

In 1984 John founded Grammer and Co., where he developed and led banking seminars in management, credit and risk analysis around the world. He also loved counseling graduates and peers, alike, who sought his advice. He served on the boards of the Turtle Bay Music School, the Taipei American School and on the vestry of Church of the Holy Apostles. He devoted himself to development projects for Harvard and Columbia.

John is survived by his wife of 34 years Mary Anne (nee Nelson), his son John Lawrence (Lilli); his daughters Katharina (Ricardo) and Julia (Noah), from his first marriage to Ursula Keuler; grandchildren Fabio, Ursula D., Charlotte and Emilie.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Grace Church in Great Barrington MA, graceberkshires.org or Berkshire Immigrant Center, berkshireic.org.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Jan. 2, 2021.

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Charles Gates

January 2, 2021

John Grammer was a tremendous friend and mentor whom I had the great pleasure to work with for many years in Grammer Associates, his post - Citi consulting and coaching firm. He shared freely of his great experience in those fields, his life lessons learned, and his vast experience in the world. He was an extraordinary "straight arrow" who never flinched from telling you the truth, whether you wanted to hear it or not, and in doing so would help you find your own best path forward. One could always trust him to be honest and forthright, and to care about others. He also had a wonderful spirit of adventure. Once when we were discussing a possible training assignment in the Sudan in the capital city, he at once said he wanted to explore the part of the country that was at that time in armed conflict. Fortunately the assignment failed to materialize, but we did others together that were exciting and fun. He loved to find the road less traveled. And the journey with John would never be unexciting.

John was also a great family man, and frequently spoke about Mary-Anne and his children, especially about John-Lawrence, who followed his footsteps to Harvard. He was very proud of them. I offer them my deepest condolences for their loss. He also was a devout religious man, and spoke often of his church. I admired greatly his strength, honesty and goodness, and will miss his caring and friendship. May he rest in peace, and and be with us in spirit always.

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