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Judith Sabot

1945 - 2023

Judith Sabot obituary, 1945-2023, Williamstown, MA

BORN

1945

DIED

2023

Judith Sabot Obituary

Judith (Jude) Aileen Sabot- beloved mother, grandmother, aunt, sister, and friend- died peacefully at her home in Williamstown on September 19, surrounded by her family and caregivers.

Jude was born in Cincinnati, Ohio on June 21, 1945, to John and Mary Dorothy Plunkett. The oldest of five siblings, she graduated from the Day Prospect Hill School in New Haven, CT, where she captained the field hockey and basketball teams. She received her B.A. in English Literature from the University of Pennsylvania and was a key member of Penn's Student Committee on Undergraduate Education. In 1969, she married Richard (Dick) Sabot at her parents' home in Hamden, CT, and the couple lived abroad in Oxford, England and Dar es Salaam, Tanzania before moving to Washington D.C. and then settling in South Williamstown, MA in 1985.

Jude was an extraordinary mother to her four children and a generous, supportive presence for her extended family and friends. She was also a childbirth educator, a graduate student in psychology, a certified wilderness EMT, a speaker of Italian, and a vibrant woman who was passionate about books, music, theater, dancing, travel, animals, cross-country skiing, time in nature, and laughing with her family. She played the accordion and the guitar and was a wonderful singer, leading sing-alongs of Joan Baez and other folk heroes in the early 60s and beyond. A lover of the arts, she served on the board of Barrington Stage Company in Pittsfield and was devoted to the African American Dance Ensemble and their visits to Williamstown. For years, she was an active volunteer for the Williamstown Public Schools, especially for the Mt. Greylock Nordic Ski Team.

Jude loved spending time on East Grand Lake in northern Maine, a beautiful, remote place where she went nearly every summer of her life starting in 1960.

In 2005, Jude lost her cherished partner and best friend, Dick. She leaves behind her children: Diana Whitney (and her husband, Tim) of Brattleboro, VT, Topher Sabot (and his wife, Jennifer Mygatt) of Williamstown, MA, Oliver Sabot (and his wife, Kate) of San Francisco, CA, and Julia Sabot (and her husband Jeremy Weinman) of Portland, OR. Jude was a beloved "Nonna" to her ten grandchildren: Ava and Carmen Whitney, Charlie, Jasper, and Annabelle Sabot, Quillan and Luka Sabot, and Finley, Sebastian, and Penny Weinman. She also leaves her four siblings- Jamie Plunkett, Kathleen McKenzie, Tom Plunkett, and Susan Plunkett- and her many nieces and nephews.

She was incredibly loved and will be missed beyond measure.

Please consider memorializing Jude by making a donation in her honor to the New England Nordic Ski Association or to the charitable organization of your choice.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Sep. 21, 2023.

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The Peacocks

June 21, 2024

Judy, I used to call her that and she never corrected me.
Judy and Dick loved our family and we loved them more.
Marcela, Enrique Peacock and Paola, Lili and Alex.

Pascaline Umulisa

October 17, 2023

Heartfelt condolences to the entire Sabot family. Oliver, we, here in Rwanda are sending prayers and thoughts. Reading her obituary, I could tell she was one of those moms whose hugs would warm a heart. May she rest in peace.

Barbara Mahl

October 1, 2023

Jude was a light in our lives. An inspiration that has always been in my life. We loved her. We grow because she was with us. Now forever one of our East Grand ancients. With Love, barbara mahl

Katie Guernsey

September 26, 2023

Jude was one of my neighborhood moms growing up in S. Williamstown. She was infinitely caring, kind, and joyful. I trusted her completely. I followed her down every trail at Jiminy Peak, week after week, as she was a dedicated chaperone. I spent many nights at potlucks in her kitchen and waxing skis in the basement! One time I was out riding horses and my friend fell off her horse, and the horse kept going. Jude to the rescue! She calmed my friend, then caught the horse! Another time I was in an overpacked van of Nordic skiers in the Sabots driveway and Jude hopped out to grab something from the house before returning to drive us to practice. I felt the van roll a little and got really scared. I jumped out and called to let her know the van was moving! Everyone else in the van seemed oblivious (it was just the "normal roll back" when parking quickly). Jude took my anxiety seriously, offered reassurance, and explained what happened. The stories of how strong and beautiful Jude was, how respectful and kind, how generous and supportive, and how multi-talented and fun she was, are countless. Every moment spent with her was a gift. She was a very good friend to my family and we will miss her deeply. I am comforted to think that she and Dick have found each other again in heaven and she is with my mom too . My heart goes out to all of the Sabots, and to everyone whose lives she touched.

Marcela Peacock

September 26, 2023

Judy was a living person and she loved my Lili.
Sending love to all of her kids.

Erik Lawrence

September 23, 2023

I have always known that I was blessed to know this woman with the huge heart. My heart is with everyone of you, as we celebrate her life and know that she will never be forgotten.

This photo is from jazz fest 2010 and though she could always be counted on for her smile, I don´t think I´ve ever seen her so happy.

Laura B

September 21, 2023

I will never, ever forget the loving kindness -- and the best hug ever! -- that Jude once gave me, there at the farm, the summer I was in treatment for a much-dreaded disease. I was so comforted by her! And as others shunned me, felt so supported and cared for, as she gave me a hug and looked past my bald head into my eyes. *** In years past, whenever I saw her at Wild Oats, even when her memory had begun to pass away, even when she could not dredge up my name, I always felt like she could tell, that we had once had a powerful connection. I am so glad I got to know her a bit; I will miss her, always. My most sincerest condolences, to her entire family, Laura B

RON BINDER

September 21, 2023

Jude's zest for life and love for family and friends with a joy for learning was contagious. Thank you for the memories.

Ron Binder
Family

RON BINDER

September 21, 2023

Jude's zest for life and love of family and friends with a joy for learning that was contagious. Thank you for the memories of Hamden and Oxford.

Ron Binder
Family

Bobby Bucher

September 21, 2023

Her Spirit and Energy lives on in the Hearts and Minds of those who knew and loved her!

Edward Weinman

September 21, 2023

My brother Jeremy is married to Julia Sabot, so I´m blessed to have met Jude, and the loving Sabot family. I always enjoyed visiting the Sabot house in Williamstown, where I was called out with a chalk-written sign welcoming me. Jude showered everyone with love. Her home was a safe-space where so many came and went, all invited to have a drink, break bread, listen to music, or sit outside, let laziness overtake the moment, and marvel at the Berkshires. Dinner was a special moment where, before enjoying fresh food most likely cultivated on the family farm, we would hold each other´s hands at the dining room table, and "pass the squeeze." What I enjoyed most, though, was watching how Jude´s grandchildren flocked to her, always beaming with joy at the sight of their "Nonna." Jude will be deeply missed, but memories of her will always be a blessing.

Randall Miller

September 21, 2023

My heartfelt condolences to the entire family, who showed me love and support throughout the years. I learned much from Dick and Jude. I imagine them together again, in eternal embrace. May love surround us all.

Donna Damico

September 21, 2023

Dear Diana, Toph, Oliver & Jules,
Sending all my love at this sad time.
Death will never extinguish Jude´s love for you. Her love was fierce. On your brightest days and darkest nights she will be with you - always.
We were so lucky to have her with us. She made the world a better place and she will not be forgotten.
Love, Donna

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