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Elaine Bertolino LaPierre
November 17, 2021
I remember Judy well, through all 12 years of school here in Pittsfield. She was a sweet child, a gifted and kind adult. It was a privilege to know her.
Leslie Luchonok
November 8, 2020
Missing you, dear dear Judy.
Gail Robbins
November 27, 2011
Dear Jack and family,
I am so sorry to learn of the passing of your beloved wife and mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
November 26, 2011
Remembering back to our class advisor, Mr. Spencer, falling in love with Miss Lahey was such a joy to all of us. She continued to bring this joy and caring to all who knew her .Our deepest sympathy to all of the Spencer family.
Daru (Baldasarre )Maer ,Class president
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Lynn & Bob Etman
November 23, 2011
We are so sorry about the passing of Judy. She was such a wonderful neigbor. Our prayers are with your family.
Peter Jaworski
November 19, 2011
Jack...
My deepest sympathies to you and the whole family. The news came too slowly to Ancram. You and the family are in my prayers
Luke & Melisa Sanzone
November 18, 2011
To the Spencer Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May Judith's extraordinary energy and spirit live on within all of those who were so blessed to have known her.
Karen and Bill Mitchell
November 17, 2011
Jack and family,
Please accept our deepest sympathy on Judy's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Dan Northrup
November 17, 2011
I had Mrs. Spencer when she was Miss Lahey at Stockbridge Plain School when I was in I think 6th grade (I'm 58 now and mentally lazy, suffice to say a few years back). Our class had just behaved badly I think during a school assembly and she had a little talk with us afterwards. Such an elegant, mild-mannered and pleasant person, I always felt comfortable in her class, but seeing her mad really stopped us in our tracks. I think we didn't realize how powerful a person she was until we weren't going in the same direction she was going. Anyway this is just a thank-you to put out there for having had the privilege of learning the meaning of respect from such a impressive person.
Joan Embree
November 17, 2011
Dear Jack, I am so sad you've lost Judy. Always, I've thought of the two of you as the most beautiful and least self-regarding couple I've ever met.The image of Judy is vivid - the way she walked with exquisite grace and athletic zeal down Main Street. To consider the countless good works she did for our Town, is to contemplate a noble life well lived. Forgive me if this is audacious,but in my mind's eye, I see her as a flashing sprite, a girl again forever with you, a lovely bird on the wing. I see her blue eyes and luminescent goodness and my heart goes out to you, dear Jack.
Colleen Trager
November 17, 2011
Ann Marie, Kathy and Mr. Spencer,
We are so sorry for your loss. May you find peace in all of the memories you have of Judy. She was an amazing woman! You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Susan (Faber) Sapko
November 16, 2011
Dear Jack and Family - I am so sorry for your loss. I remember babysitting and teaching gymnastics to your two lovely young girls a long time ago. Sending my condolences from Pennsylvania.
Camille
November 16, 2011
Dear Mr. Spencer and the Spencer Family,
i am so sorry to hear about your loss. I send my condolences to you and your family from Boulder, CO. I hope all is well and you're in everyone's thoughts and hearts.
Sara and Jancy
November 16, 2011
Dear Ann Marie, Kathy and Mr. Spencer,
Please accept our most sincere condolences.
Thinking of you in Lugano.
Jen Tremblay
November 16, 2011
Dearest Mr. Spencer,
All my love to you and your family at such a great loss. Words cannot express. Please know that we are all here for you! Regards and hugs, Jennifer Tremblay

1966 45th High School Reunion of both Judy and Jack's students.
Katherine Stevens
November 15, 2011
Dear Mr. Spencer,
I am so sorry to hear of Judy. My condolences to you and your family. Both you and Judy always radiate warmth and sincere caring for all the students whose lives you have touched. As you said we started together in the 1962-63 school year at Williams High School. I feel so glad to have spent my 45th High School reunion sharing time and both lunch and dinner with you and Judy. She has such a gentle soul and I know she will be greatly missed.
November 15, 2011
I WAS SOOOO SAD TO LEARN OF JUDYS DEATH.....I HAVE ALWAYS ADMIRED HER ON SO MANY LEVELS....SHE CERTAINLY WAS THE MOTHER OF TWO SPECIAL DAUGHTERS....SHE WILL BE FOREVER MISSED BY ALL WHO WERE LUCKY ENOUGH TO KNOW HER...AND SHE WILL NEVER BE EQUALED...MY LOVE AND SYMPATHY TO EACH OF YOU....BETSY HOLTZINGER
Judith Ebbets
November 15, 2011
I am so sorry to hear of you loss -- sincere condolences to you and your family.
Lucille Champagne
November 15, 2011
Dear Jack, I am so sorry for you loss. I didn't know your wife but I'm sure she was a wonderful wife and mother.
Chelsea Bradway-Francis
November 15, 2011
Dear Mr. Spencer,
I am so sorry to hear of Judy's passing. It was wonderful to see both of you on Halloween. I was struck by how wonderful it was to see two people together for so long and still happy. My heart goes out to you and your family.
I hope you can find some peace in a difficult time.
Andrea Sartori
November 15, 2011
Dear Mr. Spencer,
I am so deeply sorry for you and your family. Mrs. Spencer, like you, was one of those rare people who are genuinely good, who have the ability to change lives and make the world a better place. I am certainly better for having known her. She was always so supportive of me and all of my endeavors. May all of her many random acts of kindness and senseless beauty be eternally remembered. I am sending you thoughts, prayers, and hugs.
Love,
Andrea
November 15, 2011
Dear Jack and family - our deepest and heartfelt sympathies go out to all of you at this sad time. Judy's smile and kindness were an inspiration to us....she will always be remembered. Donna & Charlie
Stephen Morawski
November 15, 2011
I had the distinct honor of working with Judy for many years on the Kampoosa ACEC Committee. Gracious, caring, and involved, Judy had lots of giving left and will be sorely missed by all who met her. My condolences.
Rebecca (Ziegler) Burcher
November 15, 2011
Dear Mr. Spencer,
While I never had the fortunate opportunity to meet your lovely wife, my heart and healing love goes out to you and your family. I am so very sorry for your loss.
With my deepest condolences,
November 15, 2011
Dear Mr.Spencer,AnnMarie and Kathy,
I am so saddened and sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
Diane Obanhein-Netzer
Brad & Charlotte (Forfa) Wilson & Family
November 15, 2011
Mr. Spencer & Family we were so very sorry to hear about Mrs. Spencer. What a very kind and beautiful lady. She and I had several opportunities to talk when I would drop off/pick up our youngest son at preschool, and she was dropping off/picking up Emily. She was the real deal. A truly loving and caring person. Thank you for sharing her with us. God blessed the world big time when He made Judy Spencer. May He give all of you peace and strength now and in the days to come.
The Donald Kruszyna Family
November 15, 2011
Dear Jack and Family:
Our Deepest Sympathy for your Loss .
Allyn Anderson
November 15, 2011
To the Spencer family-I grew up on Victory Hill. Walked down the hill to Crane school. Walked across the field to North Junior high and then onto PHS. Spent many hours with Judy and other kids on Victory Hill. She will be missed but you can be assured she is looking down upon you all. She is another one of GOD"S angels.At night look up in the sky and pick out the brightest star. That will be Judy. She will always be at your side.
November 15, 2011
Dear Mr. Spencer, Ann and Kathy, I am so saddened to hear of the loss of your Mom. I have so many beautiful childhood memories of her and your entire family. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. She was such a beautiful person and will always be fondly remembered by all of us.
Katy (Sparks) Killiard (and the Sparks family)
Mary-Noelle (Stanard) Fabiano
November 15, 2011
Mr. Spencer, Ann Marie and Kathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Mrs. Spencer was a wonderful woman.
Cricket Saurel
November 14, 2011
Dear Jack and family,
Though I won't be able to join you in person this week in remembering Judy,my thoughts are with you all.
Elaine LaPierre
November 14, 2011
To Judy's family: My sympathy at the loss of one of the finest women I have ever met. We were in school together from Crane Elementary to PHS Class of 1958. It was always a pleasure to be in her company, and when I read her obituary this morning I was so very sad for all of you. It did make me happy to know that her last day was one that was filled with all of the ordinary, wonderful events that fill our hearts--family, busy and creative tasks, looking ahead to the future. She had so much more to give, and she will be, through all of you. Love never ends, and her love for all of you will sustain you through these hard days.
Elaine Bertolino LaPierre
Linda Windover Henry
November 14, 2011
Dear Spencer family Judy was my "little sister" at State College.-----so friendly, smart and involved. I am sorry for your loss.
Joan Bailly- Heysler
November 14, 2011
To all of the Spencer Family,
I am so sorry for the loss of your mother/wife/grandmother/incredible woman. My thoughts and prayers are with you all as I am filled with many lovely memories of Mrs. Spencer's kindness during all those times I spent at your house during high school.
Katie (Flynn) Toffey
November 14, 2011
Dear Mr. Spencer, Ann Marie and Kathy,
I am so very sorry for your loss. I have so many vivid and wonderful memories of Mrs. Spencer - always with a beautiful smile on her face and a sparkle in her eyes. She truly touched the heart of each person she knew. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
November 14, 2011
Dear Jack and family,
Both Richard and I are so truly sorry to hear of Judy's passing. We are so glad we were able to share that wonderful lunch with both of you. We will treasure that time we had together. Know that you and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. Peggy and Richard Negus
Shayne Squires
November 14, 2011
I was saddend to hear the news about Judy. She will be missed by many, but the memories and lives she touched live on. You are all in my prayers. May you find strength and comfort in During these difficult times.
Beverley (French) Ovitt
November 14, 2011
Stockbridge and Church Street will never be the same now that Judy has passed. She always went about doing things in her quiet, passionate way and always got the job done! She set a shining example for her family, friends, neighbors and the town she loved. Though Judy is gone, her spirit will live on in the hearts of many. My condolences to Jack, the girls and family members.
Shannon Sinico
November 14, 2011
Mr.Spencer,
I am so saddened to hear of this tragic news. My prayers and love are with you and your entire family.
midge Kroll(Lowden)
November 14, 2011
Sorry for your loss
Leslie Luchonok
November 14, 2011
Dear Jack and Family,
Judy was a shining light to everyone who knew her.
Her light will always continue to shine in our hearts.
Deepest sympathy to all your family.
Leslie
Sara Willis-Kovel
November 14, 2011
Dear Mr. Spencer,
I'm very sorry to hear of your wife's sudden passing. Stopping at your house on Halloween each year when I was a little girl for a Dunkin' Donut hole was the highlight of our Halloween night on Church Street. I recall my mom bent the "no wrapper, no eating" rule because "it was from a nice family's home". Your wife was a very kind woman who will be missed. I'm very sorry for your loss.
Bonnie Nielson
November 14, 2011
Like a candle's light, Judy's life brought those of us whose lives she touched light and warmth. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Maribeth (Schuler) Forbes
November 14, 2011
Dear Jack, Anne Marie and Kathy,
I was very saddend to hear of the loss of Judy. She was a wonderful person. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
November 14, 2011
Dear Jack, Ann Marie, Kathy and all of your family,
The world without Judy Spencer in it is impossible for me to imagine. I have known her since I was 14 years old: first, as a wonderful and caring teacher, later as a great friend and, with Jack, frequent dinner partner. I will miss everything about her and still cannot believe that the last time I saw her was the last time I will ever see her. She lives on in all of you, and she is at peace.
Love,
Patty Vincent
John Falkowski
November 14, 2011
So sorry to hear .. my condolences to the family
November 14, 2011
Jack,
Your sister shared with me the sad news of Judy's passing. Please know that you and your family are in our prayers.
Matthew and the Keator Family
Vinnie/Linda Cardillo
November 14, 2011
Our Thoughts and prayers are with you.
lauren sartori
November 14, 2011
JACK, andrea and I are heartbroken! both you and judy have touched so many lives over a great number of years. she was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed by all of us who were fortunate enough to have know her.
Donna Fenn
November 14, 2011
Dear Jack and family, I was so shocked and saddened to hear of Judy's passing. She was such a lovely person and I so enjoyed keeping in touch with the two of you after all these years. What a full and wonderful life you had together, and how proud you should be of her legacy. With love and deepest sympathy to your entire family,
Joni Vincent
November 14, 2011
Jack & Family:
There aren't words to say how shocked and sad I am after hearing this news.
I'm so glad we got to share dinner not all that long ago. It was a great night.
Please know that I am thinking of you all at this sad time.
Allison (Edwards) Williams
November 14, 2011
Dear Mr. Spencer, and family,
I am so devastated by your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all as you cope. I know you will feel her warmth and love for eternity, since she had so much left to give.
Much love and hugs,
Allison (Edwards) Williams
Ingrid Hagberg
November 14, 2011
Ann Marie, Kathy, Mr. Spencer
Ann Marie, I'm so sorry about your mother. It sounds as though she stayed active enjoying everything life has to offer. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Sincerely
Ingrid Hagberg
Kim Twing
November 14, 2011
Dear Mr. Spencer, Kathy, and Ann Marie,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your families and friends. She will be missed so much.
Fond Regards,
Kim Twing
Ray Gruszecki
November 14, 2011
My heartfelt condolences on the death of your wife.
Arthur Gangell Jr
November 14, 2011
My heart and prayers are with the Spencer family. God bless and rest easy Judy
Donna Rotondo
November 14, 2011
Jack and Judy,
So sorry to hear of Judy's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you both at this time of sorrow.
Mary Kay Clark
November 14, 2011
Dear Mr. Spencer,
I am very sorry for your loss. Please accept my condolences and prayers for you and your family.
Mary Kay, MMRHS, Class of 1973
Peg lattinville
November 14, 2011
Dear Mr Spencer, so sorry to hear of your wife's death. Please accept our sympathy. Peg and Bruce lattinville(Ann)
Kathie Bennett
November 14, 2011
Please let me extend my sincere sympathies to the Spencer family for their great loss of Judith.
~Kathie Harmon Bennett~
Eliza and Marco Crescentini
November 14, 2011
We will miss Judy Spencer dearly. We are so grateful for all the love and community Judy brought to everyone she knew. We will miss her strong presence and warmth in a community that reflects her generosity and commitment. We send our love to the most important part of her life, her family, during this extremely sad time. Judy, we will miss you more than words can say but we are extremely grateful for the community you have shaped for all of us.
November 14, 2011
I never had the pleasure of meeting Judy Spencer, but her obituary tells a beautiful story which compels me to say to her family, I am truly sorry for your loss. It seems you have lost a gem.
Linda Perry/Williamstown,MA
Steve McAlister
November 14, 2011
Our whole family sends our deepest condolences to Judy's family. We are keeping you all in our prayers. She has been such a friend and a help to me through the years and is already missed. Her goodness will live on in our hearts and memories.
Danielle Kinne
November 14, 2011
Mr. Spencer,
I was shocked to hear of Judy's passing. May you know now that she is looking down on you from the heaven above..so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers and thoughts!
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