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Lawrence Ilario "Larry" Menin

1946 - 2019

Lawrence Ilario "Larry" Menin obituary, 1946-2019, Pittsfield, MA

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1946

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2019

Lawrence Menin Obituary

Larry Menin has sang the last song of his last set, but his music will remain with us. He passed away peacefully on December 27th at home surrounded by his family and with his loving wife by his side.

Born in Pittsfield on September 15, 1946, Larry was the son of the late Ilario L. "Lolly" and Olga "Ukie" Carpinello Menin. Having been educated in the local elementary schools, he was a 1964 graduate of St. Joseph's High School. As a child, Larry served for many years as an altar boy for All Souls Church.

Earlier in life, he was a licensed toolmaker and also worked at the Berkshire Athenaeum. Later on, he worked for several local building trade contractors, but his passion was always music.

A VietNam veteran, Larry served as a Medical Corpsman and completed his service with the Army National Guard. He was a proud member of the Pittsfield Italian American Club as well as the local American Legion.

Childhood summers were spent at the Menin/Puntin family cottage on Goose Pond where he and his cousins enjoyed swimming, fishing and waterskiing.

Larry's skills went beyond music. He was skilled with auto repairs, woodworking and also enjoyed carpentry. He had an eye for detail and the vision and skills to see the finished product before even starting a project. These skills showed at the family cottage, his home and his garage, and with the help of his son, Larry renovated them all meticulously.

An avid fan of the NY Giants and his NY Yankees, it was said that Larry "bled pinstripes." Entertaining people since he was a child in his family home, he started playing on stages in his early teens. He even began sneaking out of the house at night to play at the Showboat in NY State. Larry was not only a gifted singer and saxophonist, but he also played guitar, keyboard, drums and clarinet. His first instrument was the accordion, which he learned from his father.

Larry was a professional musician, and played in some of the best bands in the Berkshires. These bands included The Corvairs, The Cradle, The Checks, Larry Menin Band, Hip Pocket, The Good Time Habit, and The Higgins Brothers Band. He had tremendous respect for the musicians he played with, for he always knew that with his band backing him up, the music they made would make the magic.

Larry worked at the Eastover Resort in Lenox, MA for over 30 years entertaining guests of over 500 nightly. He also helped build floats for the Eastover Train in the annual 4th of July Parade. He made many lifelong friends at Eastover and had the opportunity to have Christopher Cross sit in with him and The Higgins Brothers. Larry also sat in with the band Orleans several times.

Larry was a good man and a caring and genuine friend to many. His wit and sense of humor was unmatched and there was always laughter when he was around. Recently Larry was asked what he did for a living and his was response was, "I was a musician all my life. I made people happy."

He and his wife, the former Constance "Connie" M. Teal, whom he married October 20, 1985, just celebrated their 34th wedding anniversary. Larry will always be remembered for his favorite phrase, "Who loves ya, Baby?"

Larry and Connie shared their home and garage openly with family and many friends. You could always find him in the garage, tinkering with something, fixing something, or building something. The "Garagemahal" became a "World Class Destination" and was "Open All Night." The Kentucky Derby, the Super Bowl or any number of birthday parties- the Garage was just a great place to hang out with your friends.

In addition to his wife Connie, Larry is survived by his son, Lawrence R. Menin and his wife, Nan, of Pittsfield, two grandsons, Keith A. Menin and Luke J. Menin, his sister, Livia Lawlor, his niece Lisa Raby and nephews Kevin and John Lawlor, of Surprise, AZ, and his nephews, Mark and David Tretowicz. He also leaves his brother and sister-in-law, Stephen and Cheryl Teal of FL, and great-nieces and nephews, Alyssa, Adam, Lindsey, Evan, Hanna, Samantha, Michael, Abigail, and Jacob.

Larry was predeceased by his other sister, Patricia Tretowicz and her husband Richard, as well as his brother-in-law George Lawlor.

The Menin family wishes to thank Dr. DeLeo and Dr. Mullally of Berkshire Hematology, as well as their wonderful staff, most especially the angels in the infusion center, for their help through Larry's illness. They would also like to thank Hospice of Central and Western Mass and Dr. Thomas McNulty, as well as his staff, for all of their care. A special shout out to Larry's "Wheel Man" John Vittone and special friend Caryl Tuggey for all their help.

SERVICES: Calling hours at the DEVANNY-CONDRON FUNERAL HOME will be Thursday, January 2nd from 3:30-6:30PM. The Celebration of Larry's life will continue Friday morning from the funeral home beginning at 10am with a Liturgy of Christian Burial at 11AM at Sacred Heart Church with Rev. Frank Lawlor officiating.

Larry was an animal lover and adored his many dogs, cats, and rabbits over the years. Thus, memorial donations may be made to the Berkshire Humane Society, in care of the funeral home.

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Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Dec. 31, 2019.

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Jim Mac Gowan

February 15, 2020

Great memories at the "Tally Ho" with the
Higgins Brothers. A superb musician and a
nice guy. Rest In Peace, Larry

February 12, 2020

I will never forget being a little kid in Lakewood, being allowed to sit and listen to his band practise in his garage. It was a real thrill for us kids, and he never made us feel like pests. RIP. You brought a lot of joy. Lilla DeLuca

Edward DeLuca

February 9, 2020

To the family of Larry,
I had the privilege of knowing Larry since I was a kid in my neighborhood of Lakewood and he would be practicing in his garage on Melrose with his band. He was a little older but became friends and he even played at my club years later and even catching him showing up to play at my high school reunion years later. Always a good friend and when thinking of him a smile to my face, RIP Larry!!

Lou and Sandy Thomas

January 4, 2020

Dear Connie and Family,
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family
For your loss.
Larry was a creative musician who gave pleasure and enjoyment to all who heard him sing and play that great sax. He will be missed by everyone who knew him and had the pleasure of his friendship
And musical ability.
God rest his soul and grant him everlasting peace .

Chico & Patty Martin

January 3, 2020

Connie & Family
Our heart felt condolences to all of you. What a great guy Larry was. We have so many great memories of him playing and entertaining for so many of us, for so many years. We will keep all of you in our prayers at this difficult time.

Pamela Shogry Durham

January 3, 2020

As a teenager, I went to listen to Larry play, and man, could he play that sax! I loved his music. My condolences to his family and friends and fellow musicians, as he will be greatly missed. Let it be said that Larry made a good time a habit...

January 3, 2020

On is & family,

So sad to hear about Larry. I grew up in Lakewood so I knew him way back. He used to plow our driveway. I always looked forward to seeing him. He always made me laugh. Now he's in Music Heaven playing with them all.

Mary Leoncini

Paul & Kathy Ricciarini

January 3, 2020

Dear Connie & Family,
Our hearts go out to all of you to find the Peace and Strength needed, to help you through these most challenging and saddest of times...Larry was such an incredible inspiration not only through his artistic gifts, but equally through his kindness, humor and compassion that came through with such an Aura, that made everyone's day that much better.
Please know how much he is loved by all who had the privilege to know him and how much we will celebrate the Honor of his Simplistic yet the Great Life he shared with so many of us....
Our deepest sympathy, our Prayers are with you & we will continue our Dance' in his Memory...
Paul & Kathy Ricciarini

Frank Mooney

January 3, 2020

I had been going to Eastover from 1976 'til it closed in 2009 and Larry with the Higgins Brothers was my favorite entertainer there. He was wonderful! My condolences to his family and friends.

Bernie Auge'

January 2, 2020

Our condolences to the Menin Family.Larry was a good man,friend,and fellow classmate who will be truly missed.
Bernie & Carol Auge'

Laurie Gaherty

January 2, 2020

Connie and Family - sending good thoughts as you face this tough time. Hopefully the music will always see you through and bring smiles and good memories for years to come.

January 2, 2020

Great guy and great musician. Will be missed by all who were lucky enough to know him. Rest in peace my friend!

January 2, 2020

Rest in Peace Larry

May God hold you in the palm of his hand and bring you safely home where there is peace and no suffering - just music playing.

Pam Delmolino

Pam Delmolino

January 2, 2020

Connie, and Larry and family

My deepest sympathy to each one of you who had such a wonderful man in your lives.
When someone you LOVE becomes a memory, those memories become a treasure forever.
Heaven has an angel that will forever be playing music and we get to hear it all down here. Cherish the love and memories you have of him, and they will last you a lifetime. It does not get easier as days go by its just different, that this beloved man has passed on to a better life in heaven.
Sending my Sympathy and Love to all of you.

Pam Delmolino

Mike Frank

January 1, 2020

God Speed Larry, a good friend and band mate of many years.
You will be missed......

Bill & Debbie Tobin

January 1, 2020

Connie & Family, sorry for your loss you are in our thoughts and prayers please accept our condolences

Laurie Santolin McDarby

January 1, 2020

Livia and Family,
So very sorry to read about Larry's passing. You, Pat and Larry were so much a part of my childhood while at Goose Pond...as were the Puntin's and Molino's. So many memories...and...so very blessed.
As you know...At the age of 5, my wearing fashionable pigtails, Larry was my first boy crush. I tagged along with the three of you ...and to think you never sent me home. The row boat rides on the pond..where we sang ....over and over and over...Row Row Your Boat! The entertainment was so much fun at our gatherings...Larry, Lolly and Tillie playing accordions and Tillie singing Italian songs. Such a wonderful group of people that cared so much for all us kids!
My very deepest sympathy to all of Larry's family.
Fondly,

Gary Lagarce

January 1, 2020

Dear Menin Family, so sorry for your loss. Remember watching and listening to Larry's band at Eastover often.
Thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Linda Tognini-Williams

January 1, 2020

Connie and family
I am so sorry to hear of Larry's passing. May he Rest In Peace. He may be gone but he will never be forgotten.

Laurie Santolin McDarby

January 1, 2020

Livia and Family,
I was very sad to read about Larry's passing. You and your family were such a big part of my childhood while at Goose Pond, as were the Puntin's and Molino's. So many wonderful memories, we were blessed.
As you know, at the age of 5, wearing my fashionable pigtails, Larry was my first boy crush. I was such a tag along with you,Pat and Larry. Not once did you tell me to go home...instead we would go out in the row boat ... and sing over and over and over..Row,Row,Row Your Boat.
I remember Larry, Lolly and Tillie playing their accordions at our gatherings.....such happy times.
My very deepest sympathy to you and your family

Dave Healey

January 1, 2020

Connie & Family,

Please accept our condolences on Larry's passing. My last jam with him was up in Linc's barn when he walked up to me and said "Hey Heals...how ya doin'?. Funny thing is..I knew his father all the way back in the musicians union days. Guys like Larry don't come along every day. He was incredibly gifted and shared that gift with everyone he met. The horn may be silenced but the notes that were produced will ring on for all time.

Dave & Helen Healey
Beverly Hills, FL

Jim DiPalazzo

January 1, 2020

Connie & family Larry was a great guy & friend,growing up in Lakewood.My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Maryanne Chapman

December 31, 2019

Sending love and deepest condolences to the family and friends of our dear Larry. He was a special man. Always will I remember his laugh and sence of humor. Connie...May all your special memories help you to get through this difficult time.

Patty Barnini Rivers

December 31, 2019

Dear Connie and family:

The news on the passing of this great man hit everyone hard. Larry accomplished so much in his life. A man loved by all who were blessed to know him and his family.
Thanks for the memories Larry.

Deepest sympathy and prayers for all.

Patty Barnini Rivers

Gregory Meunier

December 31, 2019

Honestly, I didn't know Larry except through his music and performances in my early teens. Back then if you were going to a dance and Larry Menin was playing, there was no way you would miss him. If you found he was playing in the area on a night you could be there, that became the plan, period. By observation, he was older than his years and very much a leader.
To those of my generation, he is an Icon, born, bred, nurtured in Pittsfield and very much appreciated.

He's not gone, he's just fading away slowly in time until I and those like me have disappeared.WE will be gone He is a Legend.

Cherished Friend Bouquet- VASE INCLUDED

Riccardo Deluca

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Livia lawlor

December 31, 2019

Dear Brother Larry You suffered so much pain and now you have Dad Mom and our dear sister patty meeting you and no more pain I love you Some day we will be a family together again

Bill & Debbie Tobin

December 31, 2019

Connie & Family , so sorry to here about Larry he was a good man going to be missed you are in our thoughts and prayers please accept our condolences

Brigid Hayes Rufo

December 31, 2019

I worked with Larry at the Berkshire Athenaeum many years ago. He always had my friend Hannah and me in stitches. Such a funny guy. In the 70's we followed the Good Time Habit just to listen to his music and dance. He did the best rendition of Van Morrison's "Moondance"! Rest in peace! I'll keep him in my prayers.

Susan Surwell

December 31, 2019

To the family

I am sadden to hear about Larry. Sending my prayers and love at this difficult time. I will cherish all the great memories growing up at Goose Pond and living right next door. Hats off to Larry you will be amongst the best Angels. Will cherish all the wonderful memories.

Gene Galvagni

December 31, 2019

Rest In Peace Larry

Mark Bruno

December 31, 2019

Larry was an amazing musician, and a great guy. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Lenox Police Department

December 31, 2019

Connie and family,

Please accept our condolences.

Jim & Terry Boland

December 31, 2019

Connie and Family,

We are so very sorry to hear of Larry's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Joseph Rock

December 31, 2019

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Wanda Libardi

December 31, 2019

So very sorry to hear of Larry's passing. Love & prayers to Connie & family. Heaven's got some great music going on up there!!! Wanda Libardi

Mardi Goldman

December 31, 2019

My sincere condolences to Connie and family. Larry was an awesome musician and an all around great guy. RIP Larry!!

Dave Healey

December 31, 2019

To Connie

Tim ONEILL

December 31, 2019

so sorry for your loss. He was a cool guy. I have two memories I wanted to share, I worked in the snack bar at Eastover. The night of the World Series that Bill Buckner missed the dribbler, we were watching on a little tv one of the guys had. When he saw that play I thought he was going to have a stroke he was laughing so hard, spilled his Coffee and everything .
The other memory replayed a number of times, he'd be on break at the snack bar, and someone would approach him and say you guys are great ! You should go professional. He be standing there with his coy smile, stirring his coffee and without missing a beat, he would wink at me tell the person, tell you what, for a small deposit I can let you in on the ground floor!
Anyways, sorry for your loss, he was a cool guy that I'm happy to have known

joe Gomes

December 31, 2019

Connie and the whole family,
You have my deepest sympathies on the loss of Larry. Man we had some good times and we always had great music. You always knew Larry was having a blast when he had the sax in his hands and was blowing a solo. We will miss that dearly. Rest in peace Larry. Now you're with the great company of Berkshire musicians who passed before you and hold a place in their band of the afterlife. Rock 'em brother!

December 31, 2019

Connie Ma
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Sending love and warm hugs to you. Larry my friend, Godspeed, rest easy.
Love, Carol, Dale, Emma & Jake xoxoxo

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