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Mary Alice Rathbun

1943 - 2025

BORN

1943

DIED

2025

Mary Rathbun Obituary

Mary Alice Rathbun, 82, of Lee passed away very peacefully on Mon., Nov. 24, 2025. Born in Pittsfield, MA on June 21, 1943, daughter of Maritta and Franklyn Withers.

She attended Lee schools where she was very active in everything she could! Her secretary skills were amazing, she played piano, and was captain of the cheerleading squad! The majority of her adult life was spent in Tyringham, housekeeping for several families near her. Before her late husband, Ozzie, passed away they lived together at Brown Memorial in Lee. Mary had a zest for life and always made people laugh with her lovable and promiscuous humor. Her laughter was contagious!! She will be greatly missed.

She leaves behind her son, Kris Herlihy, siblings: Mark Withers (Rhoda), Vinton Withers, Glenn Withers (Sally), Kathy Withers (Lloyd), Debra Griffin, Matthew Withers (Michelle) and Stephen Withers (Nikki). Also a special Thank you to her very close and loving friend Scott Hamilton.

Besides her parents, she was predeceased by her 3 sons: MIchael J. Herlihy, Jeffrey W. Herlihy, and Kenneth J. Herlihy.

Per Mary's request there will be no calling hours or funeral. The family will be scheduling a graveside burial at a later date.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Dec. 3, 2025.

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Carol e. Fletcher

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My thoughts and prayers to the family. I always loved chatting with Mary and giggling. Great lady.

Doreen Rushbrook

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Mary will be missed by all who knew her. She was a kind and caring woman. My condolences to her family.

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