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ALAN O'BRIEN Obituary

O'BRIEN, Alan J. Vietnam Veteran, Purple Heart, Bronze Star recipient; Age 71, of Pelham, NH (formerly of Cambridge, MA), died Monday, November 4, 2019 at Lowell General Hospital with his loving family by his side. He was the beloved husband of 47 years to Janice (Pappagianopoulos) O'Brien. B esides his wife, he is survived by his daughter Lyssa M. Santolucito and her husband Derek of Pelham, NH; two grandchildren Cameron T. and Isabella J. Santolucito; 4 brothers William E. Jr., Robert, Paul, and Kenneth O'Brien and their wives; many nieces, nephews, grand nieces and nephews, cousins and friends. He was also the brother of the late Cheryl A. O'Brien and David "Ronnie" O'Brien. Born in Cambridge, Massachusetts in 1948, a son of the late William E. and Elizabeth (Rivers) O'Brien, Sr., he attended Cambridge schools and was a graduate of Cambridge Rindge Tech. Prior to his retirement, he was a custodian at MIT in Cambridge and spent many prior years in the printing industry. Friends may Call at the Pelham Funeral Home, 11 Nashua Rd. in PELHAM, NH from 3 to 7 P.M., Monday, November 11, 2019. Relatives and friends are invited to attend his Funeral Mass to be celebrated Tuesday morning at ST. Patrick Church in Pelham at 10 o'clock followed by his burial at the New Hampshire State VA Cemetery in Boscawen, NH. E-condolences/directions at www.pelhamfuneralhome.com Those wishing may make contributions in his memory to The Gary Sinise Foundation, P.O. Box 368, Woodland Hills, CA, 91365. Arrangements by Funeral Director James F. O'Donnell, Jr. (603) 635-3333.

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Published by Boston Globe from Nov. 7 to Nov. 10, 2019.

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THE MEGANS

November 8, 2019

JANICE LYSSA DEREK

Rick Ames

November 8, 2019

Knew Alan from Cambridge growing up as well as his brothers and father. Great family with great senses of humour. Condolences to the family.

Catherine Kennedy

November 7, 2019

RIP UNCLE ALAN THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE AND SACRIFICE I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER GOING TO YOUR HOUSE IN CAMBRIDGE YOUR WERE ALWAYS SO SWEET EVERY TIME I SEEN YOU AND AUNT JANICE YOU ARE NOT SUFFERING ANY MORE YOU ARE NOW WITH YOUR LOVED ONES ❤ TIL WE ALL MEET AGAIN LOVE YOU
CATHY KENNEDY

Kay and Joe Lawless

November 7, 2019

Joe and I wish to extend our deepest sympathy to you and your family. I'm sure you have wonderful memories of Alan and tthe many years together as you raised your family. May Alan's memory be eternal..

November 7, 2019

Joe and I wish to extend our deepest sympathy to you and your family. I know. What a great couple were we're as you share your life t

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