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Anita Valentine Obituary

Died September 26, 2003 at the Winchester Hospital surrounded by family after a 3-year battle with lymphoma. Mrs. Valentine was born Jan. 4, 1939 in Newburyport, MA, the daughter of the late Irving C. Lewis and the late Hazel B. (Maynard) Lewis. She was educated in the Harvard, MA public schools and received her BS in Nursing from the University of Massachusetts, Amherst in 1961. She is survived by her husband of 42 years James R. of Reading, a son J. Kenneth Valentine of Boston; three daughters and families, Janine and husband James Astor and children Lucy, Sasha, and Kitty of London, England; Karin and husband John Goins and daughter Alyssa of Worcester; and Sharon and husband Michael Valentine and sons Daniel and Joshua of Bremen, Germany. Mrs. Valentine was a reading resident at the same address since 1966. She devoted her life to family and community through numerous volunteer efforts, particularly focused on children. She was a lifelong organizer, leader, and participant for Girl Scout activities in the Reading Community as well as a board member and officer of the regional Patriots' Trail Council and its predecessor, the Mystik Side Council. She was a founder and board member of the Reading Extended-day After-school Program ("REAP"). She was involved with the METCO program, serving as a host parent for many years. She was active in the League of Women Voters, with particular interest in health and child welfare issues. She was a charter member of the Circle 10 of the First Congregational Church in Reading. A Memorial Service will be held Friday, October 3 at 11:00 am at the First Congregational Church 25 Woburn St., Reading. Relatives and friends invited to attend. Visiting hours will be held Thurs from 4-8 at the Douglass, Edgerley & Bessom Funeral Home, 25 Sanborn St., (corner of Woburn St.) READING. Burial is private. In lieu of flowers contributions may be made in her name to: Patriot's Trail Girl Scout Council, Development Office, 95 Berkeley St., Boston, MA 02116 or Leukemia and Lymphoma Society, 495 Old Connecticut Path, Suite 220, Framingham, MA 01701. For info, directions & register book visit www.johnbdoug lassfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Boston Globe from Sep. 30 to Oct. 1, 2003.

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Jim and Jennie Oberholtzer

October 2, 2003

Dear JR and Family--when Pat F called this morning to let us know about Anita's passing, we were shocked and saddened. She always had such a nice, friendly way about her and always had a great smile. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. May God give you all strength, comfort and peace as you remember happier times with Anita. With love, Jim and Jennie

Terrance Bacchus

October 2, 2003

Anita treated me like one of her own children and I will never forget her. I thank God that she is no longer suffering.

Anna and Marc Lachance

September 30, 2003

Valentine Family-

We are truly sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that our thoughts are with you.

patty finnegan-zaccardo

September 30, 2003

We are so sorry for your loss. We have known Anita for so many years from many girlscout memories to being a good friend and mentor. We will miss her very much. The Zaccardo family, Patty, Rick, Carolynn,Jaqulynn, Dan and Jimmy

Susan Gryglik-Reilly

September 30, 2003

I wish to extend my sympathy to the Valentine Family. I had the pleasure of working with Anita on many committees as well as the Board of Directors of PTGSC.

Diane White

September 30, 2003

Fondly remembering all our Girl Scout associations---the many meetings, events, planning sessions, activities---that I shared with Anita. She will be missed. What a Girl Scout!!! Fondly, Diane White

Patricia Cummings

September 30, 2003

May Anita be in heaven and may the family have the peace of God in their hearts.

Barbara Estabrook

September 30, 2003

Our thoughts are with you all.

with love from Karin's co-workers at University of Massachusetts, Worcester

John B. Douglass & John B. Douglass II

September 30, 2003

This book of memories is to serve as a record of the services you entrusted to us. We hope it will help to preserve treasured memories and that we, in some small measure, have helped to ease your burden and bring you comfort.

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