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Betty Arnold Obituary

ARNOLD, Bette Jeanne (Berman) Of Boston and New Seabury, died of natural causes on May 22. Beloved wife of Robert Charles (MacMurdo) and former wife of the late Chappie Arnold, adored mother of The Honorable Judith A. Cowin and her husband The Honorable William I. Cowin and the late Joyce (Jackie) Arnold Rusoff. Cherished grandmother of April Ruth (Cowin) Stein and Geoff Stein, Jackie (Cowin) Daniels and Mark Daniels, and William Phillip Cowin and April (Pressel) Cowin. Great-grandmother of Harper, Gavin and Graham Stein and Colette Cowin and step great-grandmother of Emily and Michael Daniels. A former resident of Newton and Hull, she was the flamboyant and high-spirited proprietor of "Bette's Rolls Royce" restaurant by Faneuil Hall in Boston. She was also a devoted, loving and inspiring mother to her daughters. Bette was decades ahead of her time, a woman's liberationist years before the term was in vogue. She had successful careers in three different business fields, assisting her late husband Chappie Arnold with "Chappie Arnold's Orchestra," and later operating the Arnold Bus Company with him before she opened her restaurant. Later she helped her second husband run the Bob Charles Transportation Company. She did all this while raising two daughters, providing them with enormous love and affection and instilling in them a desire to succeed and the knowledge that there were no boundaries to their accomplishments if they simply worked hard enough. Besides her work, she enjoyed travel, ballet, opera and the theatre and adored swimming in any body of water. She slept little, preferring to live life to the fullest each day and leave sleeping for her final resting place. At Bette's request, a graveside service will be held at the Newton Cemetery, Section 3, Lot 1, at 791 Walnut Street in Newton on Thursday, May 26 at 6PM. Family and friends are welcome at the home of her daughter after the service. Boston Harborside Home J. S. Waterman & Sons-Waring-Langone 617-536-4110

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Published by Boston Globe from May 23 to May 25, 2011.

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Barbara Brilliant

June 4, 2011

Dear Judy
We just returned after traveling and were so sorry to hear about your mother Betty. She was so alive that it's hard to believe she's gone.
Our deepest sympathy.
Bril and Barbara Brilliant

William McKendry

May 25, 2011

Betty instilled in me the "Spirit of the restaurant industry". I loved her hutzpah. R.I.P. How bout that "Rolls"

Michael Sullivan

May 25, 2011

To the Arnold Family:

Please accept my deepest sympathies. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Sincerely,

Michael Sullivan

Mel Phippin

May 24, 2011

Full of life and loving every minute of it. That's how I will remember Bette. My sincerest condolences to Bob, Judy and Bill and the entire Cowin clan. Bette was a truly remarkable person and I am pleased to have met her and have her as part of my memory.

Jill Mac Murdo

May 24, 2011

Bette,
What a truely inspirational person you were. I have very fond memories of you and will cherish those deeply. You will be missed by us all.
Uncle Bob..all our love to you and if you should need anything, we are only a phone call away.
Love always,
Dave and Jill

Ray Holub

May 23, 2011

Bette, You are irreplaceable, truely one of a kind! I have a smile on my face when ever I think of you.... God Bless You.... Get the Band tuned up... I want to see you sing again in heaven! With Love Ray Holub

lack marjorie

May 23, 2011

Michael and I have lost one of our truest and loving friends...Marjorie and Michael Lack

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