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Brenda Waller Obituary

Age 51 of Methuen died Saturday, November 4th at home. Survived by her husband Don, children Lindsay, Joshua, Griffin, Shannon, and Donald, Jr. and his wife Candice, and "Deja", her 90 pound puppy. Brother Erik and wife Leanne Fredrikson of Billerica, sisters Lauren and husband Robert Gentz of No. Babylon, NY, Kim Crimmins of Clinton, NJ, her mother Jan and husband Robert Robinson of Derry, NH and father Erik and wife Dottie Fredrikson of Framingham, MA. Brother in law, Arthur Waller and wife Paulette of Lawrence, sister in law Annetta and husband George Norris of Salem, NH, along with many nieces, nephews and grandchildren. Calling hours Wednesday from 5-9PM at the Cataudella Funeral Home, 126 Pleasant Valley Street, METHUEN, MA 01844. Funeral services Thursday at 11AM at the funeral home
Published by Boston Globe on Nov. 7, 2006.

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Janice Robinson

November 4, 2015

My Dearest Brenda,
You are missed so much. The more the time passes, the more we all say to ourselves - "wouldn't Brenda just love to share this?" You have 3 dear Grandsons and also a sweet baby Granddaughter on her way. I'm sure they were sent from heaven so no doubt you have met them there already!
Not a single day passes that somehow we all feel your presence in your children and now your grandchildren!
I miss you so and also your brother, Erik.
You would be so happy and proud of Lindsay, Josh and Griff. They have inherited all of the endearing sweet traits of yours and Don's.
You have a Birthday to celebrate soon on Nov 24.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! I love and miss you Dear Brenda.

Lauren Gentz

November 24, 2011

Happy Birthday to my Dear Sweet Sister, partner in shopping crimes, lover of children, flowers, animals, sunsets and all things beautiful....Your zest for life lives in my heart forever. Miss your bright green eyes and our day to day conversation. Cannot believe it has been five years...although measuring time seems silly as of late. I know, with every beat of my heart that I will see you again. Until then, keep visiting me in my dreams Bren. Love You forever. Lau

Erik & Brenda

Janice Robinson

February 20, 2011

Dear Brenda,

Our dearest thoughts of you are never ending. By now you must have had a wonderful reunion with your brother, Erik. He joined you on November 15th. We on earth are pained by his sudden departure but the thoughts that you are there to help him thru this transition is comforting. Our thoughts and prayers are with you both - always.

Love you always Brenda,
Your Mom

Janice Robinson

October 23, 2010

Dearest Brenda,

Thinking of you especially this weekend. Jeannie B and your friends are gathering at Loon Mt. for the annual remembrance of that fall weekend you always enjoyed together there. The foliage is in its full glory here in N.H. I couldn't make it there this year to join them at the "Gypsy". I know you will be there in spirit and love. It's been almost 4 years since you found your place in heaven. We all feel your presence and know you are with us.

Please give Chandler a gentle touch to help her through some difficult times. She needs some encouragement and Aunty Brenda can soothe her pain.
We all miss you more than ever.

Love You Always.
Your Mom

Janice Robinson

February 3, 2010

Dearest Brenda,

Another year gone and we find ourselves wondering where it went and how did we get into 2010 already? Holidays come and go and its never going to be the same without you. We miss the family gatherings at your house. You were the glue that held us all together. Your spirit is always with us and family celebrations are fondly remembered.

You will be happy to know that Josh and Catie came to dinner this past Sunday. It was such fun to have them and we vowed to not let so much time go by again. You would be proud of Josh - he's so grown up and busy with his life's plans. A really nice son you have raised. You would be proud of your 3 children and the choices they have made during the difficult times they face in growing up.

We love and miss you Brenda. Your dear presence is felt always.

Love Always, Your Mom

Kim,Erik,Laruen-Memorial Walk/Run, Nov.09

Kim Fredrikson

December 25, 2009

Hi Bren,
Thinking of you this season and
of all the things you use to do
to make the holidays festive.
Was wonderful to "talk" to you
and the family. Missing you...
Love, Your Big Sister

Grampy and Brenda's Birthday

Janice Robinson

November 24, 2009

Dear Brenda,

Today November 24th would have been your 55th birthday. I'm wondering if you celebrated with Grampy. It was his birthday today - Nov. 24th too. What does a birthday cake in heaven taste and look like? We miss you so much and now our friend Barbara Brissman has joined you on this past Saturday November 21st. I know you will show her arond and help her find her way. We love you and reminisce about the past and all your special days.
Love you always and forever,
Your Mom

November 8, 2009

Dear Brenda,

On Sunday, Nov. 1, 2009 your TIP family hosted the third annual Brenda Memorial Walk in your honor. As in the previous 2 years it was a huge success and so many familiar faces again joined in to make your Healing Garden a reality. I am sure you were there to gently touch everyone in your own special way. The beautiful pink granite bench engraved with your name has been placed in the Garden. It is beautiful and many race participants visited the location afterwards. But, again, you were there in spirit to show your approval.

Time continues to pass and I miss you more each day. Not a day goes by that somehow a whisp of a memory, a reminder, a gentle fleeting touch brings me back to so many endearing days of the past.

I love and miss you dear Brenda,
As ever, your Mom

Kim, Erik and Lauren at Brenda's Walk - Nov. 1, 2009

November 7, 2009

Lauren and Lily walk - Nov 1, 2009

November 7, 2009

Maureen (Moe) Constantino - walking Nov. 1, 2009

November 7, 2009

Griffin and Josh Walk - Nov 1, 2009

November 7, 2009

Jeanne & Family join walk on Nov. 1, 2009

November 7, 2009

A place to reflect

November 7, 2009

Brenda's Bench in the Healing Garden

November 6, 2009

Jeanne's Annual Trip to Loon Mt.

Jan Robinson

October 25, 2009

Dearest Brenda,

Another year and another October weekend at Loon Mt. The tradition you started so many years ago carries on. Jeanne B. continues to gather your friends together for a sort of retreat from an otherwise hectic pace. Does this all sound familiar?

Barb B and daughter Donna came with me for the day yesterday and we met Jeanne and Annie there. It was a day for remembering, travelling the same paths you would take each year. We even ate lunch at your favorite place -The Gypsy Cafe. But then - I am sure you were there helping us order our lunch. A little shopping followed and back to the condo for tea and cake.

How wonderful that we can gather and reminisce about the fun times you all had thru the years. Loon Mountain is still a magical place.

Brenda, I miss you more than words can say. Time doesn't make it any easier.

Love you Always,
Your Mom

July 16, 2009

Hey Bren,

Have you given Marlene the entire guided tour yet? I can just picture, the two of you- wish I was a fly on the wall for that reunion!
Another sweet, tired warrior journeys home to find joy and unconditional love waiting. The suffering is just a memory now- and the incredible love of the past, present and future envelop her. She drops her sword, dons her wings and soars torward the sounds of heaven.

God Bless you and your BFFL Bren!

Miss you every single day--Do you hear me chatting away to you? Hope its not too annoying! Love you forever, Lau

Marlene & Mom - May 2009

June 30, 2009

Janice Robinson

June 30, 2009

Dear Brenda,
So much time has passed and we're missing you more than ever. You are with us in many ways each and every day. Your dear childhood friend, Marlene Sheehan has crossed the bridge and is now with you. Her battle with cancer ended at 3AM on June 28th this past weekend. She has taken with her on her journey a picture you had given her. I cannot tell you how many stories about you she has shared with me the past 2 years. True friends are forever!
I love and miss you Brenda.

As Ever, Your Mom

Jayan & friend TIP Walkathon 11-2-08

November 22, 2008

TIP Volunteers check in Runners & Walkers 11-2-08

November 22, 2008

Kim, Erik, Mom, Leanne, Lauren 11-2-08

November 22, 2008

3rd triplet walks for Brenda

November 22, 2008

Brenda's triplets (2)

November 22, 2008

Don, Griff, Lindsay & Josh

Janice Robinson

November 22, 2008

My dearest Brenda,

Today is November 22 and on the 24th you would be celebrating your 54th Birthday.

The Walkathon held on Nov. 2 in your honor was, again, a huge success thanks to Jayan and your TIP friends. So many of your friends and family were there walking or running and carrying you every inch of the way in their hearts. Soon your wish for a healing garden will be fulfilled.

You are missed more than words can say.

Love always, Mom

ANNE SAUNDERS

October 29, 2008

HEY BRENDA....I MISS YOU AND THE GRACE YOU BROUGHT TO LIFE. YOU ALWAYS MADE EVERYONE FEEL COMFORTABLE AND IMPORTANT. I MISS YOUR ADVICE AND LONG TALKS ABOUT LIFE. WHEN YOU ENTERED A ROOM YOUR PRESENCE DREW US ALL TO YOU. WHO KNEW THAT WE WOULD LOVE THE NEW GIRL SO MUCH. LOON WAS A GREAT GET AWAY THIS WEEKEND BUT NEVER THE SAME WITHOUT YOU TO SHOP FOR HOURS AND HOURS. JEANNE SAYS I RUSH HER BUT SECRETLY MEANS SHE MISSES YOU. THE SMELL OF COFFEE IN THE CONDO AND WHIPPED CREAM ON THE TABLE FOR WAFFLES WILL BE FOREVER IN MY MEMORIES LIKE THE MOUNTAINS... FOREVER I WISH I COULD HAVE ONE MORE CONVERSATION WITH YOU IN THE MORNING WHEN IT WAS QUIET, LIKE WE USED TO .I MISS YOU BREN. LOVE ANNIE

Janice Robinson

October 5, 2008

Dear Brenda,
Its Oct. 4, 2008 and soon it will be two years since you joined the angels.

There is another walkathon for you coming up on Nov 2. All of your family and friends will be there to show their commitment to you and your wish for a "healing garden". It was a huge success last year and this year will be even better. I know you will be present in the hearts of all of us, cheering on the runners and walkers who will be there in your honor. Jayan and your TIP friends, again, have planned a great day.

Your dream will someday soon be realized.

We love and miss you, Brenda.

Mom

Brenda's Pink Dogwood Tree

Jan Robinson

June 16, 2008

Dearest Brenda,

Its been nineteen months since you left.

I can feel you guiding us thru our lives and showing each of us how to make a difference the way you would have.

Many times I feel despair and then I realize that you are there in the spirit of all of us.

In my garden I have planted a pink flowering dogwood for you. Everyone knows its our Brenda tree. I look at it and dream off into another place where you are.

All those angels you wished upon us send us comforting messages about you, Brenda.

I miss and love you,
Mom

Lauren

May 7, 2008

Hi Bren, just thinking of you and wishing we could talk- I miss your voice and your advice. Miss shopping with you and going to dunkin donuts. Its Springtime now and I know that you are planting flowers somewhere! And I bet youll be with me when I plant mine. Miss you sister friend. Come visit me in my dreams ok?
Love you always Bren, Laroon

jeanne

February 19, 2008

Hey Bren,

15 Full Moons have come since you went
to heaven... i study everyone of them and see you shining in the glow
as i drive at night
little Aidan always calls them "Brenna's Moons" and knows that they follow us where ever we go
just want you to know i will always see you up there, and i know you are with me love

Jeanne

December 13, 2007

Well I'm sitting here watching our first big snow... and I remember
our skiing adventures..."Oh My God
Jeanne, this is a Black Diamond!"
Yup, I did call you Barbie every time you came out on the slopes, I was jealous cuz I NEVER looked like you did, and all the heads that you turned, jeeeze
but the fun we had... i miss it all...
I speak of you so often and tell all my grieving families about you, show your picture and they grieve for me ...
and I am sure on my lonely nights out on the road, that you are riding with me... hope you are cuz I talk to you all the time and ask your advice in some tough situations.
I'll see you on the slopes soon, and I'm sure you will still be turning heads again..
love me

God's Fall Colors

November 23, 2007

Brenda's Mission

November 23, 2007

Lindsay, Jeff and friends

November 23, 2007

The Triplets and Lindsay

November 23, 2007

Last Group heads for Finish Line

November 23, 2007

Kim and Lauren walking for Brenda

November 23, 2007

Don, Donny, Lindsay, Joshua & Griffin

November 23, 2007

Carol, Lauren, Jayan & Kim Walking

November 23, 2007

Another Winer

November 23, 2007

Jeanne Runs for Brenda

November 23, 2007

Maureen, Kim, Lauren

November 23, 2007

Marlene and her son, Matt

November 23, 2007

Mannie, Bea and triplets

November 23, 2007

Marlene and Jayan

November 23, 2007

Maura, Kim, Dottie

November 23, 2007

Lauren and Jan

November 23, 2007

Waiting for Start

November 23, 2007

Fogartys & Fredriksons

November 23, 2007

Kim

November 23, 2007

Hi Brenda, Happy Thanksgiving..I have been thinking about you a lot lately. I wanted to add a few pictures to your album from the Memorial 5K Run/Walk, thanks for the "Dust in the Wind" at the gas station in CT! Miss you, love you,

Lauren Gentz

November 7, 2007

Hi Bren,
So very hard to believe that it has been a year without you here on the planet! I know that your healing garden will someday be a beautiful reality - what a wonderful tribute to you that will be! You managed, once again, to get everyone that loves you together--I felt your presence and love all weekend!
Miss you and Love you always, Lauren

Jeanne

November 4, 2007

A year has past, and i still go to the phone to call you almost every day,forgetting.. must be that your presence is so strong, i just dont know you are really gone?
are you sweet angel? i miss you like i miss the sun... EVERY day
i still cry...Oh what a baby Huh?
i will walk my fanny off today for you and your Dream.. for I too need a "Healing Garden"
Loon will never be the same... we tried, Oh how we cried
We felt your presence from the Glow of the fireplace and your warmth was with us ....
The sky continues to change, I am sorry, but i am still tired and broken....xo
love jeanne

Mom Brenda,Kim-Christmas, 1954

November 1, 2007

Uncle Ed & Brenda, Feb., 2005

November 1, 2007

School Bus Party, Summer 1969

November 1, 2007

Ken-L-Ration Dog Show Winners, 1958,59

November 1, 2007

Lauren & Brenda at Mom's, Summer 2006

November 1, 2007

Kim Lauren Brenda, 1960

November 1, 2007

Three Sisters and their Dollies, 1959

November 1, 2007

Christmas at Brenda's, 2001

November 1, 2007

Kim Fredrikson

October 25, 2007

Hi Brenda, I can't believe that it's been almost a year since you
moved to your heavenly home. We will all be at the 5K Run/Walk in your honor. Could sure use your wisdom as far as your niece goes! Love and Miss you, Kim

Thumbs Up, Brenda & Erik, August 2005

October 21, 2007

Christmas at Brenda's, December 2005

October 21, 2007

Blowing up the Raft, NH, Aug., 2004

October 21, 2007

Brenda, Venice FL. February 2005

October 21, 2007

Brenda, Erik Jr., Kim, Lauren, Dec., 1964

October 21, 2007

Brenda, Lauren, Erik Jr., Kim at Erik & Leanne's Dec., 1999

October 21, 2007

Brenda, Josh and Lindsay, 1986

October 21, 2007

Kim, Lauren, Erik, Jr., and Brenda, Dec., 1989

October 21, 2007

Brenda and Deja, September, 2005

October 21, 2007

Lindsay, Chandler Brenda, Oakside Ave.,Dec., 1996

October 21, 2007

Dad and the Girls, Late October, 2006

October 21, 2007

Jack Gill, Brenda at her 50th, Nov., 2004

October 21, 2007

Brenda & Gals from Holy Family Hosp. at TIPs Dinner, Oct., 2006

October 21, 2007

Brenda, Mom, Kim at Erik's 40th, Sept., 2004

October 21, 2007

Brenda and Mom, New Mexico, October, 2005

October 21, 2007

Brenda, Cameron & Brandon, NH August, 2006

October 21, 2007

Bren, Lauren, Brandon -Eriks boat 2005

October 12, 2007

October 12, 2007

Maid of Honor helps the bride- 1992

October 12, 2007

Lauren Gentz

October 12, 2007

Hey Bren, Hows heaven? I bet there are beautiful "God colors" where you are. Missing you and shopping and getting into trouble like we used to. My boys miss Auntie Brenda too. I know we will be together again Bren, but I miss knowing you were just a phone call or four drive away. For now, I have my dearest memories to hold close and comfort when the days are hard.
AOYP - Love you always, Laroon

Jan Robinson

October 6, 2007

Our Dearest Brenda,

I feel your presence in the notes left here by your sisters. Its been almost a year now and during these past 11 months, you have always been there to help us thru the chapters of our lives. Not a single day goes by that we can't feel your gentle touch reminding us of your closeness. Images of the past are there to comfort us and to remind us of all the years we shared.

We love and miss you

~~~~~ MOM ~~~~~

Annie, Jeanne & Brenda - October Ritual

October 6, 2007

Her Beautiful Flowers

October 6, 2007

Brenda & Cameron Waller

October 6, 2007

Brenda and Cookie

October 6, 2007

Brenda, ER Nurse

October 6, 2007

Brenda at Loon Mt. 1997

October 6, 2007

Brenda & Chandler - 1993

October 6, 2007

Brenda & Lauren 1991

October 6, 2007

Brenda and the Triplets

October 6, 2007

Lauren, Marlene & Brenda - Rockport 2005

October 6, 2007

Brenda and Baby Ella - 2006

October 6, 2007

Brenda and Hannah - summer of 2006

October 6, 2007

Brenda & Mom - Rockport 2005

October 6, 2007

Bren Looks to the Sky, NM. Oct., 2005

October 6, 2007

Lauren, Kim, Brenda, Kim's Wedding Day, Oct., 1992

October 6, 2007

At Brenda's, October, 2006

October 6, 2007

Brenda, Aug., 2005

October 6, 2007

Brenda and Uncle Ed, Venice, FL, Mar., 2006

October 6, 2007

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