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CHRISTOPHER KOSTKA Obituary

KOSTKA, Christopher M. "Bubba" Of South Boston, suddenly on March 9, 2020. Loving son of Nancy (Butts) and Stanley Kostka, Jr. Devoted boyfriend of Christine Cappadora. Cherished brother of Stanley Kostka, III of Alexandria, VA and his twin Timothy Kostka of Boston. Grandson of the late Stanley and Laura (Douglas) Kostka, and Estelle Nicholas. Also survived by many loving aunts, uncles and cousins. Visitation in the O'Brien Funeral Home 146 Dorchester Street, SOUTH BOSTON on Friday, March 13th from 4-8pm. Funeral Mass in Gate of Heaven Church, 615 East Fourth Street, South Boston on Saturday, March 14th at 11:30am. Relatives and friends are kindly invited to attend. Interment Cedar Grove Cemetery, Dorchester. Bubba was graduate of Massachusetts Maritime Academy Class of 2014 and he was also a member of the International 210 Association. In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of Bubba may be made to the Gavin Foundation, 675 East Fourth Street, South Boston, MA 02127.

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Published by Boston Globe from Mar. 11 to Mar. 12, 2020.

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Patrick

June 7, 2021

I miss you so much

Darren Robert

March 22, 2020

Rest easy my friend.

Elga Hanrahan

March 22, 2020

Just saw that your son passed,away. My prayers,and thoughts are with you during this time . Stanley and Nancy take care of each other. We will all meet again some day till then you have to carry on.

Mark DeShong

March 14, 2020

Bubba, Bubbs, Baba Ganoushe
Thank you for many years of friendship, sailing camaraderie, and much, much more. You were not only physically large, but larger than life itself, especially in spirit. So many over the top tales, I tell pals about your antics, are just not believable to them: wish you were still around to back me up. It's hard to believe you're gone, and much more sad and empty than a 'candle in the wind'. I know everyone that knew it, is going to miss that big smile, that voracious appetite for life, and I'm especially going to miss that special raspy voice with a Southie accent calling out 'Markie Mark'. No one was quite like you in life: 'fun loving, and absolutely fearless . I will miss you and hope you rest in Peace.
Mark deShong

March 14, 2020

Nancy and Stan, I hope that as you think of Bubba you will also keep in your hearts and minds the image of him driving the boat on Newfound Lake. He told me he loved it up there, and it was easy to see that he did. There are no words to make this any easier...but hopefully happy memories will help a little. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Bob and Honey Batiste

Brian Hassan

March 14, 2020

So sorry for Loss

March 14, 2020

I have been praying daily for Chris and your family since I found out about him passing away. I am saddened that we will not be able to attend his funeral today, please know that you will all be in our thoughts and continued prayers.

May you draw comfort from your memories, peace from your faith.

With deepest sympathy,

Lauren, Chuck, Dodie and Andre Fontaine
Mattapoisett, MA

Phil and

March 13, 2020

Such a wonderful guy with a smile that that was contagious. Phil and I are so sorry for your loss, please know we send our love and prayers to you.

Penny Lucey

March 13, 2020

Sending love and prayers to the Kostka family. Oh the pain you are all feeling with the loss of your son, brother, friend. Cherish the memories. I know how much you loved him. God bless your family.

FELICE FLORES

March 13, 2020

Rest in peace Bubba I'm sorry I couldn't make it down to your wake you're always good to me lots of people I love you and may you look at down and watch over us who I left here on Earth that's very cool and I'm sorry I didn't make it do you want to talk to you whatever my phone number's617331-0536 fast Philly

Mary Reardon

March 13, 2020

The Mary Reardon family extend their condolences to the Kostka family in their time of grief.

Julieanne Waschela

March 13, 2020

Bubba you were a special guy. Always had that smile on that face. Always made me laugh. We had some really fun time growing up together. Im so sad for your family. This is tough. Rest in the sweetest peace. love always Jules

Joseph DePamphilis

March 12, 2020

Bubba had an infectious laugh that I will never forget. A great teammate and friend at Savio. I will miss him and always have fond memories. My deepest condolences to his family

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Mary Jurczuk

March 12, 2020

The Jurczuk family wants the Kostka family
know how sorry we are for the loss of Bubba.

Coach bob A.

March 12, 2020

My condolences to kostka family I had the pleasure to coach bubba in hockey at savio he was one of my go to defenseman he was a good player and teammate more important he was a better person with a big smile r.i.p. my player you will be missed coach bob

Jamie

March 12, 2020

My condolences and love go out to your entire family during this difficult time.

Allison Petrie

March 12, 2020

Ill always remember your laugh and smile it's been years since I last saw you and my heart breaks for your family and loved ones rest in the sweetest peace Bubba until we meet again.

Patti Ann Rubnich

March 12, 2020

Chris, you brightened up the lives of many. You were a part of the 7 amigos when my kids would come for the summer. Fly high
To the Kosta family my heart is heavy for you. Loss is such a hard emotion to get through. My prayers and love are sent to you all.

March 11, 2020

Fly high with the angels my friend.... Rest In Peace.

March 11, 2020

I'm just so sad and sorry to hear this news about this young man. My heartfelt sympathies to the Kostka family especially Nancy and her husband. I knew him when he was just a young boy.

Bob Catinazzo

Julie

March 11, 2020

My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family. We will miss the presence of a truly loveable and kind person.

March 11, 2020

Bubba was a fantastic guy, always so full of jokes and laughs. I'll never forget the banter as he and Stan helped us move a giant mattress up 3 flights of winding stairs; we'd have slept in the living room without him. Our hearts break for the Kostka family, and we send you all our love over this difficult time. Love always, Zoe and Chris xxxxx

Shirley Bourdon

March 11, 2020

Dear nancy&stan....we are so deeply sorry. Such a loss.bubba was and will always be a huge part of ourlives his laughter.humor.caring.going above to be there for ppl. Fly high with the winds of boats you loved. So much to .my friend
Shirley bourdon.

March 11, 2020

I haven't seen you in years but you were always such an amazing friend! Rest is the sweetest paradise bubba, you will absolutely be missed by so many people. ❤

March 11, 2020

Nancy I am so sorry for your loss.. if anyone knows I know. I won't be able to make it to the week due to my surgery I've been out of work since February. If you ever need anything please feel free to call me. I love you and may Bubba rest in peace

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11:30 a.m.

Gate of Heaven Church

615 East Fourth Street, South Boston, MA

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