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PARKE, David B. Unitarian Universalist Minister and Historian David B. Parke, a Unitarian Universalist minister, historian, and editor, died of natural causes (brain hemorrhage) on June 6, 2020 in Boston, MA. As a preacher and pastor, Parke advocated a tough-minded, biblically-grounded, ethically committed liberal religious faith. Born in Buffalo, NY in 1928 and ordained in Peterborough, NH in 1956, Parke witnessed the Great Depression, World War II, nuclear fission, the demise of colonialism, Vatican II, the moon walk, the collapse of the Soviet Union, the emergence of Europe as an integrated and cultural community, and the information revolution. Twice married and twice divorced, he experienced human possibility and human conflict in his own life. As the father of six, grandfather of nine, and great-grandfather of four, he saw the human promise unfold in his own extended family. As a thinker, Parke emphasized direct experience, personal authenticity, and confrontation with issues. He celebrated contradiction, ambiguity, paradox, and mystery as avenues to truth. World War I was, he held, the defining event of the twentieth century. The Nazi Holocaust revealed heretofore unimaginable depths of human depravity. In contrast, the creation in 1945 of a new international society in the establishment of the United Nations and its specialized agencies gave hope to a war-ravaged world. The recovery of faith is a recurring theme in Parke's writings. "For Karl Marx the issue was the class struggle," he wrote in 1995. "For Susan B. Anthony it was the franchise. For W.E.B. Du Bois it was the color line. For Albert Camus it was suicide. What is the issue for us today?" Parke answered, "The great issue for us as individuals, as a religious community, and as a human generation, is that of faith…. In every land and era parents have faith in their children, military leaders have faith in their troops, orchestra leaders have faith in their horn players. Whatever the object of faith, it is faith that makes possible sustained relationships, families, communities, the world system." The second of three sons of Robert and Mary Boynton Parke, David Parke attended the campus school of the State University College at Buffalo and the Park School of Buffalo. He studied at Antioch College (A.B. in History, 1952), the Meadville Theological School at the University of Chicago (B.D., 1955), and Boston University (Ph.D. in American Church History, 1965). Later he served as a trustee of Meadville 1968–74 and of Antioch 1970–76. As a teenager, David Parke served as continental president of American Unitarian Youth, traveling in 1947 to youth conferences in Czechoslovakia, Switzerland, and England. In professional and family travel he visited all of the lower 48 states and numerous countries. Parke began his ministry in 1955 in Peterborough, NH. In 1957, when he was 28, the Beacon Press in Boston published The Epic of Unitarianism, his source book of four centuries of Unitarian faith and practice in Europe and America, on which he had started working as a theological student in Chicago. A mainstay in the field of Unitarian historiography, the book is still in print. A Japanese translation was published in 1978. Parke contributed a chapter to A Stream of Light (1975), a short history of American Unitarianism, and edited The Right Time: The Best of Kairos (1982), a selection of articles from Kairos, a theological quarterly Parke founded and edited 1975–83. In 2004, Naming the Holy: Selected Writings of David B. Parke, a special issue of The Unitarian Universalist Christian, was published by the Unitarian Universalist Christian Fellowship in Weston, MA. Parke's major constructive work is The Children Were My Teachers: The Revolution in Religious Education (Chicago: Meadville Lombard Press, 2009), a lightly edited version of his 1965 doctoral dissertation submitted to the Boston University Graduate School in that year. A parish minister for most of his career, Parke served churches in Peterborough, NH, Philadelphia, PA, and Brewster, MA. He taught church history at the Theological School of St. Lawrence University, Canton, NY, 1960–65 and at the Crane Theological School of Tufts University, 1962–63. He was deputy director of Onboard, the federally-funded community action agency in New Bedford, MA, 1972–74. For six years, 1981–87, he edited Unitarian Universalist World, the journal of the Unitarian Universalist Association in Boston. Since 1988 he served as full-time interim minister to Unitarian Universalist congregations in Exeter, NH, Andover, MA, East Lexington, MA, Montreal, QC, Spokane, WA, Ithaca, NY, Houston, TX (Emerson Church), Richmond, VA, Louisville, KY, Pittsburgh, PA (South Hills congregation), Ludington, MI, and Detroit, MI. In 2005 he retired to Jamaica Plain, MA. As minister in Peterborough, NH, he founded (1958) and served as president of Monadnock Community College, a regional, university-affiliated, adult education institution. Parke was married to Avis-Ann Strong 1950–1982 and to Marta M. Flanagan 1986–1994. He is survived by a son Richard of Austin, TX, a daughter Robin Melavalin (and wife Diane Hammer) of West Roxbury, MA, a son John (and wife Brett Warren) of Yarmouth Port, MA, a son Edward (and wife Dawn Walnut) of Brewster, MA, a son William (and wife Elizabeth) of Buffalo, NY, and a daughter Alison Melavalin of Centerville, MA, eight grandchildren, and four great-grandchildren. Also surviving are a brother Andrew of Woodstock, IL and several nieces, nephews, and cousins. An older brother, Robert Parke, Jr., died in 1998. A Memorial Service will be held in Boston at a later date. Burial will be at Forest Lawn Cemetery in Buffalo, NY. Remembrances may be made on Legacy.com Memorial gifts may be made to NAACP, 4805 Mt. Hope Drive, Baltimore, MD 21215 or www.naacp.org William J. Gormley Funeral Service 617-323-8600

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Published by Boston Globe from Jun. 8 to Jun. 14, 2020.

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Colin Renny

March 17, 2021

I would like to offer my condolences to the family of Rev. David Park, he was the interim minister at the Peoples Church in Ludington Michigan when I was a young man. I have fond memories of David, he used to come over to my families home and enjoy dinner and conversation with my us. It was always a good indication that David would be comeing over for dinner when my dad would bring home a box of cookies. Thankyou for being apart of my life you are missed my friend.

Peter Mudge

August 19, 2020

Mr. Parke was a great man.
I would love to say hello to the family. Peter Mudge 774 487 2961

June 17, 2020

Hello Parke Friends and Family,

David was our UU minister in Andover, Mass. for a few years. We loved him. It is so difficult to find brilliant people who do not make you feel inadequate: he was one! Rev. Parke officiated my husband and my 25th reaffirmation of our vows. Now we have 51 years together. Blessings to all of you.
Sue Tucker, formerly Senator Tucker
Andover, MA

Mark O'Brien

June 12, 2020

Hello Parke Family. I was introduced to David by our mutual friend, Rev. Orloff Miller who lived in Germany, (originally from Hingham and worked at UUA HQ.) They were super friends. I seem to recall that David visited Orloff and his wife Renate in Ludwigshafen,Germany. David became a very dear friend to me and we'd talk all things UU and more (Trump!!!!)(He was looking forward to voting for Joe Biden, and wondering who he's going to pick as his VP, and celebrating his Inauguration. I talked to him just last week. He'd always greet me and say, as he did last week, "Can you believe I'm 91???? I can't believe it! and I feel terrific" He always talked about his much loved children and spouses and their offspring. It was clear how much you all loved him too! David would take the train out to my home in Natick. We'd oft go to Capt. Marden's Seafood restaurant in Wellesley, no better place we both claimed. He said it was the best seafood he'd ever had! We said when C-19 was over we'd get together for dinner in JP. I'm gobsmacked that he died so young but with decades of insight that only age could give him. My Sincerest Sympathy for your loss but rejoice that you had each other....especially such a great dad. I'm Holding All Of You In The Light. Mark O'Brien .

Theodore Parker U-U

Johannes(Hans) Bakker

June 11, 2020

The Reverend David Parke was a good friend and a mentor. I feel honored to have known him well and to have had many intellectual discussions about theology and philosophy. He maintained throughout that his youthful vision of God had remained with him throughout his life and his views on Unitarian-Universalism will remain with me. He also revealed a great deal about his personal life. He was an amazing listener and often asked me follow-up questions when others would have moved on to other topics. He explained aspects of his own career as a minister that have helped me a great deal. Whatever I write in the future about religion and society will be influenced by David's sermons and his astute insights into not only everyday life but also the ultimate significance of human life on this planet. I will miss him. He is one of the few really sophisticated thinkers I have ever met who really believed in a meaningful Universe and a deeply spiritual version of God.

June 10, 2020

we at his recent home springhouse mourn a wonderful,dear,kind person that david was..a new friend and very dear person.we will miss him as he joins many superior people that we have known. judy and herman chernoff

Alison M

June 9, 2020

David was my father, and he loved Scrabble. He was competitive, yet gracious. He'd say, "When I win, I'm happy. And when you win, I still win, because I'm your father."

An exuberant guy and great friend.

June 9, 2020

Definitely Marched to the Beat of his Own Drum.Rest In Peace David and Thank You for your contribution to this life

Rev. Dr. Michelle Walsh

June 8, 2020

I'm so sorry to hear of David's passing, and yet so grateful he lived such a long and active life! He was a wonderful colleague and a delightful soul. He will be greatly missed in his living form, and his ongoing presence will continue to inspire generations to come, I'm sure.

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