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EILEEN CALLAHAN PERINI

1937 - 2018

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EILEEN PERINI Obituary

PERINI, Eileen Callahan Of Medfield and Cohasset, MA, formerly of Dover, MA, died peacefully on Saturday, March 31, 2018 surrounded by her beloved family. Loving wife of David B. Perini; beloved mother of Jennifer of San Francisco, CA, Kristin and husband Bill Driscoll of Hingham, MA, Timothy and wife Patricia of Harrison, NY, Andrea of Brooklyn, NY and the late David Jr. Daughter of Margaret Lynch and Denis Callahan. Sister of Mary Guarente, Margaret Callahan, Noreen Cronin, Denis Callahan, Kathleen Grannan, Christine Shanley, and the late Ann Tibbetts and John Callahan. "Mimi" to her 10 grandchildren, Eileen was born on August 8, 1937 and raised in Arlington, MA. She attended Arlington High School and graduated from Cardinal Cushing Jr. College in 1957. Eileen married David B. Perini in 1962. A lifelong learner, Eileen returned to school twenty seven years later, and at the age of 47, while still raising five children, earned her Bachelor of Arts from Wellesley College in 1984. She went on to receive her Masters in Clinical Social Work from Boston College in 1988, and worked as a psychotherapist at BC for several years. Beyond her husband, children and grandchildren, the central passion of Eileen's life was her work for the Jimmy Fund's David B. Perini Jr. Quality of Life Clinic, which she and husband David established at the Dana Farber Cancer Institute in 1992, soon after the death of their son David Jr. at age 26. Determined to make something meaningful of this tragedy, she dedicated herself to growing the Clinic and supporting the Dana Farber. She was a 29-year participant in the Boston Marathon® Jimmy Fund Walk as captain of "Team Perini" and was annually one of the Walk's top fundraisers. For 19 years, the David Perini Memorial Golf Tournament was held to support the Perini Quality of Life Clinic, and in 1996, Eileen was instrumental in securing a partnership with Swim Across America to benefit the Clinic and the Dana-Farber. Team Perini has also participated in the Pan-Massachusetts Challenge for more than 25 years, raising more than $5M for the Clinic. In 2010, Eileen and David created an endowment to support the Dana Farber's Adult Survivorship Program in perpetuity. With this endowment, the Perini Family Survivors' Center was created and is now comprised of the Adult Survivorship Program and the David B. Perini, Jr. Quality of Life Clinic. There are thousands of cancer survivors whose lives are better because of the Center, the services it provides, and Eileen and David's efforts to create and support it. In addition, Eileen joined the Dana-Farber Board of Trustees in 1990, furthering the Perini family's partnership as one of Dana-Farber's "first families." Her husband David served on the Board for many years, and his father, Louis R. Perini, was a Founding Trustee of the Institute who served on the Board from 1948-1972 and helped to create and establish the Jimmy Fund. Her daughter Jennifer is currently a Dana-Farber Trustee. Eileen became a Distinguished Trustee in 2014. Her extensive service as a Trustee included dedicated time as a member of the Jimmy Fund Advisory Executive Committee, Adult Patient and Family Advisory Council, and Nursing and Patient Care Visiting Committee. Eileen was also a member of the Friends of Dana-Farber for multiple years. In 2013, Eileen and David received the Jimmy Fund's highest honor, when they were awarded the Boston Red Sox Jimmy Fund Award for their family's decades of support. Eileen was a prolific painter and loved to fill her home with light and beauty. She loved to learn, particularly about world religion and psychology, and was always reading and taking courses. She was an avid walker, and could be seen taking her daily power walks around Dover, rain or shine. Eileen was a beautiful person with a beautiful soul who absolutely loved being around people. More than anything, Eileen loved to be with her husband of 55 years, David, their five children and ten grandchildren. She cherished her eight sisters and brothers, who remained a central part of her life until the end. A Mass to celebrate Eileen's life will be held Thursday, April 5, at 1pm at Church of the Most Precious Blood, 30 Centre St., Dover, MA 02030. Rite of Committal to follow at Woodlawn Cemetery, 148 Brook St., Wellesley, MA 02482. Visiting hours will be held on Wednesday from 4-8pm at the George F. Doherty & Sons Funeral Home, 477 Washington St., Wellesley, MA 02482. Relatives and friends are all invited. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to The David B. Perini Jr. Quality of Life Clinic, Jimmy Fund/Dana Farber Cancer Institute, 450 Brookline Ave., Boston, MA 02215. Online guestbook and directions at gfdoherty.com. George F. Doherty & Sons Wellesley 781-235-4100

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Published by Boston Globe from Apr. 1 to Apr. 4, 2018.

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Martin E. Moran

March 31, 2025

Dear Perini Family,
I was a teacher with Ellen MItchell at the Caryl School in Dover until 1995 when I moved onto the DSMS and Ellen retired. Ellen is a two year survivor of pancreatic cancer and I try to help her once a month in Croton-On-Hudson, NY. Last week I was helping her go through old correspondence and we came upon David's obituary and Mass program from his funeral. Ellen had saved it all these years and I got to reread it. He was a remarkable man and this year marks 35 years that he has left us. Having been away from Dover for so many years I was saddened to read that Eileen died. She was a wonderful person and I can still see her beautiful smile. Prayers go out to all the Perini Family and a contribution will be sent to Dana Farber in David's memory.

Connie Murphy

March 26, 2025

Always a pleasure to remember Eileen on her Anniversary. May she continue to enjoy her Heavenly Blessings, and rest peacefully with all those who've gone ahead, especially her son, David.

Eamon O'Marah

March 27, 2024

I miss Eileen very much. She really was an Angel on this earth! She truly cared and loved for everyone and I was blessed to have her as a second mother in my formative years. The Perini´s were made special with the Callahan! E

Constance Murphy

March 26, 2024

Only too happy to remember Eileen once again. Such a beautiful lady who now resides with God and all the saints and angels plus her son, David.
She was a bright light during her time here on earth and did so much for so many people with her kindness and caring nature. Always remembered for her lovely smile. rest in peace.

carol post pfaelzer

March 26, 2022

Four years ago I added my thoughts about Eileen.Today when I received this reminder and read all the comments I wanted to add another memory of Eileen.Both of us ran into each other inside Filene's in Wellesley.We welcomed each other and she said to me please I need a hug.We hugged.Eileen was a very special person.Bless her family.Carol Post Pfaelzer

Constance Train Murphy

March 26, 2022

Another year has passed bye and it's time to remember Eileen again for the beautiful person she was in life.
I've always been grateful for knowing her when we were raising our families in Dover, and were active members of Most Precious Blood Parish. She and Dave supported our Religious Education programs in so many ways. Now she is enjoying her eternal rewards , well deserved!!
Constance Murphy

Constance Murphy

March 26, 2021

Once again I can repeat myself to say Eileen was always a sweet, lovely lady. She now rests with all the saints in heaven enjoying her eternal reward. Her life is a reflection of her kindness and dedication to family, friends and the many causes she worked on over the years. Hundreds of people have been influenced and helped by her contributions of caring for cancer patients and their families. Rest in peace Eileen!

tom turnbull

March 26, 2020

I was one of the fortunate ones who had the good fortune to go to school with Eileen at Arlington high.we lost a very special person who can never be replaced.always in my heart.

Constance Murphy

March 26, 2020

Just remembering Eileen as a beautiful, lovely lady. She had a soft voice and beautiful smile as I recall. So grateful for having her friendship during my years in Dover raising our families. May your treasured memories bring you all happiness and peace.

Ray/Karel Simms

March 26, 2020

Eileen as well as David always in our hearts

March 30, 2019

Today while swimming I was thinking about the sweetness of Eileen and how very much I enjoyed her smile and work on the Friends of Dana Farber board with her many years ago.My son Tim Post knew David,her son.I am so sorry she has left us.My heart goes out to the whole Perini family. Carol Post-Pfaelzer

Connie Murphy

March 26, 2019

Once again I welcome the chance to say how lovely Eileen was and I'm sure she is missed very much. Our relationship was mostly through Most Precious Blood Church, it's ministries and programs but her warmth and special ways created a friendship through all those years. I'm grateful to have know her! God bless.

Steve Leslie

February 28, 2019

Greatsadness for the passing of a great lady.

Steve Leslie

February 28, 2019

I only met her several times but she impressed mightily. Mainly knew Lou Perini and Jack Chiaverini as a kid. And how Lou visited me as a kid,when I had several eye surgeries. She and David were building a family. Remember the family lived in Medfield, and I lived in Medford. Them Harvard, me MIT(civil engineering). Great lady. Sorry I didn't know her better. Have lived all over the world and got back in touch with Jack C in SF after 1985. Missed her visit to Jennifer. Now in fLorida trying to get back to Boston. I always remember the Jimmy Fund!

June 24, 2018

As you remember your love one, as God heals your broken hearts (Psalm 147:3), may your treasured memories continue to bring you peace, comfort, and strength to endure.

May 30, 2018

To David and the Perini family -- I was saddened today to learn of Eileen's passing and I am so sorry for your loss. Eileen was the kindest, most gracious woman i have ever met. She had a natural ability to make everyone feel important and special. I am happy to have known her.

Kathy Fyfe and Paul Zeizel
Newton Centre, MA

Mahler Family

April 14, 2018

May her memory be a blessing to all who knew and loved her. From a family which has been touched by Eileen's kind heart and brave efforts. With loving sympathy on the profound loss of an amazing person.

April 8, 2018

Dear Perini Family,
We just received the sad news of Eileen's passing today. We were neighbors at Sears Point in Brewster, and always appreciated Eileen's kind spirit and gentle voice. It is a true loss.
Marcie and Ralph Hirsch

April 7, 2018

My condolences to Dave and your family on Eileen s passing.
Pete Robinson @ Sears Point Brewster

April 7, 2018

I'm sorry for your loss. I hope the Perini family will draw comfort from the words found at Psalm 145:18.

Jim Thuline

April 6, 2018

I was blessed to know Eileen for a number of years in Dover. She graced the lives of all she met. A great loss for all of those she touched.

Jim Thuline

April 6, 2018

I was blessed to know Eileen for a number of years in Dover. A lovely, quiet, determined woman. A painful loss for all who knew her.
Jim Thuline

April 6, 2018

Mrs. Perino was a beautiful human being who made you feel so special when she spoke you. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Rosemary ortega

Jen Hamerski-Trogler

April 6, 2018

Dear perini family,
I'm so saddened to hear this news. I have such fond memories as a child playing with Andrea, at your home in Dover and Eileen would give us her clothes to dress up in. She always made it fun! She was such a kind and loving person. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

connie Murphy

April 6, 2018

To Eileen's lovely family. I have always admired both Dave and Eileen for their love of each other and their wonderful children. Eileen especially was so helpful during the time I was working in Youth Ministry at Most Precious Blood Parish. She and Dave opened their home for us to have Mass and dinner there. Both supported that ministry so nicely over many years. Eileen was beautiful both on the outside and inside. Her kind and generous way was an inspiration to everyone. Sorry to hear about her loss. i'm so glad I was able to know her for the special lady she was to everyone. God has welcomed her into the eternal city where she's reunited with her son, David.

Connie Murphy formally of Dover, now in Pocasset

Joan Lynch

April 5, 2018

Dear David & family,

Frannie and I were shocked and saddened at hearing of Eileen's passing. We did not know she had been ill. We will always remember Eileen from her beauty within as well as out, plus the many, many courageous acts she gave of herself for so many years - always a gracious, brave and lovely lady. Our deepest sympathies are with you all.
Sincerely,
Joan & Frannie Lynch

April 5, 2018

Our most sincere condolences to the Perini Family at this time of great loss. Our unending thanks to the Perini Family for their work with the Jimmy Fund and Survivor clinic.
The Landry Family, Marlborough.

Natasha Bizanos

April 4, 2018

Dear David and Perini Family,

So sorry for the loss of your beautiful wife and mother, Eileen Perini. May your good memories sustain you during this difficult time. God Bless.

Sincerely,
Natasha Bizanos Ashe & Family

peter stammen

April 4, 2018

To Tim and the Perini Family,

Please accept my condolences. Always be comforted by Mrs. Perini's strong and unwavering faith and by what a kind and caring lady she was.

Carole Perini

April 4, 2018

Dear David and family
My sincere sympathy to all at the very sad news of Eileen's death. She was a very special person.

Ria Koning McNamara

April 4, 2018

Dear Perini family,

We are so sorry to hear of Eileen's passing. She was a very kind face in the neighborhood and I'll always remember celebrating July 4th with you all by your pool at those big block parties we had.

I will also remember her assistance to me as I tried to get my father to the leading oncologist at Dana Farber. I'm forever grateful to her for her kindness in this task.

You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this sad time.
With sympathy,

Ria Koning McNamara

Paul Kirk

April 4, 2018

Dave and Family,

Eileen's love and inspiration were your unique blessings.
May that truth bring you consolation and strength in all the days ahead.
With prayers and sincere sympathy.

Paul Kirk
(from Amelia Is., FL)

Bob Buckley

April 4, 2018

David,

So sorry to hear of the passing of your lovely and courageous wife, Eileen, whom I had the pleasure of meeting many years ago. Together you have raised a wonderful family and done so much for the Jimmy Fund and cancer research.

And, we were also AHS alumni.

May she rest in peace.

Patricia Stahl

April 4, 2018

Dear David and family
I am so sad to hear about the passing of Eileen. I feel so privileged and blessed to have known her. What an amazing, loving, caring and gentle person full of love and warmth. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers

April 4, 2018

To have met Eileen Perini was to meet an angel. I knew the moment I met her that this was a very special person. She touched our hearts and will remain there. The entire Barricelli family are so sad for your loss and convey our deepest condolences. God Bless.

Rosemarie Barricelli

Mary Steele

April 3, 2018

Dear David and Family,

I was so very saddened to hear of Eileen's passing. Tom and I met you and Eileen at HBS many years ago with our young children. I remember Eileen as being charming, wise, gracious and beautiful.
Such fond memories come back to me of our times together while Tom was working at Perini.
May time and love bring you peace.

Mary Steele

Mary Rose Wells

April 3, 2018

My sincere sympathy, she was so wonderful to my mom and dad, Francis and Rose Dittami.
MaryRose Wells

Joan McKinnon

April 3, 2018

I am so very sorry for your loss. I knew her for a short time, but quickly knew what a lovely sweet person she was. I will remember her in my prayers.

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Michelle (McGrath) Hathaway

April 3, 2018

Such an incredible woman. Growing up I used to look at the Perini Christmas card photos and be in awe of the beauty of your family. I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending love to you all during this difficult time.

Charlie Deknatel

April 3, 2018

My condolences to Dave and the Perini family

Erin Reilly

April 2, 2018

Mr. Perini, and Jenny, Kristen, Timmy and Andrea,
I feel so lucky to have been able to know your wife, and mother, over the years, since way back in the Glenridge neighborhood. I felt a special kinship as David and I both studied architecture, (although at "warring" institutions. I was glad when Kristen "defected" to Yale!) Just yesterday I was looking at the book of David's Works that you had printed; and you helped me to find my first job in architecture, in SF, where Jenny now lives. I've lost touch in recent years, but my Mom kept me updated. I know you will all feel this loss deeply. If it helps at all, please know that her memory will live on in all of us who were lucky enough to see her smile!
With love, Erin Reilly

April 2, 2018

To the Perini family:

My sincere condolences to you and your family.

Moe Gutierrez

Ray/Karel Simms

April 2, 2018

A dedicated mother to her children, a devoted and loving wife to David and a kinder, gentler, person known to all of us who had the had the great, good fortune to have known this beautiful lady.

Rest peacefully dear, dear Eileen. God bless you and your wonderful family.

Ray and Karel Simms

Tim Perini

April 2, 2018

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Saul Wisnia

April 2, 2018

Dear Mr. Perini and Family:
I was so very sorry to hear of Mrs. Perini's passing and my thoughts are with all of you. In nearly 20 years chronicling her various projects at Dana-Farber, I always found Mrs. Perini to be so incredibly kind, warm, wise, and dedicated to the well-being of all patients, families, and caregivers -- including the "behind the scenes" folks others don't always remember. The Perini Family Survivors' Center is a fitting legacy to this marvelous woman and your entire family. May you find comfort in wonderful memories during the challenging days ahead, and please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.

Debra Ruder

April 2, 2018

Mrs. Perini was one of the kindest, warmest, and most generous people I have known. It was a privilege to work with her at Dana-Farber, and I'm forever grateful to Eileen and the Perini family for your vision and support of cancer survivorship. Condolences to you all.

Tom Steele

April 2, 2018

Eileen was one of the most beautiful, generous, caring woman Mary and I have ever had the honor of knowing. There was saintly aura about her that infused every interaction we had with she and Dave. We share Dave and the Perini family's sorrow over the loss of a soul that brightened and enhanced all of our lives.

April 2, 2018

Mr. Perini, I'm sorry for your loss. May God bless you and your Family.

Clara Fallavollita

Joan Correia

April 2, 2018

Dearest Dave and family: May I offer my sincerest condolences to you and your family over the passing of your wife, Eileen. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. God bless you.
Joan Correia

Tom Turnbull

April 2, 2018

My sincere condolences to her family from a friend of AHS class of 1955.

Linda Birdsong

April 2, 2018

To The Perini Family -

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Sincerely

Linda Birdsong
Fiduciary Trust Company

Linda Birdsong

April 2, 2018

To The Perini Family -

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Sincerely

Linda Birdsong
Fiduciary Trust Company

April 2, 2018

Mr. Perini, Jen, Kristin, Tim and Andrea,

I am so very sorry for your loss. Mrs. Perini was such a kind, gracious woman. She will be truly missed.

Thinking of you all during this difficult time.

Maria Joseph Peckham

Cheryl Morrissey

April 2, 2018

My sincere condolences to the loss of your wife, mother, and friend. I was fortunate enough to meet Mrs. Perini on a few occasions, and she was a lovely and kind woman. God Bless.

Stephen Cervieri

April 2, 2018

Mrs. Perini was one of the first people to make me aware of what a good person is. I always knew to mind my Ps and Qs when going to play with Tim. And I noticed at some point Mrs. Perini pushing herself, doing new things like taking courses at Wellesley or starting running and doing races for the first time as an adult. Also giving me an example even today to try new things myself. I am sure you are in the most wonderful place today Mrs. Perini. Peace to Mr. Perini, Jenny, Andrea, Kristen and my friend Tim.

Tim Perini

April 1, 2018

Tim Perini

April 1, 2018

Tim Perini

April 1, 2018

Tim Perini

April 1, 2018

Tim Perini

April 1, 2018

Tim Perini

April 1, 2018

Tim Perini

April 1, 2018

Tim Perini

April 1, 2018

The day I met my mother-in-law-to-be

Patty Perini

April 1, 2018

Eamon O'Marah

April 1, 2018

Eileen Perini was my second mother and was the kindest and warmest woman I had ever met. My heart pours for David who was the most loyal husband to her and my best friend in life Tim and all her beloved children and grandchildren. She rose today through the crisp clear skies on Easter to reunite with David JR and we shall never forget this special woman. God bless.

Ed Ellison

April 1, 2018

The world lost an incredible person today. Mrs. Perini was grace and class personified. I have not met a more caring, thoughtful, loving, and genuine person in my life and I doubt I ever will. My heart goes out to Mr. Perini and their children. I hope they know that Mrs. Perini will live on in them.

Ed Ellison

April 1, 2018

The world lost an incredible woman yesterday. Mrs. Perini was grace and class personified. I have not met a more thoughtful, caring, warm, and loving person. My heart goes out to Mr. Perini and their children.

Ed Ellison

April 1, 2018

The world lost an incredible person. Mrs. Perini was grace and class personified. I have not met a more thoughtful, caring, warm, and loving person. I doubt I ever will. My heart goes out to Mr. Perini and their children.

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