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HENRY WILLIAM "HARRY" CLARK

2000 - 2020

HENRY WILLIAM "HARRY" CLARK obituary, 2000-2020, Wellesley, MA

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HENRY CLARK Obituary

CLARK, Henry "Harry" William Harry Clark, 20, whose towering strength inspired a community. Age 20, a Wellesley High School graduate who inspired his community with his grace, charm and fortitude, died Friday, July 3, 2020, after a courageous battle with a craniopharyngioma brain tumor. Born in San Francisco on May 28, 2000, he moved to Wellesley in 2005, where he embraced the community and the community fully embraced him. Shortly after, Harry was diagnosed with a rare brain tumor. His diagnosis and treatment, which included multiple surgeries, radiation, chemotherapy and countless procedures, never held him back from enjoying life to the fullest. Harry was an incredibly talented student. He attended Sprague Elementary School, Wellesley Middle School, where he received the Dottie Kelly "Personal Growth" Award, and Wellesley High School, where he served as class vice president his sophomore year and served on the board of the Youth in Philanthropy program. In his junior year, Harry participated in a youth panel at the Massachusetts Commission on the Blind conference and was invited to testify before the state legislature on budget funding for the blind. He advocated for racial equality, traveled to the South as part of his study of civil rights and presented a keynote speech on Martin Luther King Day to the entire 8th grade.  In his senior year of high school, Harry completely lost his eyesight, but that didn't stop him from succeeding. He accepted his blindness with grace. He was accepted to every college he applied to and ultimately attended Assumption College and was planning to be at Providence College in the fall. On Senior Night at WHS, to a standing ovation, he received the Helen Stewart Award given to a senior for generosity, care and dedication to others, as well as the Coach Seaver Memorial Scholarship Award for commitment, courage and character. Harry threw himself into various activities. He was the top popcorn seller for his cub scout troop, stationing himself at the Wellesley town dump on Saturday mornings. He was a diehard sports fan, especially for his beloved Red Sox, and met many players, including one of his favorites, Big Papi, and befriended ushers, ticket sellers, players and executives of the team over the years thanks to the Jimmy Fund. Highlights included announcing players' names as they came to bat, traveling to Florida for spring training and even riding on one of the duck boats for the 2018 Red Sox World Series championship parade. Harry also loved the Patriots – rejoicing in their multiple Super Bowl championships – and even flipped the coin kicking off a Patriots' Monday night football game. Harry also loved participating in sports, ranging from tennis to golf. He rode the Pan Mass Challenge twice on the back of a tandem. Harry's indomitable spirit was ever-present. When he could no longer play baseball because the tumor had compromised his vision, he volunteered to be the team manager for a summer league baseball team, a skill he carried with him to high school where he managed the successful Wellesley High School girl's varsity basketball team for four years. He spent most of his summers with family in Niantic, CT, peppered with several fun stints at Hole in the Wall Gang Camp. Indeed, Harry's character and strength in the face of adversity made a lasting impact on his family and friends. He never complained about the multiple surgeries and the countless treatments he had to endure. He befriended the medical community. He was known as "The Mayor" throughout Boston Children's Hospital and Dana Farber for his sense of humor, charm and thoughtfulness. On his weakest days, he was blowing kisses to his caretakers, joking with them, giving them the thumbs up or flashing his trademark smile with a twinkle in his eye. Harry had a wonderful sense of humor. He used to joke about his job shredding documents at Wellesley Town Hall – saying that as a blind person they didn't have to worry about him reading confidential documents. He loved music - Sweet Caroline was a favorite – and regularly burst into song. He was a member of the youth and teen choir at his parish, St. Paul's Catholic Church, as well as an altar server. Wise beyond his years, Harry lived by the personal mantra: a loss of sight is never a loss of vision. He will always be remembered for his kindness, his courage and for being our Tower of Strength. Harry is survived by his parents, Kevin and Eunice; his sister, Phoebe; his paternal grandmother, Carole Clark Pehlke; and numerous aunts, uncles and cousins. He was predeceased by his paternal grandfather, William Clark, and his maternal grandparents, Thomas and Eunice Groark. A private funeral mass will be offered for Harry followed by a community celebration of Harry's life at a future date. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to Harry's Cranio Research Fund: http://danafarber.jimmyfund.org/goto/craniowarriors. For online guestbook, gfdoherty.com. George F. Doherty & Sons Wellesley 781 235 4100

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Published by Boston Globe from Jul. 6 to Jul. 7, 2020.

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Violet L

August 4, 2020

Truly sending love and healing to this family to have peace and lessened pain

Randy spiro

July 12, 2020

I randy spiro from. Nwh cafe will miss Henry helping us put things away with his teachers. Henry will be missed at nwh as a volunteer and I will miss Henry he was a great hard worker. Henry I will miss u. Randy.

Dina & Hartley Johnson

July 10, 2020

We are so sorry for your loss. We met Harry through the ESP program and he was a kind, thoughtful and impressive man. We are praying for you all during this incredibly hard time.

Stephen

July 10, 2020

I will miss him

Patrick Ryan

July 9, 2020

Harry was one of the finest young men I've ever met, and I feel extremely fortunate to have gotten to know him and watch him grow over the years. He always strove to be better, and at times could be hard on himself to a fault. At other times he was relentlessly positive, and perseveringin the face of any obstacle that came between himself and his goals. His smile washed over any room he was in and it was impossible to resist his humor and laugh. I hope he knew how highly he was regarded, and what a mark hemade on all us who were blessed to know him. I'm incredibly pained by his passing. Rest in peace Harry.

Channing S

July 9, 2020

I will never forget Harry's tenacity when it came towards learning ukulele, even after his sight had left him, bursting out into his favorite pink songs, and mixing tunes at the DJ table under his DJ name "Fresh Classic". He touched my heart and I am forever grateful we've crossed paths.
- Channing (JFC Music Therapy)

Emily

July 8, 2020

I am so sorry for your loss during this difficult time. Sending you love and healing thoughts.

Dean

July 8, 2020

This hurts my heart. I met Harry At assumption college. The first time I met him he was asking where the exit was and he took my hand and I showed him. I'm a veteran and it broke my already broken heart more that this young man has passed. I always made a point to talk to Harry. Mom and dad should be proud of him. He made an impression on me.

Alex Stoddard

July 7, 2020

Dear Clark family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I met Harry in 6th grade when we were in the same home room and I had a number of classes with him throughout middle and high school. Harry always came to class with a positive attitude, no matter what he was going through. Harry was one of the first students to subscribe and support my basketball magazine in sixth grade and our shared love for sports was the subject of multiple conversations we had. The whole Wellesley community will forever remember Harry and the impact he had on all of us.
- Alex Stoddard

Lorraine Butler

July 7, 2020

I don't know you I'm so sorry to hear about your son passing he is now resting in peace may god be with you and your family you are all in my prays always remember the good times you had with him

Rani Elwy

July 7, 2020

Dear Eunice, Kevin and Phoebe--your Harry was a beacon of light and love to all who knew him. We will deeply miss his visits, his friendship, his fun, his humor, and his incredible yet sincere politeness. There will never be another Harry. We will carry his spirit everywhere we go. He will always be a part of our lives. The Elwy Family

July 7, 2020

I am so sorry to hear about the families loss.my heartfelt sympathy and condolences goes out to the families and friends during this very difficult time. I hope that the wonderful promise of the apostle Paul words found in 1 Thessalonians 4:14.can bring the families some comfort. Knowing that there is a future for the one we lost in death can be so reassuring.
-Pert & Lynn

Gina and Jonathan Lincoln

July 6, 2020

We will miss you terribly dearest Harry. You were one in a million and our hearts go out to Kevin, Eunice, Phoebe, Clover and the rest of your extended family in love, prayers and support. Memories will keep us afloat until we meet again. Godspeed my young friend... Gina and Jon

Linda Pelletier

July 6, 2020

To the Clark Family,
Harry was the most positive person I have ever met and no matter what he was dealt he handled it with humor and grace. His smile lit up the office everytime he came in. I will miss his smile, jokes, and just seeing Harry. My prayers go out to all of you and someday we will see Harry again. My deepest sympathy.
Linda, Framingham Pediatrics

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