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JAMES R. "JIMMY" HAYES

JAMES R. "JIMMY" HAYES obituary, Dorchester, MA

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JAMES HAYES Obituary

HAYES, James R. "Jimmy" Of Milton, formerly of Dorchester, passed away on August 23, 2021. Jimmy was the beloved husband of Kristen C. (Valente) Hayes; and devoted father of Beau and Mac. Cherished son of Kevin A. and Shelagh M. (McNeil) Hayes of Dorchester. Loving brother of Genevieve Hayes of Dorchester, Eileen Hayes and Robert Collier of Charlestown, Justine Callahan and her husband Dennis of Reading, and Kevin P. Hayes of Dorchester. Dear son-in- law of Thomas and Kelly Valente of Needham; and brother-in-law of Casey and Brian Valente of Needham. Proud uncle of Neila McDonough and Dennis Callahan II. Loving nephew of Joanne and Thomas Vesey of Charlestown. Jimmy leaves behind many relatives and friends. Jimmy was a devoted husband; father; son; brother; and friend to everyone. His sincere and compassionate heart could be felt by anyone who knew him. His infectious smile and laugh lit up every room he walked into. Those who knew Jimmy, even just a little, lost a shining light in their lives. In life, Jimmy achieved many things, but one of his proudest accomplishments, alongside being a husband and father, was making his childhood dream of being a professional hockey player come true. Jimmy lived for hockey at a very young age and was determined to have success within his career. The hockey community brought so much joy to his life and will always be a big part of Jimmy. Jimmy will be dearly missed everyday by his countless friends and family. He is loved here on earth as well as in heaven. Visiting Hours in Florian Hall, 55 Hallet St., DORCHESTER, Sunday from 1-8pm. Funeral Mass in St. Ann's Church, NEPONSET, Monday morning at 10 o'clock. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited. In the event that St. Ann's Church reaches capacity, the services will be live-streamed in Florian Hall using https://vimeo.com/event/1235509. Interment in Cedar Grove Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to Dorchester Youth Hockey c/o Phil Olsen, 38 Laban Pratt Rd., Dorchester, MA 02122, in memory of Jimmy. For directions and expressions of sympathy, or to view the services remotely, please visit www.oconnorandson.com. John J. O'Connor & Son Funeral Home 740 Adams St. Dorchester, MA 02122

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Published by Boston Globe from Aug. 25 to Aug. 27, 2021.

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Dan Dwan

August 19, 2024

Sheila and Kevin and family,
Thinking of you all on this difficult day! Hold all the great memories both on and off the ice Jimmy blessed you with. My heart aches for all of you on this somber anniversary!

Kathaleen Doherty & Kevin Murray

August 19, 2024

Please know that Jimmy, along with his entire family, have never been forgotten and are always in our prayers. Sincerely, Kathaleen Doherty and Kevin Murray

PATTY SMALL

August 30, 2021

My Heart Aches For The Hayes Family. My Deepest Condolences.
Rest In Peace Jimmy. My Prayers Are With You All.

gale, Tyler, Travis Jones

August 30, 2021

Our deepest sympathy goes out to all of the Hayes family , our thoughts and prayers are with you , may God keep you all strong going through this very sad and difficult time. We will keep you all in our prayers our condolences to you all

Kathleen Dever

August 29, 2021

I never met Jimmy but after hearing so many things about him and watching videos I feel like I know him. My heart goes out to all the family. I want you to know my son Ricky died tragically at the age of 35 and he is buried at Cedar Grove. If at any time you need to talk please call me or we can meet for coffee. Ricky was a very good friend of Jimmy Vesey´s. Craig Galvin has my cell number. Again my condolences to all.

Jill Harlow picchione

August 29, 2021

I don´t know what to say. I am so very sorry for the loss of your beloved Jimmy. My heart goes out to the entire family. Many many wonderful memories in the rinks watching the boys play. May Jimmy Rest In Peace.

Michael Cawley and family

August 29, 2021

May God bless you Jimmy Hayes

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Steve Durant

August 28, 2021

Sending Love from all the Durants to all the Hayes Family. Jimmy will be in the Communion of Saints bringing a few laughs and a great heart

Thomas J Gomperts

August 28, 2021

My sincere thoughts and prayers go out to the Hayes Family in this difficult time.

Kathaleen Doherty

August 28, 2021

To The Entire Hayes Family;
Such pain and sorrow fill our hearts with the sudden loss of Jimmy. May you be wrapped and comforted in the wings of Angels and may God's grace get you through this most difficult time. Please accept our deepest sympathy and sincerest condolences.

Kathaleen Doherty

August 27, 2021

To The Entire Hayes Family;
Such pain and sorrow fill our hearts with the sudden loss of Jimmy. May you be wrapped and comforted in the wings of Angels and may God's grace comfort you all through this most difficult time. Please accept our deepest sympathy and sincerest condolences.

Tully Brother´s

August 27, 2021

Prayer´s with Blessing´s To Family And Many Friend´s. We Shared Wonderful Time´s With Jimmy Hayes Alway´s A Great Smile.......... Special Rainbow´s, Star´s With Many Smile´s........ GOD BLESS ........

Jimmy Copell

August 27, 2021

My wife Ellen and I would like to extend our condolences to the Hayes family. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family and friends.

The Samuelsson Family

August 26, 2021

Words cant express the sadness we feel. Dont know what else could be said. We are thinking about you all and sending healing hugs .

Dan Dwan

August 26, 2021

Kevin, Shelagh and family,
My sincerest condolences! There are no words!
I will pray for your family!
I am balling as I write this! May you find some kind of peace!
Love and prayers to you!

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Visitation

1:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Florian Hall

55 Hallet St., DORCHESTER, MA

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Funeral Mass

10:00 p.m.

St. Ann's Church

NEPONSET, MA

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740 Adams Street, Dorchester, MA 02122

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