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THE REVEREND JAN VICKERY KNOST

1934 - 2021

THE REVEREND  JAN VICKERY KNOST obituary, 1934-2021, ,Rhode Island,, MA

BORN

1934

DIED

2021

JAN KNOST Obituary

KNOST, The Reverend Jan Vickery Passed away peacefully at home in Charlestown, Rhode Island, on Sunday, August 22, 2021, with his beloved wife of 60 years at his side. True to form, always with a flair for the dramatic, he died just as Hurricane Henri made landfall over his home, and right when the power went out.

Born in Pasadena, California on November 19, 1934 to Reverend Richard William Knost and Rosalie (Quigley) Knost, Jan led an extraordinary life, and lived each moment to the fullest. He was raised all over the United States as his father ministered to churches in California, then Brewton, Alabama, and finally in Peoria, Illinois. Jan graduated from Peoria High School in 1952 and ventured off to college at the age of 16.

A brilliant man and lover of knowledge, he went on to build an impressive educational career, earning both his Bachelor of Science in Psychology and his Master's of Divinity at St. Lawrence University. From there, he pursued further theological and graduate studies at Harris Manchester College at Oxford University, as well as Boston and Brown Universities. Throughout life, he delighted in reminiscing about his joyful experiences performing as a founding member of The Singing Saints acapella group of St. Lawrence University - even performing on the Steve Allen Show in 1954.

Ordained as a Unitarian minister in 1961, he built a beautiful career of ministry to others, serving various congregations in Rhode Island, Massachusetts, New Jersey, Texas, Florida and New Mexico, only finally retiring from active ministry in 2016. His ministerial career spanned seven decades and he touched the lives of countless people with his quick laugh, spiritual wisdom, enormous loving hugs and deep compassion for humanity. A lover of words and poetry, he was an avid writer and reader, as well as author of several books and poetry: Vertical Thoughts and Horizontal Comments (1963), Easter's Epic Testament (1970), Thanksgiving Saga (1971), Canto to Christmas (1972), The Invisible Sun (1975), and Word Cairns (2016). But he would tell you, his greatest work was written just for his beautiful wife, Lorna Ruth (Smith) Knost whom he met and married in Providence, Rhode Island in 1961.

In addition to his ministerial career, he served, proudly and faithfully as Chaplain and Member of the Lodge of St. Andrew in Boston, Massachusetts since 1972. In addition, Jan devoted much of his life to social justice work. Marching for racial equality was as important to him, as fighting for world peace and nuclear disarmament.

Despite his prodigious opus of his career and writing, he would emphatically proclaim that his proudest achievement was his devoted and loving family. He leaves behind and is mourned deeply by his wife of 60 years, Lorna Ruth; his son, Keith William Knost; his daughter, Kristan Beth Knost McCarthy and her husband Mike; his daughter Jana Marcy Knost Battiloro and her husband, Chris; and his daughter Amy Kathryn Knost Connor and her husband Patrick, Jr. He is survived, as well, by nine beautiful grandchildren, whom he would happily show pictures of to any stranger in a grocery line who happened to catch his eye. They are Anna Brielle Butler, Jonah Nathaniel Butler, Jensen Cole Butler, Katherine Jan McCarthy, Linnea Faith Battiloro, Christopher Zachary Battiloro, Meghan Elizabeth Battiloro, Haley Bridget Connor and Patrick Michael Connor, III. He is also survived by his brother, Dr. Peter Noel Knost of Tavares, Florida.

Jan passionately embraced and devoured life. From youth he delighted in athletic success in everything from scuba diving to skiing as well as savoring his lifelong bonds with teammates through volleyball and softball. He was just as quick to recite a quote from Shakespeare as he was to break out into song in any random time or environment, including the many musicals in which he starred throughout his adult life. Jan seized any opportunity to grab a peaceful moment fly fishing or watch his precious birds out the back window in the quiet early morning hours. His love for the Boston Red Sox, any round of golf, and time with friends at the table were just a few of the innumerable examples representing Jan's daily zest for life. He spent many summers happily lobstering and fishing the waters of Hingham harbor. He savored any beautiful aria, especially by Mozart, or entertained with his own glorious baritone voice that rose just higher, sometimes, than his church choirs. He was content to make ice cream with his grandchildren, or sit and watch old Hollywood movies time after time. His joy for life will live on in his family, and through his devoted dog, Preacher. He will be missed, deeply, every single day, by so many. He believed in and lived by the words of Henry David Thoreau, "to suck out all the marrow of life."

There will be a Memorial Service at a date to be determined at First Church & Parish in Dedham, Massachusetts. Although cards are welcome, in lieu of flowers, please consider donating to a cause in Jan's name, that will contribute to the greater good of humanity.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Boston Globe from Aug. 24 to Aug. 25, 2021.

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Rev. Dr. Arthur H. Van Slyke, Jr., D.S.S., D.D.

July 4, 2023

My wife, Terri, and I attended Emerson Unitarian-Universalist Church services in Houston during the early 1990's as non-members and were extraordinarily impressed with the sermons of Reverend Knost. At the age of 64, in 2014, I wrote to Reverend Knost to praise him for his life's work and tell him that I was about to enter seminary in New York to become an Interfaith-Interspiritual Minister. I framed his wonderful written reply and treasure it GREATLY! His WONDERFUL PERSONAL EXAMPLE inspired me throughout the next 5 years, as I worked towards earning my Doctorate Degree and Ordination as an Interspiritual Minister from Emerson Theological Institute in the Fall of 2019. My D.D. is an Honorary Degree conferred upon me for years of Teaching, Rehabilitation and Counseling Service work within the Texas Prison System (Darrington Maximum Security Unit). I have Reverend Knost's framed picture and personally authored books in my office-study. He is one of my MAJOR TREASURED HEROES and ALWAYS WILL BE. Witten this day, July 4th, 2023, with the GREATEST PERSONAL AFFECTION and RESPECT . . .

Pat Whitten-Lege'

February 14, 2023

Jan was a blessing to our Emerson UU Houston family with a teen. I am forever thankful for him and his lovely family.
Through his deep knowledge of, care for, and appreciation of creativity and individuality, he was never afraid to challenge group pressure for conformity. Most special to me was that he created opportunities for youth development and leadership that had a profoundly positive effect on the life of my teen. Jan was a moral compass, a real human being, and a leader. Lorna, you and Jan seemed like the perfect match. I admired your independence. There is so much more to say. Jan, thank you for your life of service. You made a difference and you are missed.
Love,
Pat Whitten-Lege' and family

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Arlis Olson

August 31, 2021

My sincere sympathy. I remember Jan and thank him for his service to First Unitarian University Church in Texas.

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Pat Whitten-Lege'

August 25, 2021

I am so sorry to hear of Jan's passing and his family's loss. My late husband Gene,a our son Jon and I were members of Emerson UU in Houston while Jan and family were there. Jan
lifted our spirits. I especially appreciated his support of our teen age son in attending a regional UU Youth Leadership event. There are pivotable moments in each person's life when acceptance and support by one person can change their life forever. Jan did that for our family and I'm sure that he did that for countless others throughout his life of service.
Pat Whitten-Lege'

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