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JANET SHEA Obituary

SHEA, Janet M. On Friday, December 27, 2019, Janet M. Shea of Guilford, CT passed away at the age of 65. Janet was a graduate of the University of Rhode Island, Delta Zeta Sorority, and a flight attendant with Delta Airlines for over 30 years. Janet known as "Jan" was a friend to all and will be remembered for her kindness to others and her love of flowers. During her days at Delta, Jan fostered lifelong friendships based on her commitment to providing the best service and being the best of friends. Janet was the daughter of John M. Shea of Attleboro, MA and Claire M. Shea (Sullivan) (deceased). She was also the sister of Gregory J. Shea (deceased). Jen will be eternally remembered by her sisters, Claire and Elizabeth Shea and nephews Brendan, Taylor, Matthew and her niece Kelsey. She is also survived by her stepmother, Beverly Shea and her stepbrother Tom Higgins of Attleboro, MA. Calling Hours will be held on Thursday, January 2nd from 9- 10 AM at the Swan Funeral Home, 825 Boston Post Rd., in Madison. Followed by A Mass of Christian Burial at 1030 AM in St. Margaret Church at in Madison. Burial at Diamond Hill cemetery in Cumberland, RI. For online condolences, please visit www.swanfuneralhomemadison.com

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Published by Boston Globe from Dec. 29 to Dec. 30, 2019.

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Deb Callahan

December 23, 2022

Jan, you´ll never be forgotten! You were so kind!! May you rest in peace, Love, Deb

Joan Labow

December 25, 2020

Rest in peace sweet Jan. You will never be forgotten.

Richard Cohen

March 28, 2020

Claire, please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your precious sister Janet. I remember the dinner we shared together and was taken by her quick wit and remarkable poise. Truly a very lovely woman. Heartfelt condolences to your family.

Mary Dube

January 29, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful friend. I will miss you terribly and will always have so many good memories of our times in Marblehead. My prayers are with the Shea Family. Love, Mary Hanratty-Dube

Patricia Santostefano

January 7, 2020

It is with great sadness that I see you here, dearest Jan. I am still in disbelief. Your kindness, warm heart and gentle smile is how I will always remember you. You were the nicest, and a pleasure to work with, a true gem. Soar high...and rest well sweet angel.

Jan with fellow flight attendants Spring 2019 in Atlanta

Joan Labow

January 5, 2020

Joan Labow

January 5, 2020

Jan I will never forget you. Sweet, charming, funny, always impeccably turned out in your fresh-pressed linen outfits. Remember you so nervous in recurrent training. It actually helped all of us put it in perspective. You'd leave the group around the table the night before to go back to your room to iron...said it calmed you..and the next day you always pulled it off flawlessly.
Will always remember in your final months when I knew how serious your condition was, you never failed to ask how my husband was doing with his medical issues. If I wasn't stuck in Indianapolis with him I would have been there for you. Glad to know your beloved sister was at your side. Our lunch date will have to wait I guess.
Rest in peace dear Jan.

Debbie Geraci

January 2, 2020

To Jan's family,
Jan was dearly loved by her Delta colleagues. Her melodious voice, lovely good nature and quick wit will live on in my memory. I can only imagine how dearly missed she will be her family.
May she rest in eternal peace.

Debbie Geraci

January 2, 2020

To Jan's family,
Jan was so loved by her Delta colleagues. Her smile, melodious voice, quick wit and lovely good nature will live on in my memory. I can only imagine how missed she will be by her family.
May she rest in eternal peace.

Kim Allen-Pugh

January 2, 2020

Jan was such a sweet, compassionate and positive person. Like many others, I loved flying with her out of Boston as a Delta Flight attendant. Many wonderful memories. So so sad to hear of her passing. Fly Safe, will miss you

linda konnersman

January 1, 2020

Jan was dearly loved by all for her sweet nature, wonderful smile and gentle humor. Treasured memories of her will be in our hearts forever.

Annie Staeb

January 1, 2020

Jan was such a beautiful soul. I have so many good memories of Jan and flying out of Boston with her. She was always kind to everyone and was deeply sensitive. May you rest in peace, my sweet friend, and know how much you were loved. My sincere condolences to Jan's family.

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Carolyn Bentley

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Whispering Love Arrangement - BASKET INCLUDED

a loved one

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Kathy Ralston

December 31, 2019

Jan was a kind and loving soul..a wonderful friend and colleague who always exhibited a positive attitude. She will be sorely missed. Rest in peace my Friend.

Kathy Martin

December 30, 2019

I am so heartbroken to hear of Jan's passing. I had no idea she was even sick. We've lost a bright light. I always looked forward to seeing her name on my trip lists. Mostly to Brussels we flew together over the years. SHE WAS SO MUCH FUN to fly with! Heartfelt condolences to her sweet family. We are sure going to miss that beautiful smile and upbeat attitude. RIP sweet sweet Jan. Fly high my dear

Terri Grieder

December 30, 2019

It was with a sad heart that I learned of Jan's passing. She was such a special ladyalways smiling, lots of laughter and a true gem. I always enjoyed flying with her and will always cherish those memories of working together. She wanted to live life to the fullest. My heart goes out to her family. She will be missed. God Bless and Rest In Peace . We will always remember your smiling face.

Marina Faraone

December 30, 2019

So sorry for your loss and our loss. I flew with Janet many times and always enjoyed her lovely smile and outgoing personality. I cannot believe it...too young, too soon so unfair. Good speed to heaven, Janet ❤

Maureen Vogt

December 30, 2019

Claire and family, I am so sorry to hear of Jan's passing. She was the sweetest most caring neighbor. Loved seeing her always carrying in fresh flowers for her home ♥

Karen Fedorchak

December 30, 2019

I flew with Jan often on the Shuttle, She was so kind and down to earth,It was always a good day no matter what when you flew with Jan. My deepest sympathy to her family.

Gail Farley

December 30, 2019

Jan was loved by all of us who knew her at delta. A delight to fly with,
Witty, fun , all around caring human being. The good ones go too soon,
Those in heaven missed her too much. She will remembered in our lives with a smile on our face, and warmth in our heart. Shine On dear Jan❤

Gail Farley

Carol Platenik

December 30, 2019

Jan was a kind, happy, generous person. She was my sister's (Christine Hurley) best friend from the beginning. They attended the Delta flight attendant school, flew many flights together over the years, and saw some fantastic places.

I only met Jan a few times, but I liked her immediately. Everybody did...I hope she knew that..I think she did.

It is a terrible irony that Jan died at Christmastime. She loved Christmas. A true holiday fan. She really couldn't enjoy her last Christmas due to her illness. Jan faced her disease with courage and bravery. She was always thinking of others, never herself. She didn't want to "bother anyone" or have them "go out of their way". That was Jan.

I feel sad she never got to retire. She had just turned 65 when she was diagnosed with cancer. Just doesn't seem fair.

It is sad to say goodbye to her. Seems surreal that she is gone. Well, she will always be a part of our family. Jan is a designated "Hurley Girl" My family of four girls always considered Jan to be one of the "Hurley Girls". I think she loved and relished being friends with all of Chris' sisters.

Goodbye Our Dear Friend,

Christine Hurley
Kathleen (Hurley) Kennedy
Carol (Hurley) Platenik
Mary Ellen (Hurley) Cressotti
Peg Hurley (The Hurley Girl Mother) Peg loved Jan too

December 30, 2019

Jan was such an incredible woman. She was always laughing, happy and fun!
When we would fly together, it was such a great trip.Everyone just loved flying with her.
My deepest condolences to her dear family.
Rest in peace, my friend. In my heart, I know that we will all see you again.


Deb Callahan, Salem, MA

carol Platenik

December 30, 2019

Jan was happy, cheerful, and fun. She was my sister's (Christine Hurley) best friend from the beginning. They attended Delta Flight Attendant School together, worked as a team on many flights over the years, and saw some fantastic places.

Although I only met Jan a few times, I liked her immediately. There wasn't any negativity about her at all. She loved people, and I hope she knew many people loved her...I think she did.

Jan loved Christmas. A true Christmas fan. It is ironic that she died at Christmastime. Just doesn't seem right. Well, I guess we have to accept what life gives to us.

Jan handled her illness with grace and hope. She never wanted to "bother anyone" or "make them go out of their way". I feel sad she never got a retirement. She had just turned 65 but never got to enjoy one day of retirement.
Sad.

I know we will never figure out why life works out this way. Life is very hard, and this is just awful. We will miss "Our Jan".

With much love and sadness, The Hurley Girls
Carol (Hurley) Platenik
Mary Ellen (Hurley) Cressotti
Kathleen (Hurley) Kennedy
Christine Hurley
AND JAN SHEA (Honorary Hurley Girl)

In Loving Memory Arrangement

Diane Griffin

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Barbara McCarthy

December 30, 2019

I'm so sorry to hear that Jan has passed away. She was so sweet and lovely, and always a joy to spend time with. Sending you all of my love, Claire and Elizabeth.

Jane Houle

December 29, 2019

Jan was an incredible friend and coworker. She was always upbeat and positive whenever we flew together. I loved her voice and how she laughed . She was beautiful inside and out and I will miss this shining star. Rest In Peace dear friend

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