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JOEL FRIEDMAN Obituary

FRIEDMAN, Joel Joel Friedman, 86, of Brookline, MA passed away surrounded by loved ones on March 2, 2023. He leaves behind three sons, David and his wife, Robin, Peter and his wife, Pam, and James and his wife, Ginny. He also leaves behind nine grandchildren: Harry, Ben, Hallie, Jack, Cayla, Samantha, Will, Anna and Julia. He was predeceased by his wife, Barbara. Joel was born on June 13, 1936 to Morris and Fagale Friedman in the Bronx, NY. As a teenager, Joel was selected to attend a new neighborhood charter school. This opportunity led him to Williams College, where he graduated in 1957. Thereafter, he met his wife Barbara, the love of his life, to whom he was married for over forty years. He then went on to receive his Masters from City College New York, and his PhD in Clinical Psychology from Texas Tech University while raising three sons and serving in the Army Reserves. Joel's professional life was defined by hard work and success beyond what anyone could have imagined. He had a busy private practice, co-authored several books, and served on the faculties of Harvard Medical School and Mass General Hospital as a Clinical Instructor in Psychology in the Department of Psychiatry. He loved his work and especially loved helping those in need. To Joel, family meant everything. He and his older brother Sol had an incredibly close bond and remained best of friends their entire lives. He and Barbara were inseparable and a constant source of support for their sons. When they weren't attending one of the kids' sporting events, they loved to spend time with the family on Martha's Vineyard. When Barbara fell ill, he cared for her and never left her side. Anyone who knew Joel appreciated his kindness, warm smile and big heart. His eyes never twinkled so brightly as when he spent time with his grandchildren, whom he cherished. He will be sorely missed. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Brookline Food Pantry, 210 Harvard Street, Brookline, MA 02446, where Joel volunteered after his retirement. Funeral Service Sunday, March 5, at 11:00 a.m. at Stanetsky Memorial Chapels, 1668 Beacon Street, BROOKLINE. Stanetsky Memorial Chapels www.stanetskybrookline.com 617-232-9300

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Published by Boston Globe from Mar. 2 to Mar. 3, 2023.

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Stacia Markowitz

February 24, 2025

I miss my friend and our chats.
He was a blessing during a very difficult time in my life.

Josiaah Jackson

March 20, 2023

I have just learned of your Dad's passing as well as your Mom's.
I am deeply saddened and have the fondest of memories of the laughter, thoughtfulness and love that Barbara and Joel always offered not just to me but everyone whose lives they touched. I send deep peace to you all and many thanks

Scott Carey

March 5, 2023

So sorry to hear of Mr Friedman´s passing. Thinking of all of you during this difficult time. Sincerely Scott Carey

Andrea Hall

March 4, 2023

I have so many warm memories of both Joel and Barbara. Sending love and hugs to Dave, James, Peter and the entire Friedman family. I still remember the story of the bells on the door so that Barbara and Joel knew that their `boys´ were home and safe. My deepest sympathy goes out to all of you. What a beautiful legacy he left...

Lisa May Richards

March 4, 2023

David and family, I´m so sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. Losing a parent and loved one is so hard. Will be keeping you all in my prayers.

David Post

March 4, 2023

A wonderful man. I always enjoyed our contacts at MSCP meetings. He will be missed.

Jamie Gresser

March 4, 2023

Peter, James, David - I'm so sorry to hear of your dad's passing. I remember him and your mom as always kind and welcoming.

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Stacia Markowitz

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Brian Carey

March 3, 2023

Great Man and Father of a Great Family.
Rest in Peace Doctor and Soldier.

Gerry Walsh

March 3, 2023

My condolences to David, Peter and James, your Dad was a wonderful man

Julie Slotnik Sturm

March 3, 2023

Dear James, Peter, David - I'm sending you my warmest condolences to you and your families. I remember your father very well from Lawrence, hockey games and the Cape. And your sweet mom too.

Dick George 101st Airborne Division

March 3, 2023

Requiescat in pace amica meus! Ave at que vale!

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