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JOSEPH BEHNKE Obituary

BEHNKE, Joseph R. Jr. Age 43, of Walpole formerly of Roslindale and Readville on November 22, 2016. Beloved husband of Amy (Harrington) Behnke. Loving father of James Joseph and Claire Rose Behnke. Son of Mary Jane (Walsh) Behnke of Readville and the late Joseph R. Behnke, Sr. Son in law of James and Rosemary (Brooks) Harrington of Medway. Also survived by 3 nephews as well as many friends and family. Former Police Officer, Boston Police Department, Late US Marine Corp Veteran. Relatives and friends are kindly invited to attend Joseph's Life Celebration on Monday, November 28, 2016 from 4-8 PM in the James H. Delaney & Son Funeral Home, 48 Common Street, WALPOLE. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in Blessed Sacrament Church, 10 Diamond Street, Walpole, on Tuesday, November 29, 2016 at 10:00 AM. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers donations in Joseph's memory may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105. Delaney Funeral Home www.delaneyfuneral.com

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Published by Boston Globe from Nov. 26 to Nov. 27, 2016.

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November 30, 2016

Amy and Family,
I'm very sorry about Joe. I've known Joe for over 30 years, we were teammates in Babe Ruth, American Legion, and Latin Academy baseball. I also worked with Joe at C6, he was a great guy who will be sorely missed.

Ed Norton

Lori Wash

November 28, 2016

Wishing you hope and peace during this difficult time.

November 28, 2016

We are so very sorry to hear of Joe's passing. He will be remembered having a big smile and generous heart. I knew Joe from BLA and will always remember him making us laugh. Prayers to his beautiful children and to you Amy and his mom.
Sincerely,
Tommy and Leigh-ann Lee
Quincy MA

Mary Dillon

November 28, 2016

Amy , I am so sorry for what you are going through . Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Mary Dillon

November 28, 2016

Amy I'm so sorry my condolences to u and your family- Sean Baril

Kathleen Burke

November 28, 2016

I worked with Joe at BPD. He was a true gentleman and a great Officer. He treated people kindly. You could always count on him to break the tension with a joke. And that laugh...I am so sorry for your pain. I remember him talking about you, Amy. You were the love of his life. God Bless.

November 28, 2016

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Marilynne Gaffey

November 28, 2016

I am so sorry for your loss. Joe was a wonderful person. I will remember him always smiling and laughing. My prayers for Joe and his family. Another one of the good ones was taken early. God bless.

November 28, 2016

Dear Amy,

My thoughts are with you and family during this difficult time You can reach out anytime (longtime friend of John Brooks)

Mike Pietrowski

Joanne Barfield Souther

November 28, 2016

Amy - My heart breaks for you during this tragic loss. I am one person who knows what you are going through. If you need anything, please let me know. If you need to talk with someone other than family, please call me anytime. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

Paul Harrington

November 28, 2016

Amy I am sorry I. Cannot be with you during these trying times I always enjoyed joes company and it's nice to know that I bought him his first Guinness in Ireland all my love
Paul & Rita

William Hanson

November 28, 2016

RIP, JOE.

November 28, 2016

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time of sorrow.
Drew Terrono and Herve Kimball

Ellen Quartarone

November 28, 2016

Dear Amy, so sorry to hear of your tragic loss. Seek solace in your cherished memories in the weeks to come and remember how many of us will have you and your children in our prayers. Ellen

Scott Anderson

November 28, 2016

Dear Amy and Family,
My most sincere thoughts and prayers for your loss.

Susan Hand

November 28, 2016

Amy, James and Claire,I am so sorry for the loss of your brave husband and Dad! God and heaven has gained an Angel. Love and hugs, Your cousin Susan

Michael and Heather Mason

November 28, 2016

Dear Amy,
We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our hearts, thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely Heather & Michael Mason

Michael & Heather Mason

November 28, 2016

Dear Amy,
We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our hearts, thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Heather & Michael Mason

Janine Shore

November 27, 2016

I was so saddened to hear about Joe. I knew Joe from high school and always appreciated his sense of humor and his kindness towards others....just an overall "good guy". My thoughts are with your family at this difficult time. Sending prayers, blessings and light to you all.

Ed Raffoni

November 27, 2016

I knew Joe from the time we were in kindergarten together in Roslindake. We grew up playing baseball together in the Parkway programs. He was a great guy that could make you laugh no matter the circumstances. Joe had a huge heart and he will be missed. Joe's passing took place much too soon and it is a big loss to those of us that were fortunate enough to get to know him during his lifetime. Rest in peace my friend. I will miss you.

Eddie Derba

November 27, 2016

I'm just heartbroken. I ran into Joe just 3 or 4 weeks ago and it was great seeing him. Joe was my second cousin but he was a good friend too. So sad for his family. I hope you're able to find find peace.

Diane Hennessy. (Ronda's Aunt)

November 27, 2016

Amy there are no words. I will pray for you and the kids in the weeks and months to come. May you find some peace and comfort in the good, fun times that you shared with Joe and may he rest in heavenly peace free of any pain that he was enduring!

michelle plakas-kaiser

November 27, 2016

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Kristie McManus

November 27, 2016

Joe - you know how much we love you and are devastated by your loss. Brian and I promise to always be here for Amy, Jimmy and Claire. We are so blessed with many years of happy memories! Rest peacefully- we miss you so much already!

Sean McCarthy

November 27, 2016

I knew Joe when he was a little kid running around the parking lot at St. Annes's School in Readville and then again years later when he joined the BPD where we got to share a few laughs together. My condolences to the family.

Mary and Ed MacDonald

November 27, 2016

There aren't words that express the comfort that you need. May God sustain you Amy, your precious children and all of your family now and throughout your lives. It's with great sadness that we send our love and our sympathy on the loss of your Joe. May God guide all of you with a gentle hand always.

Michael King

November 27, 2016

On behalf of the King Family, we send our thoughts, prayers, and love to the Behnke & Harrington families during this difficult time. May all the good memories help sustain you through times ahead.

Alison Carney

November 27, 2016

God rest your soul sweet Joey. I remember when you were a baby boy. God needed more angels. Fly high with your other cousins that have passed. We will watch over your precious children.

Please accept our deepest, most heartfelt sympathy.

Kathy Hand Savage

November 27, 2016

Amy I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the kids. We are here for you. Love Kathy

Gary Bolles

November 27, 2016

So very sorry for your loss,RIP Marine.Captain Bolles Retired Suffolk County Sheriff's Dept.

Jay Peabody

November 27, 2016

I am so sorry to hear this news of my cousin. While we did not always talk, I still have great memories of our time together. Love you Joe, may you Rest In Peace with your dad. My heart is with Amy, Jimmy, Claire, and Maryjane.

DB

November 27, 2016

RIP Joe, you are now an angel to watch and guide Amy, Jimmy Joe, Claire and MJ. Be their brightest guiding light.

John and Grace Peabody

November 27, 2016

Dear Amy and Maryjane , So sorry to hear this tragic news I will always remember how Joe would come over and ask if I had my sauce and meatballs God Bless him Always He is now with his Dad and Grandparents May he rest in Peace
Love Always
John and Grace Peabody
Readville Ma

November 27, 2016

Tim and I will miss Joe's smile and boisterous laugh. That is how we will remember him. We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you now and in the weeks to come. May God be with you. We love y'all so much.

November 27, 2016

I'm very sorry for your loss, please accept my sincere condolences. May the peace of God sustain you through the hard times. And may your fond memories of Joseph make you smile.--Psalm 34:17, 18.

Jim Sullivan

November 27, 2016

Joe was the nicest kid in the world. His Mom and Dad used to eat at Doyle's in JP and Joe would come in with them sometimes, a very, very nice young man. I remember when he went of to the Marines, made his family proud, and then became an officer with the BPD and a great family man. God Bless you Joe and May God keep your family in HIS Heart. Jimmy Sullivan

Melissa Nolan

November 26, 2016

I'm so sorry for your loss...he was a wonderful friend to me in high school...we took German together and I have many fond memories of him...he was a true gentleman and always showed kindness and shared his laughter with us all...prayers to your family and friends...he will be dearly missed.

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Celebration of Life

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Mass of Christian Burial

10:00 a.m.

Blessed Sacrament Church

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