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1931

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2015

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Hyannis, Massachusetts

JOSEPH COTELLESSA Obituary

COTELLESSA, Joseph A. 83, died February 18, 2015. Joe was the son of Nicola and Genevieve Cotellessa of Roslindale, MA. Joe was a graduate of Boston Technical High School and served 4 years in the U.S. Navy. Married to Anne Marie Kelley of Forest Hills for 51 years. Joe is survived by his daughter Joanne and her husband Gary Beaupre' of Westwood, MA, son Joseph A. Cotellessa of Belton, TX, daughter Judith and her husband Joseph Pirrone of West Roxbury, MA, son James N. Cotellessa of Rochester, NH, son John E. Cotellessa of Cotuit, MA, son Jerry F. and his wife Wendy Cotellessa of Walpole, MA, son Jeffrey A. and wife Marie Cotellessa of Buzzards Bay, MA. He was blessed with 10 grandchildren and four great grandchildren. Joe worked 30 years as a Hoisting Engineer with Local 4 in Boston and the last 30 years as the food loving, socializing proprietor of the Original Gourmet Brunch in Hyannis, MA. He enjoyed the company of regular customers as well as celebrities. Joe was an active member of the communities where he lived. In Boston, Joe was a Scout Master for 10 years, President of the PTA, and volunteered at both St. John's and Sacred Heart churches. Member of PIA, Int. In Hyannis, Joe was the President of the Hyannis Rotary, member of the Hyannis and Cape Cod Chamber of Commerce and Honorary Guest Conductor with the Pops by the sea. He participated in all aspects of life, enjoyed everyone's company and lived each day to the fullest. Visiting hours are Sunday, February 22, 2015 from 4-7:00 pm at Doane, Beal and Ames Funeral Home at 160 West Main St., Hyannis, MA 02601. A funeral mass will be celebrated Monday, February 23 2015 at 11:00am Our Lady of Victory Church, 230 South Main St., Centerville, MA 02632. In lieu of flowers a donation to the Goodworks Fund, Rotary Club of Hyannis, P.O. Box 39 Hyannis, MA O2601 or the Hyannis Fire Fighters Local 2172, 95 High School Rd. Ext., Hyannis, MA 02601. For online condolences please visit www.doanebealames.com

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Published by Boston Globe from Feb. 21 to Feb. 22, 2015.

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John Boyle

February 4, 2016

So sorry to hear of your family's loss I've always enjoyed the GB. Joe was a great guy who always made you feel welcome... RIP , JB

June DeCoste

May 14, 2015

We recently found out about Joe's passing. We can't go to the Cape without stopping for breakfast at the Gourmet Brunch. We will remember Joe each time we order the Gournet Sampler.

Paul Nee

March 3, 2015

Sorry for your loss. Your father accomplished a lot in his lifetime. I have fond memories of the Cotellessa family as well as visiting the cottage in the cape. My apologies for missing the services.
The Nee Family

Angela Ayer

February 26, 2015

My deapest sympathy to the entire family, I would like to remember joe's funny wit and dedication to his family and community. I will always remember the energy he put into every part of his life.

Ellen O'Brien Munroe

February 26, 2015

Deepest sympathies to you all. Your Dad was a great guy. Always willing to help anyone in need. He made a difference in a lot of lives He will be missed

Bob,Cheryl&Chris Shiels

February 23, 2015

Our deepest sympathies to Joe's family!!!!!
GB was one of the first places that my husband and I found
When we moved here to the Cape
Joe welcomed us in,sat with us and made us feel instantly at home
We will miss his stories, his advice and most of all his friendship
We will miss you, Joe!!!!!

Kelly O'Brien

February 23, 2015

What a very special mass today for Joe.My fondest memories are of Joe dishing out delicious chowder for the Pops by the Sea VIP Receptions & his hilarious antics bidding on Tony Bennett tickets!! so generous!!

Cindy Donoghue

February 23, 2015

Our deepest sympathy to the Cotellessa Family. Joe was a wonderful man, always greeted you with a smile. Your memories of him will help you thru this difficult time.

With love,
The Donoghue family

Andrea Dolan-Souza

February 23, 2015

Sending prayers and loving memories of my Uncle Joe... To my cousins, love to all at this time.

February 22, 2015

Joe, I will miss our many breakfasts together, interesting conversations and meetings. You are the greatest!

Eileen McKendry
Boston, MA

February 22, 2015

Our condolences to the Cotellessa family. Joe was a great guy and will be missed by all. Sincerely, Diane Bowes and karen Bowes Galvin

john& mary richardson

February 22, 2015

god bless the gourmet brunch familey it is not often that we will drive 40 miles for breakfast but we do for this resturant god bless you all

Don Chase

February 22, 2015

Deepest sympathy to the Cotellessa family. The Chase family

February 22, 2015

I was saddened to learn of Joe's passing and wish to extend my sincere
condolences to the Cotellessa family. Joe was an active member of BARS for many years and was generous with his time and his prepared shellfish
dishes at our events. He was a real character and a joy to be with.
Dick Ossen
Past president, Barnstable Association for Recreational Shellfishing

February 22, 2015

We are so sorry to hear about the loss of Joe, it is hard to believe he is gone.
Joe was so full of life and laughter. We are thinking of all of you.
Love,
Eileen, Elaine, Cathy and Paul Burke

Paul Burke

February 21, 2015

As a neighbor of Mr. Cotellessas he was a great role model for the kids in our Roslindale neighborhood. He always had time to help anybody who needed it. As a heavy equipment operator he brought home a front-end loader and cleaned the snow from our streets during the Blizzard of 1978. One of many kind deeds of a man who lived life to the fullest. He will be missed.

February 21, 2015

My kindest thoughts go to the Cotellessa family. He made a difference for the good; his legacies live on.

George Wardle, Troop 1 West Roxbury

The Staff of Doane Beal & Ames Funeral Home

February 21, 2015

We wish to extend our deepest sympathies at this difficult time.

Carol Saunders

February 21, 2015

On behalf of the Trustees and Staff of the Hyannis Public Library, I extend our deepest condolences to the Cotellessa family. Joe was a staunch supporter and former trustee of the Hyannis Library and we are grateful for all he did for the library and for our community. Please accept our sincere sympathy.

Cindy Stone

February 21, 2015

My thoughts and prayers to the Cotellessa family at this sad time. Sorry, for your loss.

February 21, 2015

Our sympathy and prayers are with you Mary John and family
Peter and Kathleen Naughton

joe Fellows

February 21, 2015

Deeply sorry for the families' loss.

David Coleman

February 21, 2015

John as you know you had a very special dad. Come on for a guy his age racing around a track in a compatition go card with other younger fellas that pretty much says it all but not quite. I do know one thing he will find a way to still count the earnings each and every day for the Resturant. So keep up the great work to continue his legacy as you have been doing, and himself and the socializing while having breakfast will truly be missed. Please keep your chin up, this is a very upsetting time of life but just remember him in your life and I know you can't do anything but smile.

Lynne lutz

February 21, 2015

To all the Cotellessa family, my deepest sympathy goes out to you all, I hope you find peace knowing he will be with Anne again... Rip Joe, we will miss you forever.. God speed.

Annemarie & Mickey Reaney & Family

February 20, 2015

Our sincere condolences

Mark Gianno

February 20, 2015

None other. The BEST. God bless you Joe

Elaine Griffith

February 20, 2015

My sympathy and prayers go out to the Cotellessa family. Joe was a great man and will be remembered by many for all he did for the community and his presence and hard work. I will miss his humor and honesty. Rest in peace with your wife, Joe.

Lonnie Ruderman

February 20, 2015

You will be missed so much, rest in peace, love you.

Jim Argie

February 20, 2015

You will be Missed Joe you were like a Grampa to my kids Rest in Peace .Jim ,Tammy Peter

Jerry Savage

February 20, 2015

To the Cotellessa Family,

It has been decades since I have seen any of you, but I remember joe fondly from my younger years. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Wendy Cotellessa

February 20, 2015

As we begin to say goodbye to Joe/Grampy this weekend, we are reminded of so many of life's moments with him. My father-in-law was truly one of a kind and I am so lucky to have a lifetime of memories to enjoy. I will sorely miss him. Although one can't possibly capture or sum up his essence properly in a simple post, there are a few note worthy qualities to share about Joseph A. Cotellessa. He was a dynamic, unique and complex man to say the least. He was boisterous and loud with a larger than life personality. He had a quirky appetite for flamboyant chef pants, his rainbow suspenders, "Mr. T starter set" and a flavor for always making people laugh. He had an opinion on everything and never shied away from telling you. He worked hard at everything he did. He came from humble beginnings and shared a full life with his one true love, Annemarie, and they danced together through all that life threw at them. He never ceased to amaze me with the abundant energy, enthusiasm and passion he put into various hobbies and activities...whether it was "canning" or building his train sets or working his beehives. I will miss Joe for all these things, but mostly for the quiet, tender side, he would show briefly and only once in a blue moon. Like the time he leaned over at a Pops By the Sea party and told me how blessed he was or seeing the joy spread across his face as he watched his grandchildren toddle around amidst the Christmas chaos. I treasure these the most. I will keep my lifetime of memories close and take them out to enjoy every now and again. RIP Grampy - the spiciest meatball of them all.

Dean & Margie Melanson

February 20, 2015

Our sympathies, thoughts and prayers from our family to the Cotellessa family. Joe was a true community leader and a dedicated family man. I never had a chat with him that did not include a family story (he was always so very proud) and an update on community and business projects. All of this with a huge smile, jokes, and insight. He will be missed.

eddie, john and Violet Robbins

February 20, 2015

So sorry to hear about Joe may he be at peace our prayers are with all of his family at this time

February 20, 2015

Joe will be sorely missed - not only by his immediate family but by his Hyannis Rotarian family. A loving, giving human being who lived life to its fullest. My very deepest sympathy to all the families who knew Joe!
Karol Wyckoff

Matt Pitta

February 20, 2015

My thoughts to the Cotellessa family in your time of mourning...Joe will be missed in the Hyannis and Cape Cod community.

fred dolan

February 20, 2015

So sorry to hear about uncle Joe! Prayers to all of you.

Kathy Blackwell

February 20, 2015

Wonderful man who made breakfast an event...always made everyone feel special...so glad to have known him...
.xox Kathy & Molly

Sharon Hawkins

February 20, 2015

We will miss the extraordinary character that was Joe Cotellessa! His wry observations on people ,politics and his sense of humor ! Loved listening to his stories. He will be missed . So blessed to have known him.
Love
Allen and Sharon

February 20, 2015

Warm hugs to the Cotellessa family. Joe was a wonderful caring man who will be missed by all who knew him. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers . He is surely in the arms of the Lord and will joining Ann for the final comfort. Our love.
Sandi and Hugh D'Ambrosia. Vero Beach, FL.

Scott Gurss

February 20, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with the Cotellessa family. Joe was a wonderful man with an amazing heart. He knew how to make anyone laugh and got everyone around him to enjoy life. I cherished the times I had with him and his family. God Bless

Holly & Dan Wittenmeyer

February 20, 2015

for Joe ~~~~
In life, if you are intelligent, you are admired. If you are wealthy, you are envied. If you are powerful, you are feared. But if you're blessed with a good heart, you are remembered, always. It's not about the wealth, power, and intellect, but the LEGACY in life behind those people you've touched.

Kelsey Guertin

February 20, 2015

Cotellessa Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Joe was a great guy. I have so many great memories of him!! Thinking of you all. xoxo

Mae Livingston

February 20, 2015

I am deeply saden to hear the lost of Mr.Cotellessa. My prayers and thoughts go out to his family.

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