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Susan Miller-Havens
August 19, 2022
t would be disingenuous to not wonder why so little of Joe´s youth is alluded to in this beautiful obituary . Joe spent 12 formative years with people who enjoyed and respected him, who played music and sports with him and who have missed him over these last decades. He grew up with us in Glen Ridge New Jersey 45 minutes outside of New York City. A sliver carved out between Montclair and Bloomfield it is 1 mile long and 1/2 wide. Population 7,000. It was and still is a beautiful town with perfect rose gardens and lawns. On a clear night we could see the lights of NYC. As we got older NYC became our backyard, a place to attend real theater, museums, and music. It was 1950´s. The war was over. Life was good. Many of our parents had chosen this hamlet because of its wonderful school system. Although all public we were rated next to the private schools. Many of our fathers rode the Erie/Lackawanna train to the city to work. There were very few moms who had careers. Doors were not locked at our homes. We knew our friends´ parents as they did us. Glen Ridge protected us from the real world perhaps until we realized our population wasn´t diverse or until Viet Nam and the horrors of the 60´s. I met Joe in the 1st grade. His family lived on Forest Ave where at least 10 of us walked to and back from grammar school together. High school meant riding bikes or catching a lift on the main street with someone´s parent. When I think of those 12 years that I knew Joe, his mother, and his sister Lynn the memories are vivid. ...In the car on the way to the Swayze camp, the bats, the outhouse. Mrs. Swayze´s sweet but persistent advice and Mr. Swayze´s larger than life presence. I can easily visualize all of it even if I can´t find my glasses today! . As I reflect on what each of us has done with our lives I am so glad that he realized all his great potential and brought his creativity to his students who will surely be his legacy. Susan Miller-Havens, Ed.D. Cambridge MA.
Karen Marcus
August 19, 2022
My most vivid memory of Joe is listening to him play guitar with two others (ala Kingston Trio) during our high school trip to Stratford-on-Avon in Connecticut. I took up guitar recently upon retirement wanting to be able to capture everyone's attention as Joe did during that spring day during our Senior year of high school. He appeared to be having so much fun.
Susan Miller-Havens, Ed.D.
August 16, 2022
Susan Miller-Havens, Ed.D.
August 16, 2022
Nancye Davies Tuttle
August 15, 2022
My deepest sympathies to all of Joe's family on his passing. My history with Joe goes back to our early years in Glen Ridge, NJ, where we were classmates and neighbors on Forest Avenue. His accomplishments as a teacher, journalist and photographer are amazing and the many students who benefited from his expertise are his lasting legacy. May he rest in peace.
MARK WEINBERG
August 14, 2022
RIP to a great classmate, a lifelong champion of youth and education, and a really nice guy! You left us too soon.
Eric Sundstrom
August 13, 2022
One of my favorite places is a small volcano crater lake in Hamburg, NJ owned by the Swayze clan: cabins, a kitchen, bunk beds, a boat dock for canoes, crystal clear cold lake water, fishing rods & lures and hand nets. My last visit there was in 1962.....Joe gave me permission to fish there by myself before I moved south. In the winter Joe, Sr would chop a hole in the thick ice for drinking water. The ice skating was fun too as the wind rarely ruined the ice. And that was the last time I talked with Joe........
Eric Glen Ridge New Jersey HS classmate
Stuart Simon, MD
August 2, 2022
Sorry to hear of Joe's death. I was a friend of his at Williams.
Now for the co-incidence which I did not know at the time. I am from Middletown, NY and was born on September 9th. We may have gone to the same nursery school or primary school. How long did Joe live in Middletown? Once again, sorry to hear of his passing.
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Sincerely, Stuart
Gar Noll
August 2, 2022
My sympathies to his wife and family with fond memories of a dear Williams classmate and all-around great guy.
Dick George
July 24, 2022
Requiescat in Pacem meus amicus.
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