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Brenda Hauswirth
October 14, 2024
It's hard to believe so much time has passed so nice you left us all behind. I haven't talked to your momma in ages, but I hope she knows she holds a place on n my heart as do you. You were so sweet and so funny. I miss you all. My son, Jerry, is gone now too. If you see him, tell him he is loved.
Brenda Hauswirth
Carolyn Macdonald
October 16, 2023
Oh my baby always my love tomorrow is when I was no longer a mother maybe a use to b but not the same iwas so proud to have such wonderful kind and respectful men selfish of me looked like had done my job. I miss you guys so much without you ihave no purpose. Do you see tht keith will be 21 next week he always missed you I know allyou guys upstairs will be there!
Thuy Roy
October 14, 2023
Miss you so much... what I would give to see and talk to you. Please watch over us. Love you!
Thuy
October 14, 2022
Wish you were here! Miss your smiles and the way yiu would tease me. I have 3 kids now and they are all grown up living their best life. Nik has 3 girls of her own. Can you believe I'm a grandmother? Wish you could see them all! Maybe you do see them. Keep them safe for me! I you! Not fair you were taken from us all! Come visit me in a dream!
Brenda Leichliter (Hauswirth)
October 14, 2022
Carolyn, I miss you and Matthew so much. Meeting you both was a joy. Matthew's sense of humor and gentle caring was obvious from the little time I got to spend with him there in Florida and your caring and straight speak won my heart so quickly. Sadly, so many of the family is gone now and I haven't been able to reach you on the phone. Just know I love you and if you ever need me, I am here. I remarried and am now Brenda Hauswirth.
Brenda Hauswirth
October 14, 2021
Carol, I did t know him well, butI loved his kindnrss and sense of humor. I miss you all and think of you frequently. Love you, Bren
Brenda Hauswirth
October 14, 2020
Only knew Matthew for a brief time while married to his Uncle, but have never forgotten his kind, gentle manner nor his great sense of humor. Your loss left a dark spot in our workd. Love Matt and his Mom and send my love.
May 27, 2019
oh my darlings I love you so matt im sure you know how sorry I am for some of our last words or lack of them I love you so much always have and always will! My threeloves of my life are gone though you may be with me that in it self is good but not seeing you or hearing your voice or all of the missing living things between living and spirit. I do amaze myself how I continue on when I feel so empty inside. Love you guys with all my heart please call on me soon and ask God that I remember all..xoxoxo
May 20, 2019
mean so long my darling cannot reach you from the other place but I am sure you hear me . What was that going on the other night?
September 28, 2018
my love my children my husband my missed pets I love you and this will never change no matter how long it takes for us to be united have a winder heaven life live well have fun stay together and please help me to live the same kind of earthly life and continue to be with and watch over me all I wish is to be happy and it is hard without all of you cause I miss you all so much love you
July 8, 2018
Do you believe this she is all grown up 18 wow bet her father is having a fit she is sweet she is beautiful all of you band together and watch out for her and help her to have the best life ever
June 21, 2018
missing your love with all my heart
June 7, 2018
its almost a year since I lost your wonderful stepfather looks like our family cant seem to catch a break never got over you two never mind this I think I,m supposed to feel thankful for the time I had with any of you but its not enough the faces that I love have been taking from me and I have to depend on memories miss you guys so much it hurts
May 3, 2018
glad to be able to talk to you again how are you my wonderful and loving boys my heart will always b heavy losing my husband was not how expected the later years of my life to go you know how good he was to me how different life would have been for all of us he loved me so much and it still breaks my heart to be without my loved ones all the years and I have never had a dream visit from you none from your brother in years and none from the love of my life now are you guys so busy you cant come to see me? how are my two best friends don't hear from them either please help to give me strength love you all.
September 27, 2017
3 months tell him hoe much I miss and love him How different would my life had been if I could have kept all of you. different life then we had huh all kisses and hugs
September 26, 2017
will always miss and loveyou
August 31, 2017
hi my darling sons missing you guys how is the love of my life doing? kiss all the animals for me miss them too. hug to vin man and billy I am left without any of my friends someone give me a call
August 20, 2017
love you and miss you had the birthday b-b=q today love letting the balloons go feel terrible tell wayne I need him to calm me down
August 5, 2017
have not stopped crying but yesterday I only cried one and a half times a -little better. I know he is with me often but that's not enough for me I guess. HELP mom
July 19, 2017
as you know by now Wayne is there with everyone my heart is broken have missed talking to you guys
January 18, 2017
Hello darlings been awhile so busy at the hospital all the time miss you feel alone here How about a nice dream I would love something happy that I can hold on to please pray for wayne call me
November 21, 2016
almost thanksgiving this week is going to be soo crazy doc appt and cookin company think we bought more then we could do everyone is trying to pitch in bringing things hope u guys R going to be there say hi to B L Dave Shaeffer for me love you two forevever vin too.
November 10, 2016
matt sorry I did not go down on your anniversary with wayne so sick I know u forgive me I am so scared and don't want to loose him too need help for him and myself I'm a mess love you miss you mom
November 6, 2016
things are hard lonely for you guys vin too could use all the help we can get we Have God I,m sure he is here for us but could use my boys around me for strength miss seeing your faces relying on memory it is kinda lonely
October 8, 2016
missing you two so much things are hard and scary we could use all the help we can get from our loved ones I have lost you and don't think I should have to loose any one else I love Help! mom
August 25, 2016
we all miss u so life has no happy expectations with u 2 gone I do the best I can with what I have but the sorrow does not leave. Tell Vin I hope he can be happy for his family! if not I am sure he will be. look after his children they will always need his help to make the right decisions in life. love you guys very much and always will. mom
July 11, 2016
my darlings I'm sitting here missing you two soo much. haven't gone down to visit you since I came back I do want to but I just cant face it you think I would be used to it by now but it is never over I love and miss you wishing I could here your voice once again. someday I guess love lots mom
June 7, 2016
love you so
May 25, 2016
hello sweethearts still missing you two how is vin B l Dave the pups?
May 4, 2016
mothers day is coming up again please think of me I will be thinking of you two my sweet children. wonder who john omalley is ?
John O'Malley
January 28, 2016
So Sorry for Your Loss!
mom
October 20, 2015
miss you and love you two knowing the future I will miss still haunts me. Cannot believe how the rest of my life has changed. call me
mom
September 13, 2015
Hi matt somehow your site disappeared from here but we found you and put it up again. how is everything with you and Keith? I know it is great.. tell vin to pay a little more attention to the kids they need his guidance .. Love you so much and glad we had that long talk last night. Tell Keith to call me
August 20, 2015
hi almost end of august miss having my children in my life. always on my mind and love is always in my heart tell vin I said hello
June 13, 2015
hi darlings middle of june time to get ready for the big ba b que make sure you all are there tell vin no excuses and we miss him too also say hi to Bl for me
mom
May 11, 2015
was that you guy sunday hope it was and not just a dream love and miss you two and Vinnie so much
May 4, 2015
this sunday is a horrible day to me to know it is mothers day and have no children around to share it with me what a gyp visit me love to get something and know it is from you guys
mom
April 30, 2015
on vaca loved it been talking to you a lot lately as you know please answer me need you so much miss you so much Keith too say hi to Vinnie for me.
mom
December 5, 2014
I miss you so
mom
November 28, 2014
hows thanksgiving there? 13 people here wow but we squeezed in was good though missed everyone of you love so much
mom
November 23, 2014
chinka was here took us out for dinner he is so kind to me and it makes me feel closer to you two. He always speaks of you guys sometime we laugh talking about the old days he loves u guys and I know he will never forget you and look how much because he trys to take care of your mother taking your place as best he can he must have a great mom bringing up such a thoughtful and kind man thank you for picking out such a good friend love you 2 say hi to vin and B dinner will be lonely without vin this year.
November 18, 2014
holidays huh wish that all of you were here! maybe u will be let me know all my love
mom
November 3, 2014
missing you there is and I guess always will be a hole in my heart and somedays I feel that I will fall into it...love both of you so
mom
October 17, 2014
just came from your place Did u see me? miss you and I remember every minute of that day wish we had spoke longer when you called but who knew! I love and miss you so much always will and I am glad your face is clearly etched in my memory.. say hi to everyone
mom
September 25, 2014
another summer over huh hope you guys had fun I'm sorry all of you are gone but glad your together however the loss pains me I know you all have each other. Matt and BL your bad day is almost here 7 yrs right miss you all give my love to Keith and Vin
September 12, 2014
my darling boys my heart still aches from loosing you please call me
August 30, 2014
wow looks like Vin called me? tell him see if he can reach me again
August 20, 2014
had a scare last night wonder if I am right and whats up with that?can you guys let me know?
mom
August 1, 2014
Say Happy B-day to my Keith hope you guys have a great time miss you 2 so much.The memorial birthday party is tomorrow hope the weather hold out. make sure all you guys are here bring Spike and Jake and tell Vin there is no excuses it is his party too now. love forever
mom
July 15, 2014
sad today auntie just left the Birthday party is soon and now we add Vin liked it better when he was coming to the party rather then being one of the guys it is for thanksgiving is dwindling too. sad sad
mom
July 10, 2014
Katie is 14 quick huh b,s kids must be big too tell vin if he is teasing Katie to stop and to talk to her as her dad so when she dreams she wont be scared. Love you all
mom
June 14, 2014
never forget you 2 a lot of thoughts about vin poor kids hope vin is adjusting well. call me
May 28, 2014
auntie and Ralph are he we miss you
May 25, 2014
Hi thinking of you
mom
May 17, 2014
hello my darlings, had a dream about vin the other night all I remember was he told me something and I said "Oh I didn't know that I'll have to remember that" and I forgot what! if it was more then just a dream and he did want to tell me something tell him to get back to me. Love you both so much and sayhi to all the guys and have fun
mom
May 10, 2014
thank both of you for my mothers day flowers! you know how sad I felt this year about mothers day I asked you boys to send me some kind of mothers day token and your wonderful friend chinka came through but I guess you know that he has been a blessing to me. It would be nice if you guys found a way to thank him and let him know it! love so much!!
mom
May 9, 2014
I sit here and realize so many are gone tell vin I miss him very much we did not talk everyday but I knew where he was when I wanted to he use to worry about something happening to me see how it turns out sometime
mom
April 24, 2014
20yrs for Keith huh I cant believe it I guess the wounds of loosing my children will never go away Keith I miss you so much I became a different person 20 yrs ago how is Vin? I feel sorry for the children help vin keep an eye on them. Matt read the letter little keith sent u for your b-day seems he misses u a lot call me
mom
April 16, 2014
hey matt saw the gift you sent me for my B-day I knew it was you ...you always manage to let me know your saying happy birthday I miss you soo much my heart still aches... hey how is my spike? and will be waiting to hear from Keith and Vinnie hope vin reminds the kids but it might not happen this year...
mom
April 8, 2014
hi guys missed talking to you I'm home! how is vin miss him here I don't have many friends left.. well guess you know my spike died. miss him with all my heart he was the baby that took you and Keiths place but I,m sure Vinnie introduced him. you guys will love him as much as we do. even though he is what kEITH CALLED A CAT-DOG kiss and hug him for me. love and miss u so much say hi to everyone for me.
January 13, 2014
Is Vinnie with u guys? OMG what a shock! tell him we will miss him I know he will at least have all u guys to help him adjust. He knows we will always be there for the kids and that he will always be watching them. I cannot imagine life without him in it,again my heart is broken..Please the puppy is so sick help him I just can't keep losing and the vets can't seem to be able to make him better he is like my baby and I can't lose another child...help please
Reta
December 16, 2013
Happy Birthday Matt!! We miss and love you.
November 28, 2013
happy thanksgiving my children sooo wish u were here
November 22, 2013
holidays huh love thanksgiving not so much Christmas but you know that miss u love u both pray for me
November 9, 2013
good Saturday morning loves
October 26, 2013
nice to hear from Derek huh of course Tommy called and others I cant think of right now. wayne seems to be getting better spike is too. thanks for any help u might have given me you always were a good and loyal family guy miss u never imagined my autumn years like this if not for wayne I would be alone.
thats me and weeman outta the movie jackass, bet your laughing
derek o donoghue
October 17, 2013
6 years matty , how time flys , I still miss ya to death , you were in my mind all day and many other days too , mad love my friend , hope all is ok upstairs (Derek)
October 17, 2013
12:10 in 2 3 hours it will be 6 years since you left us. How come it seems like such a short time ago? miss you every minute. I just realized a little earlier that B,s date was just last week tell him I miss him too. please be with me... mom
September 28, 2013
still cannot find out what is wrong with my puppie wayne is starting to slowly improve I THINK auntie and ralph just went home so I will relax a little. miss you 2 always will.
September 23, 2013
so much going on I need help can you guys? WAYNE IS SOOOO SICK he barely has any strength my puppie my sweet little baby is very sick and loosing weight don't think I can bear loosing either of them I've lost so much can you guys help mom
September 11, 2013
Hi my babies September is here already the weather is always best in the fall u guys would be hanging out at the river huh love you both so much
mom
August 17, 2013
I'm sad and I miss you so much
August 1, 2013
Happy Birth day Keith! you were always a pleasure and a gift to me. have a great time and say hi to all the guys
July 29, 2013
Keith,s b- day Wednesday huh you guys have any plans? our party is sat. hope all u guys will be there. mom
July 22, 2013
HI MY DARLIN' NEPHEWS! THINKING OFTEN ABOUT YOU BOTH. WE ARE SPENDING SUMMERS AT CAPE COD NOW AND VISITING MOM OFTEN. WE TALK ABOUT YOU BOTH A LOT , SMILE AT SOME MEMORIES AND FEEL BAD ABOUT OTHERS. YOU WILL ALWSYS BE IN OUR HEARTS AND CAN'T WAIT TO SEE YOU. TELL UNCLERICKY WE LOVE HIM. KISSES AND HUGS, AUNTIE XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO
Brenda McQueen
July 8, 2013
Hi Matt! I've been thinking a lot about you, your mom and Joe and the kids today so I thought I'd drop you a line too. I've decided the REAL horror of getting older is losing everyone you love to death and while I'm sorry you're gone; especially for your Mom's sake, you won't have to go through all that pain so in some way, I'm also envious of you. I didn't get the chance to know you super well, but I have to say you made a lasting impression on me. You were so sweet and kind with a wicked sense of humor and a killer accent. Also, a looker too. I come on here occasionally so I just wanted you to know you're still thought of and remembered. Give your Mom a big old kiss for me. She's a keeper and I'm glad she finally found someone to love and to love her because she misses you guys like crazy and I was super worried about her.
mom
July 7, 2013
hey mj's closed huh I know it would bring a tear to your eyes he just wants to .retire
July 4, 2013
happy 4th of july guys! love this day even if I don't do anything brings tears to my eyes. has B got the party going? we still miss you guys sooo much and that will NEVER change. mom
June 20, 2013
so nice to see a message from someone so long ago elementary school wow I knew you and your brother were unforgettable to so many! makes me feel good to see it. wonder who it is? kiss
June 17, 2013
Randall G Morris school....you were a good kid!
June 12, 2013
lonely for you and to hear your voice or see your beautiful face how shiny and blond your hair was right after you washed it. I can see you shaking your head at me for saying these things out loud..lol
mom
June 6, 2013
hi my darlings missing you so things are so up in the air I am so worried you know me always thinking the worst but I guess I've earned that right?
mom
May 14, 2013
you know wayne now needs your help any outcome except a cure would be soooo unfair to him or me talk to someone will ya hon please I need to have someone on my side you've always been a big family guy and I thought you be there for me I hope you can help.I love you guys forever..
May 2, 2013
imagine 19 yrs for keith that's like a lifetime tell him I miss him love you matt mom
April 24, 2013
got through that jury duty thing AGAIN think I'm the only potential juror in the state they call me all the time hope your having fun mom
Rene Wells-Stenson
April 24, 2013
Hiya Matty, Spring has finally Sprung...I always think back to the times of you guys hanging out, soaking up the sunshine during these warm days. I'm sure you're partying w/ BL celebrating his birthday today...Slainte'!!
April 16, 2013
love u guys so much and always will u are never out of my mind and my heart..mom
April 16, 2013
love u guys so much
April 1, 2013
Im back and for some reason sooo sad remember me could use your help love u so much
James
December 26, 2012
Merry Christmas Matty. Westie misses you! RIP
mom
October 16, 2012
vinnie is coming please make your self known thats why I'm brining him if any one can see you guys it will be him. wish I could
October 14, 2012
Will be down to see you wednesday think it will be just me would be so happy if I saw you guys hanging out we could visit for awhile....hope and pray t see all of you.. mom
October 14, 2012
think I'll be going down there by myself wednesday maybe Ill be lucky and see all of you there we can visit for awhile..oh that would be glorius hope to see you then..MOM
mom
October 1, 2012
been crying about u a lot these past 3days do you think it is because the 17th is the 5th anniversary? people think i should be over this by now but of course not the mothers I know this will never be over for me love you and Keith as much as ever but there is only pain left I guess because any good memories are so old tell Dave and Joey and B I send them my love too.
mom
September 21, 2012
hi my sweet boys think of you so many times through out the day but you know that! miss you both sooomuch
mom
August 28, 2012
hi darling nothing much happening here miss you guys always love you
July 29, 2012
aunte is here did you two like your b-day celebration it was fun huh? love with all my heart
June 25, 2012
how is everyone? you guys are missed everyday and I know you (the west roxbury boys)are thought of by many many people each and every day all you guys that left were like the ceam of the crop and i,m sure your friends miss you as much as your families does..tell B l how much I think of him and love him .
June 10, 2012
hi my sweet son miss you
Rene Wells-Stenson
May 11, 2012
Miss your smile and your sweet, soft spoken, gentle way.
Miss all the boyz & gurlz that are now gone from Westie that always made me smile when I would see them out and about round the way.
Keep watching out for us all...as we will always keep you in our hearts.
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