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MENELAOS ALIAPOULIOS Obituary

ALIAPOULIOS, Dr. Menelaos A. Prominent Doctor Of Weston, formerly of Wellesley, passed away peacefully on February 3, 2020, at the age of 89. He is survived by his devoted wife of 65 years, Joan (Kapopoulos) and cherished daughter, Pamela J. Lazares and son-in-law, Nicholas of Milton; beloved sons Stacy Aliapoulios of Milton and Dr. John Aliapoulios and his daughter Pallas of Palm Desert, California. Also survived by loving adult grandchildren, Nicholas P. Lazares of NYC, Kathryn Lazares of Boston, Alexandra J. Lazares of Seattle. Born in Manchester, NH to Greek immigrants, the late Anastasios and Angeliki Aliapoulios, and brother to the late Cosmas, James, and Steve Aliapoulios. Survived by his brother Paul and wife Janet of Freeport, Maine and sisters-in-law Christine Vakalis and Donna Aliapoulios. Also survived by numerous nieces, nephews and godchildren. Dr. Aliapoulios graduated as Valedictorian of the Manchester Central High School Class of 1948, where he was Captain of the varsity football team, Class President and the star of many theatrical and musical productions. He and his "soul mate" Joan met there at a high school dance at age 16 and became lifelong partners. Thereafter, Dr. Aliapoulios graduated fromTufts University with honors and served aboard the USS Wisconsin as a Lieutenant in the Navy during the Korean War. He went on to graduate from Johns Hopkins Medical School with honors in 1958. Thereafter, he did his internship and residency at Peter Bent Brigham Hospital in Boston, becoming the Chief Surgical Resident there in 1966, as a protégé of his lifelong mentor and esteemed colleague, Dr. Francis Moore. During his career, Dr. Aliapoulios was Chief of Surgery at Cambridge Hospital and St. Vincent Hospital. He held several academic appointments throughout his career, including teaching surgery at Harvard Medical School and University of Massachusetts Medical School. He was also a Visiting Professor in Russia, Kenya and the Shanghai First Medical College in China. He was a Past President of the Boston Surgical Society, Roxbury Improvement Society and Aesculapian Society. Dr. Aliapoulios was awarded the Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine Distinguished Medical Alumnus Award in 2011. It is the highest honor the university bestows on those making achievements in medicine and in one's personal life. At that time, he credited his traditional Hellenic upbringing and his family and friends as reasons for his success. He researched and was widely published in the areas of carcinoma of the breast and colon, and was also part of the team that discovered Thyrocalcitonin, a previously unknown hormone. He held staff appointments at Brigham and Womens, Deaconess and New England Baptist Hospitals. Dr. Aliapoulios was made an Archon of the Ecumenical Patriarchate of the Order of St. Andrew the Apostle. For his service to the field of medicine and to the public, he was awarded the Ellis Island Medal of Honor. He was a lifelong member of the choir at St. Demetrios Greek Orthodox Church, Weston, First President and Founding Member of the Alpha Omega Society, a member of Leadership 100 of the Greek Orthodox Archdiocese, and past Trustee of Hellenic College/Holy Cross Theological School in Brookline. Dr. Aliapoulios was a fierce competitor on the tennis courts and played actively at Wightman Tennis Club in Weston until a few years ago. He was an avid Patriots fan and loved all professional sports. He was a firm believer in nourishing the body as well as the mind. Most of all, he relished his summers with his family and friends first on Cape Cod as a member of the Oyster Harbors Club and in later years at his oceanfront home in Kennebunkport, Maine, always savoring the sumptuous gourmet feasts prepared by his loving wife, Joan. He was known as someone who always strove to do his best, and expected no less from those around him. He was a great storyteller whose sparkling personality filled the room. He will be sorely missed by the many whose lives he touched and especially by his loving family. May his memory be eternal. A visitation will be held at St. Demetrios Greek Orthodox Church, 57 Brown St., WESTON on Friday, February 7, 2020 at 10-11 AM followed by a Funeral Service at 11 AM. Burial will follow in Linwood Cemetery, Weston. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to St. Nicholas Shrine Building Fund and sent to: Greek Orthodox Archdiocese – St. Nicholas Fund, 8 East 79th St., New York, NY 10075. St. Nicholas was the only church to have been destroyed in the 911 attacks on the World Trade Center and is in the process of being rebuilt. Online guestbook and directions at gfdoherty.com George F. Doherty & Sons Wellesley 781-235-4100

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Published by Boston Globe from Feb. 4 to Feb. 6, 2020.

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Tommy Megan

February 7, 2020

I have very fond memories of my parents' warm friendship with Mene and Joan through the years. And in particular, memories of a night in 1979 when I was playing piano for a show at the Next Move Theater in Boston. Mene, Joan, my parents- Tom & Claire- and I went out for drinks after the show. I remember the crackling conversation around the table that night and Mene's sage advice about show biz which he delivered with such heartfelt care and humor. What a loving guy! My condolences to your wonderful family.

Kostas Petsiavas

February 6, 2020

Our father in heaven!. We thank you for the very valuable gift of life you have granted.

To our beloved cousin Menelaos. May the Angels treat him with kindness because his life was full of love and kindness. We pray that the Aliapoulios Family has peace. The Petsiavas Family.

February 6, 2020

Dr.Aliapoulios, Thank you for your service RDM Windham NH

February 6, 2020

Dr. Aliapoulios, Thank you for your service RDM Windham NH

John and Wendy V.

February 6, 2020

We are so deeply saddened to hear about Mene. My father always said that he considered Mene his "best friend" (on and off the tennis court at Wightman) and we always so looked forward to seeing you Joan, and Mene, drive by when we were out on our evening walks with the dog. Our warmest heartfelt condolences to you Joan, and the entire family, on your loss of such a wonderful, brilliant, warm and gracious man. He will be greatly missed : (

February 6, 2020

So sorry to hear about Mene. He was a wonderful person, an inspiration to everyone who knew him.
He will be missed.
Charles and Elaine Rosen
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John Cosmas

February 6, 2020

May his memory be internal!! He was a great physician and a good man full of life!

John Cosmas

Beverly Young Loranger

February 6, 2020

It has been many years since I had seen Min but he was always a great person. We grew up in the same neighborhood when we were kids on Cedar Street in Manchester, NH. He had a brilliant career and my condolences to his family in their loss. RIP

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Rita Tzimorangas

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February 6, 2020

To the Aliapoulios Family:

On behalf of a grateful nation, and the State of New Hampshire VFW Auxiliary, District #7, we wish to express sincere appreciation for the honorable service given by your loved one, and send our deepest condolences on your loss.

Cathy Burns
Chaplain, District #7

February 6, 2020

I am so sorry to hear about the families loss.may the families hearts ♥ be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times the family shared together with the dear loved one lost in death.as the family cherished a wonderful life that was well lived and loved by families and friends .my sincere condolences to the families during this difficult time of grief and pain.
-Pert/LYNN

Stephen Smith, M.D.

February 6, 2020

I remember Dr. Ailapoulios very well from my student years at UMass Medical School and as a surgical resident at UMass/St. Vincent Hospital (where I was also born.) He certainly was an excellent teacher and did, indeed, have the gift of story-telling. While he contributed so very much to surgical progress, I will remember him most for teaching us about "transit time." While we may have laughed at the time, Dr. Aliopoulios knew his stuff and left an everlasting impression on me and was a critical step along the way in my surgical training. I very much appreciate his contributions. I am very happy that he was able to enjoy the fruits of his labors while in retirement as well. Job well done!

Jo-Ann Gavrilles Rosen

February 5, 2020

Such a caring and kind man. I will always remember his presence and support to me and my dad over 45 years ago when my mother was terminally ill. Wishing his family lasting and loving comfort in every cherished memory. May his memory be eternal ~

Joseph Poirier

February 5, 2020

Dr. "Mennie" a special friend since 1969.
His surgical skills were only surpassed by his
wonderful smile and mannerly decorum for his work on me and especially on my wife Lee.
May God place him close to His heavenly Throne.
Sincere condolences to Joan, Pamela and the boys.
Joe and Lee Poirier

George Sarmaniote

February 5, 2020

Our Condolences To The Family;

May the memories and love of a loved one, whom you have lost, help sustain and strengthen you during this period of grief and sorrow.

May his memory be eternal!!

The Sarmaniote Family

February 5, 2020

My Condolences To The Family;
I'm so sorry for your great loss. May all of the beautiful memories that you all shared with your loved one, bring you all some comfort when sadness sets in.

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February 5, 2020

To My Dear Aunt Joan and Family ,

Uncle Minn was a truly exceptional human being form all walks/perspectives of life. A kind loving , considerate and sincere person whom will be remembered and missed by all. Maura and I extend our deepest condolences and heart felt sympathy. May his Memory be eternal. All Our love
George and Maura

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