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2020

MICHAEL CHALFIN Obituary

CHALFIN, Michael Michael Chalfin MD With aching hearts, we share that Michael Chalfin, 55, died of cancer on July 2nd. He was deeply loved and cherished by his wife Sharon Jacobs, children Sophie & Max Chalfin-Jacobs, parents Phyllis & the late Lawrence Chalfin, sisters Susan Chalfin & Tanya Berman. Michael's family was the center of his universe and he theirs. Together they laughed, sang, danced, and explored. Michael possessed a playful wit, gentle spirit, quiet brilliance, and equanimous demeanor. He relished morning bike rides, birding with Max, blaring music and grooving with Sophie & Max, and time with friends. Michael grew up in New York City. He graduated from Middlebury College cum laude in 1988 and from Brown Medical School with Distinction in 1994. He completed his residency in Psychiatry at Cambridge Hospital where he then dedicated himself to caring for under-served and traumatized patients for the next 21 years. He served a vital role in the Psychiatry Department as Director of Psychopharmacology. He was an Assistant Professor at Harvard University where he derived immense satisfaction from teaching. He was a gift to all whose lives he graced and will be profoundly missed. Services will be private.

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Published by Boston Globe from Jul. 3 to Jul. 5, 2020.

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Karen Parker

June 11, 2025

I was a patient of Dr.Chalfin and he was a very nice person.i sent him a holiday card to thank him for his help,he was grateful to get the card and he deserved for all the work and caring he shared.ithas been a few years now since he passed on,I did not know he was departed and I just stumbled upon this site as I was going to thank him for his help by sending an email or phone call.my name is Karen Parker

dina wolkoff

September 27, 2020

Mike was a great friend of mine when we were at Middlebury. I remember talking with him as he was working on his American History thesis while in the Meredith Wing of the library. We were both at Middlebury over the summer of 1987; he lived in the Mill with my boyfriend and other friends. We spent a lot of time hanging out, swimming at Warren Falls, watching movies, going for drives, going to NYC, going to a Grateful Dead show at the Meadowlands. He worked as a waiter at the Italian restaurant in town. One time, we walked up to some campus housing after the Language Schools closed and "borrowed" some toilet paper from the bathrooms. I always thought of him as being the Scarecrow to my Dorothy, as in the Wizard of Oz. He stopped by to visit me when I was back at Middlebury finishing my thesis, living on Lake Dunmore, about a year and a half later. I lost touch with him after that, but I always remember him as a good friend. He died much much too soon. I am sending my deepest condolences to Sharon, Sophie, and Max and Mike's family.

Mike M

September 5, 2020

To the Family and Friends of Dr. Chalfin,
I am so sorry for your loss. Dr. Chalfin was an expert psychiatrist and a wonderful human being. I consider myself lucky to have been a patient of his for several years up until when he stopped seeing patients. He was always incredibly patient, calm and understanding coupled with excellent knowledge and understanding of psychotropic medications. He helped me immensely. I will never forget him. Those of you who knew him well were lucky to have him in your lives. Again, I am so sorry for you all and for all we patients too.
Sincerely,
Mike M.

NGF

August 24, 2020

Thanks for all the help you gave me Dr Chalfin. You were a wonderful and caring doctor. My thoughts are with your family.

Elaine Ann Sacco

July 17, 2020

the light you generously shared will never be extinguished.
thank you for your love

Elaine Ann Sacco

July 17, 2020

the light you shared so generously will never be extinguished.
thank you for your love.

July 17, 2020

It still feels too sad to be possible. He was a doctor and healer of the highest caliber, and one of the loveliest human beings I've ever known. Dr. Chalfin, I will always be profoundly grateful to you for all you did to help me, over so many years. My deepest condolences to his family and all who love him.

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Patricia M. Almeida

Planted Trees

July 5, 2020

May you rest in peace Dr.Chalfin.
So very sorry for your loss.

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