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NANCY POTTER Obituary

POTTER, Nancy (Upp) Nancy Upp Potter, 100 years of age, died peacefully and comfortably, in the care and comfort of her family, at her Weston residence on Thursday, September 7, 2023. She was born in Reading, PA, on July 7, 1923, the daughter of the late John Winters Upp and Doris (Bigelow) Upp. Nancy was the wife of the late Joseph William Potter, Jr., who died on June 21, 2001. She was the mother of the late Amy Clare Potter; and was the sister of the late John Bigelow Upp. Nancy has been a resident of Weston for the past 44 years and spent her youth in Wyomissing, PA., where she attended a Quaker School. She was a graduate of Miss Halls School in Pittsfield, MA with the Class of 1941. Nancy graduated from Harcom Junior College in Bryn Mawr, PA, having majored as a Medical Secretary. She subsequently received her degree as a Registered Nurse from the Children's Hospital School of Nursing with the class of 1953. She served her country proudly during World War II, having enlisted as a WAVE with the United States Navy, earning the rank of Pharmacist's Mate 3rd Class. She joined the victory celebration at Times Square and subsequently, her unit marched in the downtown New York Victory Parade. Nancy's daughter, Amy Clare, died tragically at age thirteen from Aplastic Anemia, a blood disease for which there was no cure at the time. Nancy mourned her loss by dedicating herself to research, including family studies. She comforted and supported numerous families, whose members were stricken by Aplastic Anemia. Some became lifelong friends. She devoted countless hours at the Dana Farber Cancer Institute, Boston from 1976 until 2011. Nancy and Joe, her husband, established the Amy Clare Potter Fund at Children's Hospital, Boston, which provided fellowships to outstanding physicians specializing in pediatric oncology. Prior to Amy's death, she actively supported the Italian Home for Children in Jamaica Plain. Nancy was a trailblazer in her day, pursuing her dreams, irrespective of family wishes. She took flying lessons, skied the Swiss Alps, white water rafted the Colorado River and heli-hiked in the Canadian Rockies well into her 60s. She loved spending summers at Camp Island on Lake Winnepesaukee, N.H. The cabin had neither electricity nor running water, at her insistence. She was an outstanding cook, particularly after taking classes in France. Nancy was loved by many individuals in all walks of life. She truly cared about others and was a loyal friend and advocate. She delighted in the joys and was saddened by the sorrows in the lives of her friends and family. She always remembered birthdays and anniversaries with cards that were meaningful, memorable and hilarious. At Nancy's request there will be no public services and she will be buried in Linwood Cemetery in Weston with her husband, Joe and daughter, Amy. There will be a Celebration of her Life in October. In lieu of flowers, she prefers that gifts in her memory be sent to the Amy Clare Potter Memorial Fund, c/o Jillian Higgins, Children's' Hospital, 300 Longwood Ave., Boston, MA 02115. Any amount would be sincerely appreciated. Arrangements entrusted to the care of the John C. Bryant Funeral Home, of WAYLAND. For condolences, please visit www.johncbryantfuneralhome.com

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Published by Boston Globe from Sep. 13 to Sep. 17, 2023.

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Cindy

December 18, 2024

Think of Nancy so often and all the wonderful Travels she took worldwide Still think of her daily

cindy appleby Spencer

September 7, 2024

Still think of Dear Nancy almost daily They broke the mold when Nancy came into the world God bless her forever

Paula Melican

April 13, 2024

I just heard of Nancy´s passing. My grandson´s father, Steven Marshall, was the Potters foster child. She was very kind to Steven Jr. we will miss her positive example.

Todd H Brunel

October 3, 2023

Aunt Nancy, hopefully you are reunited in paradise and united in love with Amy, God bless you and may you Rest In Peace. We will hold dear all the loving memories over the years, the Easter Egg hunts and so many great times by the pool! You were an advocate and always there when we needed you. With love in our hearts....

Jessica Keener

October 1, 2023

My dear friend, Nancy Potter, was a second mother to me, and a mother to all kinds of people. She had lost her only daughter and child to the disease I once had--aplastic anemia--which is how we initially met. After her daughter died, she returned a year later to the hospital to research what caused this fatal disease. When I was out of the hospital, I wanted to do something to help and ended up assisting her in her research for a while. Eventually, when I moved to Florida with my future husband, and was having trouble finding a place for our wedding, Nancy offered up her home. That was vintage Nancy. Always offering up something to help someone. We got married in her backyard and our son learned how to swim in her swimming pool. I've had so many joyous times with Nancy and when I needed someone to listen to my woes, she was there--always. In life, we meet certain people along the way who make a huge difference in our choices and how we feel. Nancy was one of those people for me, and I saw firsthand, over many decades, how she was one of those extra rare and dear people for so many. Bless you, beloved Nancy, for your intrepid, joyful, authentic, and beautiful heart. Much love, Jessica, Barr, and Sam Keener

Debbie (Haberlin) Otero

September 14, 2023

After Amy´s death in 7th grade, Mr. & Mrs. P. became like 2nd parents to me. Nancy was always a wonderful role model. God bless her as she is reunited with her family in heaven.

Cindy

September 14, 2023

I Have so many fond memories of Nancy and her kindness and adventures worldwide She will be dearly missed Rest in Peace with Joe anf Amy my friend .May God bless you Love Cindy Appleby Spencer Weston Travel Service

Anonymous

September 14, 2023

I knew "Mrs. Potter" when I was a teenager. She was a kind person whom I trusted. I felt very bad for her when Amy passed because I knew how much she loved Amy. It was a very sad time. But she carried on. Nancy was a generous person who helped people. And she seemed to always be smiling and upbeat. I remember her very fondly.

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