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NEALE WILKE CLAPP

1933 - 2015

NEALE WILKE CLAPP obituary, 1933-2015, Essex, CT

NEALE CLAPP Obituary

Clapp, Neale Wilke Of Essex, Connecticut, an organization development consultant and social scientist, died on March 7, 2015 in Middletown, CT. Mr. Clapp's work as an organizational consultant spanned the second half of the 20th century, and he was known for his ability to examine the complex human impulses that drive organizational behavior. He is remembered for his oft-quoted observation "Nothing ventured, something lost." His published work included influential contributions toward the widespread adoption of first-generation industrial robots in the workplace during the 1970s. Born in East Orange, New Jersey in 1933 to Richard Holmes Clapp and Ruth Wilke Clapp, Neale Wilke Clapp was the second of four children. He attended Clifford J. Scott High School in East Orange and Dartmouth College in Hanover, NH where he was class of 1955 and majored in English. Mr. Clapp served in the U.S. Army from 1955-57, and later taught at New York University. In 1959, he co-founded a pioneering community-based probation program in Newark called Essexfields, which achieved success in reducing recidivism among young offenders using a model that is replicated today. Mr. Clapp began his private consulting career at Block Petrella Associates in Plainfield, New Jersey. In 1980, he established his private consulting practice. For many years, he was Dean of Team Building and Process Consultation for the National Training Laboratory in Bethel, Maine and he was a member of the original faculty of the Master of Science in Organizational Development program at Pepperdine University. In addition to his professional accomplishments, he was an athlete; he loved tennis and cycling. He taught his daughters to keep their eye on the ball, and took them on summertime cycling adventures around New England. When his health required that he give up tennis, he embraced, even if he did not fully conquer, the challenges of golf, a sport at which he persisted for the rest of his life. Neale was an expert naturalist. He loved birds, trees and flowers and was an accomplished gardener, creating wildflower-filled gardens anywhere he lived. The ladyslippers, coreopsis moonbeams and bleeding hearts he planted in New Jersey and Connecticut will bloom for many years in the gardens he cultivated. He taught his children to notice phlox, trillium and jack-in-the-pulpit wherever they went. He could talk at length about any bird that came to a feeder, or about the morphology of trees. He loved classical orchestral and instrumental chamber music, and he and his wife Marcia, spent many memorable evenings at Carnegie Hall. As a descendant of the Clapp family that came from England on the ship Mary and John in 1630 to found the town of Dorchester, Massachusetts, Neale was a life-long student of American history. He took an active scholarly interest in the pre-Revolutionary War colonial period, and was an equally avid family historian. He was deeply devoted to the American principles of equality and civil rights. An active anti-racist and strong supporter of civil rights, he marched with Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. in Selma in 1965, and remained deeply committed to the cause of racial justice for the rest of his life. He was a proud atheist and a passionate supporter of the separation of church and state. In 1958 he married Sandra Nachowitz, with whom he had two daughters. Following their divorce, he married Carolyn O'Koon, the mother of his youngest daughter. The couple later divorced and he married Marcia Hess. The couple spent over three decades together before Mrs. Clapp predeceased him in 2005. Neale is survived by his daughters: Jocelyn Ozolins and husband Mari Ozolins of Orient, NY, Robin Clapp and husband Hans Foght, of Malmo, Sweden and Elizabeth O'Connor and husband Gerard of Jamaica Plain, MA and his five grandchildren. He is also survived by his significant other, Barbara Levin, his sister Susie Batting and brother Bill Clapp, both of New Jersey. He is remembered by his many close professional and personal friends. The burial and memorial service will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations to the Neale W. Clapp Memorial Fund, Eastern Bank, 63 Franklin Street, Boston, Massachusetts 02110 will be appreciated. Donations to the Fund will be used toward gifts in Mr. Clapp's name to the American Civil Liberties Union and the Arnold Arboretum.

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Published by Boston Globe from Mar. 10 to Mar. 15, 2015.

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October 17, 2015

Neale was a teacher and mentor to me. In explaining his presence in my life to my daughter, I just discovered his Obit. A giant, a real person. Generous and kind.
Ron Flannery, Denver

Tom Finn

August 5, 2015

To Liz: if you did not get my response by email - as I suspect you didn't (I got an undeliverable message back), I would be SO appreciative if you could email me the copy of "Collected Wisdom" at [email protected], or mail it to 10866 Grovehampton Ct, Reston, VA 20194. MANY THANKS FOR CONTACTING ME!

Tom Finn

March 16, 2015

I did not know Neale, but as a son of New Jersey, I am forever grateful to him for compiling, from many training sessions over the years, something he called "The Collected Wit and Wisdom of New Jersey." It is truly one of the funniest things I have ever read, including malapropism after malapropism that he maintained were actually things people said in the sessions. I only had a hard copy, and currently can't find it. If it is available anywhere, and anyone knows where, I would love to know. The one example I remember was "You buttered your bread, now sleep in it."

Tom Finn [email protected]

Scott McVicker

March 16, 2015

Our condolences to Neale's family. The NTL Institute will always hold a place for Neale and his many contributions to our organization to the field of OD. He lived NTL's mission, vision and values and we are deeply saddened by his passing.

March 16, 2015

Dear Jocelyn, Robin, and Elizabeth, Many thanks for sharing your dad with us for so long. I join the many others who are so glad that Neale 'ventured' so that many may 'gain'. With condolences, Darlyne Bailey

March 15, 2015

He was a dear friend with great talents as a consultant and I relied upon him many times for personal and organizational growth.

Frank Barravecchia

March 15, 2015

Jocelyn, saddened to read of your dads passing. He was a most interesting man and like an older brother to me in the 1980's.
I fondly remember conversations with him at Little Silver, and in Mystic. He was a brilliant philosopher of the human
life and choices. Many good memories of his perspectives on life and behavior, many stories, golf, dinners, gardening, biking, car talk and taking his baby out for a ride (sometimes without him). As he would say there are many turns on the road of life and sometimes they cannot be navigated the way you want. Although I have not seen him for a while
he has always been with me, I can still see his smile. Sincerely with fond memories,

March 15, 2015

May God provide an abundance of peace and
comfort to strengthen and sustain you at
this sad and difficult time.

Bill Simons

March 15, 2015

Very sorry to hear of Mr. Clapp's passing. A kind and generous spirit. RIP.

Erma Davis

March 13, 2015

May our heavenly Father who is a secure refuge in times of distress comfort and strengthen you during your bereavement and in the days ahead.(Psalm 9:9)

March 11, 2015

Incredible man! My uncle will be dearly missed. ~Kristin

March 11, 2015

The 60th Year anniversary Dartmouth Class of 1955 extends to Neale's Family our sincere condolences.

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