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PETER TARNOFF Obituary

TARNOFF, Peter Of Osterville, MA, passed away the morning of March 29, 2018, at age 68.

He lived a vibrant life and waved the white flag reluctantly. He had so many avocations in which he was fluent that one friend commented that he lived every day as if it were it was his last, but studied his interests as though he would live forever. He loved Cape Cod, his final home, but began his life in Norwalk, Connecticut.

Peter attended St. Luke's School in New Canaan, Connecticut; he then went on to St. Lawrence University for two years before transferring to Boston University. There, while studying journalism, he nurtured his loves of photography and music. He was the first photo editor of the newly formed campus daily newspaper, The Daily Free Press, still in publication 48 years later. Peter loved music and he befriended musicians and music promoters alike in Boston, as he was much more than a casual fan. Latter day collectors of rock and roll images prized his music photos made beginning in the 1960's.

After college, Peter began a diverse career - working only in industries that he loved, including alpine skiing, wine, finance, and lastly education. It was not a surprise to his friends that Peter, as a legendary storyteller and unusually patient explainer of complexities, spent the remainder of his working life as an educator. He taught math and financial literacy at numerous schools on Cape Cod and in the Boston area.

Peter married Donna Driscoll-Tarnoff on April 25th 1981, in Milton, Massachusetts. Peter and Donna met in 1979 in Connecticut, while both working in the ski industry. They enjoyed 31 years of marriage, skiing in Vermont, traveling in France and Italy, and raising their two sons Nicholas (31) and Alexander (28), until her passing in 2012.

Peter was pre-deceased by his beloved wife, Donna Driscoll, his father, Edwin Tarnoff, and his brother, Jeffrey Tarnoff. He was exceptionally proud of his two sons Nicholas, of Atlanta, GA, and his wife Chelsea, and Alexander, of New York, NY. He is survived by his mother, Betty Tarnoff, sons Nicholas and Alexander, and many nieces and nephews and large extended family and friends. He will be greatly missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him. His friends have assured the family that they will fill the void of his absence with memories and stories too many to number.

Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend visiting hours on Tuesday, April 3, 2018, 4:00 pm- 7:00 pm in the Dolan Funeral Home, 460 Granite Avenue, EAST MILTON SQUARE, Milton. Interment Private. See www.dolanfuneral.com for online condolences and directions. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made, in memory of Peter Tarnoff, to the Admiral's Watch of the Barnstable Clean Water Coalition or to Tuck School of Business at Dartmouth Class of 1979 Fund.

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Published by Boston Globe from Mar. 31 to Apr. 2, 2018.

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Philip Tarnoff

April 5, 2018

As Peter's first cousin, my memories of him as a free spirit goes all the way back to our childhood. Although we had lost contact in recent years, I was greatly saddened to hear of his loss.

Philip Tarnoff

April 5, 2018

As Peter's first cousin, my memories of him as a free spirit goes all the way back to our childhood. Although we had lost contact in recent years, I was greatly saddened to hear of his loss.

Brendan W. Clark

April 4, 2018

To all of the Tarnoff family, I am so sorry for your loss. Peter was truly one of the greatest teachers I have ever had. In working with the investment club at Barnstable High, he taught me an immeasurable amount about the world of finance and his joy in explaining the precise concepts of bonds could never be replicated. He and I spent countless afternoons arguing about Puerto Rican bonds, the unforeseen value in the foreign options market, and the dive my economics teacher had taken on Netflix in our stock market game.

I will never forget sticking around and talking until 5:00 about fine menswear, our favorite ties and cufflinks, and the snap-online deals for a great pair of Allen Edmonds he would send me at 11:30 at night.

He had a story for everything and those stories are a gift I will treasure with me all my life. I wouldn't be who I am today without him.

I am thankful for the time I got to know him and I am certain he will have all of God's blessings in heaven.

April 3, 2018

Sorry for your loss. I enjoyed Peter's company at the WYC. He always shared his shellfish catch with me. Peter was always willing to help around the waterfront. He will be missed. Harry Holway

Elise Hills

April 3, 2018

Mrs Tarnoff, Nick,and Alexander,
So sorry for your loss, your mom and dad were great neighbors and fun beach pals. So many memories, oysters on the porch, wine sampling, sailing, boating , rescuing Peter and you boys out on the sail boats...Memories last forever, thinking of you all with love and glad you have all been in our lives.
Fondly, Elise and Geoff Hills

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kathy goodfellow

March 31, 2018

What will I remember most ? his humor and wit, his graciousness, his genuine interest in everyone, his lovely wife and his devotion to his sons.

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