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PRESTON SETTLES Obituary

SETTLES, Preston Blair Extraordinary Son, Brother, and Friend Preston Blair Settles August 2, 2006 – February 27, 2022 Loving son of Darryl Settles and Lisa Owens, M.D., and devoted brother and best friend of Taylor Settles, went on to his next journey on February 27, 2022. Preston enjoyed his elementary school years at the Underwood School in Newton, MA, and fully immersed himself in town youth sports. He was known to run from one game to another sometimes not taking the time to tie his shoes. Preston was an athlete and beloved friend to many during his middle school years at the Fessenden School in Newton, MA. He forged long-lasting friendships playing on the baseball, basketball, football, and lacrosse teams. He was a weekday border during the COVID-19 pandemic and cultivated long-term relationships with friends and faculty. Tim Murphy, Fessenden School administrator, reflected, "With an infectious smile, Preston's Fessenden years were characterized by joyfulness, hard work, and fiercely loyal friendships. His impact on the Fessenden community was far-reaching. Preston believed firmly in the concept of brotherhood, and he was embraced and loved by fellow students, faculty, and staff." New to the Brooks School in North Andover, MA, as a freshman, Preston quickly formed tight bonds within his dorm community, classmates, football, and basketball teammates. Preston had shared that going to Brooks had exceeded his expectations. Brooks School Head of School John Packard said, "In his far too short time at Brooks, Preston cast a long shadow. His ebullience, infectious spirit, and numerous talents earned him many friends and connections on our campus during this school year. In and out of the classroom, on football fields, basketball courts, his dormitory, and everywhere in between, he was a wonderful student, teammate, and friend. He made every group and community he was a part of more fun and joyful in his own intangible and inimitable way. The outpouring of support for Preston during these three weeks has underlined the extent to which he reached people in ways that mattered to them; in ways that were important to them; in ways that will hold over time." Preston had crafted a vision for his future that included studying business and law at Duke University where his grandmother, Ida Owens, was the first African-American to receive a Ph.D. at that school. Preston never had a bad day and embraced all that he did with positivity, perseverance, and upbeat energy. He enjoyed making others laugh. Fearless and adventuresome, Preston loved challenging himself by trying new sports, including boogie boarding, snowboarding, and paddle-boarding. He also enjoyed playing street hockey and fishing. On his 15th birthday, Preston reeled in a 357- pound tuna with his best friend Manny Pereira, with whom he enjoyed countless adventures. Preston was anchored by a loving family that relishes time spent together. Preston enjoyed traveling with his family to places like Spain, Morocco, Mexico, Costa Rica, Jamaica, and the Bahamas. At age 13, he traveled alone to Sweden to visit with a Fessenden friend on summer holiday. One of his most memorable father-son getaways was to the 2017 Super Bowl in Houston. Born just 16 months apart, one of Preston's best friends was his sister Taylor. They were inseparable, sharing friends and supporting each other's pursuits. They had their own special orbit, a special bond that fortified them. Preston lived a short - but FULL LIFE. Preston was "that guy" who people gravitated to, someone whose magnetic personality, kind soul, sincerity, and devotion endeared him to many as their dear friend. He was a life changer, truly one of a kind. He will be sorely missed by family and friends. In honor of Preston, and in lieu of flowers, the Preston Settles Charitable Foundation has been established to honor Preston's Hope: Accelerating discovery and care for people with Hypertrophic Cardiomyopathy (PROTECT). Donations can be made via https://www.tbf.org/donors/forms/preston-settles-memorial-fund Along with his parents and sister, he leaves to cherish his memory his grandfather Herbert Owens; uncles Jeffrey Owens, Alan Settles, and Ervin Settles; aunt Rose Settles; and a host of extended family and devoted friends. He was predeceased by his grandmother Ida S. Owens and grandparents Rebecca and David Settles.

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Published by Boston Globe from Mar. 2 to Mar. 6, 2022.

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Ken Sousa

October 9, 2022

May God bless you both moving forward, while you endure the loss of Preston.

Gary Witherspoon

October 8, 2022

To the Settles family, our deepest condolences. Only just realizing our mutual connection to Brooks School.
- Gary Witherspoon, `80.

Eric & Simone McPherson

June 24, 2022

Dr.Owens, I was told about the passing of your handsome son, I was lost for words, please know you and your family are in our prayers, Thinking of you.

Jim Mamonas

March 20, 2022

My sincere condolence for Preston.
Being a former player, coach, teacher for 35 years, this really hits home to all of us in the Sports World.
Presently trying to pass legislation into law to have all who play Interscholastic Sports, to mandated to have an EKG before being allowed to play .
I was diagnosed of having HYPERTHROPHIC CARDIO MYOPATHY, at age 50. It was then, that I started this quest to have this legislation pass.
Involved presently is Sen. Diana DiZoglio, Mass Heart Beat, and Dr. Malissa Wood(MGH-V.P. of Cardiology).
God Bless Preston and Family/Friends,
Jim Mamonas
(978)3735333
[email protected]

Charles and Pamela Ogletree

March 10, 2022

We are deeply sorry to hear of your son´s passing. Our hearts go out to you. May God comfort you and keep you close.

Susan Albright

March 7, 2022

I'm so sorry for your loss. The City Council will be having a moment of silence at its meeting tonight in memory of your son. My heart goes out to you and your family. Susan

Mel Palmer

March 6, 2022

Darryl, My sincere condolences to you and your family. My prayers are to give you healing strength and the spirit of peace during your time of bereavement.

Eileen Hughes

March 5, 2022

Darryl, I am so sorry to hear of Preston. Sending you and your family strength and support to get through this very difficult time.

Margaret Gilligan

March 4, 2022

Dear Dr. Owens and your family - my heart goes out to you. My most sincere condolences. I cannot imagine your family´s pain. I wish I could do or say anything that will help you to heal.

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Alan Pisano

March 4, 2022

Dr. Owens and Family. I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your son Preston. You must be very proud that you raised such a wonderful son who touched so many lives in his short 15 years. I will pray for you and your family in these most difficult times and light a candle for Preston at the altar at Mission Church. I know that he will always be with you in spirit forever. May he Rest In Peace.

The Athanasoulas Family

March 4, 2022

Please accept our deepest sympathies on the loss of Preston. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Olga and nadia-dermatology

March 4, 2022

Dr. Owens and family, please know that Nadia and I are thinking of you in this most difficult time. You have so much to be proud of in Prestons life. He sounds like an incredible young man who lived life to the fullest. May the beautiful memories and knowing how special he was bring you comfort in this difficult time.

Kenneth Sousa

March 4, 2022

My deepest condolences for the loss of your son Preston who touched the lives of many

Arlene and Richard Laham

March 4, 2022

Dear Dr. Owens and Family,
Our deepest sympathies on the loss of your beloved Preston. May God bless you and your family with comfort and peace during this very difficult time. May Preston's memory be eternal.

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Michelle Wu

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Isaiah Giesta-Pinto

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Bill Willis and family

March 4, 2022

Sending love and prayers to you, hoping that the messages of support from friends and family can ease some of your pain. Preston will always be a presence in your lives. Cherish the fond memories.
"Preston never had a bad day in his life."

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Eric Turner and Wanda Whitmore

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Scott, Alicia, Finn and Rowan Parker

March 3, 2022

Our family is sending love and prayers.

Sherry Levin

March 3, 2022

I am so so sorry for your loss. My sincerest condolences to you and your family. May his memory always be a blessing and live on in your hearts.

KR

March 3, 2022

I know the pain and grief of losing a child. Draw close to our Lord and Savior who has a plan for Preston that our minds cannot understand. His absence will be excruciating but he is in heaven and will be watching over you every moment of the day. Where there is great grief there is great love.

Janet Sinclair

March 2, 2022

To the Settles family. Please accept my sincere condolences. I can't begin to imagine the heartbreak you are feeling, losing your child. I pray that God covers you with His healing mercy and gives you strength during this difficult time. My prayers are with you. Sleep in Sweet Peace Young King Preston.

Myanna Pontoppidan

March 2, 2022

My deepest condolences, Darryl and family for your unspeakable loss. Wishing you all strength and peace during this most difficult time, and sending love and prayers your way.

Beatrice Montgomery

March 2, 2022

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Brenda Walkey

March 2, 2022

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you grieve the loss of Preston. We are here for you.

Beatrice Montgomery

March 2, 2022

Dr Owens you have my sincere condolences. You and your family are in my prayers !

Kanisha Coaston

March 2, 2022

Sending my deepest condolences to his family and all those that love him dearly. I know there are no words to express the grief the parents must be feeling but I'm praying the lord brings you both peace and comfort during this time. I have to say in the short interactions I've had with him when I worked at a local convenient store in Newton, I always admired how well he carried himself when he came into the store to buy his snacks. He stood out to me so much because not only was he such a handsome boy, but to be so young he had such a strong presence. I never forgot that and I just want to let the parents know you did such an amazing job raising him. He will live forever in all our hearts and minds. May he rest in eternal peace.

Annette Vines

March 2, 2022

I was so sorry to hear that young Preston passed away. My prayers are with all of you.

Kate Ploussios

March 2, 2022

Our deepest sympathies. Sending prayers and strength during this difficult time.

Andrea Walker

March 1, 2022

My condolences to the Settles family. May you find strength and peace in these most difficult times.

Anne T Lee

March 1, 2022

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.

Rev. Imani Smith

March 1, 2022

Sending prayers to the family. May your beloved Preston Rest in Eternal Peace. May God hold you all especially close.

Eve Lipton

March 1, 2022

My heartfelt sympathy.

edward f smith sr

March 1, 2022

my deepest condolences to the Settles family what a tragic loss of a very young wonderful son my family and i thoughts and prayers are with all of you in this time of grief Darryl no words can express my personal feelings for you and your family at this time Ed Smith Sr Auctioneer.

Micah, Chanel, Eden & Ethan Logan

March 1, 2022

Preston, the energetic little boy with the million dollar smile that would run to the door when I would visit, that will be our lasting memory. There are no words to describe the pain of losing a child. The comfort comes from knowing that he´s now in God´s memory. We will continue to pray for Preston, Darryl, Lisa and Taylor now in your time of grief.

David Isberg

March 1, 2022

My family´s thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sorrow.

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