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Robert Blasi Obituary

48, of Kittery, ME, died suddenly on Thursday, April 19th, in Greenland, New Hampshire. He was born on October 13, 1958 in Arlington, MA. Robert graduated the Winchester School system in 1977. He was employed as a Sales and Marketing Manager for Shipyard Brewing Company in Portland, ME. Beloved husband of Michelle (Robertson) Blasi of Kittery. Beloved father of Tyler (10), and 3 year old twins Sydney and McKenzie. Survived also by his parents, Guy and Day Blasi of Derry, NH, Stephen Blasi of Portsmouth, NH, Gail (Blasi) and Paul Kelly of Stoneham, MA, David and Denise Blasi of Phoenix, AZ, Ken and Heather Blasi of Denver, CO, Michael and Christine Blasi of San Francisco, CA, James and Lisa Blasi of Reading, MA, 6 nieces, 6 nephews and one grand niece. Services will be held at 11 AM on Monday, April 23 at St. John's Episcopal Church, 101 Chapel Street, Portsmouth, NH. In lieu of flowers, donations in Bob's memory may be made in trust to: The Bob Blasi Children's Scholarship Fund, PO Box 793, Kittery, ME 03904-9998. Arrangements by the J. Verne Wood Funeral Home - Buckminster Chapel, PORTSMOUTH, NH.

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Published by Boston Globe on Apr. 21, 2007.

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Janis Ready

May 26, 2025

Just seeing this today. So so sorry. Knew Bobby as a young child. Bobby was a great kid and obviously grew up to be a wonderful man. My mom always smiled when his name came up.

Guy Blasi

October 31, 2010

Bob,It's been three years since you left us and not a day goes by that I don't think of you . The memories are too many to list, but I think of them all the time. love Dad

Barrie Brian

March 31, 2010

Bobby, It's hard to imagine that you have been gone for 3 years. I just had lunch with Tyler the other day and I could not stop hitting and pinching him.. I think it was b/c it was sort of like having lunch with you. He is so much like you and very fresh :-). I miss you and wish you were here with all of us.. but I get that you are still loving us and supporting us in a different way. Thank you for your love and friendship. xooxoxox, Barrie

Christine Blasi

November 7, 2008

Dear Bobby,
I am still so sad, however I do know that you are with all of us each and every day. You were much more than just a brother- in- law to me, you were my friend. I will always have such great memories of working with you in Boston. The laughs and good times that we shared were many and for that I am grateful. Michael, Cameron, Connor and I miss you so much but we do know that one day we will be together again.
Love You!!

Denise Blasi

November 6, 2008

Dear Bobby,
It is hard to know where to start. You actually being gone is still so unbelievable to me. I do know that you are in a better place and I often feel you with me as I do my parents before you. This gives me a priceless sense of peace and well-being so keep it up. There are no words to express how much I miss you, your jokes, and your smile. Continue to watch over us-as you know- we need it. I love you.

Denise

Sydney Blasi

November 6, 2008

I miss you and miss you tucking me into bed daddy. I wish you were here. I love you. I miss you tickling me and making me laugh. love Sydney

Tyler Blasi

November 6, 2008

Hi daddy, just wanted to say how is it in heaven? Our family misses you, especially me. I wish you were back. I love you dearly forever. XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO, LOVE TYLER

Mckenzie Blasi

November 6, 2008

I really miss you daddy. I want you back so much. I love you daddy. I liked hunting easter eggs with you.
love Mckenzie

Michelle Blasi

November 6, 2008

This is too the entire Blasi family: There are no words to say how thankful I am to all of you for your love and support to the kids and I. Thank you for welcoming me into your family and helping me through this. I know how tragic this all has been for you all as well, and for that I am deeply sorry for your loss. Bobby loved each of you so much. Your are a strong family and so many wonderful memories. I see so many traits of Bobby from each of you individually and that is a gift to the kids and I. So many physical features as mannerisms and that is so special. I have not been very good with words or knowing how to connect very well through this last year, but know that I love each of you and think of you everyday. I am sorry if I haven't been able to fully be there for you all as much as I would like, but I make this promise - the kids and I will always stay connected to the Blasi clan. There are so many stories that will be so treasured for the kids, so I welcome you all to share as much as you can.

To Day and Sonny: for a year and half I have tried to find the words to express my saddness for you and they just come out in tears and such heartache. Bobby was a wonderful person and that is a direct reflection of you both. I know how proud you both are of him so there is no need for me to point that out. You should know how much he loved you and how often he talked about you both. I saw a lot of you Sonny in him, and that has carried onto Tyler. Day - everyone adores you and that to carried over to Bobby. I really am at a loss of words, but know that I am here and I really do think about you everyday. I love you Blasi family and again, thank you.

1996 Our honeymoon in San Diego

November 5, 2008

Cape cod 2002

November 5, 2008

5 year anniversary - cruise to Bermuda

November 5, 2008

July 2004 Bob, Sydney, McKenzie, & Michelle

November 5, 2008

Bobby and Tyler same age both playing on phone

November 5, 2008

Bobby, Michelle & Tyler in Disney World 2001

Michelle Blasi

November 5, 2008

This is for my three beautiful children:

Your father loved you more than life and would have done anything and everything for each of you. He loved to make you laugh - of course, he was such a goofy guy. He didn't care if people thought that he was too silly, as long as it made you laugh (belly laugh). His favorite thing to do was to spend time outside playing with each of you.

Tyler - he loved to be your coach, your guide, someone to look up to. He just adored you from the moment I told him I was pregnant. He heard your heart beat (and cried), saw you in my tummy (and cried), and then the day you were born - wow he bawled like a baby!!! He was so proud of you from day one. Every night before we went to bed we talked about you and all the things he wanted to do with you and all the wonderful qualities you have. Even though your time with daddy was so short, you two had some very wonderful memories. You are so much like him (obviously looks), but you have so many of the wonderful qualities he had that the world remembers him by. Daddy is still here watching over you and guiding you. His love was so powerful - you will always have it with you. You will do wonderful things my son - you have the same abilities as your daddy. He was smart, funny, common sense, a kid at heart, could carry on a conversation with anyone... and these are all traits you have. All the traits I loved about your daddy.

McKenzie - daddy's little girl... only daddy could get you to laugh so hard. His favorite things to do with you was to push you on the swing and cuddle with you at night. Your daddy was a great singer and loved to sing songs to you at bed time. His favorite for you was twinkle little star (you were and still are his little star), and the other song was You've got a friend by James Taylor. Your daddy stayed home for 8 months with you to care for you and Sydney instead of sending you to a daycare -most men couldn't do that with twins. But your daddy, was a brave soul and did a great job. He got to see you and Sydney's first crawl and walk, say your first words. Your daddy never missed anything for you kids. You have daddy's eyes Kenzie, a wonderful trait to inherit. Mckenzie, always know that daddy is in your heart and will be there to guide you and protect you. When you need him, call to him babe - he is listening, and watching you grow... He would be so proud of the little girl you are now and the woman you will be.

Sydney: Daddy loved wrestling and tickling you. His favorite thing to do with you was treasure hunt outside. You were and still are always picking up wonderful treasures and your daddy would walk with you, run around and play chase (as much as a 3 year does). At bedtime he would always kiss you a million different ways - snake ssssssssss kiss, a butterfly kiss, a piggy kiss, and the nose to nose squiggle kiss he called it. You would laugh for what seemed liked hours. I always had to remind daddy it was your bedtime and he needed to settle down. But that is just the kind of person he was. You have his smile and laugh, a quality we all miss so much, but I am so lucky to see in you every day. You also have the drive he had - everyone says that I will have daddy with me everyday and I do - the three of you kids each have so many wonderful qualities of him. Daddy will always be with you Sydney and you will get to know him through stories and pictures - but I know you already remember a lot about him and things you did with him, so holds those memories tight to your heart.

I am so sorry that you three have had to go through such a tragic loss so early in life. You all are very strong (sometimes more than me) and I thank god for you every day. You three have been my saving grace through all this. I hope that I can give you everything you need and guide you the right path. I apologize now for anytimes that I failed, but know this - I have always loved you and will never stop. I will never stop believing in the strong and powerful kids you are. You all are and will continue to be loving, successful, and insightful individuals. In the short time your father was here, he was able to instill those qualities. I love you Tyler, McKenzie, and Sydney and I make this promise to you - to keep your father alive forever in our hearts.

One of my favorites

November 5, 2008

Laurie Carmichael

November 4, 2008

Bob, My crazy wonderful friend,
You'll never be far from my heart. When I'm blue I'll just remember all the nutty things you did to crack me up, or all the kind and loving things you did to make me smile.
I'll never say good-bye because I know when the day comes when I have to go home, you'll be there waiting up front with the champagne.
Love you tons and always miss you.

To Michelle, Tyler, Sydney and McKenzie, Prayers are always being said for you all... be strong...you have an awesome guardian angel.
Love to you all,
Laurie

Michael Blasi

November 4, 2008

Dear Bobby.
I think about you everyday when I have a few peaceful moments to remember how lucky and blessed I was and still am to have you in my life. I notice when your there and I know you laugh because I talk out loud fully expecting you to answer me. I'm still waiting for an actual answer, but until then, that's a great trick you play with the car radio. Christine and I talk of you often and I know she has and will always think the world of you. You were the first one to welcome her into the family and I know that your friendship is very special to her. Connor speaks of you often. He speaks with the clarity and certainty that only a child can when he talks about you and angels and heaven. Thank you for always watching over the whole family. Visit us often because we know when your there. All our love, Michael ,Christine, Cameron, and Connor.

Judy Stark

November 4, 2008

Michelle, Tyler, Sydney, and McKenzie,

A year and a half almost has passed since you lost Bob, and I know we still miss him everyday. He was the best son-in-law we could have asked for. As a mother, Michelle, I wish I could take you and the Kids and give you a big hug and tell you everything will be okay, but I know I can't do that and make everything okay. Our love and prayers are always with you and the kids. Goodby Bobbie. We will always miss you. Love Mom and Gene (Ollie)

Brianna Blasi

November 3, 2008

Bobby,
Not a day goes by that I don't think about you. I miss you more than words can explain. I wish I could hug you one more time. But until that day comes, keep watching over all of us. All my love, Bri

Donald Perkins

November 3, 2008

I first met Bob when I was walking down the hallway at work. I was distracted by work related thoughts when this "larger than life" character came around the bend, ear to ear grin, looking straight at me. My initial thought was, hmmm, he must have me confused with someone else. Yet he came right at me with introductions and handshakes, making me feel at ease. I remember that after we talked and he was walking down the hallway, I thought to myself "Wow! What an amazing human being."

Our heart and thoughts will always be with the Blasi family.

Don, Amy, Mason and Cole

Kathi and Daniel Tokarz

November 3, 2008

With basketball starting again, the hole left without Bob is so huge for all the boys. Daniel talks about him often. He would be so proud of you all. You are in our prayers always.

Mom & Dad

November 3, 2008

Bob left us with so many great memorys , too many to list . Not a day goes by that his mom and I don't think of him with all our love .Thanks to all the people who rememberd .

Pat & Henry Graves

November 2, 2008

We will always remember Bob with that wonderful smile and always being so helpful to all the people in our neighborhood. We will all miss him and it will be a long time before we will have another Bob in our lives.

Laurie Carmichael

April 24, 2008

It's so hard to believe a year has already past yet Bob still lives in our hearts. Thank God for memories. He's still loved and he's still missed. Always our very best to his beautiful family.

Jeff, Tess & Joshua Schneier

April 17, 2008

Dear Bob,
It has been one year since your bright smile has left Kittery. You must be so proud of Michelle, and how she has kept going this past year with such grace and style, and keeps the memory of you so alive for the children you created together. Undoubtedly, you are beaming at Tyler, as he continues to grow older as a caring son and brother, and a true gentleman. And Mackenzie and Sydney keep your joy and gusto alive, and bring smiles to our hearts every time we see them, much as you did. We miss you, Bob. Thank you for having been part of our lives, and for having brought your beautiful family to Kittery.
Aloha Always,
Jeff, Tess and Josh Schneier

Julie poulin

April 17, 2008

Bob was one of the most genuine and special people i ever knew. Though I only knew him for a short time, his love for his family and friends showed every time he mentioned their names. For everyone who was fortunate to know Bob - we should know we received a very special gift. His contagious smile was amazing and good make anyone smile back. To use some of Josh Groban's words: Who can say for certain but maybe he is still here. Still an inspiration and watching over us. Isn't faith believing, we'll cherish all you gave us everyday And I believe
That angels breathe and that love will live on and never leave.

Much love to the whole Blasi Family.

Brad Pynn

December 15, 2007

Dear Michelle Im so very sorry for your loss, I met Bob at work 27 years ago and he was one of the most careing and generous people i have ever met, he had so many friends and once you met him you felt as though you knew him forever.I just found out today and am still in shock, Allways remember he will be with you and the kids allways. Please except my deepest sympothy Brad Pynn

Tim Conley

July 10, 2007

My family and I send our sincerest sympathies to the the Blasi family. Our families shared a common past from Wichester. Our deepest sympathies extend toward Bobby's family and the entire Blasi clan. We are sadded to hear of your loss! May God bless you all.

The Entire Conley Family

Laurie & Paul Carmichael

June 22, 2007

Michelle, Tyler, Sydney & McKenzie,
I wish there were words to express how much Bob will be missed. Knowing him for so long it's hard to imagine him not just a phone call away. My heart is happy to know that he finally found the love of his life and that he was blessed with 3 little darlings that put a glowing smile on his face every day. That's really all that mattered to him. We are all blessed to have had our lived touched by him. What a privledge to be his friends. He'll never be forgotten.

Wendy Casey

June 5, 2007

To those who would like to view a 4-minute picture slide of Bob, please go to:

www.youtube.com/watch?v=u5PvSaTMDo4

You can see the love in Bob's eyes for Michelle, his children, his family, his friends and his life.

Paul Carbone

June 5, 2007

To Michelle, Tyler, Sydney, and McKenzie,
I wanted to let you know how deeply sorry I am in Bob's passing, I think about him often. I'll truly miss his easy going nature and his ability to brighten any situation. What is written in this guest book is truly a testament of his life and how he affected so many others!

Mary Beth (Enstad) McDonald

June 2, 2007

To the Blasi family,
I was stunned to learn yesterday of Bobby's passing. Bobby and I graduated from high school together, but it wasn't until after a chance meeting years later that we became friends. I don't need to tell you how Bob's infectious smile and laugh could turn even a simple phone call into an event. I remember at one of our reunions, the pride in his voice and his eyes as he showed me a photo of his family when Tyler was just a baby. Although we haven't spoken for several years, I remember Bobby the way so many others do, as a great person always ready to meet a new friend. Please accept my most sincere sympathy, you are all in my prayers.

Jennifer French

May 31, 2007

To the Blasi Family;
There is not a lot I can say that has not already been said. I did not know your husband I only knew you and your family through the rec center. I will say though that I can only imagine how proud of you Bob would be. You are a great Mom, to three awesome kids and your strength will prevail.
You have my number and I hope you will use it sometime.
Take Care;

Guy Blasi

May 26, 2007

I met Bob very briefly when he lived in Denver. We have a mutual friend/associate who was in the beverage business. The mutual friend thought we might be related, (though there are lots of Blasi's in this world) and we met for lunch in downtown Denver several years ago. I was amazed that Bob's dad has the same first name as me. (As another aside, I almost didn't win a contest once at KBCO radio because they thought I was a relative of Ken's!) Bob was only one year younger than me and when I had our mutual friend tell me of his sudden death, I was shocked. Bob had a great personality. We had a lot in common and we both laughed a bit and and we decided that we should indeed be cousins! He did have a great smile, an infectous laugh and made our one-time lunch meeting a great memory. I felt I had made a friend. My heart goes out to your family. By the sheer number of people who signed in here, Bob was undoubtedly loved. My very deepest sympathy to your family.

Phyllis Errico

May 17, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with Bobby's family. I went through junior high and high School with Bobby and will always remember how his kindness and humor transcened all cliques and barriers, a very rare thing in todays world.He was a gift to all.

Jim Bellisle

May 7, 2007

Isn't it nice that modern science can share these 'Bob moments'. I worked with Bob but only saw him infrequently unfortunately. We spoke regularly and after losing my big brother found an instant repoire. I have the feeling that many felt this and it is such an engaging legacy to leave. It is quite an accomplishment to leave the earth a better place than when you arrived but I think Bob achieved this.
I miss you Bob...I didn't knock on your door often, but when I did you always greeted me with a smile and made me laugh before I went on my way.

Rick Haney

May 5, 2007

My fondest memory of Bob was the day I met him. I was sitting at a bar having lunch with a co-worker when he introduced himself. "You must work for Nappi", he said. "I saw the Shipyard logo on your shirt and put two and two together", he remarked with an ear to ear grin. We shook hands and his iron grip nearly crushed my fingers. Though I could see his kindness from a mile away, I didn't expect the bartender to return my check moments later. She said, "You're all set. Bob took care of your bill." "Oh, this guy is really good", I thought to myself, "He just bought a complete stranger lunch. What a guy!"

My father always said that a sincere and genuine man will always look you in the eye with a firm handshake, and I knew instantly that Bob fit securely in this category. His warmth and sincerity were two of the many things that set him apart from the rest of the world, and we were all truly blessed to have him in our lives. To Michelle and family: Words cannot express my deepest condolences to you. If Bob is where I think he is now, you couldn't have asked for a stronger light to guide you throughout your lives. Your loss will never be understood, but I truly hope you will one day find peace in his memory. To the Shipyard Brewing family: You've lost a dear friend, colleague, and mentor. Your loss is shared by all of us at Nappi Distributors. We can never replace Bob, and it is my hope that his memory will inspire us to do great things, even for people we don't know. This is how I will always remember Bob, and when I get to where he is, I'll be looking for him. If I knew him at all, I have no doubt he'll have a cold Export Ale waiting for me!

Heather Bartlett

May 4, 2007

"There are things that we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to learn, and people we can't live without but have to let go"

Michelle, Tyler, Sydney, Mckenzie & family:

Bob was truly one-of-a-kind. He had the uncanny ability to turn a complete stranger into a friend in a matter of minutes.

So many have mentioned his smile. It was infectious. No matter what kind of day I was having in the office, he'd have me laughing by the time he left. He had a pure heart, and it is so apparent in reading these messages that he made an impact on so many people. I am thankful that I had the opportunity to meet and work with Bob at Shipyard for past 2 1/2 years. You all instantly became part of the "family" and will forever be so.

It's all overwhelming. Hang in there. Talk, remember, laugh, and cry together. May you find comfort in each other and may time ease your heartache.

Love,
Heather

Brenda Corbin

May 3, 2007

ALWAYS REMEMBER THE SMILE : It sounds like a strange suggestion but after my father passed in 2005, I just kept remembering his smile and all the good that he had done for everyone around him !! And it sure sounds like what your husband was to everyone as well. Peace and harmony to you as you begin to heal and venture on with your children from this terrible time of life.

Before moving the piano upstairs -- you should have seen them afterwards!

May 2, 2007

Nancy (Monteith) Costello

May 2, 2007

I grew up with the Blasi Family living across the street. We all had a blast...to say the least. Stephen, Bobby, David, Kenny, Michael and Jimmy were like brothers to me. Gail, of course was like a big sister. They were not just neighbors to my family, they were and still are a part of our extended family. I feel blessed to have had Bobby in my life....and anyone that knew him would say the same. His smile, kind ways and humor will continue to live on in all of us. I loved what Kenny said when he spoke at the church, "Do something nice for somebody today because that's what Bobby did everyday". I will never forget him and will add a little bit of Bobby's ways to my every day life.

Sean Goodrich

May 1, 2007

To my friends and my family the Blasi,
I can not tell you how sorry I am at the loss of Bobby. My heart goes out to all of you. We have grown together as a family, now we must look to each other for the strength to raise our heads each day as our lost brother would want.
Twenty eight years ago Steven stopped in York Harbor. There he found my sister Christine. Soon he decided to stay, making the Stage Neck Inn his home. Not far behind him, Bobby followed as younger brothers do. That's were I met Bobby, Kenny and David Blasi. Each had wonderful qualities, but Bobby always stood out. Not only because of his stature, it was his huge heart and kind smile that made him special. I will go on forever telling the world of this wonderful soul that I had the honor to have known. Be strong, like Bobby. His memory will live in our hearts forever. Maine will always be my home, where my heart is. Pool party at the Mic Mac.
With all of my Love,
Sean

Nancy (Ciampa) Christie

May 1, 2007

Dear Michele and family,
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. As an old Winchester friend of Bobby's from elementary through high school, I have many fond memories of him. He was always full of life, laughter and fun. To this day I can still hear his laugh. After reading messages of others who knew him, it is comforting to know he remained the same great person throughout his life. To you and your family, Mrs. and Mr. Blasi and family I send my heartfelt sympathy.

Patty (Hicks) Levy

April 30, 2007

Dear Michelle,
I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I knew Bobby from elementary school through high school. He was so positive and outgoing and kind. I pulled out my yearbook the other night, and there was Bobby, involved in everything, always laughing, friends with everyone. Based on the comments that I see coming in from all around the country, Bobby stayed true to his lovable self. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. And God bless you, Bobby.

Marie Duncan

April 30, 2007

Hey Michelle, sorry it's taken me so long--I couldn't figure out what is the right thing to say. I know there isn't any words that can express how sad we all are. I can promise to you that I'm going to be here for you and the kids anytime you need us! Anytime! My Mother has always believed that things happen for a reason and I never really believe it when something so tragic happens but i guess in the end--maybe the lesson i have learned and will keep trying to grasp everyday is to live my life to the fullest, and embraces everyone around myself.
thanks so much for letting us become closer to you and your family i know the kids are great friends.
Love & Hugs everyday:)
The Duncan's

Aunt Bo & Uncle Bill Dening

April 29, 2007

Michelle, Bill and I are heartsick over your loss. In thinking about this, I thought of the country song by Colin Ray called "Holes in the Floor of Heaven". We know Bob will be peeking through those holes and smiling as he sees you and your children grow and get stronger everyday.

We have a favorite memory of Bob and still laugh at the scene of him, your dad, and Bill trying to get my piano upstairs in our new house. They groaned, grunted, laughed, and cursed me for my 'stupid' idea. His infectious laugh and smile will always be remembered as will his willingness to help anytime.

We wish we were closer so we could help however needed. Just know that you are loved and are a very special person. That's why Bob fell in love with you!

Carole Kelly Ward

April 29, 2007

Michelle,

Michael and I know only too well how sad it is for you now, remember his smile and that will get you through so many of the quiet times when your thoughts will be with him. He was always at Paul and Gail's and he always made me feel like a sister, he was a great comfort when we lost our parents and my own brother Bobby. I know very well how loved you are and that you will always be watched over. Take care of your beautiful children and God Bless.

Love,
Carole

Kayla Bailey

April 28, 2007

Michelle,
I can not express how deaply sorry I am for your loss. No words could express how lucky I am to have known bob. I will never forget the conversation and good times we have had working together at shipyard promotions. He was such an amazing guy and was always there to talk to. Over the past year that I have worked with him he became like a best friend to me more then a boss. He will always hold a very special place in my heart and will never be forgotten.

Janice Monteith

April 28, 2007

Bobby was probably around 7 years old when we first met. The Blasis had moved in across the street, and Michael and Jimmy (Blasi) and Katie (Monteith) hadn’t been born yet. When Bobby was older he would sometimes babysit for our children when Gail was unable to. All bets were off when Bobby came. There were all kinds of “racing around the house” games to be enjoyed. Tag and Hide-and-go-seek in the house involved running up and down the stairs and jumping on and off the furniture. Naturally the kids loved it, no one more than Bobby. We weren’t concerned because we knew Day and Guy were across the street, unless they were with us. Gail had a firmer hand which worked for her and her sanity.

I was at my back door one day and saw something moving almost at the top of a very, very tall pine tree behind the Blasi’s house. It was, of course, Bobby! I panicked and didn’t know whether shouting at him to come down would startle him into a fall, or to run over to Day and let her decide the best route to take. To this day I don’t remember how he got down but I do remember my panic.

Michael took to calling my husband “Big Monteith” which was fine with me because I was then “Little Monteith”. Big Monteith was shoveling the driveway one day after a storm and he kept hearing an unusual noise that he couldn’t identify. Eventually he found Bobby reclined on the back roof of the garage sound asleep and snoring lightly. He had climbed up and made a beautiful angel in the snow. Jack still laughs at the scene he encountered.

Bob would occasionally stop in at our house in recent years and visit with Jack who was pretty much homebound, and he always brought that wonderful smile, great stories, and his fabulous sense of humor that we all have enjoyed.

Now we have our own angel named Bob, and maybe he can help us deal with our everyday struggles. I know I’ll be conversing with him a lot. One thing is for certain………he will always make us smile! God bless the whole Blasi family.

Deb O'Brien

April 27, 2007

Michelle,
I wanted to express to you again how sorry I am for the loss you and your family are coping with now.
Even though we only knew Bob for a few years, we enjoyed our friendship and will certainly miss his big smile and contagious laugh.
Since most of our contact was through Tyler and Brady's sports, I so often watched Bob cheer on the boys, while trying to color or play games with the girls on the side! He was always the one bellowing out a child's name with words of encouragement and I know Brady appreciated that, as I'm sure so many other kids did. His sense of humor helped make some of the long basketball and baseball games more enjoyable!
The night of Bob's funeral Dave and I sat on the porch and witnessed a beautifully colorful, strange pattern of clouds and sun in the evening sky which lasted for a few minutes and then faded. It felt very peaceful, like for a moment we were connected to a better place. I like to believe that is part of a world we cannot see now but will in the future, when we are reunited with those we love who are there.
I hope that you can find some peace and remember that you are part of a community which is grieving right along with you.
Never hesitate to reach out for help when you need it.
Love,
The O'Brien Family

Scott Albrecht

April 27, 2007

Michelle,

I just wanted to say how saddened we are of the news of Bob. Bob was a true friend and colleague of mine as we worked side by side in the beverage industry. Many times our experiences together were intense but Bob always had a way of seeing the good things in everything we did and always had a smile on his face. When Bob came into a room, he was the room. His loving personality and heart, bigger than he, has touched hundreds of people in Colorado including countless sales reps., retailers and just customers on the street. He was nicknamed "Shiner Bob" and truly became a legend in the industry. He really enjoyed his work but his first priority was always his family. Bob always treated all of us like family, and I am certain he was a great husband and father. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. He will truly be missed.

Scott Albrecht and family

James Covino

April 27, 2007

Words cannot describe the devastating loss of Bobby Blasi my friend, my classmate, my teammate, and most importantly a wonderful family man with strong community ties. Bobby, you and your family have had a wonderful bond with my family for years. You will remain in our hearts forever and you will never be forgotten.

Lyn Buck

April 26, 2007

Michelle,
Words can not express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. Bob was a wonderful man and friend. Bob had touched my life in so many ways and he always made me smile! I know over the years we've been separated by the miles but my fond memories of Bob have always carried with me. I can't tell you how many times you and he had been in my thoughts. It seems like only yesterday he was cheering me up or getting me to laugh. He was a terrific soul who will be greatly missed. I wish I could be there in person to give you a hug and help you through this painful time. I feel blessed to have known Bob in my lifetime and will always remember his smile and sincere love of life. Please know I am here for you if there is anything at all you need.

Love always, Lyn ("Roomie")

Dot Moreau

April 26, 2007

Michelle,
Cherish your memories and hold him close to your heart. They never leave us. You will see your husband in your children. You will feel his comfort when you need to be comforted. When you cook his favorite meal, you will think of him. When you hear "our song", you will remember him and dance with him in your mind.
Take care my friend and remember, you are loved and cared for. Reach out and your family and friends will be there.

Jacquie Heflin

April 26, 2007

Michelle,
I just want you to know that you, the kids and the rest of the family are in our thoughts and prayers. Bob was a good man with a great personality. I loved the way he was with the kids to include my Tyler. I am very happy to have known him, even though it was a short period of time. One day you will all be reunited and until that day comes he will be watching over you with a smile. We are always here if you need anything.

Love always,
The Heflin Family

Jim Fleming

April 26, 2007

Uncle Sonny & Aunt Day,
Words obviously can't express how truly sorry Linda and I were when we heard the news about Bobby. I wish that there were something I could say to ease your pain, and the pain of his family, but there are no words.
I will always remember Bobby as the little three year old kid, with a smile from ear to ear, blissfully pushing that baby stroller throughout the City of Medford.

Christine Hollohan

April 26, 2007

I'm so very sorry to hear about Bobby. I knew Bobby back in Winchester through school and hanging out with him in the old circles we all ran with as young adults. What a great guy, always a wonderful smile and great attitude. He will be missed, my heart goes out to his wife and children and all of his family and friends. I'm glad to have known him.

Katie (Monteith) Bunker

April 26, 2007

Bobby will be forever missed! All of my memories of Bobby make me laugh instantly. There are too many to list. How can you think of Bob and not smile? Wherever Bobby was - you wanted to be - It always meant fun and laughter. He was like an older brother to me from the day I was born. He was encouraging, could turn a bad situation into a funny one, and got away with teasing me like no one else could! Michelle, I hope the strength and love of his family will help you in the days ahead. Love, Katie

Anita Solano

April 26, 2007

Michelle,
Please accept our deepest sympathies and let me know if and when there is anything I can do to help. I opted to send the "worry box" instead of flowers, thinking it would give you greater comfort now and the future. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire Blasi family. Bob will surely be missed by many. He gave much joy to everyones life...ours included.
Love,
Anita, Alan and girls

Jen The Little Hat Company

April 26, 2007

We met Michelle only a few months ago but she has already made such an impression on our store. Her beautiful fairy skirts and wands bring such joy and grace to children. She always enters our store with sparkling eyes and a grin from ear to ear. She is such a gift and we can only imagine how wonderful her husband was and his memory will continue to be. Her children are so loved and just as amazing. We are here for you Michelle in any way that you need us!!!

Jackie Center

April 26, 2007

Michelle,
I think of you and the kids everyday. I read your entry and I know that you will live the life with your kids that Bob would have wanted. You can still do the things that you had planned together with the kids, don't think that you can't. You are strong, caring and a great friend.
Your in my prayers,
Jackie

Jennifer

April 25, 2007

Michelle,
I'm not sure what to say or where to start. First, please know I love you and you're not alone. You have a strong family and community to help you and the kids get through this. I wish Texas and Maine were closer, so I could give you a great big hug. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love your cousin,
Jennifer

Cheri Ray

April 25, 2007

I cannot express my feeling of sorrow for your loss. Bob was a great man and he loved you from the day he met you. He was a wonderful father with tons of love to give and a big heart for others. I wish that I could reach across the miles and give you a hug and tell you it will be okay, but only time will mend your heart. Just remember the poem in Grammy's obituary;

When I come to the end of the road,
and the sun has set for me.
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room.
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little—but not too long,
and not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love that was once shared.
Miss me, but let me go.

For this is a journey we all must take, and each must go alone.
It’s all a part of the master’s plan, a step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick of heart, go to the friends we know.
Bear your sorrow in good deeds. Miss me, but let me go.

My dear cousin, my heart weeps for your loss and my prayers are with you and the kids. Bob will forever be in our hearts.

All our love,
Cheri, Billy, Bailey and Cassidy Ray

Alyson Everett

April 25, 2007

I graduated from Winchester High with Bob. (I still think of him as "Bobby"). He always made me laugh so hard. Bob, Paul and Keith were quite the trio...my thoughts and prayers are with the Blasi family.

Michelle Blasi

April 25, 2007

There simply are no words to say goodbye to my husband and friend and my kids father. He had so much love for me, his children, his family, his friends, his work, and anyone he met. Bob enjoyed life and would want everyone left behind to do the same - take time to enjoy what is around you. Life is too short to rush through it. I want to thank each and everyone for their support. It is so wonderful to know that my husband touched so many people in his short life. My life will be forever half empty without Bob, but I know he is watching over me and protecting me and the kids. Please say a prayer and keep his memories close to heart. He was always smiling and would want all of his family and friends to carry that on. I will leave you all with one last thought: "The Loss is immeasurable but also immeasurable is the love left behind". The kids and I will miss you Bob and we love you very much. Someday again, we will see you and give you a big hug. Love Forever, Michelle, Tyler, Mckenzie, and Sydney.

Margie Johnson Huntley

April 24, 2007

To the entire Blasi family - Bob was a wonderful person with a glowing smile. I knew him back in his Winton Club Show days. May God be with all of you at this difficult time and may your memories of this special man always bring smiles into your hearts.

With deepest condolences,

Margie (Johnson) Huntley

Debbie Mangano

April 24, 2007

To the Blasi Family, I am so sorry about your loss. I knew Bob in high school,we had lots of laughs and memories.He will be missed.

Courtney O'Keefe

April 24, 2007

My most heartfelt sympathy to Auntie Day and the rest of the Blasi family.

Sam Bellino

April 24, 2007

I am so sorry to hear this news. Bobby has always been a good friend. I am going to miss him.

Nicole Magnuson

April 24, 2007

Michelle,

I've stared at this page for twenty minutes not sure what to say and knowing that nothing I say can take away your sorrow. It breaks my heart to know you are hurting. It breaks my heart to not be there to support you. I wish I could give you a hug, and wish even more that I could change the course of events. I pray for you, your beautiful children and Bob's family. I also know you have always been the strongest out of all of us. I'm praying that you find peace in knowing that you have friends sending every ounce of strength we have to you today. God bless you, my dear friend.

Love,
Nicole

Kimberly & Adam Buchold

April 23, 2007

Michelle, please accept our condolences. We all got to know Bob when you guys lived in Denver. We had such great times and he was always smiling and made everyone want to be around him. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Marcel Johnson

April 23, 2007

Michelle,
Please know how deeply sorry I am for the loss of your beloved Bob. My heart breaks for you, the kids, and all who love you and Bob. I have always believed you to be the strongest woman I know. I know you will persevere and will greet each day with as much strength as you can muster. Every time I have ever thought of Bob, I see his smiling face and can't help but smile myself. My prayers are with you and your loved ones. I have no words to express how sad I am for your loss. I love you!

David Mascioli

April 23, 2007

Gail I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Sam Bellino let me know of this today. Bobby was always so full of life every time I saw him. It is not fair. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I will always remember Bobby in my prayers.
God Bless,
David Mascioli

Scott & Julie Picard

April 23, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you... may your memories bring you peace and comfort.

Helen Sandford-Doornbos

April 23, 2007

My prayers and deepest sympathy are with you Michelle, the children and the Blasi family. I have such wonderful memories of Bobby - always laughing and smiling.

jack struthers

April 23, 2007

jimmy
i am so sorry for the loss of your brother, i only met him once when we all went to the pats game, just know i am thinking of you and your whole family through this difficult time, be strong my friend and some times things just dont make sense at all, i would of been there today without a doubt but just found out from ron and rich today, you will get past all the pain you are feeling, and remember all the great times you spent together, i know its hard but some day those memories will bring smiles and joy to you, take care jimmy and your entire family, i will be thinking of you

Jackie Chlebowski

April 23, 2007

Michelle,
You and your family are in our prayers...

Jackie, Haegan and Kaci

George McHugh

April 23, 2007

I was stunned to hear of Bobby's passing. My deepest sympathy to the entire Blasi family.You always knew when Bob was around; a funny story , a hearty laugh and always a big big smile. He will be truly missed.

Rose Lauria

April 23, 2007

My deepest sympathy to the entire Blasi family. I learned from my neighbor over the weekend of Bobby's passing. I met Bobby back in the early 80's when he pulled up to my boyfriend's house in the front seat of Brian D'Ray's Corvette. From the moment you met him you knew what a genuine, kind and caring person he was. I got to know him better when I worked at the Winchester Raquetball Club. He was very good at that game and loved to play it. Cling tight to your loved ones, because they are the ones that will get you through this. God Bless!

Peter Emery

April 23, 2007

I just recieved a call from Alyson with the tragic news and I am stunned. We both have fond memrories of Bob from Winchester High School and as recent as last year where we stood and talked for an hour in my kitchen about people, old times and the business that we shared employment in. Bob was a kind person with a great sense of humor and heart. Without doubt he will be misssed by many. My heart goes out to Michelle, the children and his family.

Yvonne & Jim Driscoll

April 23, 2007

Michelle, your family is in our prayers. Your children are so precious, you will find strength in them.

Danny & Tonya Rodriguez

April 23, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with Michelle, the children and Bob's family.

Michelle, may you find comfort from your family and friends.

With our deepest heartfelt sympathy,

Angela and Dan Boyle

April 22, 2007

My deepest sympathy for sweet Michelle and her siblings. My only memory of Bob was my brief encounter with him to sign some tax documents. At the very moment I met him, it was evident that he was and incredibly unique person with and amazingly friendly demeanor that you would be naturally drawn to. Instantly I knew Michelle and Bob were perfect for one another. I pray for you.

Angela and Dan Boyle

April 22, 2007

Be Still

Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

Bob Trotta

April 21, 2007

I am very upset to hear of Bobs passing. I worked with Bob at Aqua Cool Bottled Water in Watertown in the early 90'S. He and I were very close but lost touch over the last few years. I talked with Bob about a year ago and unfortunately we never got together. I remember when he used to live at Gail and Pauls house. He was so thankful to have people that cared about him. I can see his smile and it brings a smile to my face. My wife Sue and I would have Bob over for dinner and just talk and laugh all night. We would visit him when he was bartending at Lilys in Fanuel Hall and one night helped him put the bar stools on the bar and Sue and I swept the floor. He smiled and said,"are you trying to take my job". I know he was so proud to be a Dad. He will always alive in our hearts. We are so sorry.

Bob & Sue Trotta, Wolfeboro, NH

Brian & Cynthia McNutt

April 21, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with Bobby's family at this time. Bobby was a genuine person who will forever be remembered as such.

Pauline Fernandez

April 21, 2007

My deepest sympathy to all of Bob's family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jack Monteith

April 21, 2007

My most sincere condolences to Michelle and the rest of the Blasi family. Bobby was indeed one of a kind. He made a lasting impression on everyone he came in contact with. He had such a great sense of humor and made everyone he talked to feel welcome. Bobby was one of those people that I would be genuinely excited to bump into around town. It didn’t matter how much time had past since our last encounter. It was if I had only seen him the previous week.
He will be missed by so many people on so many different levels.
Again, my thoughts and prayers are with his family at this time.

Jack Monteith

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