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for Thomas Eden
Angela Gautier
September 12, 2009
Although I have not seen you in some time, your loss is deeply felt. You taught me very important things growing up, like how to spit, how to use a butterfly knife and how Dungeons and Dragons and Iron Maiden were essentials to a growing, young mind. I am truly sorry to hear of your passing and more sorry not to have been able to say good-bye. I am the richer for having known you and the poorer now that you are gone. Rest in peace, old friend. You are missed.
August 13, 2009
The windchimes are a very comforting reminder that you are at peace and no longer suffering. You will never be forgotten, dear friend.
Love,
Bev M.
Tina Augusta
June 16, 2009
Hi Tom (Hunny),
It's been a year already and there hasn't been a day that has gone by that I don't wake up thinking of you, fallen asleep thinking of you. I even have some dreams of you, to only wake up and it's only a dream. I find myself thinking how could this happen to you, why did you have to leave us so soon.
I miss you very much, the only thing that makes it easier is to know that you are not suffering anymore.
Rest in peace, You will always be forever in my heart.
Love Tina
June 16, 2009
Sometimes, when I am alone, all of a sudden I get a warm feeling, like your presence is near me. I want to hold on to that warmth and never let it go because it comforts me. I don’t feel so sad when I feel you near me. If a genie came along and offered me only one wish, I wouldn’t even have to think about it. I would choose you in a heartbeat – to have you healthy and back here with us. I always knew that you were a special kind of person, and you made me so proud to be your Mom. The cards and letters that I received made me realize how loved you were and how many lives you touched. I heard from people that I don’t ever remember you mentioning – but they wanted me to know how you had made a difference in their lives. You will always live in the hearts of many. I love you and I miss you so much. See you at the river.
Mom
Carol Carlson
June 13, 2009
To All:
A whole year has gone by since we all lost Tommy, but it still feels like yesterday. And there are so many conflicting feelings at his loss ~ the sadness and the pain, and yet the peace of letting him go so he can be done with his gallant fight. He was and still is an amazing presence in our lives, and will always be found in our hearts and in the world around us. Someone said he hugged with his whole heart - he did! My Laura said he can be found in the wind and the leaves and the sun and the stars, and he can. Listen, you can hear him whisper in your ear.
Blessings and Peace
Mrs. C (as Tommy called me)
Judith Riessle
December 25, 2008
Merry Christmas, Tom. I can't tell you how much you are missed each day and today was particularly hard. You are in my heart and my prayers always.
Much love,
Mom
Sis
December 11, 2008
Tom,
Thanksgiving wasn't the same with out you. I had a very hard time preparing the vegetables and I didn't have any onions to blame the tears . I didn't even want to have dinner. I will have you know I didn't add any thing extra to the potatos. It was funny though when Sam saw Ricky come in the door. She saidHi and then realized he wasn't supposed to be there and her mouth hit the floor. The day did get better once we started playing cards with mom and Ricky. I hope you are at peace where ever you are. I love you.
Laura
November 17, 2008
The sun is shining and the sky is a beautiful blue. The wind is chilly and the crisp leaves are rustling on the ground. There was a buck in the woods out back today and I saw a shooting star last week. There were tears in my eyes yesterday, 5 months gone by, but somehow I think you're still here. You are in the sun, the sky, the wind and the leaves. When I see things like a deer and a shooting star I think of you, and say "Thank you". I miss you Tommy.
Jackie
September 25, 2008
Dear Tom
As you already know we took you up to the Swift River this past weekend. I really think you would have liked the little ceremony that we had for you. People told stories and Allie sent a letter for Barbara to read because she couldn't be there. You would have been proud of us. Tina, Angie, Mom, and I all stood in the OH MY GOD cold water while we let some of you go into the river. Then Rick took the rest of you out to where you used to swim, yes he swam out there, and he let you go. We also let some flowers go to that Mary O'brien had sent to mom. It was very nice and comforting to know that you were where you loved to be. Now when we want to visit you we have a peaceful and beautiful place to go to. I will see you again some day. I love you and miss you.
Love Sis
Angie Lister
September 22, 2008
This weekend Tommy's family and friends went up to Lincoln, NH to his favorite campground to spread his ashes. I was honored to be a part of this. As I watch his Brother swim out to his favorite swimming spot taking his last swim with his brother and his family and all the incrediable love that all of us shared with him somehow I know Tommy you were watching us and it meant the world to you. I miss you my forever friend and you will always live in my memories and in my heart.
Cindy Culbert (Campbell)
June 25, 2008
Dear Eden family,
I am so sorry to hear of Tommy's passing. I grew up in Bedford and had the pleasure of hanging out with Tommy many times from jr. high on and I always felt, even then, even when he was being a goof, that he had a maturity beyond his years-that he was an old soul. I did not know that he was sick but I am not at all surprised to read from all of the other entries that he fought bravely. The words I think of when I think of Tommy Eden: kind, stubborn, strong, wise. My heart goes out to all of his family and friends.
Lynn McCoy
June 24, 2008
Tommy was an amazing guy and I feel fortunate to have shared time with him. He was an inspiration to all who knew him and will live on in our hearts. My prayers are with you and your family Judy.
June Bowser-Barrett
June 23, 2008
Judy and Jackie,
I was stunned to hear about Tommy. David left me a message from Ft. Lauderdale yesterday. Someone called him from Bedford to ask if he had heard the news. He hadn't. My favorite memory of Tommy will always be the summer we packed David and Tommy off to camp for a couple of weeks in NH. They had plenty of stories to tell from that experience. He was a sweet kid and was always welcome in my house. He will be missed.
Tracey Judice (Sacco)
June 23, 2008
Tommy,
You were one of the most sweetest genuine people I ever met! Although it had been many years since we spoke I will never forget all the times you were there as a friend to help me smile when I thought I couldn't. I will never forget you! another guardian angel received his wings! rest in peace tommy!
W Martin
June 21, 2008
My warm thoughts and regards to all those close to Tommy, especially his family. I am quite stunned and saddened to learn of Tommy's passing. I grew up in Bedford with him and have moved away for many years now and it might be close to those years since i last saw him, but Bedford has this unique brotherhood for those who grew up there. Tommy was a great great guy, although never close i felt he was a class act. To learn of his long battle with cancer and his recent passing was upsetting, but I am not surprised to hear of his great strength in fighting this disease. He was a strong man from when we were young and I imagine his great big smile and heart helped those closest to him fight along his side. Well wishes to you all as you embrace his fine legacy and this tragic and great loss.
Joan Archer
June 20, 2008
Judy, Tommy fought courageously, and so did you. You are a hero to me.
I will always remember our camping trip, and Tommy’s joy in being in nature.
I pray that the peace of God will surround you and comfort you and I know that Tommy will live on in your heart forever.
My deepest sympathy to the whole family.
Leann Kelley- Weibel
June 19, 2008
My family and I wanted to express our deepest sympathy to all of Tommy's friends and family. We only met Tommy a dozen times but heard of him often from my Dad (Lee Kelley).The last time I saw Tommy was at my Grandmothers funeral and I remember we all looked at each other with amazement when he walked in. He was struggling with his own battle yet made it a point to take the time to be there for my Dad and the rest of my family.I remember hugging people all day long but when I hugged Tommy it was different,he did not know me all that well yet I could tell he hugged me with his heart. My Dad had always talked about Tommy with a smile on his face or a sense of happiness in his voice and I knew from that day on so would I. You dont meet people like Tommy that often these days and I am honored to say I knew him and had the chance to meet " One of Gods finest". Until you all meet again "God Bless"
Leann Kelley-Weibel & Family
Dan Selenius
June 19, 2008
The only guy I ever knew who could always find the bright side of anything. I always thought he was bulletproof. No fear of anything!Tommy will be greatly missed by all who knew him. His strength of character should be an example to us all. Be at peace Tom, we will take solice in knowing your no longer in any pain. And that you are still looking out for those you love. Just not while I'm in the shower though please!!! ;)
With greatest sympathy,
Dan, Aimee, Colleen, Jacob, and Eli Selenius
Tina Augusta
June 19, 2008
To the Eden, Riessle, & Marsh family,
I send you my condolences, My thoughts and prayers are always with you.
To my Tommy/Hunny & Soulmate I will always love you and keep you in my heart forever. Rest in peace with no hurt and pain and Thank you for promising me that you will be my guardian Angel For myself & my girls. You always said to me "that your family now" and I PROMISED you that I will be a part of your family.
I love you hunny I will see you someday. Love Tina
Sheila Fleming
June 19, 2008
Judy,
Words cannot express the sadness I feel for the passing of Tommy. He was a great person who always cared about everyone else first. I will cherish the times we had when our kids were growing up. I still look at pictures of Tommy at Gregg's birthday parties. May all the memories of Tommy help you through this time. He is with the angels and will always be by your side and at times you will feel his presence.
Love
Sheila
roger marquis
June 19, 2008
to u tom only known u a couple of years but sure seems like a life time u have touched my family in so many ways i never said it before but i will now i apreciate the joy you gave my sister and her 2 girls will always have a lasting memory on them and me you will be so missed rest in peace my friend my family u will always be remembered in my heart and soul
Nancy Bonin
June 19, 2008
Dear Judy, Jackie, Rick, Tina and family,
I have known Tom for many years now. Tom was a terrific man and was wonderful to the girl he loved so much...Every time I was in his company, you could see the glow in his eyes for his girl Tina. Tom fought til he couldn't fight anymore. My condolences are with you all during this difficult time.
Randy/Donna Messineo (Niki's Dad)
June 19, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. He will surely be missed. May he rest forever in the bosom of HIS love.
Janna Hartley
June 19, 2008
Eden Family, Tina, and all who were touched by Tommy,
My deepest heartfelt condolences to you. Tommy's strength and courage inspired me and will continue to.
Elaine and Bob Anderson
June 18, 2008
to the Eden family,
we have known tom for only two years. we have had alot of fun times and memories together. sorry for your loss. tom was such a fighter.he never really complained about anything. he was always very pleasant to be around. we are going to miss you tom. rest peacefully my friend. we love you!
Bob Dugan
June 18, 2008
Judy,
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family on the loss of your son. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Sis
June 18, 2008
Dear Tom
I started writing you a letter a few days ago, but unfortunately did not have the courage to finish. I know we were not one's to express our feelings for each other growing up (other than fighting), but I made a point to tell you I love you many times over the past few weeks. I cannot beging to tell you how much I will miss you, for I have lost one of my very best friends. I love you.
Annette Griffin
June 18, 2008
Much too young to go.
Tom will be missed by friends, family. His smile will last for ever.
His endurance, willingness and power not to give up was remarkable.
Love Always Annette XXOO
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Lisa Caloggero
June 18, 2008
Tommy,
Your an inspiration to all of us..you will forever be in our hearts...you were always there no matter how badly you felt! BUT YOU TOOK THE INSTRUCTIONS TO SET UP THE RELAY TENT WITH YOU! Be sure your there when Angie and I are all tangled up in the tent.... missing your helping hands. Thanks for always looking after my best friend... Love You!
A Friend
June 18, 2008
I was not fortunate enough to know Tom for year upon year, but undoubtedly blessed to call him my friend. Be proud of your son, your brother, your companion, your friend. For a man is born in part, of those kept closest to him. Brave and true. Loyal and principled. A fine young man by any measure. Take certain comfort in having known him, raised him, loved him. Knowing full well, no amount of time is enough. Love your son, your brother, your friend, and he will walk with you always.
Judy Riley
June 18, 2008
My thoughts & prays are with you.
Just a great guy -- He will always be missed not forgotten
Nina Cheever
June 18, 2008
Judy,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. My condolences to you and your family.
Patrick Dolbier
June 18, 2008
I'm going to miss Tommy alot the next few years, he was a good friend
Patrick
The Scalzo's
June 18, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. We know he will be truly missed. May he walk with the angels forever...
Liz Mendonca
June 18, 2008
I am blessed to have met Tom. His strength and courage will always be with me. To his family, you will all be in my prayers, may you also find the strength during this difficult time. To my friend Tina, may your memories bring you laughter and comfort.
Sharon Martin
June 18, 2008
Dear Tom, Judith, Rich & Jackie
I didnt know Tommy but I know what it is like to lose a loved one.
My prayers are with you in this time of sorrow.
Carol Carlson
June 18, 2008
Words cannot express how hurt and sad we are at the passing of our Tommy. We loved him bunches, and will miss him forever. Our deepest sympathy to his family, and all his many friends. God Bless!
Mrs. C
Bill Bekdash
June 18, 2008
Dear Judy, Jackie, Rick, Tina and Family...
I am deeply sorry to hear about Tom. From the little times that I have met Tom, he was a great guy, big heart and most of all he would be someone that I could have been a close friend to. My condolences to all of you during this time.
Lee Farnsworth
June 18, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss.
I work with Tina and had the pleasure of meeting Tom. He truly will be missed.
My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Tinas Friend
Lee Farnswiorth
Rob Carlson
June 18, 2008
The obituary should read "Thomas D. Eden Jr. - Strongest man in the world". Tommy battled cancer for a long long time. He never quit fighting it. He fought it every day and still remained true to himself. Tom, you will be missed every day...and never ever forgotten. Rest in peace my friend...
Barb Bennett
June 18, 2008
Judy, just knowing you, I'm sure that your son was a wonderful person and he put up a courageous fight. My condolences to you and your family.
Barb Gariepy
June 18, 2008
I Do Believe by Jennifer Janiszewski.
There is nothing I can do, to make him come back. There are no words I can say, that can replace the words you long to hear. There are no answer's I can give, that will satisfy your questions. There is not another soul I can introduce you to that will ever replace his. And, there is no love I can offer that will ever replace the love you shared. I can not promise your broken heart will ever be complete. I will not say it could have been worse. I will not deny it was a tragedy. I will not lie and tell you that he will come back. He never really left. I do promise that he hears you when you speak. I will say he loves you no matter the distance. I will not deny he is in a better place. And, I will not lie; he is waiting to greet you someday. He is in every step you take. He is in everything you do. He is the air you breathe. He is every beat of your heart. "He is like the wind. You can not see him...but you will always feel him"
lee shirley kelley
June 18, 2008
Dear Eden family
we lost a great guy. our prayers are with you. the kelleys
Mary King
June 18, 2008
Dear Judy, Tom, Jackie and Tina - We were so sad to hear about Tommy's passing. He was a loving and caring person who was an inspiration to all who are fighting this horrible disease. We will always remember him with fond memories of our early days in Billerica.
Rich and Mary King
Angie Lister
June 18, 2008
Tommy,
You and your family are an inspiration to me. I've known you for so many years and I have alot of memories that I will hold dear. I love you my friend, Angie (alias: Nag)
Laura Carlson / Dolbier
June 18, 2008
Tommy, I will miss you every day. Rest peacefully, my dearest friend. Laura
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