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THOMAS RIORDAN Obituary

RIORDAN, Thomas P. Of Milton, passed away peacefully on November 9, 2019, surrounded by his loving family following a courageous battle with cancer. Beloved husband of Germaine (Vallely) Riordan, devoted father of Sean and his wife Jacqueline, Gillian, and Monica of Boston. He was the loving son of John and Mary (Concannon) Riordan, brother of Edward of Mashpee, Dennis of South Carolina, John of North Carolina, Margaret and Kathleen of Milton, and Maryanne Ridge of Hanover; brother-in-law of Gary Vallely of Sharon, Joseph Vallely of Jamaica Plain, Bernadette Vallely of Needham and preceded in death by Anne Kaminsky of Nashua. Additionally, he leaves many adoring nieces and nephews. Tom is a graduate of Boston College 1970, where he was captain of the Golf team. He went on to be the club professional at New Seabury GC where he worked for twelve years. He left the golf profession to pursue a successful career in sales with Izod Lacoste and relocated to New Orleans, where he lived for seven years and made many dear friends before returning to Boston. He later began his own sales and marketing company, The Riordan Group. Tom was a former member of Wollaston GC in Milton, where he started as a caddie, New Seabury GC of Mashpee, Metairie CC of New Orleans and current member of Milton Hoosic Club of Canton and The St. Andrews GC of Scotland. He leaves a lasting legacy in the golf trips that he organized to Ireland and Scotland with his band of brothers, The Wild Colonial Boys. A Francis Ouimet Scholar and Board Member, Tom was honored in March 2019 as the Richard F. Connelly, Jr. Award recipient for Distinguished Service. His friends and family later helped raise an endowed scholarship in his name. Tom had a passion for people and touched the life of every person he met. He will be forever remembered for his gregarious personality, his enormous generosity and for his devotion to his family and friends. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in Saint Mary of the Hills Church, 29 Saint Mary's Road, Milton, Friday, November 15, 2019 @ 10:00 AM. Family and friends invited. Visiting Hours at the Dolan Funeral Home, 460 Granite Avenue, EAST MILTON SQUARE, Thursday, November 14th from 4-8 PM. Interment Milton Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Francis Ouimet Scholarship Fund, Riordan Family Endowed Scholarship at 300 Arnold Palmer Blvd., Norton, MA 02766 or via www.ouimet.org For further information, please go to www.dolanfuneral.com

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Published by Boston Globe from Nov. 11 to Nov. 13, 2019.

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Elan Hacker

January 16, 2021

I found poetry/quips written by a Tom Riordan in a poetry group and noticed they stopped in May of 2019. Wondering if this is the same man... If so my condolences to his family and friends, I can tell by what i read he was a larger than life personality and know he left shoes that can never be filled... if not the same man, peace to you and pardon my intrusion! (poetrycircle.com)

Joan Johnston

January 20, 2020

Tom, for over 30 years we worked together at many places and traveled together to more buyer appointments than I can count. You were more than someone I worked with, you were a good friend. I will miss your laughter, your gentle soul, your sweet smile and that special twinkle in your eye that I will never forget. Through all the years I knew you, I knew how much you loved your family and that they were everything to you. Rest in peace my friend, you will be missed by everyone whose life you touched. My heart goes out to Germaine, Sean, Monica and Gillian with my deepest condolences. May God hold you all close now and always.

Joseph, Shana & Joe Indelicato

November 16, 2019

Dear Germaine, Sean, Gillian and Monica,
We are so sorry to hear of Tom's Passing.
He was such a wonderful father and friend.
We will miss him.

Carol L MacLennan

November 15, 2019

Dear Germaine

I am very sorry to learn of your husbands passing. May you be strengthened by the love and happy memories you shared with him. May God be with you and watch over you and your family during this sorrowful time. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

Ouimet Award Nite with a couple of caddies who's lives he shaped:: Mike Murphy & Brian Mone

M Murphy

November 15, 2019

Margot Mays

November 14, 2019

Dear Germaine,

Thinking of you. May time offer you and your family the strength to herald your husband's gifts.

Dana Abbott

November 14, 2019

Condolences to Ed,Dennis & the rest of the Riordan family. Worked with tommy at New Seabury as a caddy,bag room,pro shop to Ouimet scholar12 years. Thank u for believing in me and your support. God bless-rest in peace.

James Macdonald

November 14, 2019

I am indebted to Tom in so many ways as a great mentor during my formative years. I caddied at New Seabury under his watchful eye and he taught and encouraged me so much. Tom cared greatly by both rewarding good behavior and appropriately addressing areas for improvement. I was so fortunate to have met and worked for him as this experience opened up many doors of opportunity in life which would never have happened otherwise. Our lives are so interconnected and these relationships matter mostand I am so richly blessed to have known him. Rest In Peace Tommy...You certainly earned and deserve it!!

"Red" Macdonald

November 13, 2019

I will miss our periodic chats and breakfasts. "Ar dheis de go raibh a anam" in the Irish language translates to "may his soul be on the right side of God".

Jon Gunnerson

November 13, 2019

Our deepest sympathy goes out to all of you. Tom is an example for all of us in today's world as to how to live life to the fullest and have the respect of everyone he ever met. Jon, Irene, Jessica and Alex Gunnerson

U.S. Open sweater

Chris Reaney

November 13, 2019

Tom was a terrifc guy and a good cousin. At the family reunion recently, after telling him I was heading out to play Pasa Tiempo in CA., he said hold on a minute, went back to his table and returned with his blue Pebble Beach, 2019 U.S. Open golf sweater and insisted that I have it. I've worn it proudly ever since.

Thomas O'Grady

November 13, 2019

We send our love and deepest condolences to Germaine, Sean and Jacqueline, Gillian and Monica. We loved Tom for his big heart and his great spirit, for his unabashed love of Boston College hockey (and his secret love of Notre Dame). Our lives were enlarged and enriched by knowing Tom, who seemed to know *everyone* (!) and draw everyone into his warm circle of family and friends. Tom loved everyone and everyone loved him in return. We will miss him and will remember him as a dear friend.

Katie, Tom, Mairéad, Caitríona, Siobhán

November 12, 2019

It's with a heavy heart and many tears that I have to say goodbye to a great and one of the most compassionate men I've ever met . I can still see the first time I met tommy at the Quiet Man bar in Manhattan which was a big hangout for the Arrow shirt guys . He was sitting at the big round table with Mike Prendergast and tommy siano and He gave me that half cocked smile and said I heard a lot about you Smitty, welcome to the club . Well 38 years later it's with much sadness but with a lot of great memories that I'm saying goodbye. I talked to him about a month ago and when he found out I was battling colon cancer, he immediately reached out to me and his last words before we hung up were , Smitty we had a helluva run and let's remember those times .. Germaine and kids my deepest condolences
John smyth

Joel Friedman

November 12, 2019

The most caring person I have ever known. His mission was to connect people so that everyone could help another in some way. He was a warrior with a very soft soul. Rest in peace my good friend always knowing how much you will be loved and revered by all who knew you. So many legacies are connected to you. But the Wild Colonial Boys are a real tribute to your generosity of time and friendship.

November 12, 2019

A mentor, A friend, A cousin( although distant as you would say )
Thanks for all your guidance and support starting out as a caddie a leading influence thru early life ....You will be missed by all who ever met you..
Ps: thanks for the help getting me into BC..Go Eagles
Mike Murphy

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Sent Flowers

November 11, 2019

Tommy- You will be surely missed by all of us former caddies at New Seabury who were inspired by you tremendously and became your friends.Rest in peace my friend.
Jon Williams

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