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TIMOTHY BOUGHNER Obituary

BOUGHNER, Timothy P. Brought Joy to Many Timothy Boughner, loving father and husband, was surrounded by his family as he passed away peacefully on the morning of September 20. Tim was a family man, first and foremost. He was an outstanding husband and an incredible father. He loved his siblings and his many cousins. Tim also loved his friends. He had an unusual knack for bringing people together, and we are all thankful for the powerful web of love that he spun out of friendships from across his lifetime. Raised by a mother who instilled great ethics and still endeared by his childhood connections, Tim received not one but two college degrees. Graduating in psychology before pivoting to engineering, he was an "everyman" engineer. He most recently worked as the Supervisor of Building Systems for the City of Cambridge, where he pioneered green sustainability projects with his team at the DPW. Tim, an environmentalist, loved the outdoors and could often be found hiking or relaxing with family in the Berkshires, Vermont, or New Hampshire's White Mountains. Tim lived his life to the fullest, wherever he was, biking across Ireland with friends, partying at the New Orleans Jazz Festival many times or simply hanging out watching "the game". Music has been the bedrock of his life, and he met lifelong friends while ushering at Concerts on the Common and The Orpheum Theater. Tim loved hosting annual New Year's Day celebrations, a 30 year old tradition of sharing homemade food and friendships with over 60 joyful guests. Tim was an amazing husband and is survived by his devoted wife of 26 years, Teresa, his three children, Zachary, Emma, and Donovan, his brothers David Long and wife Pat, Bob Boughner and wife Linda, his precious sisters Jeanne and Trisha, brothers-in-law Stephen and Frank Iacovino and his wife Rosemary, seven nephews, four nieces, four grand nephews and two grandnieces. He leaves his uncle John Aguiar and his wife Cheryl, his aunts Lucille Duquet and Gilda Michaels, great-aunt Mary Chiano, uncle Richie Iacovino and his wife Betty, plus an army of loving cousins scattered across the USA all amazed at his skill to embrace and weave so many lives and good times together. Tim's family is hosting a virtual tribute to his life on Friday, October 2 at 7:00 PM. Tim was a truly outstanding humanist, and he would have loved to leave you with an activist message: take a moment to stop, think, care, and listen to each other. Let his kindness and soft power stay with us and transfer to future generations. Visiting Hours: Contact family regarding virtual celebration on October 2nd at 7:00PM EST

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Published by Boston Globe from Sep. 26 to Sep. 27, 2020.

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Justin Schmid

September 20, 2025

I. Like So many Loved Tim. He was always Smiling. We met working together. I´ve been at the Orpheum Theater for 44 years. Also, worked Concerts on the Commons. With Tim. We go way back. The was the Best. Miss him. Justin Schmid

Holly & Pat

September 20, 2022

Hi all.Boy I can,t Beleave it,s been a year sence Tim past.I don,t know if you remember back in the 60,s Grandma had a
christmas get together you all came from


























Mas. It snowed christmas eve.grandma called dad in the morning and said we had to pickup everyone around town.Dad said we couldn,t get out of yhe
drive.grandma told him that the whole family was here from out east she didn,r care how he did it but we were not going to disapointany one but we were ging to have our dinnerso we went all around town to pickupeverybody so no one would miss dinner.it was a grest time tim and I took grandma



woodard,s mogan david wine and switched it with grape juice she had to share a drink with everyone she started to get tipsy on grape juice.was a good time had by all.miss toy all Holly

Melissa Downes

November 23, 2020

Hi,
I am stunned to learn of your sad news and his laughter will be missed. We spent time together on the Waltham Energy Action Committee and he was as effective as he was easy going. My hope is that reliving funny memories will ease your pain this Holiday Season.

Sincerely,

Melissa Downes

Joyce Thatcher

October 3, 2020

We loved this man, we loved him, we loved him, we loved him, Peter and I, as the kind man he was, as a friend so willing to give of himself, and a great culture-vulture of music and FUN! The thoughts shared and loving memories expressed at the memorial last night by friends and family really captured the wonderful moments we all had with him, as the perfect representative of the great city of Boston. For me exploring a new city in my mid 20s I couldn't have had anyone better, so to hear that same sentiment expressed by Ellen O'Dea and so many others who met Tim at work or at the Newton Y, his BFF from Taunton, his terrific son Zach, family members and Teresa, I can see everyone who knew him felt the love for Tim He is forever in our hearts and souls, with some powerful memories of his generosity and fun-loving spirit etched in our minds too. We love you, Tim!

justin schmid

October 3, 2020

So many people loved Tim he was a kind caring Fun loving guy we worked together for many years doing music shows later, it was always great to have him & friends show up at a show Always with a Big smile and a hug he will be so very missed by so many love to his family

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Kathy Glennon

September 29, 2020

Teresa and family,
We are so very sorry for your loss and the world's loss of such a wonderful man. From parties, marches on Washington, good coffee first thing in the morning...he was an extraordinary man. Virtual hugs to you.

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Laurie

September 29, 2020

Timmy
What is there to say that hasn’t already been said in this touching memorial. You were an amazing person not because you were my cousin, which I was lucky to have you but because you knew how to embrace life and you were truly a caring and selfless person. You meant a lot to my mom and dad and they enjoyed your visits. You always had a smile and a laugh for everyone. You will truly be missed by many.
Rest easy my cousin
❤ Laurie

Susan Desrocher

September 26, 2020

Tim was one of the kindest people I have known. I can't possibly say it better than what was written here. My sympathies to Teresa, Zach, Emma and all the rest of his family. May you treasure that last beautiful day in the Berkshires and know that Tim will be talked about with love for many years by all of his friends.

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